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Re: My 29-Year-Old Son Still Wants Me To Be Feeding Him After Graduating by mechanics(m): 3:58pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
He should keep advising him to change, that's not a good attitude. |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Son Still Wants Me To Be Feeding Him After Graduating by DKM123: 4:00pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
This one too will be on nairaland screaming "Alfa mail" while his 29 year old mate is out there conquering the world and sending money home to his parents. 3 Likes |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Son Still Wants Me To Be Feeding Him After Graduating by Elsueno: 4:02pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
I still live in my papas estate....but us siblings handle 100% of thier bills & spendings..... Personally, I think no matter how little contribute to ur parents, if not in form of finance, u can do chores too....DONT BE A FREELOADER, even though u have every right to be as they are ur parents.... doesn't mean u should |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Son Still Wants Me To Be Feeding Him After Graduating by Kobojunkie: 4:02pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
DKM123:ROFLMAO 2 Likes |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Son Still Wants Me To Be Feeding Him After Graduating by Anaerobi(m): 4:03pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Golan007: How can he do that? Dad is trying to fix things in order, you are telling him to eject him . |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Son Still Wants Me To Be Feeding Him After Graduating by AFONAMARO: 4:06pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Lanretoye: Indeed, God have mercy on an entitled son who want to live off his retired/aged (widower) father who has struggled all his life to give him a decent tomorrow (education). I mean, a man who wants to remain a boy forever, couple with his lack of empathy (not showing concern for how is aged father is struggling to feed him even after retirement). Yes, God have mercy on him as well as his sympathisers! |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Son Still Wants Me To Be Feeding Him After Graduating by Franzee(m): 4:08pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
My own dad started earlier.... |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Son Still Wants Me To Be Feeding Him After Graduating by DrFunmisticGlow: 4:10pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Desusi:kick him out, or tell him to pay bills, don't let him touch your food or drink. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Son Still Wants Me To Be Feeding Him After Graduating by OMONGBALI: 4:12pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Naijanascam: It is sell, not sale. Why do Igbos make this mistake? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Son Still Wants Me To Be Feeding Him After Graduating by AlexB300: 4:17pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Old man dey find advice from kids on nairaland |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Son Still Wants Me To Be Feeding Him After Graduating by clericuzzio(m): 4:18pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Totilopussylick:a man of 60 is seeking advice on this forum and you are there making mockery of his post. I think you have lost you mind. |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Son Still Wants Me To Be Feeding Him After Graduating by BananaPeel(m): 4:19pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
I stayed with mum way above his age but at the end of every month when salary comes, I made my contributions. After moving out and married I still make that little token to mum. Things hard for Naija but nothing is too small to contribute as he is not paying rent. Upbringing matters a lot. It is like you provided every dime he needed all his growing up and schooling and didn't know how to give is. |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Son Still Wants Me To Be Feeding Him After Graduating by Malory: 4:20pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
TruthUntold:A 29 year old is still young.get that right |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Son Still Wants Me To Be Feeding Him After Graduating by efficiencie(m): 4:20pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Desusi: Report him to the police for trespassing on your property. Let him swim with the sharks of life. |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Son Still Wants Me To Be Feeding Him After Graduating by Chuksmonika(m): 4:23pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
JONNYSPUTE:This question is filled with so much wisdom. Parents should at the earliest possible time let their kids know that this life is not easy and not a bed of roses. How you raise your kids is how they will treat you in future. If you pamper them too much, you will make them too soft to face the challenges of life. |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Son Still Wants Me To Be Feeding Him After Graduating by UnimkeAk(m): 4:24pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Totilopussylick:Read , read, read Then comprehend |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Son Still Wants Me To Be Feeding Him After Graduating by afamaustin(m): 4:25pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
