ibechris:


Well,I wash my wife's clothes...u said it is pant.
U feel bad because u are a failure and angry for having failed both at home and society.

It is ego like this that makes some of u see women are as property...I simply adore my wife because I cherished her and my children alot.

If washing her clothes makes u sick,so be it. I don't care how stupid it makes u feel. What I know is, i wash my wife clothes and she in turn do more for me.

To even shock u more,I fuel her car weekly and make sure I personally clean her car myself,hence I am so proud of her and I don't care how u feel about it.

I am sure u are a wondering single man with a bleak future,a misogynist I guess!
I didn't cause your problem but your ego is...take it easy. I married my wife and she is the best for me and go marry yours and treat her like a trash (that is ur problem).

I am sure, your ego has brought u unprecedented wealth?
Use your "Ego" to create wealth and stop disturbing us that are married.

UyaiIncomparabl:


It beats my imagination because these men will never meet half the standards they set for women. And I am not capping! They want virgins, but ain't virgins. They want a woman who can cook, clean, be a mistress in the bedroom and also a top-performing manager at work like Alakija, while they are under performers.

They can't meet half of what they set.

UyaiIncomparabl:
I saw this post on Facebook and it makes me question myself asking what "Nigerian men want". It irks me so bad.

Women have been debased to NOTHING that a chore has become a yardstick in choosing a wife. I keep asking myself if God did not make a mistake to have given the headship to them from the beginning.

And now, I'll reiterate this here. I also don't care about the reactions it brings. It's not my business how you feel but I must say this to men- DO NOT SET UNNECESSARY STANDARDS THAT YOU WON'T MEET. Read that again. Would he have washed the girl's father's or mother's clothes if turns were switched? NO. Many men here won't either. It degrades them after all. ONLY women should cower and wash g-pee tanks because they want to marry. Marriage only favours the women after all. It's the women who do these things I blame. You don't rate yourselves.

If you try this with me, I'll FAIL your test woefully. It is the audacity to make this a post for me. They make marriage seem so unpalatable and dramatic.

Manners should tell you that you do not sweep when a guest is around. It is ABSOLUTELY rude and that shows that you do not even respect me enough to have kept your abode neat before my arrival. And that to me, is a RED FLAG!

It also tells me that "I am not welcome in your abode". I am immensely glad that the girl in the story dodged a bullet. Good riddance.

Signed; Bitterleaf Feminist.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
While some Dumbos will say "if you ain't a virgin then you deserve no man" like WTF?
The Dumbo who made that statement is prolly a wh**re himself but deem it fit and cool to tell a woman what and what not to do..

Kobojunkie:
Go to your college campuses and you will find plenty of them even there. They aren't rich, and many are jobless. Many of them depend on handouts they get from some of the girls they bed.

Jeon:
LOL..

IF YOU LIKE GO DIVIDE UR HEAD INTO SEVEN PIECES OR ACT LIKE AN ANCIENT BLACK SLAVE, YOU WILL STILL BE HATED FOR BEING A SISTER IN-LAW IN SOME FAMILY .

so no time to please anyone.... just be yourself.

talk2hb1:
Las Las Everyone go get him own spec, virgin ooo, Mumu man Ooo, Submissive housegirlwife ooo, Tall Handsome Rich,...

KoshCAD:
The question is who are you?

President of Nigeria or God.

Are you okay mrs?

As in, are you normal?


Asking me if I can say it to your face, I will not only say that, I will say worst and slap you.

I feed someone like you.

nafama:
Look babe, you are wrong. I feel like you are saying this out of share hatred or pains you have for the male gender. Just like the way a lady will not want to settle less for a guy beyond her standards so do guys. This whole stuff had nothing to do with standard, the girl is not well groomed. This is Africa and the female gender should understand that certain culture still holds

I should be asking you if you know what you are talking about. It is insolence to sweep when a guest is around, especially with the entitlement mentality that she should have taken the stress off you. Who asked you? Wait and let me be gone then you can sweep your house.

It simply tells the guest that you don't welcome them. Learn simple manners. Why must it be when a guest is around the mother chooses to sweep?

