Hmmm

Run for your life, if you ever marry that guy you are finished.

MaryAye:
After taking the advice of meaningful nairlanders on this https://www.nairaland.com/7341050/he-wants-date-he-doesnt.

This is the aftermath.

I arranged for a meet-up with him to discuss my supposed assumptions. He told me, "he doesn't hate my child, but he feels my son was gargling like a mewling child."

I asked him to elucidate. Which he did and I politely told him that if he gargled, it was because he's still four. I think he should give my son time and establish a friendly relationship with him.

It was like my pep talks rattled him and he immediately slapped me that I have insulted him and trapped his pride. I was like, what!!!

This was a harmless discussion. Why did you slap me? He started apologising. He said he didn't know what came over him.

I told him to leave my shop. I told him I will call him when I'm less angry.
To me, I wanted to pipe low and take his word for it. He asked for some money to take bolt home because he didn't come out with cash. I went into the shop and gave him.

After that day I didn't call him or wanted to have anything to do with him. To my greatest surprise yesterday, he came to my shop and started assaulting me so that I can't leave. I was like, I never wanted to date you before. I was just considering your proposal.

That little tussle was what led to him scattering the fruits I bought. My neighbours came to our shop and before I knew it, he has raze all my goods.

My neighbours called the market chairman and they bungled him to the police station.

What is wrong with men this day? I didn't collect anything from him. Thank God I took the advice of nairalanders. You guys helped me to identify this before going into it.

Thank you, all.

@MaryAye
God saved u!
That guy would have made life a living hell for u & ur son. Don't go back him to o! U sounded like someone already in love

Weirdcamila:
Where do you all find this lunatics

They are all over the place hiding under nice clothes, good perfume, a good job or business and plenty English.

It's after you start dating them that you'll see them for who they are.

I'm really afraid for single ladies in my life.

MaryAye:
After taking the advice of meaningful nairlanders on this https://www.nairaland.com/7341050/he-wants-date-he-doesnt.

This is the aftermath.

I arranged for a meet-up with him to discuss my supposed assumptions. He told me, "he doesn't hate my child, but he feels my son was gargling like a mewling child."

I asked him to elucidate. Which he did and I politely told him that if he gargled, it was because he's still four. I think he should give my son time and establish a friendly relationship with him.

It was like my pep talks rattled him and he immediately slapped me that I have insulted him and trapped his pride. I was like, what!!!

This was a harmless discussion. Why did you slap me? He started apologising. He said he didn't know what came over him.

I told him to leave my shop. I told him I will call him when I'm less angry.
To me, I wanted to pipe low and take his word for it. He asked for some money to take bolt home because he didn't come out with cash. I went into the shop and gave him.

After that day I didn't call him or wanted to have anything to do with him. To my greatest surprise yesterday, he came to my shop and started assaulting me so that I can't leave. I was like, I never wanted to date you before. I was just considering your proposal.

That little tussle was what led to him scattering the fruits I bought. My neighbours came to our shop and before I knew it, he has raze all my goods.

My neighbours called the market chairman and they bungled him to the police station.

What is wrong with men this day? I didn't collect anything from him. Thank God I took the advice of nairalanders. You guys helped me to identify this before going into it.

Thank you, all.

before you go station and ask them to release him, you better know his family house, his sister house and some details because the guy might do worst after he's release (might not be immediately he got out of cell) . his parents must sign undertaking that nothing must happen to you otherwise if their son run away, they will be arrested. tell them you are gentle person ,if anything happened to you in the future ,it's their son behind it.

maybe the idiot need to be coming to station every month (once in a month ) ,it's called Probation in usa, when someone is free but not totally free because they need to be sure it's changed person after some months or year

goshikid:
Says a girl that looks like an ape, teeth like rake, face like nyash Eyes like frog, mouth like vulture

I dey enter you to eyes abi?
Good things aren't for cretins like you.
Meanwhile, Shey na cos you no fine make you no fine make you no use your pic?
Hope dey for you if you bleach. Be like Bobrisky.

Come and teach me how to write

This just shows u that na tout the guy be, destroy ur goods? When the relationship never even start, even if he is ur boyfriend sef he has no right to do what he did, also make sure he writes an undertaking that he il not come close to u r ur child, at ur shop or home , or anywhere.

Sweetplum:
I dey enter you to eyes abi?
Good things aren't for cretins like you.
Meanwhile, Shey na cos you no fine make you no fine make you no use your pic?
Hope dey for you if you bleach. Be like Bobrisky.

I no fit post my picture for here Make u no go masturbate with am

Sweetplum:

I feel like saying you should DM me and let me teach you how to handle him spiritually. He need to cough it somehow.
Anyways, God is the greatest. Leave him to God.

Spiritually ke?

