TheNiceGuy:
Dude is a retarrd already

You need psychological care seriously, it's not your fault, it's what you went through.

May God help you out

TheNiceGuy:
What transpired TheGidredpiller

Why did you become like this?

Kobojunkie:
1. These are your very words describing this same OP. How could he be all of the above, and also be mentally incapable? Where you lying earlier ?

2. I have good reason not to want to dwell on the experiences anymore because I realize now that there will always be those with these terrible experiences. If you listen long enough to all of these stories, you will realize that when it comes to processing trauma, in all forms, we go through pretty much similar phases as humans, and in each decisions are made. So, it no longer matter how bad one's experience was.

3. I don't subscribe to the idea of forgiving and forgetting. It isn't like you erase the memories away or something. Also, if you are someone who struggles with depression as a result of the trauma, and you are not getting treatment, there is probably no forgetting, and are more likely to eventually commit suicide as a result of the horrors of your past eventually overwhelming you. However, when it comes to who you chose to be as a person, you have power to choose not to inflict the same horrors on your fellow man.

OlawaleBammie:


Abeg shutup joor


The guy said he was molested at early stage, wil u b hapy if ur mother molest u??

Zonefree:
You owe no one no explanation how you treat your mum. One should not sow Maize and expect to reap Plasma television.

toprealman:


If it makes you happy calling me names, It's all good. If we give him time to share his story in detail, we probably will get a clearer view of what he is trying to say.

TheGidRedpiller:
I'm sorry for the fact that the free offer ends today though.

yongg:
1.To your point 1, It was preceded by a "what if" na... It's a possible scenario based off your logic.

To your point 2, I felt that. That's a conviction I sometimes employ. It's like a reset, intentional tabula rasa... A fresh start. However, it's done very selectively.

3. I personally fret at the thought of becoming what I disliked... It ends up making the initial protest pointless.
My wish is healing to all

tayo60:
God bless you for helping her, your own children too will help you.

TheGidRedpiller:
Front page again. No problem.

For those asking why i would talk about this on social media, NOBODY in their right mind will express themselves so broadly the way i always do, not even I can do that, that is the essence my ANONYMOUSITY!!

Have Sense!!

MODIFIED; I have a purpose for sharing this, and i'm already achieving it, you have absolutely no idea how many young males out there are dying under the influences of abusive mothers!
When this kind of topic surfaces, everybody only wants to believe that only men can be abusive to their children, nobody wants to know that there are different types and levels of abuse!
I am anonymous FOR A REASON, i am a mirror portrayal of what many males out there don't have the balls to show the public, who wants to negotiate a molested boy? Who wants to think a woman is a bad person towards her son? NOBODY!!

ABSOLUTELY NOBODY!! Your son is next if you are not watchful,i am bitter and misogynistic, i accept but how did i become like this ASK THAT QUESTION FIRST! GOD!

Beremx:
that’s what redpilling has turned him to be. He has developed a deep hatred for his mother. I am a little bit relieved he dropped money for his mother to take care of her health. My fear was that this type of cursed soul could kill his mother

07kjb:
On behalf of nature I hereby cancel the curse that your mom placed on you,you are free like a bird

TheGidRedpiller:
Everybody here is advicing me to go get therapy, but my question here is: Would I Be Needing To Be Psychologically Evaluated If It Was An Abusive Father I Was Talking About

TheGidRedpiller:
Everybody here is advicing me to go get therapy, but my question here is: Would I Be Needing To Be Psychologically Evaluated If It Was An Abusive Father I Was Talking About

NamelessOGBENI:

It's all good.

chinchum:
The Op's pain appears valid, he is hurt !. he was sexually abused by a woman, his mother did not show enough respect by bringing men to their home, while not married to those men; His mother prioritised fashion over the daughters education. To add salt to injury, she cursed the young man for not supporting her with money. She is feeling entitled to the son's money. It is high time African parents realised no child begged to be born and behave responsibly. We are all products of our experiences.


