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Re: What Could He Be Doing Spending 4hours And More In The Bathroom? by ShedrachU(m): 3:15pm On Sep 02, 2021
Masturbation? No
Hard drugs? No

Suspect he has engaged himself with something in which the consequences is to have knee cancer.

Spending such time in the bathroom is to perhaps, regret, cry, stay alone due to depression, or perhaps, he has a disorder or he'd go to communicate with strange things. Who knows?

The best answer will come from him, but if he refuses to talk, you guys should let him be.

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Re: What Could He Be Doing Spending 4hours And More In The Bathroom? by SenecaTheYonger: 3:15pm On Sep 02, 2021
I don’t know ooo. Maybe he’s sitting too long on the toilet thereby restricting blood flow to his leg or something idk sha

Iyaebe:
My cousin brother of about 19years of age came for a visit in our house and each time it's time for his meal he'd be no where to be found within the house. This habit was a constant thing that I became too curious to know what he's up to.

So I started following every of his moves only to discover that he spends minimum of 4hours in the bathroom and this is not a case of him taking his bath, he'd later come out when he's done and there will be no signs of him taking bath.

I questioned him and he completely deny it, i always tiptoed to his room and put my ears on the bathroom door so as to pick one or two things but all to no avail and he left back for their house after spending some time with us.

Now the mom called yesterday that he was suddenly brought home from his school few moths back due to severe leg pain around his knees,the leg has swollen so much and he has been in the hospital where different tests were carried out and he was diagnosed of leg cancer and they have resulted to amputation which would be carried out any time soon, this came as a shock to everyone because there's no history of cancer in the family.

My curiosity is could he be into something which must have led to that? What manner of habits would make him hide and spend so much time in the bathroom (remember he's not taking his bath)? He has refused to own up or talk about this bathroom issues and his parents don't even know about it till I brought it up.

Please your suggestions and advise are needed.
Re: What Could He Be Doing Spending 4hours And More In The Bathroom? by anungangampu: 3:16pm On Sep 02, 2021
Afriqan:


He probably nurses some pain which he has been trying to hide from you guys. You need to see things from a compassionate POV to understand. At least the cancer result proves that.

A lot of people have personal challenges and they are too afraid of saying it so as not to be mocked.
u get it.

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Re: What Could He Be Doing Spending 4hours And More In The Bathroom? by Tapout(m): 3:17pm On Sep 02, 2021
Iyaebe:
sake of Front page?when he's about loosing one of his legs hmm please just go away.

Yes oh, Tales for the sake of front page which you have achieved. You and I this story is made up. I mean at some point he could have come out of the bathroom and just decided to stay inside the room, you can't be totally certain. Except You are trying to say you patiently stalked him for 4 hours and more to be certain he was inside the bathroom. That means you were at his bathroom door for the whole 4 hours and more. Even a destitute isn't that jobless.

But let's just pretend it's not made up. The Doctors have already decided to amputate his leg, what he does inside the bathroom for 4 hours and more is no longer of any use. Let them cut the leg and leave him the Fvck alone!!

PS- Go and find something tangible doing other than stalking people in the Bathroom. Freaking Perverted soul.

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Re: What Could He Be Doing Spending 4hours And More In The Bathroom? by Nobody: 3:19pm On Sep 02, 2021
Authorsy:
Chatting with his girlfriend? Watching porn?

You seem very nosey so i don't think it's abnormal that a teenager would want to seclude themselves to have some privacy especially when doing things that they think you might not approve of, or nag them about.

It doesn't necessarily mean that what they're doing is bad or outrageous. Dude could have just been in there chatting on WhatsApp or Telegram groups and trying to avoid talks like "you're always pressing your phone"

Or maybe your environment is loud or you watch movies he can't relate to so he is in there watching movie series or playing games he likes.

I could think of a thousand possibilities that are not related to any vices you have suggested.

And again, your tone doesn't sound like you are empathetic towards the plight of this young child that has to lose his limbs at such tender age. You seem to be blaming him for his predicament or trying to suggest that he brought this upon himself because of his bathroom habits.

