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Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by ChuksHills(m): 1:43pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Many children or men should know that they are the retirement plans of their parents when they are old. The son and the wife they are the people that will take care of them when they are old. A man or a woman that doesn't show concern toward their future in-laws it is a big red flag not to ignore. There is an adage that says "what an old person can see why sitting down a young person can not see why standing". That woman saw something in that girl. 1 Like |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Kobojunkie: 1:44pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
kernniejay:I love to see the confusion you all exude. So why again do you greet only your father in the morning? Why not extend that same respect to every human being you meet each morning instead? Why are you sisters alone to help your mom in the kitchen? Are you and your brothers Lepers that you somehow can't help your own mother in the kitchen? 2. If you already pay maids or robots to do all of your chores for you, then why do it yourself? The money you pay them you work for , don't you?, 3. Unsubscribe from foolishness and it will abandon you in time.. 1 Like |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by KristaPretty(f): 1:45pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
I think to each his own Women also have standards, allow men have No woman wants a broke man now, but the broke women feel they can still be jobless and deserve to be with a rich man If a man sets his standards, don't cry. Set your standards too!!! Life is really not as hard as we make it and I think this post wasn't necessary For every standard set, there are a million and one people willing to meet up to that, men or women Regards 4 Likes |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Kobojunkie: 1:45pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
Konjiboii:But there is commonsense in a son disrespecting his one mother ? 1 Like |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by 30naira: 1:46pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl: If it is a small girl that meets my standard, so be it. I will marry her. You should find a man that meets your own standard, instead of judging mine. We will never drop our expectations because you cannot meet up to it 3 Likes |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by emmanuelbrown26: 1:46pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
Transcriber:Baba waiting we gain if we no counter all these daughters of eve |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by BRATISLAVA: 1:46pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
yusufmurry: She shouldn't have a child? Or what are you trying to tell us? That because she's 40 she dare not have a child? Or that she should be childless because she's a feminist? You need to grow up. Now, according to your tale, she has a child, and you can't call her womb destroyed, so what other unrealistic standard will you have for her next? That she can't get married because she's 40+ and has a child? You lot are laughable. Even if you insult females all day, it will not make them drop their standards to accommodate your unrealistic standards for them. The threats of growing old and childless are pointless when there's IVF, and when there are willing gigolos everywhere. 2 Likes |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Konjiboii: 1:47pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: You are just all over the place, stick to the post. |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Kobojunkie: 1:47pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
Think4Myself:It is just bad! Male whores don't necessarily have lots of money. Like other kinds of whores, a good number of them give sex is exchange for money. Many are mooches or leeches. 1 Like |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Harmony92(f): 1:48pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
Maverick777:U are very insultive weda axe or house I dey my axe come beat me since abbreviation na rule breaker 4 Nairaland.It is all ur female relatives dat are DUMB N FOOLISH n I am very happy that you finally realized that not every woman in Nigeria treat their son's gfs or wives like ur family members. If you have any woman like that boy's mom in your family please educate them n make dem understand that using sweeping as a criteria for a good wife is outdated ok. A woman can clean ur gate and mop ur suckaway pit n still bring out her character after marriage alright. |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Kobojunkie: 1:49pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
PROPEACE:No you did not. Instead what you did was say something about washing of a car which for more people is sacrosanct .I.e. nor a chore for just anyone.. 1 Like |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Gbadebo19(m): 1:49pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl:What a stupid writeup. One thing you people or feminist call yourself is that you fail to realize that not all aspects of civilization would be swallowed hook, line and sinker in Africa. A girl went to her inlaws house, saw the mother in law sweeping and raised her leg, it is a total show of lack of home training. Always remember that you are still in Africa and Africa is not ripe for all your stupid and nonsense campaign of equality or weird desires. Can a man come to your house as a son in law, find your father weeding and sit down, cross his legs? |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Kobojunkie: 1:52pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
