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Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by Nauttyprof(m): 7:35pm On Dec 13, 2021
Nwachi22:


Unfortunately, I don’t read a fool’s comment.

That's so sad as this is typical of fools to act this way.

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Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by Smilesvilles21: 7:39pm On Dec 13, 2021
Your mum deserves all shez getting, because you are obviously the product of her training, she has sowed a bad fruit in you and the two of you must reap what you have sowed somehow, either thru your present wife or another person. You lack the wisdom to handle a home. You may be matured in age but your mind is small and act like an animal. Animals don't marry, therefore you made a costly mistake by going into marriage.
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by Nwachi22(f): 7:40pm On Dec 13, 2021
Nauttyprof:


That's so sad as this is typical of fools to act this way.

Don’t have time for hungry lowlife like you.
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by dich: 7:41pm On Dec 13, 2021
Mr Man, you are a very stupid man for beating your wife and even saying it for all to hear. Nonsense!!
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by Victor1883(m): 7:46pm On Dec 13, 2021
E b like say ur wife no get brother's, dat y u dey show ur sef, nd if u see ur mate nw u nor fit do anything
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by MropeEleniyan00(m): 7:47pm On Dec 13, 2021
My brother don't let them tell you shit... Your mama is your mama & she his ur number 1 cos woman can leave u even with kids involved brother... But don't beat her again instead ignore & purnish her other way round... There are better way to purnish a woman than beating


Wetin her mother come do for 8months

Y can't ur mother stays too... Selfish woman everywhere & na why most of them no see husband house leave.. No worry urself my brother but don't beat her but always put Ur mama 1

The same way ur wife will wanna do with her kids she bringing up now

Taking care of my kids nowadays makes me appreciate my máma more & respect responsible father






jaksmillioniar:
hello room.

I have a problem and it is paining me. I am a matured guy who know what it feels like to be single and maried .

Most People mock me, but I got married.

We had a baby last year, a corona baby.

I am not ashamed to say that at my age, I am still a mummy's boy and she is my number one but I respect my wife.

When I wanted to marry, my wife Never agreed to having a house close to my mum's place.

I felt very bad but I want to make her happy so we moved far. My mom was angry as she knew my wife forced me.

When my wife delivered, her mum came for omugo instead of my mum, and that made her so sad, that she cried and ask if i am a bastard to let them steal her right.

I begged her. She came for naming and left the same day I noticed way my wife was acting rude too because her mum was pushing her.

I told my wife that mum is angry, let us visit her buy her a gift because her place is now far.

She kept saying that her body is not strong for 5 months after delivery and I thought she took me and my family as fools.

I got angry and slapped her twice. When she saw that I was really angry she begged me.

So we went and saw her we are all happy and settled all.

As my child reached 10 month, I told her to tell her mum to go because she's now strong almost to walk.

Her mum left but my mum wanted to come and spend the holiday as she had never done that since she delivered .

When I told my wife, her facial expression changed. When my mum came i travelled but she didnt cook for her but heat soup that was in the freezer to give her.

My mum hated that and she called me crying that what she did to her she won't do to her own mum .

I pretended nothing happened as I got back I bought things from a eatry for family so my mum left after 2 weeks.

I brought up the issue and she said nothing wrong in giving her food kept in the freezer that she gave same to her mum too .

I got angry and beat her up. I didnt injure her. all and some other thing . I love my wife I cant be beating her all the time she promise to change yet nothing. Because of bad character I refuse to take her to eatry.

she denied me sex until I slap sense into her.

marriage has challenges it is s not easy.
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by olas24u(f): 7:48pm On Dec 13, 2021
chatinent:


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Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by Nauttyprof(m): 7:48pm On Dec 13, 2021
Nwachi22:


Don’t have time for hungry lowlife like you.

It's so sad. This suggests that you have spent so much time in hunger and being a low life fellow such that you can't think straight anymore. It's just too sad.

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Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by GetMeRight: 7:49pm On Dec 13, 2021
jaksmillioniar:
......

Beating beating beating!!! Don't let authority or those NGOs reason your matter o. You can't be beating your wife at the slightest provocation and still be coming online to say it with proud.
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by kingscare1(m): 7:49pm On Dec 13, 2021
Mercychen:
Oga "slapper", just take it easy. Remember shes still not strong enough for all the slapping you're dishing out to her at the slightest provocation.

Your mum didn't do well.
How can she come to a nursing mother and instead of helping her, she expected her to be cooking fresh meals every hour of the day?
That was why your wife was not happy about her coming because she knew it will end in complains of neglect.. imagine that " patience ozokwo" fake cry. What was that for? So you can beat up your wife for her? Hmm.. all this mother inlaw though.