I just hope you are nicer and more supportive of him in person.
Problems are best tackled when you know the source and since he has refused to admit or talk about anything so I came here to seek suggestions and opinions which I'm already getting and if I wasn't concerned and pained there will be no need doing this.To your last sentence: I'm the best care giver you can ever get in recent times and I love my family so much,I have cried and lost appetite so your perception about me does not hold waters.
Re: What Could He Be Doing Spending 4hours And More In The Bathroom? by ElGood: 3:22pm On Sep 02, 2021
He may be surfing the internet with his phone for that long sitting on wc.
Sitting long on wc comes with health issues.

Also let his parent try other health center to carry out another cancer test.

There is a lot of wrong diagnosis of cancer being carry out this days
Re: What Could He Be Doing Spending 4hours And More In The Bathroom? by Promoter2: 3:24pm On Sep 02, 2021
I could have had an idea or seen symptoms of the cancer growth on his leg. So he spends time examining it.

I used to have a lump just underneath my blokos. I used to spend a lot of time looking at it while in the bathroom.

The poor boy might not be doing anything bad. If na self-service he dey self-service, problem no dey.

I wish him safe surgeries.
Re: What Could He Be Doing Spending 4hours And More In The Bathroom? by Nobody: 3:26pm On Sep 02, 2021
ElGood:
He may be surfing the internet with his phone for that long sitting on wc.
Sitting long on wc comes with health issues.

Also let his parent try other health center to carry out another cancer test.

There is a lot of wrong diagnosis of cancer being carry out this days

OK thanks,I just wish there are other options to help than this amputation
Re: What Could He Be Doing Spending 4hours And More In The Bathroom? by Goldiness: 3:27pm On Sep 02, 2021
Take him to a different hospital and still confirm the case and continue to ask him questions, don't just cut his legs like that oooh, to avoid stories that touch, because people have had their legs cut when it was not supposed to be so, ask him questions with treats to his life. He must speak soonest, or use a different person, more like a counselor to speak with him in private, may be he is scared of telling your family his ordeal. I believe he will open up, with a different approach.
Re: What Could He Be Doing Spending 4hours And More In The Bathroom? by stunnert(m): 3:27pm On Sep 02, 2021
Fvckyouall:


So soapy takes 4hrs?

Village people soapy grin grin
Re: What Could He Be Doing Spending 4hours And More In The Bathroom? by SULTAN22(m): 3:28pm On Sep 02, 2021
[quote author=Mainlymanof post=105420717
Re: What Could He Be Doing Spending 4hours And More In The Bathroom? by dlondonbadboy: 3:33pm On Sep 02, 2021
Ritual.

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Re: What Could He Be Doing Spending 4hours And More In The Bathroom? by Nobody: 3:37pm On Sep 02, 2021
crazymommy:
If that is how your dead brain can intrepete my comment...

person wey get dead brain nd person wey no fit use her own .. kini yato grin i can cure ur crazy depends on what you want smiley
Re: What Could He Be Doing Spending 4hours And More In The Bathroom? by Mainlymanof: 3:40pm On Sep 02, 2021
SULTAN22:
12 years!!
Sir, have you ever noticed any effect of mastabation on your body?
I'm asking because of the tones of side effects of masturbation I have read on the Internet, I'm a teenager, I usually masturbate.
I have been trying to quit this addiction for years now, and it seems impossible.
.
The only effect I am dealing with currently is delayed ejaculation during normal sex which I don't really know the cause of it but read that it might be caused by constant masturbation. And also read that constant masturbation makes a man 40seconds man but my own case is different
Re: What Could He Be Doing Spending 4hours And More In The Bathroom? by suffering: 3:41pm On Sep 02, 2021
Tell a fellow male to bathe with him then report back. The guy likely enjoys the lone time spent in the bathroom. I’ve never heard of leg cancer. There’s always a first time for everything on Nairaland.
Re: What Could He Be Doing Spending 4hours And More In The Bathroom? by bisqit: 3:46pm On Sep 02, 2021
Jefferyhi86:
When una cut e leg then threaten him again that the other leg is goin to be cut too, he go confess of what he has being doin in that bathroom
mad man grin
Re: What Could He Be Doing Spending 4hours And More In The Bathroom? by seetomorrow: 3:47pm On Sep 02, 2021
[quote author=Kobicove post=105418731]Maybe he goes on Astral travel grin[/quot


This is the problem of that boy which brought such unexpected sickness on him. Nobody should allow that leg to be cut off, look for a strong nan of God and take that boy to before is too late.
Re: What Could He Be Doing Spending 4hours And More In The Bathroom? by seetomorrow: 3:50pm On Sep 02, 2021
Iyaebe:
My cousin brother of about 19years of age came for a visit in our house and each time it's time for his meal he'd be no where to be found within the house. This habit was a constant thing that I became too curious to know what he's up to.

