NovesaTillie:


I have visited his house twice.
The second time I slept over.

NovesaTillie:
Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..

Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also.
Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him
We both stay in Abuja.

Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.

Mood11:
How you are feeling right now is exactly how guys feel when a lady they don't want to marry forces herself in.
I suggest you go and see his family and do small things on his head
This one is Nylon Bag husband

ifex370:
Wahala everywhere ...



I just comot from one thread wey e babe de do hook up for Ibadan

Goldpeny:
If I will ask you,do you know where he stays.Also try to find out if he is married,Also find out,if he is working or huzzling,because I stay in Abuja,i know how some of these guys behave.Call me on my number.08134754822.Let us get to see,and talk better.I stay in Abuja.

NovesaTillie:
Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..

Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also.
Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him
We both stay in Abuja.

Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.

Igbokid:

Abeg post link

Joysticks:
No be so ladies dey do Guyz?

Bellerophon:
It is was a volcanic eruption of laughter for me as I read through your piece! You have an adult baby and a sponge wearing the facade of old age to propagate and perpetuate his dependency on you! Men are naturally egoistic and the machismo of masculine pride would by default discourage a man from taking residence with a woman regardless of the nature of their relationships! It could be an act of love if it is a very brief stint and not repeated, however where there is a recurrence it is only portentous of a classic diagnosis of acute dependency or parasitism!

Outside of you and the relationship you share, he is meant to have a circle however small of friends with whom several rendezvous and soirée together enjoying and relishing their masculine bravado will be a cherished event. What I mean is a man has his circle of boys with whom hanging out should be an indelible experience! Why a man will very happily be comfortable with the ceaseless company of a woman in isolation to the social cycle of friends and family or colleagues is only an indication of one thing, he is parasitic, dependent, lacks social goodwill, less busy and most of all has no business with pride as shame is his constant companion! Console yourself with the sex as you endure your time in the daycare babysitting your baby blimp!

ifex370:


https://www.nairaland.com/6914184/see-what-ex-girlfriend-once

Mood11:
How you are feeling right now is exactly how guys feel when a lady they don't want to marry forces herself in.
I suggest you go and see his family and do small things on his head
This one is Nylon Bag husband

Elporo:


If Abuja men start re-counting stories how they harbor and have harbored who.res and har.lots disguised as wives, fiances and girlfriends.

Nairaland will crash.

lilvicky68:
He eats a lot, snores a lot,

and also fûcks alot..add his good side jare

Bigfish121:
Na wa
I recently relocated to Abuja and need to make new friends few though.if you are in abuja you can hit me up.though not in Abuja now,Ellen for the Christmas celebration. trav

Irondome1:
Sit that guy down nd tell him how you've planned to pay his groom price and see his reaction.

NovesaTillie:
Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..

Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also.
Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him
We both stay in Abuja.

Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.

Twoclans:
Abuja boys na their way.Very fake broke people and they will still be forming with their starched kaftans

Hmmmmm but if you say he is good in bed then maybe he is worth keeping