seunmsg:

OP don mad.

Instead of advocating for Magun, let’s de-emphasize marriage. Marriage is a trap that does both parties no good. They are just trapped there in sadness.

People who are attracted to each other should be able to do whatever they wish without the guilt of marriage. Infidelity in marriage will continue to grow until we all agree to end the damned institution.

So after getting married with 2 KIDS, you suddenly realise that marriage is a trap. You cannot patronize your usual olosho at Options, abi? Amougbaux!

How do you know that they are not husband and wife. Let me tell you something, I went to Lagos Island with my wife one day , we didn't finish what we went there on time and to avoid usual traffic jam on our way home , we have to branch to an hotel to lodge till the following day. I am older than my wife , can you now tell me that I took my girlfriend to an hotel. It is not all of them that are girl friends or boy friends. Some couples prefer to go to a neutral Wembley stadium to sort out things.

damiBJ:


Olosho.

Just like your mother.

Simran94:

I'm sure your ex told you the story, she obviously doesn't know what she's talking about. Men use MAGUN to keep their wives from sleeping around, it doesn't have effect on the women, rather it only has effects on the MEN that come in contact with the women. The women only get to live with the shame and guilt that surround's the man's death

Now, how do we prove this?

ugodson:
Why is it that the whole comment from the ladies is the OP should mind his business. The while ladies in nairaland are promiscuous

Is as simple as that

soon as your wife starts cheating, just know there's something that you are not doing, go down on your knees and pray, don't let another man break your home. Always appear neat the way you were the very first time you approached her and don't yell at her all the time, show her care and love so that she will not look outside, sometimes walk around naked and don't wear anything to bed, always try to catch her attention. Thanks and God bless you as you do so.

Hakeem3:
With response from majority of females here it’s quite obvious a lot them are into such immoral and disgusting act. End time doinz!

there should be for married men too. it would be hypocritical if you don't understand their stand

[quote author=ahnie post=107740897]Have you ever heard of the word called...MIND YOUR BUSINESS?[spotted!]

id911:


Sir, how does one go about doing that - at the bolded?

Dem don match your wife

ahnie:
Work your work and mind your business.you re there to earn a living not to monitor people's life.

see them

kristonium:

How do you know they are married?

Because hardly will they put on wedding ring to the hotel.

even if u take it off ,the scare remains in the finger lining

cayorday89:
Magun those days in Yoruba movies, but with my movie knowledge of how Magun works, it's the man that that ends up dieing, while the woman lives to face the consequences of their shame. So OP, think am twice if you believe, men are polygamous in nature and women are not, think of what will befall you when you go hit on a married woman, but still agitate for Magun because you don't want your wife to cheat on you.

every tribe have different types in Nigeria,from edo state ,the woman first son becomes very very sick rejecting treatment or the husband becomes very sick to the point of dead,,man that stuff is real veryreal man,,,and if the woman doesn't confess and the man dies ,it's considered as a murder case traditional and it is treat with an eye for an eye a tooth for a tooth ,,it's very interesting you you African tradition it's the real deal of marriage been the most important institution on earth

walkingshadow911:


there should be for married men too. it would be hypocritical if you don't understand their stand

and our grandparents who marries 3 wife's at home...?

walkingshadow911:



you are shameless hoe with ant brain. if your husband keep bringing women of different sizes to your home in your absence. will you tell your house helps to mind their business.


Thank God for Nairaland the mirror image of the society.

when females were advocating for equality ,you should know what they where advocating for man ,this is it bro ...and I advice every young man ,the moment your kid is born ,go for a DNA test ,later you will be greatfull

larryking540:

and our grandparents who marries 3 wife's at home...?

you meant legally married wives

So will the same be done for men as well or is ur is it just women who’re unfaithful in marriages?
Oh I guess we’ll stick to the “dis is Africa” narrative yh?

ImaIma1:


Defending corruption? What has bringing it here achieved? Had it made the cheating women know that they are very wrong?

There's nothing he can do if he cannot walk up to them to challenge them. So, minding his business will do him good. You guys are so quick to judge.

