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Re: Addictions: Which Is Hardest To Quit? Sex, Masturbation, Drinking, Smoking Etc? by Naijabad: 5:04pm On Sep 14, 2021
Hopeful2021:
I engage only in masturbation and it's killing me. It feels very pleasurable while in the act, but I feel so terrible after doing it. I've been addicted for over 10 years now and I feel my life is wasting away.

How old are you? Are you married?

Please answer and I will tell you what to do.
Re: Addictions: Which Is Hardest To Quit? Sex, Masturbation, Drinking, Smoking Etc? by BeardedMeat(m): 5:04pm On Sep 14, 2021
PericomaNwankwo:
Listen;
I used to crush crack on top a book titled "Overcoming Addiction", with my bunker at hand while going through the IG page " Say No To Drugs".

I used to smoke weed while reading Musk's thoughts on environmental protection.

I have not really been an alcohol lover.

I started smoking cigarettes at age 6 or thereabouts (something common in the slums in grew up in).

I quit cigarettes when I started smoking weed, quit weed when I started smoking skunk, quit skunk for loud and then I went back to weed; doing weed and spirit drinks just to stay high at all costs and keep a bogus appetite.

I quit alcohol totally and concentrated on weed and crack and heroine.

Sometime later I had to quit weed because my worries overlapped it's highness. I was hooked with crack and Thailand for months and it helped me to stay off weed.

Then suddenly I quit crack and Thai.....I'm grateful to God, it wasn't easy . I had to go on and off, relapsing became a norm.

Had gone months and still relapsed, then it started making me sick. Glad I won that battle. Never going back to anything highness.


I don't know about masturbation sha


Conclusion: quitting is all about will power, perseverance and self truth. Though I doubt addiction is the main problem of addicts.
Wow! Quite a journey!
Congrats Mahn!


So you say addiction may not be the problem of addicts? What is?
Re: Addictions: Which Is Hardest To Quit? Sex, Masturbation, Drinking, Smoking Etc? by Irennediva(f): 5:04pm On Sep 14, 2021
Ask these ladies below shocked shocked

The future is Female shocked shocked shocked

Re: Addictions: Which Is Hardest To Quit? Sex, Masturbation, Drinking, Smoking Etc? by Hopeful2021: 5:05pm On Sep 14, 2021
Naijabad:

How old are you? Are you married?
Please answer and I will tell you what to do.
I'm in my middle 20's and no sir, I'm not married.
Re: Addictions: Which Is Hardest To Quit? Sex, Masturbation, Drinking, Smoking Etc? by Coronavirus84: 5:07pm On Sep 14, 2021
The only thing I want God to do for me now is to stop drinking, I can't ordinarily sleep without drinking Alcohol and its very bad. As far sex, All this funai students make them carry their holes commot
Re: Addictions: Which Is Hardest To Quit? Sex, Masturbation, Drinking, Smoking Etc? by MakeMoves: 5:07pm On Sep 14, 2021
Can’t say which is hardest since every case is different. But alcohol and smoking are substance based with chemical properties that have their own issues. I’m not sure people suffer withdrawal symptoms from lack of sex/masturbation, but the experience can be dire with substance abusers.
Re: Addictions: Which Is Hardest To Quit? Sex, Masturbation, Drinking, Smoking Etc? by chiefodera: 5:07pm On Sep 14, 2021
Gambling and masturbation hard to stop. Don't trust a gamble especially those one that play online.
Re: Addictions: Which Is Hardest To Quit? Sex, Masturbation, Drinking, Smoking Etc? by ChasinGood(m): 5:10pm On Sep 14, 2021
Addictions are really bad. OP, it's more like choosing the lesser evil.
We've all experienced one form of shit or the other,sadly.
Re: Addictions: Which Is Hardest To Quit? Sex, Masturbation, Drinking, Smoking Etc? by kenzysmith: 5:10pm On Sep 14, 2021
I quited masturbation but I didn't quit sex I also quitted virtual bet all thus in a space of 2yrs I think I be done well . na brothel habit remain 2 months brothel free I will keep fighting
Re: Addictions: Which Is Hardest To Quit? Sex, Masturbation, Drinking, Smoking Etc? by babavik: 5:11pm On Sep 14, 2021
Masturbation.
Very bad
Re: Addictions: Which Is Hardest To Quit? Sex, Masturbation, Drinking, Smoking Etc? by Lordofalmajiri(f): 5:11pm On Sep 14, 2021
Hopeful2021:
I engage only in masturbation and it's killing me. It feels very pleasurable while in the act, but I feel so terrible after doing it. I've been addicted for over 10 years now and I feel my life is wasting away.
Go find girlfriend bro
Re: Addictions: Which Is Hardest To Quit? Sex, Masturbation, Drinking, Smoking Etc? by JBoss25(m): 5:12pm On Sep 14, 2021
xjiggy:
Drinking. The taste of a cold bottle of beer is hard to let go
abeggi, masturbation is the hardest trust me

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Re: Addictions: Which Is Hardest To Quit? Sex, Masturbation, Drinking, Smoking Etc? by Elliot2(m): 5:12pm On Sep 14, 2021
bewise24:
Addicted to sex? How possible?
Guy, sex addicts dey o. I have an uncle that can not stay two days without lashing. Nigga don lay the least 5000 girls for him life. Na from primary school him start o. Now he is over 40yrs. No jokes. Whether na mama o, pikin o, fine o, ugly o, short o, e tall o. He doesn't care so long she get honey pot.

