phranco:
I am in a relationship with a girl I'm planning to get married to. I love her and we vibe together and play most times. From my own assessment, she is good, down to earth, knows how to cook, humble, respectful, and she is also very beautiful naturally, infact she passed 70% quality of the kind of woman I want in my life.

The problem is that I'm not attracted to her sexually. She has a small body, and doesn't have nyash or should I say small nyash (sorry for the offensive word). I'm not aroused if I'm with her. I can manage to have sex with her just once, even if she will stay five days with me, and I know this gives her concern.

I like ladies with backside, height and chubby. but the ones I have come across doesn't even measure up to this my girl in character.

Does sex Matter so much in marriage? Cos I'm afraid I may cheat on her or get sexual satisfaction outside our marriage. I'm just confused right now.

I had to log in because it's as if you're talking about my ex. In fact, she has every quality you mentioned. I call her my ex because that sexually attraction was not there. Heck! Heck! The first time I saw her body, I felt like a pedophile. See ehn.. If you marry her, you'll always be gazing at other woman longingly. With time, love go clear and you'll start to resent her.. After two or three kids? Your marriage will be hanging by a thread since the sexual attraction is zero. Love is only part of the equation Marriage is for the rest of your life, and you don't want to spend it in regret. Besides, no waste her time, biko.

phranco:
I am in a relationship with a girl I'm planning to get married to. I love her and we vibe together and play most times. From my own assessment, she is good, down to earth, knows how to cook, humble, respectful, and she is also very beautiful naturally, infact she passed 70% quality of the kind of woman I want in my life.

The problem is that I'm not attracted to her sexually. She has a small body, and doesn't have nyash or should I say small nyash (sorry for the offensive word). I'm not aroused if I'm with her. I can manage to have sex with her just once, even if she will stay five days with me, and I know this gives her concern.

I like ladies with backside, height and chubby. but the ones I have come across doesn't even measure up to this my girl in character.

Does sex Matter so much in marriage? Cos I'm afraid I may cheat on her or get sexual satisfaction outside our marriage. I'm just confused right now.

Why do you want to marry someone you're not sexually attracted to? Does that make sense to you?

Lamanii22:
You wanna lose a good woman because of nyansh..? C'mon man!

So sex and sexual attraction is not important on Marriage?

phranco:
Thank you guys for ur submissions and opinions so far, I really appreciate. From these write ups, Peace of mind and Happines is top priority in marriage, sex is secondary, after all we can't be having sex every day in marriage. She will definitely give me the desired happiness.
You know in life, there is a stage when the truth will be staring at your face but it will be difficult to take decision. Not until you confide in someone and build your confidence. I will definitely wife her, nobody is complete and perfect. Its just that I'm a sexually active person, and I'm looking at marriage from sex angle. But my mindset have changed tonight, thanks guys.

I don't normally comment in this section, but i feel the need to tell you this. MY GUY, DO NOT DECIEVE YOURSELF. When sex goes out of a marriage, the marriage is as good as dead. On top of that, you claim to be a 'sexually active person'. You will end up screwing cheap women outside or wanking yourself to stupor. You will know all the porn stars with big yansh by their names.

When sex is abscent in a marriage, you will begin to see your wife like your mother and consequently will be totally turned off sexually with her. Sex is not secondary in marriage. Make the right decision before it's too late. We wey know, know.

Sex and children are the only 2 things women can give us men that we cannot give ourselves. Do not joke with it.

phranco:
I am in a relationship with a girl I'm planning to get married to. I love her and we vibe together and play most times. From my own assessment, she is good, down to earth, knows how to cook, humble, respectful, and she is also very beautiful naturally, infact she passed 70% quality of the kind of woman I want in my life.

The problem is that I'm not attracted to her sexually. She has a small body, and doesn't have nyash or should I say small nyash (sorry for the offensive word). I'm not aroused if I'm with her. I can manage to have sex with her just once, even if she will stay five days with me, and I know this gives her concern.

I like ladies with backside, height and chubby. but the ones I have come across doesn't even measure up to this my girl in character.

Does sex Matter so much in marriage? Cos I'm afraid I may cheat on her or get sexual satisfaction outside our marriage. I'm just confused right now.