It is important to acknowledge that Op spoke in the place of emotional pain, and disappointment and still succumbed to providing assistance to the mother.

Stargurl20:

Smiles. Birds of a feather.
I wasn't talking to u. I was referring to all women seeing my comments. So pls, stay off my comments.

TheGidRedpiller:
My post got to front page yesterday, it's still in my profile if you want to re-live it.

Let me tell you something real quick, learn to count your blessings accurately, if you come out of a very warm and functional family, you are BLESSED beyond deserved! Some of us wished we never even surfaced because it's obviously better than having to go through what we are going through on the daily basis!!

I posted yesterday out of sheer ANGER, RESENTMENT AND VENGEANCE. I was insulted yesterday, of course, what was I expecting anyways Everybody just started emphasizing on the curse she was spewing at me and the fact that I do not have a choice but to be degrade myself to her every demand simply because she is my mother, but absolutely nobody paid attention to what I have achieved, I clearly stated out where I helped my immediate younger brother to good heights with his artistic processes!!

It looked as though my mother's curse on me was more important than the impact I'm making to everyone around me simply because she is my mother, I will not hesitate to add that I know all this support is very tagged to the fact that my mother is a WOMAN!! And as such, she should be more important than every other thing I have to say! Nobody cared about ME, my wellbeing, nobody even wanted to pay attention to the awful things she has done which I clearly mentioned too though, nobody paid attention to the fact that I helped my brother gather connections in the US, UK and currently INDIA, NOBODY!!

That's exactly what the world looks like gentlemen, if you are a man reading this, you should know the take aways you should do!!

Still Typing...

Palema007:
Lol...nah.. I'm not deflecting just wondering the personal issue op got with his Mom. Reading your reference I still see no personal issues either. Op is just demonstrating an inherited hatred here. Yes he can be angry with her for her deeds but not this hatred he bears for her. No right thinking child would like his mom bringing men to her matrimonial home but Op has gone overboard with his apathy for his mother.

The right question any sane being who would want to help and not crucify will ask is, has she been that way before she lost her husband? Who knows like Op, she may be a person who doesn't handle loss or situations well. This is not to justify her act but to redeem her.

To me, Op is one of those people who expect so much from others that they feel so bitter when these people fail to reach their expectations. He expected his mom to just move on with life normally and uprightly after the loss of her husband failing to realize people differ and some need extra help.

Op expected her to be a MOTHER without realizing that MOTHERHOOD is far beyond naturally imbed attributes but deliberate effort through sacrifices, mistakes, experience, lessons and so on. Not that I blame him but he shouldn't have allowed her failure get so much to him.

Ahhhhhhhh I know there are deadbeat mothers, they are not common but they exist. But my point is Op can do better jare.

marsman:

This is enough reason to hate a parent, but with all the hate you will just continue to hurt your self, because she is an important part in your life, that you can never give up. She gave you life, there are women out there who didn't wait hrs, after hearing they were pregnant before flushing the zygot to hell, but your mum waited a total of 9 months to push you out. I am not in your shoes brother, and i don't think any sane human will wish this on some one else, but i believe for the sake of letting you live and witness life, she deserves some respect if not much. We respect those we dont even know.
The OP did not even go through half of what you went through, his own problem is that his mom was not a good figure, i will probably feel the same if i were you guys, but one thing this world has taught me is that hate is a deadly disease

cococandy:
What exactly did your mother do to YOU.
I mean you specifically

Skyview01:
Not quite, the reverse is the case. It is not neccessarily Redpill that is the cause of hatred for the mom.
But rather, all negative experiences in his upbringing led him Redpill.

Skyview01:
There is your problem my friend. I have a relative with a very toxic father who has consistently abused her psychologically and emotionally for more than 20 years now and she never turned out bitter against all men. At some point in live, you have to live by your own choices and stop being products of your past.

You still need to seek professional help.

Kobojunkie:
Very good question !