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Re: What I Did When My Wife Refused My Sexual Advancement For 7 Months by macaranta(m): 1:15am On Jan 14, 2022 |
You've not done anything, yiu just widened the crack in your home. Out of sight is out of mind for most people... |
Re: What I Did When My Wife Refused My Sexual Advancement For 7 Months by mixmastering: 1:15am On Jan 14, 2022 |
ednut1:See evil speaker on the beat. Are you GOD? |
Re: What I Did When My Wife Refused My Sexual Advancement For 7 Months by Tzar(m): 1:15am On Jan 14, 2022 |
I swear, you just wrote absolute trash! Your marriage is not working, but you assume you have it working. Both of you need to see a marriage counselor and sex therapist ASAP. If you are still having issues regarding sex thereafter, better consider divorce & focus on raising that poor child & being physically present in the child’s life before your stupid attempt at marriage makes you a stranger in your child’s life. If you don’t know, sendings your wife to her mum is taking you away from your child! |
Re: What I Did When My Wife Refused My Sexual Advancement For 7 Months by TechSkill: 1:49am On Jan 14, 2022 |
advanceDNA: Na man you be. He wrote gabbage with so much confidence. |
Re: What I Did When My Wife Refused My Sexual Advancement For 7 Months by stonecoldcafe: 2:06am On Jan 14, 2022 |
edunaragold: This is not the best way to sort the issue |
Re: What I Did When My Wife Refused My Sexual Advancement For 7 Months by dokxavi: 2:10am On Jan 14, 2022 |
Op, you must call your wife(?) and fix a date for her to come back, tell her you will take some drastic decisions if she doesn't come back by that date, then you will see where you stand. |
Re: What I Did When My Wife Refused My Sexual Advancement For 7 Months by VickyRotex(f): 2:11am On Jan 14, 2022 |
edunaragold: Which kind silly talk be this |
Re: What I Did When My Wife Refused My Sexual Advancement For 7 Months by VickyRotex(f): 2:15am On Jan 14, 2022 |
Mariangeles: As in. The OP is just looking for an excuse to cheat. If not, allowing his wife to leave the house is not the solution here. 1 Like |
Re: What I Did When My Wife Refused My Sexual Advancement For 7 Months by wirinet(m): 2:37am On Jan 14, 2022 |
VickyRotex:The OP and wife went back to dating after marriage. He is living a bachelor life again. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What I Did When My Wife Refused My Sexual Advancement For 7 Months by simplesearch: 2:37am On Jan 14, 2022 |
What a pity! You didn't apply the owners manual from the start, now you're here encouraging people on how to get a result from an institution that was founded by the great wise one when you were in the oblivion. God said except a man be born again he cannot see the kingdom of God, are you born again? God said, do not be unequally yoked together with an unbeliever, is your wife a daughter of zion? Has she accepted Jesus as her Lord and savior, obeying him in principle and word? God also said, for this reason shall a man leave father and mother and cleave to his wife and they two shall become one flesh, and also it is not for a man to be alone. From the above scripture it is simply not God's will for husband and wife to separate occasionally in order to increase their self worth, any family encouraging or practicing such to stay in love don't understand the meaning of marriage. God perfect will is that couples should not just stay together but cleave to each other ill death do them apart. Except in uncontrollable circumstances like working for an organization where you're posted outside your marital environment without an option, or couples held apart because of unpredictable happenings like sudden restrictions placed by government as a result of the pandemic or similar things that could hinder physical presence. If your wife were a child of God she won't deny you any of your marital right, she won't also resent you because the spirit of resentment is of the devil. Finally she won't seek for baseless separation from you on a flimsy excuse that she want to grow her business by returning back to her mother's house. What you shoul do at this point in time as the head of the home is to give your life to Jesus genuinely and sincerely. Thereafter ask for the Spirit Leading, the Spirit of the Lord will definitely lead and guide you all through the way till victory is won. Finally, You need to act fast before the devil play a fast one on you guys by messing up your sexual lives like you just mentioned. Beware! |
Re: What I Did When My Wife Refused My Sexual Advancement For 7 Months by mecussey(m): 2:38am On Jan 14, 2022 |
socialmediaman: Don't mind those saying otherwise... The op took the best decision.. Marriage not by force...forget Nigeria unity they say its by force. However, if I was the op I will have a time frame. May be after one year and she doesn't miss me, I get another wife or move on. |
Re: What I Did When My Wife Refused My Sexual Advancement For 7 Months by VickyRotex(f): 2:43am On Jan 14, 2022 |
wirinet: everything just dey reverse for this country. Even marriage. |
Re: What I Did When My Wife Refused My Sexual Advancement For 7 Months by wirinet(m): 2:47am On Jan 14, 2022 |