Sir, we are stepping into 2022... Since you have determined early that there is;
1- No sexual Chemistry
2- No physical Attraction
3- No Spark

Please call it off and set the poor lady free... it might hurt, but you are saving colossal problems later.

Marry who asides everything, you are sexually attracted to, you have the sexual compatibility and Attraction for and most importantly, marry who gives you sparks .... especially if you are that kind of person who thrives on those qualities.

Mr. Op, this was normal in arranged marriages of decades and centuries past...

Even princes in royal countries still have a say in the physical attributes of their would be spouses.

What am I insinuating?!! No one is compelling you to marry this lady! You don't ingest poison out of sentiments.

Love is not enough for marriage sir. Physical attraction, though also overrated, is highly important! Why on Earth would any sane man choose to spend the rest of his life with a woman he isn't physically attracted to?!! Same with women... That is inflicting punishment upon yourself.

Please, don't waste a good woman's time and life! Summon the balls to call time on this farce you call a relationship. It's in the best interest of both of you.

@OP, speaking from a point of 11 years marriage experience, end the relationship and let her go. Even if you have all those qualities you aforementioned, there is tendency you could still cheat on your wife.
But when you married someone you are not attracted to sexually, you are going to make that person miserable.

So let her go. Else your marriage won't last 3 years max.

ziondaughter247:
Personally, I suggest you don't marry her. Just wait and find someone whom you are attracted to and has the same qualities. The truth is that sexual attraction is extremely important. This is not even about you, but also about her. Everyone, both Male and female want to be desired by their partner. Sooner or later, she will notice this and may begin to feel very bad,have self esteem issues and even resent you.
Think carefully before you take that step. I can assure you that some people are even looking for her spec. To each his own. We all want what we want

Well said.

phranco:
Thank you guys for ur submissions and opinions so far, I really appreciate. From these write ups, Peace of mind and Happines is top priority in marriage, sex is secondary, after all we can't be having sex every day in marriage. She will definitely give me the desired happiness.
You know in life, there is a stage when the truth will be staring at your face but it will be difficult to take decision. Not until you confide in someone and build your confidence. I will definitely wife her, nobody is complete and perfect. Its just that I'm a sexually active person, and I'm looking at marriage from sex angle. But my mindset have changed tonight, thanks guys.

please leave her so that she can find a man that truly loves her. You are going to make her sad because you are settling… Just let her go abeg and find your type

phranco:

Honestly, it has got me thinking for more than two months now. But I just realized that is my dick making the thinking for me. My last relationship that ended about three years ago, the girl have height, beautiful shape, nyash and moderate bress. But she is very toxic, she always tells me to my face that two captain can not sail a ship. She wants me to be loyal to her which led me to end the relationship. She always cheat and will still lie to my face, even though I have caught her thrice. In fact that relationship was hell and I thank God I got out alive. Now same thinking of external features have beclouded my brain again, but I have overcome it tonight and have taking my decision .

. Bless you sir. I am so happy for this ur decision. How I wish you can see me as I am smiling and happy for you. May you have the best marriage ever. God bless you and your wife to be

ziondaughter247:


Story!
Same way a woman can dump you for having small dick, being a brokeass and being short. I hope you would be happy.. Mr Masculine man....

What is your point. It's not a new thing that women are hypergamous in nature.

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Jidemoo:
This matter get as e be

This life wey we dey so.....you can't have everything but brozay since you are not sexually attracted to her...hmmmmm...I just don't even know how to put in my words this time around..

Don't let her know about it...don't tell her about her small nature make person pikin no go commit suicide ooh..

Just ask her if you two can just be friends without any string attached...if she agree...then just have her as your friend.

Sexual/physical attraction is very important in marriage just as character is.
Because if you decide to marry her for just her character and go outside to look for sexual satisfaction,you will be the toxic one in your marriage.
If you don't find her attractive,leave her for a man who will find her attractive.
Date your spec.
Laslas small nyash go shake one day.

WARNING

End that relationship now!