Stop that nonsense you are bragging with

Sweetplum:

She need to raise people that ll help him pay some amount

it's good op back out earlier. I thought the guy give him money to set up business but hell no.

op should just release him and make him sign undertaking, op must know his family house incase the idiot try to be stupid after months or weeks

Good you broke up, but next time, don't just date a guy because he made you h.orny, but because he is a good man, and a good man will most likely not make you Hot, that's the trade off. So you must bear either the suffering of pain or regret.

The suffering of pain will be killing that part of you that is attracted to the wrong kind of men, the designer boyfriends, that spend all their time horning their looks but rotten inside. A good man may not have six packs, may be short, and lack roasting skills, but you won't suffer at all in his arms.

Or you bear the burden of regret, that is to be with a wrong man because he has mastered the art of attractions, he knows what tingles women and he trains himself for that. He says sweet words, make you feel good, but will never treat you good. You're just a plate to him. To pump and dump.

Because me I'm wondering what are the things you saw in him that got you attracted? Since he has no character, what are his positive side? I assumed that he is attractive, because I see many young girls makes such mistakes. An attractive man is a good man, even if he is the devil himself.

In every bad Relationship/Marriage there must always be a red flag from the beginning

PaNnamdi:

U sound like an apology woman,why coming to nairaland to ask people.i can't keep a gossip of a woman as man

And that's the only thing you can remember in the whole write up

MaryAye:
After taking the advice of meaningful nairlanders on this https://www.nairaland.com/7341050/he-wants-date-he-doesnt.

This is the aftermath.

I arranged for a meet-up with him to discuss my supposed assumptions. He told me, "he doesn't hate my child, but he feels my son was gargling like a mewling child."

I asked him to elucidate. Which he did and I politely told him that if he gargled, it was because he's still four. I think he should give my son time and establish a friendly relationship with him.

It was like my pep talks rattled him and he immediately slapped me that I have insulted him and trapped his pride. I was like, what!!!

This was a harmless discussion. Why did you slap me? He started apologising. He said he didn't know what came over him.

I told him to leave my shop. I told him I will call him when I'm less angry.
To me, I wanted to pipe low and take his word for it. He asked for some money to take bolt home because he didn't come out with cash. I went into the shop and gave him.

After that day I didn't call him or wanted to have anything to do with him. To my greatest surprise yesterday, he came to my shop and started assaulting me so that I can't leave. I was like, I never wanted to date you before. I was just considering your proposal.

That little tussle was what led to him scattering the fruits I bought. My neighbours came to our shop and before I knew it, he has raze all my goods.

My neighbours called the market chairman and they bungled him to the police station.

What is wrong with men this day? I didn't collect anything from him. Thank God I took the advice of nairalanders. You guys helped me to identify this before going into it.

Thank you, all.

Make very very sure he's charged to court and rots in Jail...if you venture leave that case half or not see it to it's logical conclusion...don't ever come back here... AGAIN!!

Drugs working on him
You're a devil as well

Sweetplum:

I feel like saying you should DM me and let me teach you how to handle him spiritually. He need to cough it somehow.
Anyways, God is the greatest. Leave him to God.

Hmmmm!
Wehdone spiritual master...

chatinent:

Stop forcing yourself on anyone. If you have a child, yes shit happens and the child has come to stay. Don't let anyone treat you like a pity excuse. You are the most important person in your world too.



Sorry, I don't get this.

You guys were having a discussion and he stood up, frowned, moved his hand close to your cheeks, then slapped you? As in I don't understand. Ko ye mi. Reality doesn't seem to work that way.

That girl is fantasizing...
She's a pained baby mama leave her alone

What, he must pay for your goods he destroyed, in fact, charge him to court for damages.
What kind of man is that.

MaryAye:


He's so broke. He can't afford it. I will have to start all over again with the fruit biz. I will have to look for another money to continue the biz.

He's still looking for a job to keep soul and body together. I will leave him with God. At least my life was not taken.

Thank God for your life; never assume that all men are like him, he has anger problem and you must stay away from from people with anger problems.

Once again, look after your son and stay away from bitter people.

Romanoff:


They are all over the place hiding under nice clothes, good perfume, a good job or business and plenty English.

It's after you start dating them that you'll see them for who they are.

I'm really afraid for single ladies in my life.

You are right , women should try to see beyond looks and try to access the mental soundness of this lunatics that approach them for relationships

I know a man that stopped his wife from working as a government official because he’s afraid she will have more power and money .
Most men in Nigeria are plainly stupid, especially the alpha male sects.

Eazie351:
pep talk made him slap you bah?

not an advocate of anyone but your words must have stung him like a slap.

people won't see that cos "of course, a man should never....blah! yen yen yen"

You only saw the slap, right?

What about her business that he vandalized, what could have provoked a man to such level of consciously destroying a lady's business he contributed nothing to, if not the man is a useless idiot?

goshikid:
I no fit post my picture for here Make u no go masturbate with am

Am chatting with a kid.

