Iyaebe:
You enjoyed cheating? is it not the same thing you enjoy with your wife?why do you still want to cheat since she's now ready to quench your desires or is there more to it?You will be at the receiving end wasting your energy and resources.

I miss the spice

tommy589:

I miss the spice

Get the spice from your wife

SmellySperm:
Her ex guy whom she loved but left probably coz he was broke have resurface. He's probably banging her already via lamba.
A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.

You said you've paid for a cow already bah? Oya bring the cow come mk Nairalanders flex mbok

Iyaebe:
Most men don't cheat? ewo!!! please try and be truthful na,it's a faceless forum abi your girlfriend be nairalander?

Most men I know, that's what I said. Offkos I know some men cheat and I consciously choose not to role with them.

Before time go pass quickly collect your contribution money biko its important.

That’s great!

Lucky you!

Congratulations!

useless man with no brains. serves you right shebi una no wan get sense ni

TechQe:
She's doubtful about your ability to financially cater for her in the marriage

Work on your finances for some years to prove to the next candidate that you're worth it !

LogicalKen

This is the REASON......

LOGICALKEN:
So I met this lady in 2019 through a mutual friend, after few weeks of getting to meet her we started dating. She is 29 and I’m 31. She’s based in Benin where she works and I am in Lagos.

The agreement was that after our wedding she will join me in Lagos which she agreed. Our relationship has been going on smoothly which made me do the introduction January this year and I’ve told her the wedding will be by January next year, which she knows I am making adequate preparation to that effect. I even had to get involved in a monthly contribution of 30k which is done in her workplace, I told her she should collect 2 slots so we can save enough for the wedding. She has never made any financial request that i did not grant.

Just two months ago she started acting all weird, I have asked her what the problem was and she would say nothing. She stopped picking my calls and told her parents I offended her, I called her to know what my offense was and she said I should forget. God knows I have never deliberately done anything to upset her. Just yesterday morning she called to tell me she is done with the relationship which left me so confused and devastated. I have already paid for cow and all the wines we will use for the wedding and now she has called it off.

Please nairalanders what could possibly be my offense? I have thoroughly searched my heart and I can’t seem to remember when I offended her.

Pls dash me the cow!
How can a man be begging a woman for love?
It's abnormal.

You just been used and dumped by another nigerian girl

That’s what most of them do


I have adviced you guys don’t invest or give huge sum to any nigerian girl until you are few months ready to get married. These hoess are smart , don’t be fooled

U should be happy bcus u escape another Tonto dicke

SmellySperm:
Her ex guy whom she loved but left probably coz he was broke have resurface. He's probably banging her already via lamba.
A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.

You said you've paid for a cow already bah? Oya bring the cow come mk Nairalanders flex mbok

You're head dey there..

You are lucky as shit....let it go and face life

God Don save you bro. My main concern is the money u contributed, has she sent you the money ? If not, enter okija shrine sharp sharp, women of such behaviour deserves beating ..

Leave her abeg no be by force, e better say u no spend ur money for marriage that won’t work, than spend it then later she asks for divorce

God bless your brain

SmellySperm:
Her ex guy whom she loved but left probably coz he was broke have resurface. He's probably banging her already via lamba.
A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.

You said you've paid for a cow already bah? Oya bring the cow come mk Nairalanders flex mbok

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_U056KWgW2w

LOGICALKEN:
So I met this lady in 2019 through a mutual friend, after few weeks of getting to meet her we started dating. She is 29 and I’m 31. She’s based in Benin where she works and I am in Lagos.

The agreement was that after our wedding she will join me in Lagos which she agreed. Our relationship has been going on smoothly which made me do the introduction January this year and I’ve told her the wedding will be by January next year, which she knows I am making adequate preparation to that effect. I even had to get involved in a monthly contribution of 30k which is done in her workplace, I told her she should collect 2 slots so we can save enough for the wedding. She has never made any financial request that i did not grant.

Just two months ago she started acting all weird, I have asked her what the problem was and she would say nothing. She stopped picking my calls and told her parents I offended her, I called her to know what my offense was and she said I should forget. God knows I have never deliberately done anything to upset her. Just yesterday morning she called to tell me she is done with the relationship which left me so confused and devastated. I have already paid for cow and all the wines we will use for the wedding and now she has called it off.

Please nairalanders what could possibly be my offense? I have thoroughly searched my heart and I can’t seem to remember when I offended her.

you have already paid for cow for a wedding that will happen in January? Do you think we are fools? Continue!!!

OG,

I'm glad you've brought the news here, can I have a word with you please.
If after some pestering or not, she now comes back or feign interest again, you'll to discard her completely and find someone better. Don't wallow in those self-questioning phase asking yourself what went wrong and all that.

What about the contribution have you collected your money

The daughter of Jezebel is already entangled with someone else that she thinks is better than you. Don't worry, her eyes go soon clear after the man fuccks her silly and dumps her.

Op no forget collect all the meeting money you have been sending her. Op use that cow celebrate ,for having victory over what would have ruined you

I for like judge d matter but na only ur own side of d story I hear
Elders no dey judge Mata lik dat..

Abeg bro find another babe and wed

LOGICALKEN:
So I met this lady in 2019 through a mutual friend, after few weeks of getting to meet her we started dating. She is 29 and I’m 31. She’s based in Benin where she works and I am in Lagos.

The agreement was that after our wedding she will join me in Lagos which she agreed. Our relationship has been going on smoothly which made me do the introduction January this year and I’ve told her the wedding will be by January next year, which she knows I am making adequate preparation to that effect. I even had to get involved in a monthly contribution of 30k which is done in her workplace, I told her she should collect 2 slots so we can save enough for the wedding. She has never made any financial request that i did not grant.

Just two months ago she started acting all weird, I have asked her what the problem was and she would say nothing. She stopped picking my calls and told her parents I offended her, I called her to know what my offense was and she said I should forget. God knows I have never deliberately done anything to upset her. Just yesterday morning she called to tell me she is done with the relationship which left me so confused and devastated. I have already paid for cow and all the wines we will use for the wedding and now she has called it off.

Please nairalanders what could possibly be my offense? I have thoroughly searched my heart and I can’t seem to remember when I offended her.

her problem might be spiritual,,,who knows if she has spiritual husband who told her to end the relationship..do your findings.... both physical and spiritual...

May be she is not comfortable with the relocation issues and not ready for marriage now. Just find out the issue.

Oga find substitute sharply. Naija girls Sha!

Iyaebe:
And his action? lol you men hate when the table turns round.I played a fast one on him and grabbed him by his balls kikiki

Atleast you should make it known to him why you choose to dump him. You might even be mistaken that he cheated, Perhaps, everyone makes mistakes, how are you sure you haven't dumped the exact one for you, madam you better call that guy and Tell him everything and clear your heart once and for all.

Men!
Don't do introduction alone no more.It is now waste of resources.
If you want to marry any girl, do both and you won't regret.

She's afraid to come to Nigeria.

How about the 30k contribution you've been making at her work place, hope it's intact?

Collect that money and move on. She saved you a stressful marriage

My dear brother...pls try and create time to travel n find out wat exactly the issue might be...sit her down and let her make u understand why she's acting that way.whatever she says will be ur conclusion on weder to move on or not,at least that will reduce a little bit of ur tension...pls remember a broken relationship is beta than a broken Marriage..get to know and move on pls