How can u marry someone you are not sexually compatible with, that is the beginning of the end of the marriage

Both of you will definitely cheat which will in turn lead to a toxic, loveless marriage then divorce

Sexual compatibility is very important

Survey report
Have u notice people that are sexual partners, frds with benefit, etc tend to develop feelings for each other over time?, now reverse the case.. Yeah u got ur answer


Imagine not sleeping with your wife for a month, on the same bed, resentment will build on both side

There is a fundamental problem in your relationship and it has to do with sexual attraction. Sexual attraction is key in marriage because it is a bonding factor. If it is absent in marriage I bet you it will give room for cheating and other vices.

phranco:
I am in a relationship with a girl I'm planning to get married to. I love her and we vibe together and play most times. From my own assessment, she is good, down to earth, knows how to cook, humble, respectful, and she is also very beautiful naturally, infact she passed 70% quality of the kind of woman I want in my life.

The problem is that I'm not attracted to her sexually. She has a small body, and doesn't have nyash or should I say small nyash (sorry for the offensive word). I'm not aroused if I'm with her. I can manage to have sex with her just once, even if she will stay five days with me, and I know this gives her concern.

I like ladies with backside, height and chubby. but the ones I have come across doesn't even measure up to this my girl in character.

Does sex Matter so much in marriage? Cos I'm afraid I may cheat on her or get sexual satisfaction outside our marriage. I'm just confused right now.

Marry her and be happy, sex is important but overrated. You will be be suprised the kind of heart attach a big yang girl will give you when you travel for 1 months. If you know what i mean

phranco:
I am in a relationship with a girl I'm planning to get married to. I love her and we vibe together and play most times. From my own assessment, she is good, down to earth, knows how to cook, humble, respectful, and she is also very beautiful naturally, infact she passed 70% quality of the kind of woman I want in my life.

The problem is that I'm not attracted to her sexually. She has a small body, and doesn't have nyash or should I say small nyash (sorry for the offensive word). I'm not aroused if I'm with her. I can manage to have sex with her just once, even if she will stay five days with me, and I know this gives her concern.

I like ladies with backside, height and chubby. but the ones I have come across doesn't even measure up to this my girl in character.

Does sex Matter so much in marriage? Cos I'm afraid I may cheat on her or get sexual satisfaction outside our marriage. I'm just confused right now.

Grandville
Lekki hill

Those 2 are your best bet but do not trade character for yansh - A loose woman or someone without character - won ma ba e do and it will cause heart ache so feed this your kekere - introduce sx toys - spice it up.

Sonnobax15:

Op,I pity you in advance...If you like, allow your quest and love for big nyanch to make you loosegaurd who go give you peace of mind..

Abi na banny wey get big nyanch wey go make you get competition with other men you want?


Las las,one day one day small nyanch go vex shake

see forget that thing...sex is also very important in marriages.. Very very important.. Tell me how that marriage will last if both parties start to seek sexual satisfaction outside marriage.. Maybe at early stage of the marriage.

When you have finally decided to wife her, send us IV we want attend the wedding

phranco:
Thank you guys for ur submissions and opinions so far, I really appreciate. From these write ups, Peace of mind and Happines is top priority in marriage, sex is secondary, after all we can't be having sex every day in marriage. She will definitely give me the desired happiness.
You know in life, there is a stage when the truth will be staring at your face but it will be difficult to take decision. Not until you confide in someone and build your confidence. I will definitely wife her, nobody is complete and perfect. Its just that I'm a sexually active person, and I'm looking at marriage from sex angle. But my mindset have changed tonight, thanks guys.

phranco:
Thank you guys for ur submissions and opinions so far, I really appreciate. From these write ups, Peace of mind and Happines is top priority in marriage, sex is secondary, after all we can't be having sex every day in marriage. She will definitely give me the desired happiness.
You know in life, there is a stage when the truth will be staring at your face but it will be difficult to take decision. Not until you confide in someone and build your confidence. I will definitely wife her, nobody is complete and perfect. Its just that I'm a sexually active person, and I'm looking at marriage from sex angle. But my mindset have changed tonight, thanks guys.

Bomb dey your head,if you like make your mindset no change.Dis life no balance at all.This virtuous woman want end for wrong hand now

Bros OP , whether u marry woman with big yansh or small yansh , big breast or small breast , after 1year of marriage , sex go tire you .

dingbang:
If you can't value her, please dm me her number so i can make her a queen since you have let your preek affect your thinking.

