NovesaTillie:
Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..

Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also.
Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him
We both stay in Abuja.

Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.

Is he fair and tall? From the east?

This is called Abuja marriage. A lot of couples do it.

The way homeless guys full Abuja�����

Madam,this your boyfriend no get house or place wey u go go stay for new year

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I stopped reading at "Abuja"

NovesaTillie:
Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..

Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also.
Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him
We both stay in Abuja.

Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.

maybe his rent has expired.

well I could partly assuming write on this trend, that it either this guy like you or god loves you so much.

You're living in fornication and going to hell with your eye wide opened because of immorality and sex. God cannot be mocked, repent genuinely of your fornication and kick the guy out of your life while you keep your body which is Gods temple holy and free from all defilement. If you don't, someday you'll be praying for forgiveness in the colony of the lost where no one forgives or can be forgiven. Heed Gods begging to you now to repent before the table turns. Shalom!

Ybaby:


She is spending on him.... he is a liability from the devil

you can get a direct (he) liability that is from God if that is the fuss ... beyond how it sounds, there is no crime or sin if a woman spends on a man, koko be understanding.

I kindly advice you to know his place and some of his relatives before anything like cohabitting

jornwhite:



you can get a direct (he) liability that is from God if that is the fuss ... beyond how it sounds, there is no crime or sin if a woman spends on a man, koko be understanding.

I knew it.

Winbog55:
I kindly advice you to know his place and some of his relatives before anything like cohabitting

before things start going missing....

Wahala

he eats alot because he's good in bed. you gerrit�

Olumaeme:


Which of the Abuja?

You no get money, nothing for you ooo.

Maybe them dey lagos sha, but this our Abuja, no think am

Why do you Abuja lovers just hype the state like no tomorrow. A state that's still developing. You should be comparing it with the likes of akwa ibom or Anambra. Even portharcourt is more developed and bubbling than Abuja.

Olumaeme:


Which of the Abuja?

You no get money, nothing for you ooo.

Maybe them dey lagos sha, but this our Abuja, no think am

Them dey Abuja, take it or leave it. It was even Abuja I first saw such guys when dey sleep car, dey find girl when go house them.

KingAzubuike:

Why do you Abuja lovers just hype the state like no tomorrow. A state that's still developing. You should be comparing it with the likes of akwa ibom or Anambra. Even portharcourt is more developed and bubbling than Abuja.

K

Goldpeny:
If I will ask you,do you know where he stays.Also try to find out if he is married,Also find out,if he is working or huzzling,because I stay in Abuja,i know how some of these guys behave.Call me on my number.08134754822.Let us get to see,and talk better.I stay in Abuja.

are you for real? Another house jumper spotted!

Is it not part of genda equality? Why can't some men sometimes do what most women all the time

If you're uncomfortable with him living with you then you should ask him firmly to leave your home. But also ask him why he wants to live with you especially as you guys haven't been together for that long. Like others said maybe his rent is up and he doesn't have money to renew it. If he's to continue living with you though then he must pay for some expenses too. Don't let him have a free ride.