mecussey: One year kwa? Why should the wife be away from her marital home for a while year without any valid reason? If she was away due to work or medical emergency, it is understandable, but to go live with her parents for one year because she needs space from her husband is unacceptable. What about the daughter? Does it sound reasonable to deny the husband bonding with his daughter. The most important bonding between father and child is within the first 3 years. If they miss that opportunity, the father and daughter may never really bond again. 1 Like |
Re: What I Did When My Wife Refused My Sexual Advancement For 7 Months by okikirifidelis(m): 2:50am On Jan 14, 2022 |
Me when my wife deny me of that I just open up to her if you see me cheating abeg no talk ooo na you cause ham I can't marry to you and you be deny me of sex just because you don born one and you now think you are the chairman then I will move out and enjoy myself. So bro you should have let her know female when they give birth in marriage they always feel they are in charge next you will see am tired, I don't feel like..lols that gender na God fit save us, but try to sort things out all of them are the same |
Re: What I Did When My Wife Refused My Sexual Advancement For 7 Months by Nobody: 2:53am On Jan 14, 2022 |
Women nowadays are scam, take it or leave it. 1 Like |
Re: What I Did When My Wife Refused My Sexual Advancement For 7 Months by jaxxy(m): 2:54am On Jan 14, 2022 |
Kellibae: Ok let’s assume he is since in ur mind ur 100% sure bt when it’s comes to the wife u don’t think she’s cheating even with the signs? That’s really funny. Just looks like bias at play here to me than any sound logic. |
Re: What I Did When My Wife Refused My Sexual Advancement For 7 Months by franchasng: 2:58am On Jan 14, 2022 |
edunaragold:This man you no well sha. First, you are a full tribal bigot. What has your wife being Igbo got to do with she despising you? Maybe you are one of Tinubu's online urchins and you always talk down or condemn Igbos before your wife, making her to despise you. Most foolish guys do this mistake. You hate a tribe or race, yet your stupidity and waywardness won't let you keep your senseless dick in check and not marry from the tribe you hate. Dear ladies and gents, please don't ever make the mistake of marrying someone from a tribe or race you hate or dislike because if you do, your marriage will forever remain a hellfire for you and your partner. Marriage goes beyond you and your partner. When you marry someone, it means you cherish their origin, their heritage, and it means you are ready to accept their tribe and community with joy for being the tribe and community that produced the man or woman that won your heart. How can you marry from a tribe you hate and still expect the marriage to flourish, are you not foolish? This is common among Yoruba guys. Deep down their hearts they despise Igbos yet their dick will never allow their sense to work when they see an Igbo girl all because of physical beauty. You guys really need to have sense in this 2022 oh lol. The truth is, your wife doesn't love you forget all the nonsense you typed. You irritate her and I can see part of the reasons you irritate her, one is you seem not to be sound intellectually, two is you hate her tribe and she knows this, and this is making her to despise you and not want to get intimate with you at all. Your Igbo wife is already regretting marrying you, and her mother is also regretting allowing her daughter to marry you, and they are struggling to find a way to correct the mistake of your ex wife getting married to you. If not that she already had a daughter for you, believe me, she would have divorced you since. She left your house back to her mother because of the regrets she is having over marrying you. I support her stand towards you because you had no reason to force yourself on an Igbo lady. You deceived her into marrying you. You even raped her and probably used lies and charms on her. You better go ahead and accept your tribe's women that have been disturbing you since she left cos that's the women you ought to have married from the beginning. I just don't know why most of you are so desperate to marry Igbo ladies even when you despise Igbos, is that not madness? I hope Igbo girls online are reading and learning from this man's nonsense? |
Re: What I Did When My Wife Refused My Sexual Advancement For 7 Months by mecussey(m): 2:58am On Jan 14, 2022 |
wirinet: You are right, one year is too much. 3 months is OK. Then invite her for peaceful separation and how to carter for the child. |
Re: What I Did When My Wife Refused My Sexual Advancement For 7 Months by Yuyu0328(f): 3:23am On Jan 14, 2022 |
No argument,no fights and your wife tells you you irritate her? Op even you eh, you are tired of the marriage and want out |
Re: What I Did When My Wife Refused My Sexual Advancement For 7 Months by karkinase(m): 3:29am On Jan 14, 2022 |
Op hold ur head I say I’m a Mumu man..Simp grandlord |
Re: What I Did When My Wife Refused My Sexual Advancement For 7 Months by Justice4Toto: 3:57am On Jan 14, 2022 |