ChuksHills:Yet another one of Africa's foolish traditions. What that woman saw was her own ignorance and arrogance reflected back at her and rather than face it head on she blamed the girl for revealing it to her. Her own son disrespected her in front of a stranger because she didn't raise him well enough is what was revealed in this.. 1 Like |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Kobojunkie: 1:52pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
Konjiboii:Look whose talking! |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by chii8(f): 1:53pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl: The only mistake the lady made to my own opinion was not leaving the house immediately she sighted a broom in someone's hand.In Africa,if you sweep in my presence, it's a subtle way of saying I should leave, the girl should have walked out immediately.The woman didn't like her, it's not a test,Biko. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Maverick777: 1:53pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
Harmony92:If you noticed, I specifically stayed away from insulting or even referring to your family after countless provocations from you, you know why, the moment one is quick to bring family members into an argument, it simply means him/her has no regards whatsoever for his/her own. So I really do not blame you. From all ramifications, you are a definition of everything bad and a disgrace to your gender. as you were.. |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Ebenezer4141(m): 1:54pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Yes. Simple as that |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Pimine: 1:54pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl:According to who? Na you wan marry yourself? |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Dangrace01: 1:55pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
Harmony92: If you dont have home training how can you be a good wife. Cool down think and answer |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Kobojunkie: 1:57pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
Ebenezer4141:Wow.... no wonder many of you end up miserable not long after. 1 Like |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Kobojunkie: 1:57pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
Dangrace01:Do you have the very same home training yourself? 1 Like |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Nobody: 1:59pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Be deceiving yourself, this isn't even redpill, it's common sense. Go call Elon musk hoe if he nor go laugh you. PS, I'm not talking about dude's that sleep with prostitutes, that one is too easy na , I'm talking about normal women in urban areas not villages where you can bleep anyone if you buy them biscuit |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Kobojunkie: 2:00pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
Think4Myself:You are kidding, right? So in your mental, the average man_whore out there is as rich as Elon musk? Go to your college campuses and you will find plenty of them even there. They aren't rich, and many are jobless. Many of them depend on handouts they get from some of the girls they bed. 1 Like |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Boomboost(m): 2:00pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl: You can't take insults but you can give them |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Nobody: 2:01pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Read after the "PS" |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Kobojunkie: 2:04pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
Think4Myself:Go to your college campuses and you will find plenty of them even there. They aren't rich, and many are jobless. Many of them depend on handouts they get from some of the girls they bed. 1 Like |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by BESTScientist1: 2:04pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
What a terrible reasoning....... you're probably a teenager but if you're not your case is irredeemable UyaiIncomparabl: |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Great0ne1: 2:05pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
UpInTheSky:You do have a point though. If he was actually well brought up, he would never allow his mom to sweep, in the first place 3 Likes |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by Maverick777: 2:06pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
Boomboost:She's bipolar bro. pay less attention to her and her silly tantrums. |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by nafama(m): 2:06pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
Look babe, you are wrong. I feel like you are saying this out of share hatred or pains you have for the male gender. Just like the way a lady will not want to settle less for a guy beyond her standards so do guys. This whole stuff had nothing to do with standard, the girl is not well groomed. This is Africa and the female gender should understand that certain culture still holds I should be asking you if you know what you are talking about. It is insolence to sweep when a guest is around, especially with the entitlement mentality that she should have taken the stress off you. Who asked you? Wait and let me be gone then you can sweep your house. It simply tells the guest that you don't welcome them. Learn simple manners. Why must it be when a guest is around the mother chooses to sweep? [/quote] |
Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by BOSMANARIS(m): 2:07pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
advanceDNA: Nice points as I've got to type. Funniest part, most of these ladies dishing out advices like these, na dem dey do am pass but like coming online to spill what they can't do. Take study of them in real life and see for yourself who truly they are. If you're not good with someone's opinion, why should yours be good with mine. We see life from different perspectives and we deal with it divers ways. WHAT IS PAINING YOU? |
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