odemeetu1:



Since the society dey so free and everything dey like damn easy, everybody dey misbehave direct..
Take for instance, My Anuty relocate there and the child mistakenly turn hot oil on herself this nonsense oyibo guys come say since the baby never sabi talk much my Anuty dey maltreat her, Her own child o And decide they go wan carry the child till she dey big enough to want to stay, I was like what... She fought that case ooo, thank God she got her child back,
So when you wan relocate, think of tax, think of you can't scold your child because she fit vex call social whatever for you���

Burgerlomo:


Don't mind those people that are criticizing her, they are doing that because they don't know what's up

timesuploaded:
all Nigerians have 500k dormant in their account. You are brainwashed. What is 500k? How much to rent 2 bed for Asaba?

Eriokanmi:
There's a couple in similar shoes right now. They married newly and travelled to USA together for studies. They both resigned from their paying Jobs. The wife was earning close to 400k after tax in a bank. On getting to America, their plans changed. They didn't report to school instead, they were working with someone else's Sola-Sola meaning the social security. 4 years down the line, their arrangee wedding they're into, in order to get papers isn't working out. The husband attended 2 interviews with his akata arrangee wife for his green card but none was successful and once this happens, na only miracle remain. The wife too tried but didn't work and time dey go. The wife has been behaving funny lately. She's planning to relocate to another state now, to commence her life independently during which she'd be looking for how to get papers. They've got no kids yet.

Nigeria is a much better place. We just need to fix leadership issues. Once we get it right, those in the Diaspora will throng Nigeria. Forget those good looks on WhatsApp and Facebook, nice environment, etc...just ask them for 100usd and they'd either block you or decline to respond to your subsequent requests. It's not so easy as people think. I don live there before during my school days. I always say this so no neef to start the story again.

Whoever wishes to go should go and see things. Make sure you look for opportunities and bring it home sharply as most of us did. There's a proverb in yoruba which says, if you tey too long on top shiit, na different species of flies go dey meet you there. Most of those who schooled and graduated over there have now turned agents to their alma mater, advertising their unis to Nigerians for a stipend called commission...Where's the job?

timesuploaded:
They are all depressed and can't afford to pay for ticket. They console themselves with idiots like you badmouthing Nigeria. The first 20million richest Nigerian live and work right here in Nigeria. Everyone abroad is suffering and about to die of depression

StagethemTVee:
I know of a newly married couple with a baby who decided the wife should leave first and she wrote the man it was over after getting there. He is yet to get over it.

shegzhkn:


Are you for real , Nigeria.

Eriokanmi:
Yes broda....with my experience and I'm speaking for myself and an uncle who chose to return home

Nhemzie17:
I wonder why a Sane person who has up to a million or more in his/her account would spend everything to travel to another country with a lot of uncertainties. Why not stay back and invest that money and get established.
Don't be deceived by the fake life of those abroad, they are suffering and smiling.

deepwater:
lol

people with N500,000 naira in their account are better than a lot of people abroad.

you see that line above? the rich have used it so many times to supress the poor from making any tangible advancement out of poverty (Nigeria).


500k would pay an average rent [b]per month in the western world.
500k would pay average annual[/b] rent in Lagos
so how is a poor person in Lagos better off ?

adedayoa2:
nawa o, I know 3 women that went there before their husbands, they worked and invited husbands over.

Eriokanmi:
There's a couple in similar shoes right now. They married newly and travelled to USA together for studies. They both resigned from their paying Jobs. The wife was earning close to 400k after tax in a bank. On getting to America, their plans changed. They didn't report to school instead, they were working with someone else's Sola-Sola meaning the social security. 4 years down the line, their arrangee wedding they're into, in order to get papers isn't working out. The husband attended 2 interviews with his akata arrangee wife for his green card but none was successful and once this happens, na only miracle remain. The wife too tried but didn't work and time dey go. The wife has been behaving funny lately. She's planning to relocate to another state now, to commence her life independently during which she'd be looking for how to get papers. They've got no kids yet.

Nigeria is a much better place. We just need to fix leadership issues. Once we get it right, those in the Diaspora will throng Nigeria. Forget those good looks on WhatsApp and Facebook, nice environment, etc...just ask them for 100usd and they'd either block you or decline to respond to your subsequent requests. It's not so easy as people think. I don live there before during my school days. I always say this so no neef to start the story again.

Whoever wishes to go should go and see things. Make sure you look for opportunities and bring it home sharply as most of us did. There's a proverb in yoruba which says, if you tey too long on top shiit, na different species of flies go dey meet you there. Most of those who schooled and graduated over there have now turned agents to their alma mater, advertising their unis to Nigerians for a stipend called commission...Where's the job?

Lukuluku69:


At least the " Averagely poor Lagos guy" will have accomodations for at least a year while the Abroad guy can be thrown out after a month.

My take is, if you want to leave and have the means, please leave.

If you want to stay, please stay.

If you leave or decide to stay, na the same life we dey leave. One is just a little bit easier on the eye.

deepwater:
lol

people with N500,000 naira in their account are better than a lot of people abroad.

you see that line above? the rich have used it so many times to supress the poor from making any tangible advancement out of poverty (Nigeria).


500k would pay an average rent per month in the western world.
500k would pay average annual rent in Lagos
so how is a poor person in Lagos better off ?

Oblongata:
I know a lot of broke people with little or no opportunity to travel will masturbate on this thread!

Naija or Abroad, marriage wey go crash go crash.

If your woman get money pass you for naija na the same shege wey she go show you for abroad she go show you for here.