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Re: Addictions: Which Is Hardest To Quit? Sex, Masturbation, Drinking, Smoking Etc? by Skyfly007: 5:12pm On Sep 14, 2021
Ohthinktwice:
I had this conversation with some of my neighbors (three men) on which addiction was hardest to quit of womanizing, drinking and smoking.


My view was that it was womanizing, but they saw things differently from me and said it was smoking. They said it was easy to quit womanizing once the time for quitting comes, but the addiction to smoking was something else.


I had never smoked a cigarette or the likes before so I couldn't tell how difficult if was to quit, but I had a friend who was once a chain smoker, but once he repented and surrendered his life to God, that was it. The urge died instantly! It was so weird that a friend of his who knew him very well, said if my friend could quit smoking, that he also could quit the habit, because he knew how deep my friend had gone into it, that he himself was like a learner in the act.

That was perhaps what gave me the impression that it may not be that hard to quit the habit but my neighbors begged to differ.


I expect that there are others who may see things differently from us, because I know and have had of people who drink to the point that they become seriously ill but are still not able to quit.


Some others it's addiction to sex or masturbation that has made them to become depressed to the point of wanting to commit suicide, because they find it impossible to quit even if they know it's destroying their lives.


Hard drugs is another strong one which has held many in serious bondage, as some go to extreme lengths to pacify the urge. One married woman started paying for it with her body, by having sex with the supplier, after she had wasted all her life savings on it and no longer had money to pay for it.


Hence it appears that it differs from person to person, as an addiction someone finds hard to quit might be easy for someone else, and vice versa, but what do you think it?

May God help us all.
The hardest addiction to quit is gambling....
Re: Addictions: Which Is Hardest To Quit? Sex, Masturbation, Drinking, Smoking Etc? by JBoss25(m): 5:13pm On Sep 14, 2021
Elliot2:
Guy, sex addicts dey o. I have an uncle that can not stay two days without lashing. Nigga don lay the least 5000 girls for him life. Na from primary school him start o. Now he is over 40yrs. No jokes. Whether na mama o, pikin o, fine o, ugly o, short o, e tall o. He doesn't care so long she get honey pot.
5000 ke which kind lie, even if na that number most of them are prostitutes
Re: Addictions: Which Is Hardest To Quit? Sex, Masturbation, Drinking, Smoking Etc? by akanbiaa(m): 5:13pm On Sep 14, 2021
Ohthinktwice:
I had this conversation with some of my neighbors (three men) on which addiction was hardest to quit of womanizing, drinking and smoking.


My view was that it was womanizing, but they saw things differently from me and said it was smoking. They said it was easy to quit womanizing once the time for quitting comes, but the addiction to smoking was something else.


I had never smoked a cigarette or the likes before so I couldn't tell how difficult if was to quit, but I had a friend who was once a chain smoker, but once he repented and surrendered his life to God, that was it. The urge died instantly! It was so weird that a friend of his who knew him very well, said if my friend could quit smoking, that he also could quit the habit, because he knew how deep my friend had gone into it, that he himself was like a learner in the act.

That was perhaps what gave me the impression that it may not be that hard to quit the habit but my neighbors begged to differ.


I expect that there are others who may see things differently from us, because I know and have had of people who drink to the point that they become seriously ill but are still not able to quit.


Some others it's addiction to sex or masturbation that has made them to become depressed to the point of wanting to commit suicide, because they find it impossible to quit even if they know it's destroying their lives.


Hard drugs is another strong one which has held many in serious bondage, as some go to extreme lengths to pacify the urge. One married woman started paying for it with her body, by having sex with the supplier, after she had wasted all her life savings on it and no longer had money to pay for it.


Hence it appears that it differs from person to person, as an addiction someone finds hard to quit might be easy for someone else, and vice versa, but what do you think it?

May God help us all.
With high numbers of bet shops, brothels and internet age induced loneliness I will say betting followed by paid sex and then masturbation.

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Re: Addictions: Which Is Hardest To Quit? Sex, Masturbation, Drinking, Smoking Etc? by Naijabad: 5:13pm On Sep 14, 2021
Hopeful2021:

I'm in my middle 20's and no sir, I'm not married.

There are 2 hard ways to quit masturbation.

No1 is hard but not undoable.

No2 is harder, still not undoable.

No1. Free your mind from anything sex. As soon as the thought a a girl you love comes into your mind, know that it will end in masturbation.

Change your thinking immediately to business, academics, sports, just anything but sex.

No2. Destroy your smart phone and get one without Internet capabilities.