Your wife and her mother probably ate the same refrigerated food but your mom chose to make a mountain out of the issue.

Omugwo is meant for the new Mom, not your mother. So your wife was not expected to serve your Mom in this case.

Lastly, you have to choose whom you want to be married to. Your wife is your wife and your new mother. Your Mom has to respect that fact.

Nothing like "My New Mother"
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by pawn89(m): 7:50pm On Dec 13, 2021
You should NEVER hit your wife no matter how angry you get. In the heat of the moment, always remember this; You have the right to step out. cool off and then return and have a civil discourse with your wife.

Her mum should be the one visiting and you should do all you can to ensure her mum is comfortable, so that way, when your own mother comes visiting, it would have already been an established fact that you took care of her mum and your mum must also be welcomed with open arms and should feel comfortable visiting her son and daughter-in-law.

All in all, you should know how to navigate your home to calmer waters, make your wife happy and everything else would mostly fall inline with little to no effort.

Beating your wife is not a feat of strength, learn restraint and apply wisdom in dealing with her
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by WaleFoto(m): 7:50pm On Dec 13, 2021
Mr,
I'm a married man with kids and my wife can be very super annoying some times, most women are.
But let me put it to you blank that it's total foolishness and mental sickness to raise your hand on your wife.
I'm very sure your beloved mum gets you angry sometimes, do you beat her up? How were you able to control your anger. When your boss annoy you, do you beat him up? How were you able to control your anger
You need serious therapy oga

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Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by Roland17(m): 7:52pm On Dec 13, 2021
Sleeknigga:
Guy calmdown jare, even if na your sister another don payher bride Price she no be your sister again,dem Don buy am like goat why you Wan involve yourself grin

Not in support of the Op behaviour of but retaliating with violence will only cause more problems for your sisi

Baba, I appreciate the fact that you are not in support of the OP’s behavior but I can assure you he has continued with this crap because no one has stood up to this despicable behavior.

Bride price you say? So bride price is a cogent enough reason for anyone to beat his wife without consequences? Paying bride price does not equate to beating your wife. My brother, no jokes, he would not dare such with any of my sisters or women in my family. As in, no capping! Men are different my broda..

Violent men like very rarely stop with physical abuse. They continue until something very consequential happens to them. Something that costs them something very valuable including life/ freedom

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Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by kals4luv990(m): 7:52pm On Dec 13, 2021
I thought its d wife mum dats goes for omuguo..anyway my man to cut long story,yu b mumu man..i pity 4 d poor woman who no get brodas..BASTARD!!! angry
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by imtfans(m): 7:54pm On Dec 13, 2021
jaksmillioniar:
hello room.

I have a problem and it is paining me. I am a matured guy who know what it feels like to be single and maried .

Most People mock me, but I got married.

We had a baby last year, a corona baby.

I am not ashamed to say that at my age, I am still a mummy's boy and she is my number one but I respect my wife.

When I wanted to marry, my wife Never agreed to having a house close to my mum's place.

I felt very bad but I want to make her happy so we moved far. My mom was angry as she knew my wife forced me.

When my wife delivered, her mum came for omugo instead of my mum, and that made her so sad, that she cried and ask if i am a bastard to let them steal her right.

I begged her. She came for naming and left the same day I noticed way my wife was acting rude too because her mum was pushing her.

I told my wife that mum is angry, let us visit her buy her a gift because her place is now far.

She kept saying that her body is not strong for 5 months after delivery and I thought she took me and my family as fools.

I got angry and slapped her twice. When she saw that I was really angry she begged me.

So we went and saw her we are all happy and settled all.

As my child reached 10 month, I told her to tell her mum to go because she's now strong almost to walk.

Her mum left but my mum wanted to come and spend the holiday as she had never done that since she delivered .

When I told my wife, her facial expression changed. When my mum came i travelled but she didnt cook for her but heat soup that was in the freezer to give her.

My mum hated that and she called me crying that what she did to her she won't do to her own mum .

I pretended nothing happened as I got back I bought things from a eatry for family so my mum left after 2 weeks.

I brought up the issue and she said nothing wrong in giving her food kept in the freezer that she gave same to her mum too .