So na person go help you find wife,hope say the person go help u to dey Chew her...

dingbang:
If you can't value her, please dm me her number so i can make her a queen since you have let your preek affect your thinking.

have many queens have you made in your area... You are the type that get aroused easily seeing another person's chick or even wife sef.. It's a problem.

anyicash:
have many queens have you made in your area... You are the type that get aroused easily seeing another person's chick or even wife sef.. It's a problem.

No mind the guy...make him dey there dey mumu

phranco:
I am in a relationship with a girl I'm planning to get married to. I love her and we vibe together and play most times. From my own assessment, she is good, down to earth, knows how to cook, humble, respectful, and she is also very beautiful naturally, infact she passed 70% quality of the kind of woman I want in my life.

The problem is that I'm not attracted to her sexually. She has a small body, and doesn't have nyash or should I say small nyash (sorry for the offensive word). I'm not aroused if I'm with her. I can manage to have sex with her just once, even if she will stay five days with me, and I know this gives her concern.

I like ladies with backside, height and chubby. but the ones I have come across doesn't even measure up to this my girl in character.

Does sex Matter so much in marriage? Cos I'm afraid I may cheat on her or get sexual satisfaction outside our marriage. I'm just confused right now.

Dat your babe go soon put on weight...just continue to love her heart and manage her body for now...she go soon fat and chubby...
After this youur experience when you don old, na you go come dey advice young men on same issue later in life ....

Slim girl, no yanch go soon fat come get big yanch join...you better marry that girl...
She will later be your perfect match in the long run

Don't lose a good woman because she does not have yansh. When she gives birth,her yansh will increase. A woman that gives you peace of mind is priority. A woman that you can leave the house for and have rest of mind that all is well. A woman who loves you ,who is kind and accepts you and your family for who you. A respectful and generous woman. A generous woman will always want to contribute her earnings for the mutual good of two of you. If she is naturally good looking,that is a pass mark. You can teach her how to dress sexy for you when she is indoor with you. When you have the resources ,encourage her to make long hairs . That makes most females sexy.

No woman is perfect. Most men who settled down always have one thing that they wish their wives also have but they chose her because she has 70% of what they desire.

U love her but u re not attracted to her and u still want to marry her, are u ok?

phranco:

Honestly, it has got me thinking for more than two months now. But I just realized that is my dick making the thinking for me. My last relationship that ended about three years ago, the girl have height, beautiful shape, nyash and moderate bress. But she is very toxic, she always tells me to my face that two captain can not sail a ship. She wants me to be loyal to her which led me to end the relationship. She always cheat and will still lie to my face, even though I have caught her thrice. In fact that relationship was hell and I thank God I got out alive. Now same thinking of external features have beclouded my brain again, but I have overcome it tonight and have taking my decision .

Your mum is prayerful o becos you for see ween for street. Save up and get her plastic surgery (no body should tag me) Bumbum can be bought. Buy it

phranco:
I am in a relationship with a girl I'm planning to get married to. I love her and we vibe together and play most times. From my own assessment, she is good, down to earth, knows how to cook, humble, respectful, and she is also very beautiful naturally, infact she passed 70% quality of the kind of woman I want in my life.

The problem is that I'm not attracted to her sexually. She has a small body, and doesn't have nyash or should I say small nyash (sorry for the offensive word). I'm not aroused if I'm with her. I can manage to have sex with her just once, even if she will stay five days with me, and I know this gives her concern.

I like ladies with backside, height and chubby. but the ones I have come across doesn't even measure up to this my girl in character.

Does sex Matter so much in marriage? Cos I'm afraid I may cheat on her or get sexual satisfaction outside our marriage. I'm just confused right now.

Don't do it. You would be miserable for the rest of your married life.

@Op is daft. That's all I can say.

Alexaonfleek:
Sexual/physical attraction is very important in marriage just as character is.
Because if you decide to marry her for just her character and go outside to look for sexual satisfaction,you will be the toxic one in your marriage.
If you don't find her attractive,leave her for a man who will find her attractive.
Date your spec.
Laslas small nyash go shake one day.

Date your spec....nice one

How can anyone be foolish enough to marry someone they are not attracted to and your no sense in their head fellow dudes are.telling.you to go ahead .
Your marriage is over before it even started !
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