The biggest forerunner of masturbation is porn.
The moment you link up to pornsite, it MUST end in masturbation.

So, for the next one year use non smart phone.

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Re: Addictions: Which Is Hardest To Quit? Sex, Masturbation, Drinking, Smoking Etc? by kenzysmith: 5:14pm On Sep 14, 2021
Bahamas95:
I can't do without sex and don't believe it's a bad addiction.

Judging from what I have heard about smoking I think it's the hardest to quit. Most people who engage in masturbation are sex starved. No sane person would engage in that rubbish..... Instead of me to masturbate I would rather go to a brothel to cool off.
my brother smoking and drinking is easier to quit than masturbation
Re: Addictions: Which Is Hardest To Quit? Sex, Masturbation, Drinking, Smoking Etc? by Picker28: 5:15pm On Sep 14, 2021
By the help of God to stop any of this
Re: Addictions: Which Is Hardest To Quit? Sex, Masturbation, Drinking, Smoking Etc? by PericomaNwankwo: 5:16pm On Sep 14, 2021
BeardedMeat:
Wow! Quite a journey!
Congrats Mahn!


So you say addiction may not be the problem of addicts? What is?

It actually depends on the individual but I know most addicts lost it somewhere somehow trying to deal with something, unlearning addiction requires huge mental strength.

To fully overcome, you need to win 1) addiction and 2) the emptiness that existed pre addiction. If you don't fix number two you may find yourself relapsing now and then.

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Re: Addictions: Which Is Hardest To Quit? Sex, Masturbation, Drinking, Smoking Etc? by TOPCRUISE(m): 5:17pm On Sep 14, 2021
Bahamas95:
I can't do without sex and don't believe it's a bad addiction.

Judging from what I have heard about smoking I think it's the hardest to quit. Most people who engage in masturbation are sex starved. No sane person would engage in that rubbish..... Instead of me to masturbate I would rather go to a brothel to cool off.
You mean sex is not a bad addiction. Definitely you must be fvcking like a rabbit grin
Re: Addictions: Which Is Hardest To Quit? Sex, Masturbation, Drinking, Smoking Etc? by Wordson(m): 5:17pm On Sep 14, 2021
greatiyk4u:
The cheapest to afford is the hardest

Therefore, smoking is the hardest, with just 50 naira, you can smoke not applicable to other ones mentioned
I am forced to quote u bro, if dat is d cheapest,
Pls tell me, do u even need N50 to masturbate?
Oga, dat one na d cheapest.. u no need money
Re: Addictions: Which Is Hardest To Quit? Sex, Masturbation, Drinking, Smoking Etc? by Gunayo(m): 5:17pm On Sep 14, 2021
Add gambling to the list.
Re: Addictions: Which Is Hardest To Quit? Sex, Masturbation, Drinking, Smoking Etc? by nonyofor2(m): 5:17pm On Sep 14, 2021
Masturbation all the way
Re: Addictions: Which Is Hardest To Quit? Sex, Masturbation, Drinking, Smoking Etc? by Utanisco(m): 5:19pm On Sep 14, 2021
gambling
Re: Addictions: Which Is Hardest To Quit? Sex, Masturbation, Drinking, Smoking Etc? by emmnprince(m): 5:19pm On Sep 14, 2021
Bornsinner7:
Damn bro..

None!!! Addiction to anything is difficult to quit.. you can't try to outline or give a logical conclusion on which one is easier to quit..

Addiction is a compulsive engagement.. Meaning that it is an uncontrolled, irresistible behaviour..

Someone can be known to be a smoker but not addicted to it and can decide to stop at any point in his/her life but being addicted is a whole different level..

Addiction is a condition
It doesn't vary from person to person.. once a person is addicted it's a hard one to stop.. you can't say it will be easy for Mr A and hard for B



My own na peanut burger abi burger peanut!
Re: Addictions: Which Is Hardest To Quit? Sex, Masturbation, Drinking, Smoking Etc? by D555(m): 5:20pm On Sep 14, 2021
Iyaebe:
Nairaland smokers,drug addicts,brostitutes, Internet fraudsters disguised as bitcoin traders,please come and comment.
Re: Addictions: Which Is Hardest To Quit? Sex, Masturbation, Drinking, Smoking Etc? by kenzysmith: 5:20pm On Sep 14, 2021
Liutay:
It's hard to quit all three


I'm speaking from experience(not mine tho)
I quited masturbation 1 ur 2 months now
Re: Addictions: Which Is Hardest To Quit? Sex, Masturbation, Drinking, Smoking Etc? by emmnprince(m): 5:20pm On Sep 14, 2021
Peanut!
Re: Addictions: Which Is Hardest To Quit? Sex, Masturbation, Drinking, Smoking Etc? by Skyonebaba: 5:21pm On Sep 14, 2021
Pls what's the solution for pre mature ejaculation ?
Re: Addictions: Which Is Hardest To Quit? Sex, Masturbation, Drinking, Smoking Etc? by Nobody: 5:21pm On Sep 14, 2021
Bet9ja virtual

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