I have a brother that does the same character hi is a lecturer in one of the federal institution in Nigeria.He should be 28 years, Even to by pure water he wunt but when u buy he will be the first person to take. After all inquiry we find out is a kind of mental illness, and we don't HV option than to be managing him like that. 1 Like |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Son Still Wants Me To Be Feeding Him After Graduating by Nobody: 4:25pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Richy4: This is too harsh. If your father tells you to leave because of contribution, how will you feel? |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Son Still Wants Me To Be Feeding Him After Graduating by Mikeeytools: 4:26pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Tina001:many are made few are in nairaland. Very stupid human. No respect for age. |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Son Still Wants Me To Be Feeding Him After Graduating by OlawaleBammie: 4:27pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Mooh247: U get sense this tym, too much sense. Respect!!!! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Son Still Wants Me To Be Feeding Him After Graduating by Desusi: 4:28pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
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Re: My 29-Year-Old Son Still Wants Me To Be Feeding Him After Graduating by ORIAYO70(m): 4:29pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Flexherbal: My brother stinginess or been disoblige is a serious problem, from a child A narcissistic child will not change even when u call a conference meeting on him |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Son Still Wants Me To Be Feeding Him After Graduating by Nobody: 4:31pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
lexy2014:I thought it was only me that had this thought |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Son Still Wants Me To Be Feeding Him After Graduating by Dshocker(m): 4:34pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Malory: But its the gospel truth,in places like America,most parents sends their off spring away after college |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Son Still Wants Me To Be Feeding Him After Graduating by Desusi: 4:35pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
PrimadonnaO:Can you give me the site or the link to the movies |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Son Still Wants Me To Be Feeding Him After Graduating by Richy4(m): 4:36pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
lexy2014: Is there a particular age meant for people that comes online... Or is there an age limit that is above being advised |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Son Still Wants Me To Be Feeding Him After Graduating by aikyg(m): 4:39pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
What you are doing now is what you should have done twenty-three years ago, when he was just six. Now he is a man, it will take the grace of God for him to listen to whatever you are saying. The only way out is for you to relocate to the village and prepare to spend a year in the village. When he realizes that he is left alone in the city, he will be forced to find something to do to help himself. It's to late too correct him. The only thing that can correct him now is hunger. |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Son Still Wants Me To Be Feeding Him After Graduating by Desusi: 4:40pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
medriano:Thanks for your advice sir. |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Son Still Wants Me To Be Feeding Him After Graduating by mukthar2000(m): 4:43pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Most u depend on the little boy to reciprocate? Why most parents so much depend on the childs that just started a new life, forgoting that it's their responsibility to support the child to his or her confort stage in life |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Son Still Wants Me To Be Feeding Him After Graduating by emmykk(m): 4:44pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Desusi: This son of yours is not ambitious I m 42 now when I finished services in 2009 as soon as I left camp from Katsina I went to Benin city and pick up a job that was just paying me 18000. I only worked for 3months and went to PH to squat with my younger brother who was working and I Scot portharcourt for job until I found one. You need to send him away or you travel and stay somewhere for 3 months to see how he cope |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Son Still Wants Me To Be Feeding Him After Graduating by OlawaleBammie: 4:44pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Klass99: Auntie oooohhhhh I swear we re same thing, i swear. If not that my parent and people around have bn saying i want to be irresponsible walahi i have said i dont want to give birth more than once, even at that sef it wont be more than two. Aunty i love mysef abeg, i come this life alone and i have bn suffering since alone, and i dont want to continue the suffering cus if one child/children. Anu money i gather is to take care of my sef and the two children(i can still manage to take care of two children) Even if i become billionaire tomorrow, the real goal is to take care of mysef biko. Its my life and not the children life. My own is to take responsibility on them til dey become adult and can stand on their own firmly. |
Re: My 29-Year-Old Son Still Wants Me To Be Feeding Him After Graduating by JONNYSPUTE(m): 4:46pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Chuksmonika:....Thank you. But the op has refused to answer it. Meaning he is also at fault. 1 Like |
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