MaryAye:
After taking the advice of meaningful nairlanders on this https://www.nairaland.com/7341050/he-wants-date-he-doesnt.

This is the aftermath.

I arranged for a meet-up with him to discuss my supposed assumptions. He told me, "he doesn't hate my child, but he feels my son was gargling like a mewling child."

I asked him to elucidate. Which he did and I politely told him that if he gargled, it was because he's still four. I think he should give my son time and establish a friendly relationship with him.

It was like my pep talks rattled him and he immediately slapped me that I have insulted him and trapped his pride. I was like, what!!!

This was a harmless discussion. Why did you slap me? He started apologising. He said he didn't know what came over him.

I told him to leave my shop. I told him I will call him when I'm less angry.
To me, I wanted to pipe low and take his word for it. He asked for some money to take bolt home because he didn't come out with cash. I went into the shop and gave him.

After that day I didn't call him or wanted to have anything to do with him. To my greatest surprise yesterday, he came to my shop and started assaulting me so that I can't leave. I was like, I never wanted to date you before. I was just considering your proposal.

That little tussle was what led to him scattering the fruits I bought. My neighbours came to our shop and before I knew it, he has raze all my goods.

My neighbours called the market chairman and they bungled him to the police station.

What is wrong with men this day? I didn't collect anything from him. Thank God I took the advice of nairalanders. You guys helped me to identify this before going into it.

Thank you, all.

That last statement what is wrong with men this day?
Not all men madam
A child in adult body approach you with tourch of anger issue to don't compare him to other men
Move on with your life better suitor will locate you soon

Someone that cann't afford uber money
Eleribu

To me, I wanted to pipe low and take his word for it. He asked for some money to take bolt home because he didn't come out with cash. I went into the shop and gave him.





He's a leech who saw your son as competition.

Eazie351:
pep talk made him slap you bah?

not an advocate of anyone but your words must have stung him like a slap.

people won't see that cos "of course, a man should never....blah! yen yen yen"

Only a weak man slaps a woman thinking he’s exercising authority

chatinent:

Stop forcing yourself on anyone. If you have a child, yes shit happens and the child has come to stay. Don't let anyone treat you like a pity excuse. You are the most important person in your world too.



Sorry, I don't get this.

You guys were having a discussion and he stood up, frowned, moved his hand close to your cheeks, then slapped you? As in I don't understand. Ko ye mi. Reality doesn't seem to work that way.

What is dificult for you to understand. Abi you just like gossip ?

MaryAye:


He's so broke. He can't afford it. I will have to start all over again with the fruit biz. I will have to look for another money to continue the biz.

He's still looking for a job to keep soul and body together. I will leave him with God. At least my life was not taken.

Please always look for calmness in a man it is very important happiness sometimes is greater than money or handsome we still have good men

BePrepared:


Spiritually ke?

Stop that nonsense you are bragging with

Why not tell the mentally unstable man disturbing the op to stop?
If anyone offend me, the person should be ready for the consequences. If the person's lucky, I may forgive cos of God.
I try to be fair. I just hate injustice.

MaryAye:
After taking the advice of meaningful nairlanders on this https://www.nairaland.com/7341050/he-wants-date-he-doesnt.

This is the aftermath.

I arranged for a meet-up with him to discuss my supposed assumptions. He told me, "he doesn't hate my child, but he feels my son was gargling like a mewling child."

I asked him to elucidate. Which he did and I politely told him that if he gargled, it was because he's still four. I think he should give my son time and establish a friendly relationship with him.

It was like my pep talks rattled him and he immediately slapped me that I have insulted him and trapped his pride. I was like, what!!!

This was a harmless discussion. Why did you slap me? He started apologising. He said he didn't know what came over him.

I told him to leave my shop. I told him I will call him when I'm less angry.
To me, I wanted to pipe low and take his word for it. He asked for some money to take bolt home because he didn't come out with cash. I went into the shop and gave him.

After that day I didn't call him or wanted to have anything to do with him. To my greatest surprise yesterday, he came to my shop and started assaulting me so that I can't leave. I was like, I never wanted to date you before. I was just considering your proposal.

That little tussle was what led to him scattering the fruits I bought. My neighbours came to our shop and before I knew it, he has raze all my goods.

My neighbours called the market chairman and they bungled him to the police station.

What is wrong with men this day? I didn't collect anything from him. Thank God I took the advice of nairalanders. You guys helped me to identify this before going into it.

Thank you, all.

I suggest you make him write an undertaking that if anything happens to you,he should be held responsible.

MaryAye post:

Thank you, all.

I suspect he is fetish and just stalking your life(spiritually). That money you gave him for transport will likely end up being used to consult a medium against you. Leave him and flee for your life.

Sweetplum:

Am chatting with a kid.

I'm not giving you my attention again, f.. K off biitch