So I started following every of his moves only to discover that he spends minimum of 4hours in the bathroom and this is not a case of him taking his bath, he'd later come out when he's done and there will be no signs of him taking bath.

I questioned him and he completely deny it, i always tiptoed to his room and put my ears on the bathroom door so as to pick one or two things but all to no avail and he left back for their house after spending some time with us.

Now the mom called yesterday that he was suddenly brought home from his school few moths back due to severe leg pain around his knees,the leg has swollen so much and he has been in the hospital where different tests were carried out and he was diagnosed of leg cancer and they have resulted to amputation which would be carried out any time soon, this came as a shock to everyone because there's no history of cancer in the family.

My curiosity is could he be into something which must have led to that? What manner of habits would make him hide and spend so much time in the bathroom (remember he's not taking his bath)? He has refused to own up or talk about this bathroom issues and his parents don't even know about it till I brought it up.

Please your suggestions and advise are needed.

This is the problem of that boy which brought such unexpected sickness on him. They might possessed that boy. Nobody should allow that leg to be cut off, look for a strong nan of God and take that boy to before is too late.

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Re: What Could He Be Doing Spending 4hours And More In The Bathroom? by Urchmantete: 3:50pm On Sep 02, 2021
He must be watching Indecency... Masturbating too. Some people sit in a particular position for some time and get their legs swollen. But I smell something fishy here (hard drugs)
Re: What Could He Be Doing Spending 4hours And More In The Bathroom? by bisqit: 3:52pm On Sep 02, 2021
pocohantas:
Masturbating indeed. That is his own quiet place. I had a roommate like that. She spends at least 2hrs in the bathroom and she would always allow me bathe first.

The day I entered without knowing she was there, chick was just on the floor. Her head in her palm, thinking…
You invaded her privacy
Re: What Could He Be Doing Spending 4hours And More In The Bathroom? by space9880: 3:54pm On Sep 02, 2021
Iyaebe:
Yes but I'm thinking if hard drugs can also be the cause as I'm thinking towards that direction as a result of his hidden bathroom habits
it is either smoke, masturbation, games or movies you don't need to lock yourself in the toilet to take hard drugs because drugs are mostly pills (TM, MOLLY, SWINOL, REF ETC) the only syrup I know of is codeine and he will just do bottle to mouth from where he bought it. He can take the pills where be bought them too or even buy any fizzy drink put it inside and sip away. And if it is CANNABIS there are many classes and some don't smell too much.

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Re: What Could He Be Doing Spending 4hours And More In The Bathroom? by space9880: 3:59pm On Sep 02, 2021
Iyaebe:
I don't think so I think he's into very hard drugs but what I don't understand is what type of hard drugs could lead him to spend such hours and he's on the verge of loosing one of his leg.
your theory of drugs making him lose his legs is biased who won lose leg go lose leg nobody take drugs in the toilet how you won take catch your trips?
Re: What Could He Be Doing Spending 4hours And More In The Bathroom? by Ghostrye: 4:07pm On Sep 02, 2021
He might have been there so you wouldn't walk in on him in pains because of the bad leg

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Re: What Could He Be Doing Spending 4hours And More In The Bathroom? by Authorsy: 4:11pm On Sep 02, 2021
tuboi:
A lot of ppl actually think he’s into drugs, masturbating or ritual, but I think he’s been dealing with his health issues secretly..There are people who will smile with you but go into their closet to shed tears…He’s going through a lot. I pray he pulls through….

I mean!!!!

Poor child could have been in there writhing in pains or contemplating suicide.

I wish him and the family strength to pull through and make the best out of this.