Bringing it here has once again reminded the adulterers and the intending adulterers that they risk a chance of death via magun.
And being bold to call evil the evil that it is, goes a long way to give strength to those societal values instead of making it look as if those evils are now acceptable.
You know why the adulterers and runs girls don't want people to talk about it? It's because talking about it pricks their conscience and reminds them how vile they are, instead of keeping quiet and making them feel that they are now acceptable to normal society.
And as for judging them, we will continue to judge the evil and the immoral because we love their souls and want them to stop and change. The Bible says " Tell the wicked that it shall not go well with him". If people keep quiet, the evil and the adulterers would believe that what they are doing is alright.
If he can't tell them to their faces, the ones on this platform at least would read and be reminded that there are consequences for such degrading lifestyle, here and in eternity.

ahnie:
Work your work and mind your business.you re there to earn a living not to monitor people's life.

Why are you women fond of not condemning bad things? Do you know that if you don't condemn something, you are promoting it? You women are all the same with stup.id reasoning and brain of a child.

EkehPraise:
The rate at which married women are becoming so unfaithful is soo unfair and scary. I work in a 5 star hotel and it's so frightening that 4 out of every 10 guest that lodges in our hotel is a married young woman accompanied by either another man who is old enough to be her grandfather or a small boy old enough to be her kid brother or son

Magun is a charm that originates from the Yoruba tribe in Nigeria. It literally means "do not climb." Magun has been used for centuries to catch a wife who has an extra-marital affair or to put a promiscuous woman in check. ...the woman and her lover will stick like glue during the process of sex if she has crossed a Broom or touched a substance laced with Magun charms until her husband comes or they are caught.

At least this should bring back some sanity and faithfulness and keep those who are not ready to settle down away from taking vows they will not keep...

Speaking of Magun, I watched one of Nigeria's comedy skits recently I want to relate it with this. The man put the magun in his doorstep and hid himself outside. A man came in and was fuc.kin.g his wife. The husband with his friend outside said the man will run outside in 5minutes time because of the power of the MAGUN or shouts of trouble will be heard from them inside. Nothing happened. When her husband walked in on them with his friend, they were having do.ggie sex. His friend told him MAGUN means DO NOT CLIMB and it is not effective because the man did not actually CLIMB his wife. I laughed so hard.

prophetfire:
Bringing it here has once again reminded the adulterers and the intending adulterers that they risk a chance of death via magun.
And being bold to call evil the evil that it is, goes a long way to give strength to those societal values instead of making it look as if those evils are now acceptable.
You know why the adulterers and runs girls don't want people to talk about it? It's because talking about it pricks their conscience and reminds them how vile they are, instead of keeping quiet and making them feel that they are now acceptable to normal society.
And as for judging them, we will continue to judge the evil and the immoral because we love their souls and want them to stop and change. The Bible says " Tell the wicked that it shall not go well with him". If people keep quiet, the evil and the adulterers would believe that what they are doing is alright.
If he can't tell them to their faces, the ones on this platform at least would read and be reminded that there are consequences for such degrading lifestyle, here and in eternity.

Ok

Mind your business shuuuu, as if men too are faithful.

ahnie:
Have you ever heard of the word called...MIND YOUR BUSINESS?

don't mind him

prophetfire:
Bringing it here has once again reminded the adulterers and the intending adulterers that they risk a chance of death via magun.
And being bold to call evil the evil that it is, goes a long way to give strength to those societal values instead of making it look as if those evils are now acceptable.
You know why the adulterers and runs girls don't want people to talk about it? It's because talking about it pricks their conscience and reminds them how vile they are, instead of keeping quiet and making them feel that they are now acceptable to normal society.
And as for judging them, we will continue to judge the evil and the immoral because we love their souls and want them to stop and change. The Bible says " Tell the wicked that it shall not go well with him". If people keep quiet, the evil and the adulterers would believe that what they are doing is alright.
If he can't tell them to their faces, the ones on this platform at least would read and be reminded that there are consequences for such degrading lifestyle, here and in eternity.

That is good.

I just wish the op and you guys also put in the same effort in calling cheating husbands out, instead of "keeping quiet and making them feel that they are now acceptable to normal society". At least the Bible says "But it shall not go well with wicked..." Eccl 8:13

So let's keep up the same energy brother.