I got angry and beat her up. I didnt injure her. all and some other thing . I love my wife I cant be beating her all the time she promise to change yet nothing. Because of bad character I refuse to take her to eatry.

she denied me sex until I slap sense into her.

marriage has challenges it is s not easy.
was I the only one just hearing the voice of a grown up 10 years old boy-man from the write up?
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by NonnyDot(m): 7:54pm On Dec 13, 2021
Thank you for this writeup Op. Just take a good scenario of you bin the wife. And advise her properly when she does wrong. But if she continues nagging nack her 2 by 2 by 6inch to reset her properly
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by NonnyDot(m): 7:56pm On Dec 13, 2021
Thank you for this writeup Op. Just take a good scenario of you bin the wife. And advise her properly when she does wrong. But if she continues nagging nack her 2 by 2 by 6inch to reset her properly. Pls thank me later
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by GetMeRight: 7:57pm On Dec 13, 2021
Layormiii:
Asin, slap your wife? And u talked about beating her and slapping her twice too. This one shock me oo. Imagine just slapping your wife whenever you're angry, even parents don't treat their children that way.. please totally erase that mentality off your head. It's shameful, it's unhealthy, it's unheard of.

And how can your mum even complain about eating refrigerated meals, how can you go for someone's omugwo and u expect her to be making freshly made meals for you daily.. me wey just born oo.. and ontop of that I will receive slap again and beating join.. omo things dey happen oo..

Imagine beating the hell out of me and still expecting me to do baby dance with you grin

As in, why was the food put in the refrigerator in the first place if there was no one to eat it? Or, the refrigerated food meant for only his wife?
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by chatinent: 8:00pm On Dec 13, 2021
olas24u:

send your contacts
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Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by Andersonken(m): 8:00pm On Dec 13, 2021
Over grown babe that's what you are.
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by System202: 8:01pm On Dec 13, 2021
Op don't mind this useless creatures commenting here. Most of them are baby factory products who dons't know the Value of a mother. ur wife is foolish and selfish. she loves her mother but hate urs. Me I can't tolerate this If u love me u MUST love my Family
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by sofiscatedmoron: 8:02pm On Dec 13, 2021
I swear some ladies deserve some bitch aas slap once in a while
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by GetMeRight: 8:03pm On Dec 13, 2021
obinna58:
You're terrorizing your wife
When you said you love her I'm sure you were just deceiving yourself.
I bet you're the all provider which is why you can treat her anyhow and she takes it and beg.


Even if that's the truth, it is not enough to be beating her over any little quarrel.
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by tonyashburton: 8:06pm On Dec 13, 2021
As you dey beat another man's daughter and sister,na so your own daughter and sister go suffer.
Arindin omo.Oloriburuku oshi.
Your mother will destroy this marriage las las then you can marry her like Oedipus married his mother Jocasta.
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by Mom007(f): 8:09pm On Dec 13, 2021
You son, are a fool. In fact you are both foolish and I say this without malice. As your senior colleague in this marriage business, You do not solve marital issues with your fists. So because of this small issues now, you have beaten your wife like 4times... And I'm sure your marriage is not yet 2years old... #sadsigh
Look young man, as much as I do not support your silly wife disrespecting your mother, and not wanting her around especially after her own mom came to do omugwo and stayed for 10 months (who does that?) There are many ways to skin a cat. Stop beating your wife son. Trust me, it solves nothing but breeds a deeper hatred in her for your mother.
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by sigiyaya112: 8:09pm On Dec 13, 2021
jaksmillioniar:
hello room.

I have a problem and it is paining me. I am a matured guy who know what it feels like to be single and maried .

Most People mock me, but I got married.

We had a baby last year, a corona baby.

I am not ashamed to say that at my age, I am still a mummy's boy and she is my number one but I respect my wife.

When I wanted to marry, my wife Never agreed to having a house close to my mum's place.

I felt very bad but I want to make her happy so we moved far. My mom was angry as she knew my wife forced me.

When my wife delivered, her mum came for omugo instead of my mum, and that made her so sad, that she cried and ask if i am a bastard to let them steal her right.

I begged her. She came for naming and left the same day I noticed way my wife was acting rude too because her mum was pushing her.

I told my wife that mum is angry, let us visit her buy her a gift because her place is now far.

She kept saying that her body is not strong for 5 months after delivery and I thought she took me and my family as fools.

I got angry and slapped her twice. When she saw that I was really angry she begged me.

So we went and saw her we are all happy and settled all.

As my child reached 10 month, I told her to tell her mum to go because she's now strong almost to walk.

Her mum left but my mum wanted to come and spend the holiday as she had never done that since she delivered .

When I told my wife, her facial expression changed. When my mum came i travelled but she didnt cook for her but heat soup that was in the freezer to give her.