After disturbing me that she wants to relocate to her own state so her business can flourish ,I called her mom to see if they can agree to it which she did, and after much advice from elderly men and woman I later came to my own finally conclusion after doing my + and - because not every advice one takes when seeking for advise ,I gave her some money to go spent time with her mom and what ever she decide she should let me know, I will be sending her some cash every months and the baby till she comes back to her senses.,they are now i Know this and know peace She is back to her ex in the east Daily load of Bleep ..she will get pregnant and push it to you . How as soon as she is pregnant gbam she will come visit you |
Re: What I Did When My Wife Refused My Sexual Advancement For 7 Months by Keji1012(m): 4:00am On Jan 14, 2022 |
BlackyOne: God bless u.. u are just blunt enough to hit the nail on the head |
Re: What I Did When My Wife Refused My Sexual Advancement For 7 Months by sugarfrank(m): 4:01am On Jan 14, 2022 |
This guy is cheating on his wife. edunaragold: |
Re: What I Did When My Wife Refused My Sexual Advancement For 7 Months by President2001(m): 4:03am On Jan 14, 2022 |
I'm experiencing the same thing, my own did not travel but anytime I go and visit someone outside she assumed is woman, she is always after my phone any woman either elderly or little one she seen around me she conclude I'm dating them deny me 3 times I don't even try to call her again to avoid embarrassment |
Re: What I Did When My Wife Refused My Sexual Advancement For 7 Months by Kellibae(f): 4:03am On Jan 14, 2022 |
franchasng: U are so onpoint the woman has found out he is is pure bigot and no more attracted to him The guy is a pure igbo hater yet he married igbo..I was shocked . 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What I Did When My Wife Refused My Sexual Advancement For 7 Months by vickydevoka(m): 4:05am On Jan 14, 2022 |
edunaragold:Women are like kids. You don't treat them based on their disposition. When the start acting film ( as I may call it), sit yourself down and it out the best solution to their problem. You wife denied you sex for the first 3 months n u are still approaching her, that's stupidity I'm this present age of social media. Their might be someone distracting her, making her to act they way she did. As a man stop been scared of divorce because the lady will feel nonchalant always. Apply wisdom by acting you don fùcking care, don't eat her food always, don't ask her sex, spend less time her at home, u can keep late nite atimes, pretend you have a side chick by making fake chats and playing around with you phone at her presence. Talk less and listen more during your conversation with her. Believe you in me, after 3 to 4 months she will want your attention. And when she does please do give her, tell her your reasons for you action. At this point be open to her by telling her you mind, your dos and donts. That's y u see some men you are better of financially, are enjoying their marriage. 1 Like |
Re: What I Did When My Wife Refused My Sexual Advancement For 7 Months by Kellibae(f): 4:06am On Jan 14, 2022 |
VickyRotex: Obviously from the post a smart person will know he is cheating recklessly even before the wife left...is even cheating that's why the woman no longer finds him attract. He has hiding a lot of things he should have told us what he did to make her wife find him irritating 1 Like |
Re: What I Did When My Wife Refused My Sexual Advancement For 7 Months by vickydevoka(m): 4:07am On Jan 14, 2022 |
franchasng:Are they going to return all de money that he spends |
Re: What I Did When My Wife Refused My Sexual Advancement For 7 Months by Microwhy: 4:08am On Jan 14, 2022 |
nairaman66:For how long? Only a married man with 5 years experience will understand. You think marriage and happiness is all about the wife. There are better things you need to put in place and think about after marriage. Raising a family require a lot of money. Surprise her, this is the most important of all. See that hair she always talk to you about? What about the dress? Or even food? They're important but irrelevant for mature couple. 2 Likes |
Re: What I Did When My Wife Refused My Sexual Advancement For 7 Months by BigIyanga: 4:09am On Jan 14, 2022 |
Hashabiah:And ur country is better? Since marriage is better in Naija.. why do we have 15m homeless kids roaming the streets?? |
Re: What I Did When My Wife Refused My Sexual Advancement For 7 Months by OlawaleBammie: 4:12am On Jan 14, 2022 |
Hashabiah:aaahhh u no dey think at all, the OS ur brain is using has bcom obselete tipetipe So before a man could endure a sexless marriage for a whopping seven months, do u know or imagine all sort of what he would have done?? What are u nurturing in the mind of ur woman dat says u irritates her?? U get brain at all? Marriage na do or die?? If the wife like make she go cheat na, who e epp?? 2 Likes |
Re: What I Did When My Wife Refused My Sexual Advancement For 7 Months by galantjoe(m): 4:15am On Jan 14, 2022 |
To be frank, if my wife deny sex consistently and still frowns when I greet another women, she must be witch. In that case, she want the marriage to crash. I was shocked to hear when Op said that his wife said he Op irritate her. Nawaoo, that is height of it. Some ladies are not matured psychologically and emotionally to go into marriage. They re going marriage because others are going into. I think your wife is one of such ladies. 1 Like |
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