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Re: What Could He Be Doing Spending 4hours And More In The Bathroom? by Fuckthamods: 4:19pm On Sep 02, 2021
It's not possible to masturbate up to 1 hour.. Let alone 4 hours
Re: What Could He Be Doing Spending 4hours And More In The Bathroom? by phantom(m): 4:29pm On Sep 02, 2021
I used pentazocine an opiod ( the general family of drugs including, tramadol,codeine and heroine) for 5 years plus to treat a pain condition and got addicted.
I used to inject it in my thighs as it comes as injectables. No tablets.

I'm a doctor, so I know how to inject myself but for non medically experienced people, they inject high up in the leg which is the dangerous area. Continous injection there overtime can give serious damage to the major vessels of the legs like an aneurysm which can result in an amputation.
Did you ever see injections in the toilet? He may have been careful to discard them.
Maybe you can look at his legs properly and ask him about drug use.

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Re: What Could He Be Doing Spending 4hours And More In The Bathroom? by EkiranAlexmedia(m): 4:31pm On Sep 02, 2021
(quote author=Iyaebe post=105411960] Can someone spend such hours to masturbate? he's not watching any movies else I would have heard sounds during those times I tiptoed to his bathroom door)

He might be masturbating and using earpiece to prevent d people around from hearing d sound of the porn he is watching.

The leg cancer could just be a coincidence.I pray for his healing
Re: What Could He Be Doing Spending 4hours And More In The Bathroom? by Pierocash(m): 4:35pm On Sep 02, 2021
Fvckyouall:


Can you mind your own fvcking business he is 19 and an adult. If he wants to smoke, take weed or drugs it's his life
do you have comprehension issue? He the Op asked a question and I have him what I felt could be the reason ,and you are telling me to mind my business. Are you sick?
Re: What Could He Be Doing Spending 4hours And More In The Bathroom? by Fvckyouall: 4:36pm On Sep 02, 2021
Pierocash:
do you have comprehension issue? He the Op asked a question and I have him what I felt could be the reason ,and you are telling me to mind my business. Are you sick?


Go and choke on buhari's flaccid dick or mind your business
Re: What Could He Be Doing Spending 4hours And More In The Bathroom? by Bngf: 4:36pm On Sep 02, 2021
Fucvvking himself offcourse
Re: What Could He Be Doing Spending 4hours And More In The Bathroom? by kolaaderin: 4:38pm On Sep 02, 2021
Iyaebe:
My cousin brother of about 19years of age came for a visit in our house and each time it's time for his meal he'd be no where to be found within the house. This habit was a constant thing that I became too curious to know what he's up to.

So I started following every of his moves only to discover that he spends minimum of 4hours in the bathroom and this is not a case of him taking his bath, he'd later come out when he's done and there will be no signs of him taking bath.

I questioned him and he completely deny it, i always tiptoed to his room and put my ears on the bathroom door so as to pick one or two things but all to no avail and he left back for their house after spending some time with us.

Now the mom called yesterday that he was suddenly brought home from his school few moths back due to severe leg pain around his knees,the leg has swollen so much and he has been in the hospital where different tests were carried out and he was diagnosed of leg cancer and they have resulted to amputation which would be carried out any time soon, this came as a shock to everyone because there's no history of cancer in the family.

My curiosity is could he be into something which must have led to that? What manner of habits would make him hide and spend so much time in the bathroom (remember he's not taking his bath)? He has refused to own up or talk about this bathroom issues and his parents don't even know about it till I brought it up.

Please your suggestions and advise are needed.
Take a second opinion and diagnosis, amputation is irreversible and it will be pathetic sorry for the young boy. Teenagers and young people of such age tends to spend more time in bathroom at most 1 hour or just a bit more if the soapy business is really into them but not 4 hours. This act could cause some body part to develop severe pain depending on the style of soapy activities he is engaged with but should not leads to cancer. Most men today could recall they developed pain in the right hand from shoulder down in those days of their soapy activities but later relieved of the pain the moment they started having female friends and preferring the real deal to soapy business.
They should take a serious second opinion before amputation or even just the affected mussels not the whole leg please. Nigeria is too hard for the able don't add to the mystery of the young lad.

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Re: What Could He Be Doing Spending 4hours And More In The Bathroom? by Pierocash(m): 4:38pm On Sep 02, 2021
Fvckyouall:



[s]Go and choke on buhari's flaccid dick or mind your business[/s]

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