UyaiIncomparabl:


Mumu talk.

UyaiIncomparabl:


I would never do the same. I have no right to choose for my sons. What my son wants is what I will let him choose. It's none of my business. Why should I care? They only have my blessings, that's all.

I also will never do stupid tests. I am too educated and modern for that. If any guy tries that with me, break up straight. Shows your family is poverty-ridden and minded.

Think4Myself:
That's why I said "read below the PS"

I don't know when you graduated but right now go to any real public uni, you'll see a lot of Yahoo boys, who own cars. If you're not doing Yahoo, you won't get as many lays as those doing. It's simply not possible abeg. Same with the dudes who get "handouts" from their rich parents. Plus you're bringing uni even tho uni guys aren't expected to have any money on a normal

Are you even a male cos this thing is really obvious for dudes ask any of your male friends if you're a female

KristaPretty:
I think to each his own

Women also have standards, allow men have

No woman wants a broke man now, but the broke women feel they can still be jobless and deserve to be with a rich man

If a man sets his standards, don't cry. Set your standards too!!!

Life is really not as hard as we make it and I think this post wasn't necessary

For every standard set, there are a million and one people willing to meet up to that, men or women

Regards

Kobojunkie:
Do you have the very same home training yourself?

KristaPretty:
I think to each his own

Women also have standards, allow men have

No woman wants a broke man now, but the broke women feel they can still be jobless and deserve to be with a rich man

If a man sets his standards, don't cry. Set your standards too!!!

Life is really not as hard as we make it and I think this post wasn't necessary

For every standard set, there are a million and one people willing to meet up to that, men or women

Regards

UyaiIncomparabl:


I don't agree with you. Sorry.

Kobojunkie:
No you did not. Instead what you did was say something about washing of a car which for more people is sacrosanct .I.e. nor a chore for just anyone..

PROPEACE:

Men too must assist their fathers in law if they walk into their homes and find them working, it is not necessarily a gender thing. You are making a mountain out of molehill.

Kobojunkie:
Yet another one of Africa's foolish traditions.

What that woman saw was her own ignorance and arrogance reflected back at her and rather than face it head on she blamed the girl for revealing it to her. Her own son disrespected her in front of a stranger because she didn't raise him well enough is what was revealed in this..

Dangrace01:
Stop shifting goal post
Think and answer if you can't think of anything obviously you cant
Shut up and learn.
Home training is the basis of making a good home.

nafama:
What don't you agree??

ChuksHills:
Oh no wonder, I thought you are a male.
Yes it is an Africa's foolish traditions because we live in Africa and not throw away our culture. Culturally the guy didn't disrespect his mum. What transpired between the girl and the woman is a woman thing.

Kobojunkie:
The question is simple. Do you have the same home training you so conveniently judge others on?

In this case, the mother in question was quick to judge another person's child on home training she didn't give even her own son. Don't you see how disjointed that is?.

advanceDNA:


Yeeeeeeeee!!!
See overflow of sense...

You sure you are woman??

UyaiIncomparabl:


You are a guest. My dad will never oblige your request.

emmanuelbrown26:

I HEAR U SIR. COMR SIR, PERMIT ME TO CONTINUE D VAVULENCE

Kobojunkie:
So men can't assist their mothers and mother-in-laws?

It is not a gender thing which it obviously seems to be?,

KristaPretty:


Women too get sense nau lol

We also have dumb guys o

Dangrace01:
Nobody is judging anybody. I asked her that particular question because she said home training dont equate good wife

UyaiIncomparabl:


If they could sweep before my presence, it tells me that they are very dirty, have no emotional intelligence on how to treat guests regardless of the relationship, and the son needs more home training from his mother because he should have been the one to collect the broom from her.

Stupid culture.

advanceDNA:


Men...??
You posted just one man's twitter post.., yet you are angry with all men for his opinion...
Well..you are entitled to your views.....im sure the many guys feel the same way about the female gender too
No one one is perfect....why not find yourself a man thats not hypocritical and leave the men that want their wives to care for the home... belive me, some women are happy to care for their home...no pretence