My brother! Forget Obi, Atiku or BAT, none of them can save Nigeria, if you get the levels, JAPA!!!

sweetTai:


This is nonsensical generalization. I agree, a couple should not go to America if you are without proper documentation. I will sincerely use my case as an example. I had a girlfriend in Nigeria in the 90s before I came to America. We stayed in touch and eventually began planning marriage. Unfortunately for me I did not know that this I had been dating since the age of 19 has turned into nympho. I ignored all warnings from family and friends until God saved me. She had received her immigrant Visa and I went home to put the finishing touches to her joining me in the USA. One night, I was using her phone and I became nosey. One one text message to her doctor was “Please, I need some medicine because my boyfriend’s condom bust when we were having sex”. And this happened 2 weeks before I arrived in Nigeria. I was devastated beyond words. I swallowed my pride and gently came back to the USA alone. This happened in October 2007. By June 2008, I heard she’d married one of her banker colleagues. But has bigger plans for me. I was introduced to another young lady from the same city as my ex girlfriend and all of our families knew each other. I married this girl in 2010 and today, we have 2 boys and a girl in Houston, Texas and our marriage is stronger today than when we began. My ex divorced in 2012. Where ever you found yourself in life be sincere, take advantage of opportunities and make sure you have the right documentations.

CoronaVirusRelo:
If your wife is not giving you peace in Nigeria, don’t think of family japa!

You will live to regret your decisions, cos she will frustrate your soul the more and the government will 90% of time be on her side.

But for those of you with loving wives and sellable skill, your bounds are limitless outside Nigeria.

erico2k2:

Well said and well done, these guys just dnt know. In life there is always a struggle 9ja or abroad, but I rother struggle abroad than struggle in 9ja

shegzhkn:


Lol, dude couldn't survive the competition in Uncle Sam.

A Nation with a paltry 2k USD GDP per Capita is a better place, great.

StagethemTVee:
I know of a newly married couple with a baby who decided the wife should leave first and she wrote the man it was over after getting there. He is yet to get over it.

timesuploaded:
500k too big. If you have 30knaira presently in your pocket you are richer than 99.9% of Americans. Americans are debt zombies.

Eriokanmi:
We're doing well in my company. I'm an employer too and i put food at the table of my staff. I schooled , worked for a short while and came back home with the opportunity which had brought me into a limelight today. All thanks to God Almighty. My profession had taken me to DAAR Hall in DC where Barak Obama was the host

My uncle who encouraged me to toe his path is a multi billionaire today. Google Xantrex Engineering .he's the sole distributor for West Africa. He left America after seeing the opportunity and came back home with it. Only a few banks and online-based companies in West Africa aren't enjoying his service. He saw the opportunity on his way back home one day when returning from Walmart where he was working as a storekeeper and grabbed it

erico2k2:

Why do you lot come online and embarrass yourselves, talking outta where the sun don't shine. Lagos has loads living under bridge, in the west if you try am nah cold go finish you, just so you know, I have never met any Nigerian homeless. There is always somewhere to stay E bad as E bad. The only place I saw something like that was France and Italy.

sweetTai:


Some of them has a good point but it’s the one that generalizes that pisses me off. I always advise people. Don’t go to ANY country without proper documentations.

Lukuluku69:


Bros, first of, we could have a Convo without such words like "embarrass yourself" It is not the way of Civility.

And talking about homeless people, if my memory serves me correct, I remember a Phil Collins song in my University days. The song " Paradise" was done to point attention to homeless people in New York and America I think.

I also watched Eddy Murphy's Coming to America and I saw two homeless guys too.

What am I trying to say? There are homeless people everywhere. You have them in Lagos New York, London, Paris and every major City of the World

That said, like I said earlier, if you have the means, Leave and if you want to stay, please by all means stay.

sweetTai:


This is nonsensical generalization. I agree, a couple should not go to America if you are without proper documentation. I will sincerely use my case as an example. I had a girlfriend in Nigeria in the 90s before I came to America. We stayed in touch and eventually began planning marriage. Unfortunately for me I did not know that this girl I had been dating since the age of 19 has turned into nympho. I ignored all warnings from family and friends until God saved me. She had received her K1 immigrant Visa and I went home to put the finishing touches to her joining me in the USA. One night, I was using her phone and I became nosey. One one text message to her doctor was “Please, I need some medicine because my boyfriend’s condom bust when we were having sex”. And this happened 2 weeks before I arrived in Nigeria. I was devastated beyond words. I swallowed my pride and gently came back to the USA alone. This happened in October 2007. By June 2008, I heard she’d married one of her banker colleagues. But God has bigger plans for me. I was introduced to another young lady from the same city as my ex girlfriend and all of our families knew each other. I married this girl in 2010 and today, we have 2 boys and a girl in Houston, Texas and our marriage is stronger today than when we began. My ex divorced in 2012. Where ever you found yourself in life be sincere, take advantage of opportunities and make sure you have the right documentations.

kingthreat:
Esther Ajayi, you dey enjoy Nigeria. You no wan make others wey no dey enjoy find better life? If divorce comes from japa, so be it.

Angelfrost:


No film tricks... It's just like Eve and Satan in the Garden of Eden.

There is a bird caged inside most culturally raised or repressed Nigerians (especially women) which gets released in a society devoid of limiting morality.

All I'm saying is simple:

Most Nigerians just dey pretend to be saints here based on religion and traditions... Once Dem reach that irreligious and liberal nation, they realize there is no more need to suppress their true natures