Ecne:
Even as a Guy, I feel upset about this post becasuse it's not balanced.
Husbands do worse.

In the matter of sex and associated issues, the female gender is blamed more because the female gender holds more power with consent. If a woman rejects the advances of a man, the advances become useless.

larryking540:
every tribe have different types in Nigeria,from edo state ,the woman first son becomes very very sick rejecting treatment or the husband becomes very sick to the point of dead,,man that stuff is real veryreal man,,,and if the woman doesn't confess and the man dies ,it's considered as a murder case traditional and it is treat with an eye for an eye a tooth for a tooth ,,it's very interesting you you African tradition it's the real deal of marriage been the most important institution on earth

See confirm traditional doings, truly civilisation comes with both good and bad.

Simran94:

No, his concern is for that of MARRIED WOMEN cheating but for some reason he decided to ignore the MARRIED MEN that cheat and that they cheat more than the women

The earlier you realize that your gender will be blamed in issues of cheating, unwanted pregnancy, paternity fraud and all other associated issues, the better for you. Why? Because your gender holds the determining power of consent. A man's advances becomes useless if the woman rejects. She decides what happens. Defending your gender and refusing to condemn will only continue to promote these bad things.

ednut1:
Era of equality. Men cheat women cheat

The earlier you realize that the female gender will be blamed in issues of cheating, unwanted pregnancy, paternity fraud and all other associated issues, the better for you. Why? Because the female gender holds the determining power of consent. A man's advances becomes useless if the woman rejects. She decides what happens. Defending the female gender and refusing to condemn will only continue to promote these bad things.

seunmsg:

OP don mad.

Instead of advocating for Magun, let’s de-emphasize marriage. Marriage is a trap that does both parties no good. They are just trapped there in sadness.

People who are attracted to each other should be able to do whatever they wish without the guilt of marriage. Infidelity in marriage will continue to grow until we all agree to end the damned institution.

How do you know that married people are trapped in sadness? Are you trapped in sadness?

People who want to keep getting attracted to other people and do whatever they wish, should not get married.

Marriage is a covenant, it's not an institution that people just wake up and jump into. And it is for mature minds.

blaise26abj:
It is a rather serious issue . I was privileged to read some comments in a Nigerian married women only group . And there is a consensus there that women actually cheat more than men and men don’t know better because they are conditioned to think the wives can never cheat because of the societal consequences . That is why the women are more clandestine and manipulative about these things . It is no longer an exclusive right of men and rightly so.

All these moral decadence is a testament to where this world is going to. The home/family unit is being attacked like never before . LGBQT, Toxic feminists ,Gender confused people etc So people prepare for war .

The earlier you realize that the female gender will be blamed in issues of cheating, unwanted pregnancy, paternity fraud and all other associated issues, the better for you. Why? Because the female gender holds the determining power of consent. A man's advances becomes useless if the woman rejects. She decides what happens. Defending the female gender and refusing to condemn will only continue to promote these bad things.

FutureIsFemale:

Nairaland mods why are you guys pushing stupid threads to front page?
Imagine someone saying married women are too unfaithful. Are they cheating on their husbands with cows?
If we must be truthful here, the number of married men cheating outweighs the married women.

The earlier you realize that your gender will be blamed in issues of cheating, unwanted pregnancy, paternity fraud and all other associated issues, the better for you. Why? Because your gender holds the determining power of consent. A man's advances becomes useless if the woman rejects. She decides what happens. Defending your gender and refusing to condemn will only continue to promote these bad things.

Angelfrost:
So, what should the married women use for their eternally cheating husbands?!! Abi, cheating is meant for only men?!!

Mr. Op, the world has moved ahead of Magun jare. When we men were having scores of girlfriends and kids outside marriage, no one used jazz on us and the hoes we were involved with.

Y'all keep acting like for every cheating married woman there isn't at least 3 cheating husbands, even in that hotel of yours.

Abeg, let's hear word!!!

The earlier you realize that the female gender will be blamed in issues of cheating, unwanted pregnancy, paternity fraud and all other associated issues, the better for you. Why? Because the female gender holds the determining power of consent. A man's advances becomes useless if the woman rejects. She decides what happens. Defending the female gender and refusing to condemn will only continue to promote these bad things.