My mum hated that and she called me crying that what she did to her she won't do to her own mum .

I pretended nothing happened as I got back I bought things from a eatry for family so my mum left after 2 weeks.

I brought up the issue and she said nothing wrong in giving her food kept in the freezer that she gave same to her mum too .

I got angry and beat her up. I didnt injure her. all and some other thing . I love my wife I cant be beating her all the time she promise to change yet nothing. Because of bad character I refuse to take her to eatry.

she denied me sex until I slap sense into her.

marriage has challenges it is s not easy.
I have nothing OP because you really sound like a big fool. I swear you are such an idiot!!
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by AbujaCitiBlog: 8:10pm On Dec 13, 2021
chatinent:





You talk about beating her like you are talking about breathing!

About your mom, your mum should know her place and stop picking on minor things and controlling your family! Everybody knows that the wife’s mother will most likely want to come for the omugo unless it is mutually agreed on both mothers-in-law who should come first or last!

Mummy’s boy my arse!

You are also not doing your wife a favour marrying her! I will never mince words for rubbish!


Egbon, inasmuch as I don't support her not wanting you close to your mom, if na my sis you beat like this, I for don nack good grammar enter your body. That's not the main problem...the problem is you'll call the police for me and you will be asked to write statement, you go go copy another man murder case statement!

Nonsense and ingredients. Anyways, I am still available for Turnitin-friendly research writing services.
You don't have a wife, you have an arsehole!
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by kwasoly(m): 8:12pm On Dec 13, 2021
jaksmillioniar:
hello room.

I have a problem and it is paining me. I am a matured guy who know what it feels like to be single and maried .

Most People mock me, but I got married.

We had a baby last year, a corona baby.

I am not ashamed to say that at my age, I am still a mummy's boy and she is my number one but I respect my wife.

When I wanted to marry, my wife Never agreed to having a house close to my mum's place.

I felt very bad but I want to make her happy so we moved far. My mom was angry as she knew my wife forced me.

When my wife delivered, her mum came for omugo instead of my mum, and that made her so sad, that she cried and ask if i am a bastard to let them steal her right.

I begged her. She came for naming and left the same day I noticed way my wife was acting rude too because her mum was pushing her.

I told my wife that mum is angry, let us visit her buy her a gift because her place is now far.

She kept saying that her body is not strong for 5 months after delivery and I thought she took me and my family as fools.

I got angry and slapped her twice. When she saw that I was really angry she begged me.

So we went and saw her we are all happy and settled all.

As my child reached 10 month, I told her to tell her mum to go because she's now strong almost to walk.

Her mum left but my mum wanted to come and spend the holiday as she had never done that since she delivered .

When I told my wife, her facial expression changed. When my mum came i travelled but she didnt cook for her but heat soup that was in the freezer to give her.

My mum hated that and she called me crying that what she did to her she won't do to her own mum .

I pretended nothing happened as I got back I bought things from a eatry for family so my mum left after 2 weeks.

I brought up the issue and she said nothing wrong in giving her food kept in the freezer that she gave same to her mum too .

I got angry and beat her up. I didnt injure her. all and some other thing . I love my wife I cant be beating her all the time she promise to change yet nothing. Because of bad character I refuse to take her to eatry.

she denied me sex until I slap sense into her.

marriage has challenges it is s not easy.

Children everywhere. Boy marriage is not for everybody, how long will you continue to beat your wife over any little thing?
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by Bambam321(m): 8:16pm On Dec 13, 2021
Your wife nah cow ?
wey be say nah only mending fit make am bend , chief change your approach
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by Kingdomb: 8:21pm On Dec 13, 2021
Mr slapper...pls stop beating or slapping your wife no matter what....women naturally jave issues adapting with other women esp inlaws ..

You can wake your wife by midnight and talk to her about what you don't like ..she will always obey
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by AYNL: 8:22pm On Dec 13, 2021
Stoopid woman beater like you

hitting your wife

and I must tell you

your mum is too manipulative

and I wonder why she cries over everything

abeg you no be real niggar

for your mind now you be alpha male abi

tcheew
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by Plumville: 8:28pm On Dec 13, 2021
You are a poor soul you are building a toxic home while hitting your chest, gradually destroying your marriage with your own hands. You have no business getting married in the first place mummy's boy. I pity your wife for the plethora of problems that will surely come to her until you and your mama drive her away finally. I can imagine you narrating to your mom how you rained slaps on your wife while she stylishly cheers you on because she believes the rift will favour her.

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