NoQualmz:


Ask ur colleague in same office out?
U must be out of ya mind o...OP do not ask her out!!!

Is it new? Haven't u seen people who met in the office and got married.

This shows how shallow you are in your mind. Anything is possible.

Exceed15:
[s]Is it new? Haven't u seen people who met in the office and got married.

This shows how shallow you are in your mind. Anything is possible.[/s]

Op do not ask that woman out. Respect yourself and find a girl outside of ur workplce.

lordaltruist:
Thanks so much guys for all the contribution so far and let me be straight;

I could say it's an infatuation or deep likeness but even infatuations can lead to love at the end it's just how you want yours to end.

As a matter of fact, I just discovered she's in her mid 40's that to say she's 46 and I am just turning 30 and sincerely like I said, age does not limit or define my relationship and if it's about child bearing common that's the list of my worries.

I don't really know if she feels the same way for me but on many occasions whenever I tell her that I want to get a job somewhere else, she fumes seriously and most recently told me not to seek employment elsewhere with no reasons given.

I have observed we are both scare of talking about our relationship life because it will steer us into having a relationship and even though we have tried to be cautious about it, we could not still resist it at times.

Personally I don't do flips (short time romance), I am a long relationship guy and I do not consider age to be the defining factor for my relationship thus my concern is if she would not see age as a factor otherwise I can go all the way.

I have dated younger, young, old and older ladies before so I know what it takes to be in a relationship with someone way older than myself; I also understand that they are more matured than our yellow sisi walking about everywhere so why not do it.

Anyway your advises have really made me think twice and I think I would rather make her want me rather than going to her and sincerely I do not hesitate to woo a woman I want; I only give myself time to know the person very well (her outside personality) before jumping into the boat. So toasting no be my problem ghaghan.

Truth is, I have suffered too many heartbreak from all this our young yellow sisis and that's what drove me into dating mature ladies but I don't do married women ooo.

So I have just been in search of a true long lasting relationship and since my last experience, I find it difficult to toast a girl either my age bracket or even younger because I felt they are all the same, they would profess fake love to you and after draining you of your emotions, money, trust and patience, they would just trash you like nothing.

I am feeling this way with my colleague because she's been there for me all this while, she's been of a great help to me and I mean we talk virtually everything, family, friends (not the relationship friends as we always avoid that part), work and our personal life at times.

I mean she queries me if we are on holiday and I didn't call her, there are times she had planed (cooked, prepared movie we would watch) for me during our holiday but would not call me (I guess she doesn't want to be the one to press the button) only for me to discover she had been expecting me to call so she could ask me to come over.

So let me get it, is it just me or I am just imagining things?

I am not into what she could offer (these are not the reasons I go into a relationship); I am more of how I what it to end (for better and for worse and till death do us apart).

Sincerely I define my relationships only that I have met the wrong girls otherwise I would not have found myself in this situation, would I say lusting after my senior colleague or having a deep likeness for her; someone who is way older than myself.

Well I just hope it doesn't cost me my job. And anyways sincerely I just have to put it off cause of the risk involved. Hopefully one day I would find my missing rib.

Thank you all for your contributions, it really helped my decision.

I might be wrong but I think she has the hots for you too. You need to know how she sees you, does she see you like a son or a friend that could be a lover.

If you're a bit adventurous valentine is around the corner, cook some fine meals and invite her over.

Eat, drink, talk and dance with her to some sensual old music, while you guys dance you'll know if there's a connection.

Lastly, she's 46, she's a traditional woman, chances are she'll not ask you out directly. You should also talk about one or two past r/ships so you can open up her emotional side.

Ciao

raphroye:
Office relationships don't end well. Steer clear of her

Enough advice for the wise

BABYharder:
Una no get sense for this country?
Y you wan begin shit where you dey eat?

Lol allow him to learn the hard way na

Op what’s d latest?
Una don smash?
Are u still on d job?

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