Oyindidi:
I was using his phone. Searching4love the crush of my single life you still dey nl

Hatrick01:
I am planning to marry and start a family as i am still young.

I am 24 yrs old boy (i am my own boss),that can stand his ground.

I am pretty sure that i can take care of a family.

I dont want to spend all i ve earned on clubing or any any dirty stuff.
Are u serious?
I am thinking of bringing in a girl that will help me in my life.

That will also help me to manage all i have worked for since i am 17.

I dont want to squander them all.

Pls, fathers in the house, is there any other responsibility of a married man aside:

Paying children fees,

Winning the bread for family,

Taking care of ur wife?

Pls i need advise!

searchng4love:


Sounds better

Kobojunkie:
1. So, you think God is a liar then?

2. So, in your understanding, God lied? Or it is instead that you don't understand any of what you claim instead?

According to scripture, David repented of his sin and even made sacrifices to the effect of this in order that God forgive him his sin. So how could he have remained a sinner after that?

3. That is a bloody lie as instead, scripture has it that God only values those who are of the blood of Jacob, this in Jesus Christ as well.

FriendsAndFans:
■You have started with all these your questions that seem to be the have ulterior coverings

Pk01:
save more ,till u re 27..and look for decent girl of under 22_18..

Kobojunkie:
OP, do not waste your time praying because God never promised to give a wife to any man in Jesus Christ particularly since He made it abundantly clear from the beginning that your marriages are of this world and not of the Kingdom of God. To top it off, God gave His seal of approval only to those who chose to live as Eunuchs for the sake of His Kingdom meaning that those who chose marriage are pretty much on their own. Now, this isn't to say that marriage is evil — not at all. Instead, making it is clear that marriage is of personal effort and not God. Now this and you are well on your way to realizing the hard work involved in making a marriage work.

Kingpele:
Ok ..you are still very young to understand the purpose of marriage...marriage is not only base on money ....I have an uncle that had little money but married at the age of 28years ..he became very rich after marriage but that was in late 80s..now what are the real reason you want to get married? Forget about your money first ..the only reason you should get married in this your young age is if you're the only son in your family..or you are in serious relationship with a lady that you truly love and want to spend the rest of your life with..if not enjoy your bachelor life in quiet way building your life goals till u truly become lonely and in need for a companion...then u will boldly get married..if u made money in a genuine way,u will hardly squander it in clubbing and other unworthy lifestyle...companionship is the first purpose of marriage my dear ..if u feel strongly about it. Go for it and God will see u through..afterall is better to marry than burn with lustful passion for the flesh...I got married twelve years ago but my today is better than that time I got married

DearGorgeous:
■ Pray to God for divine direction. Make sure you marry a business inclined lady or someone who's working and understands what it means to make a living, not a liability. A compatible partner will do. The advantage of marrying early is that you and your children will grow like siblings. But the disadvantage is that marriage institution is weightier than it seems from outside, especially when you're not financially, psychologically and emotionally matured for it.Think about it and see if you can wait maybe another 5years before making this lifelong decision. For you to have even given a thought to marriage at this age shows you're one hell of a responsible young man and I am very proud of you. I pray you find a wife suitable for you.Cheers

EPIJOE:
THERE IS NOTHING WRONG IN YOU MARRYING AT THE AGE OF 24. IT DEPENDS ON MATURITY, FINANCE AND GODS GUIDANCE. AT TIMES IT GOOD TO MARRY EARLY HENCE GIVE BIRTH EARLY AND TRAIN YOUR CHILDREN WHEN U CAN STILL HUSTLE AT A TENDER AGE. BY THE TIME U ARE 40 YRS YOUR CHILDREN WILL BE ALMOST AT THE UNIVERSITY LEVEL. SEE BROS TRUTH BE TOLD. ALOT NEEDS TO BE LEARNED IN MARRIAGE AND ITS TOLERANCE. ALL THE ADVICE GIVEN TO UP AT THE EARLIEST POST. ARE TRUE. GOD INSTITUTE MARRIAGE TO AVOID SINNING ON YOUR OWN BODY.. EARLY MARRIAGE IS GOD OF YOU HAVE ENOUGH FINANCE TO SUSTAIN IT AND ALSO HAVE WISDOM AND GODS GUIDANCE.. NOTE MINIMIZE THE NUMBER OF KIDS YOU WANT TO HAVE. I SUGGEST TWO KIDS . WITH PRAYERS.
MY LITTLE OPINION

Kobojunkie:
1. The probable reason you feel the way you do about the questions is that you fear that by answering them for yourself you may end up up-ending most of the belief you previously held of God.

FriendsAndFans:
■ What do you hold as a belief of the most high? Let's start from there

Kobojunkie:
1. For one He is who He says He is, not who men say He is. God speaks for Himself— He does not need the lies of men to make Him who He is so I accept what He says as He has said it.

FriendsAndFans:
■ Do you believe in the Bible as the direct inspiration from the most high

Konjiboii:


The only help a girl can render to your young life now is to give birth and keep you satisfied sexually, our modern women are not capable to render any other help except the listed.
You can achieve all this listed without getting married, marriage is a scam and no man wins in this scheme.
If you still want get coconut head and marry atleast make sure she is a virgin,if you must die early atleast get the premium package.

Juanmike:
Dalu

Juanmike:
You have more to lose married than being single know this and know peace.

Konjiboii:


1. The only help a girl can render to your young life now is to give birth and keep you satisfied sexually, our modern women are not capable to render any other help except the listed.

2. You can achieve all this listed without getting married,

3, marriage is a scam and no man wins in this scheme.

4. If you still want get coconut head and marry atleast make sure she is a virgin, if you must die early atleast get the premium package.

Babatunjo:
■Best age for girls to marry (I.e. their peak of beauty and maturity) = 22 years to 28 years
■Best age for boys to marry (i. e. their peak of success, wisdom, physicality and maturity) = 32 years to 38 years.
■If you were a girl, then I would have advised you to marry, but as a boy, you still need at least 8 years (minimum) to get to your peak.
■Don't let that your account balance deceive you, you haven't reached the peak of your potential yet and if you marry now, it will slow you down because your babe will be at her peak by now and rule (/and ruin) your kingdom for you.

Gratefulheart2:
Daddyfreeze is that you?

Teeroyzimma:
you don start with discrimination

Juanmike:
Leave women for now. There's more to marriage than... Acquire wealth, buy Landed properties build houses. Then marry. I don't know how much you think you have.

ArewaTech1:
I don't understand why so many people here are against marriage, maybe it's a cultural thing. Maybe the girls in the south are waaaayyyy different than our girls here. If you can marry a Fulani or a Hausa girl, I am very sure you'll get a submissive educated traditional woman that obeys you. DM me. I'm hoping to get married in Dec23, with 200k monthly income.

DisLifeSha:
It's better to marry at 24. I'm 29 living with a single mother and my life has been turned upside down. I've achieved nothing in my life

Pjoe238:
I got married to my wife at the age of 25 in the year 2009. Today I have 4 lovely children, 2 girls and 2 boys and I'm enjoying my marriage and my family. Many of my age mates are still thinking on how to get married in 2023 whereas my first child is already in JSS3. I didn't have any regret whatsoever marrying earlier, I can only say that the early marriage helped shape my life. So, bro you can go ahead as far as you can take care of family and live responsibly

Kobojunkie:
1. I only obey what God says to do. And as such, I don't believe in the bible because God never said to anyone in scripture that you should believe in your bible.

Oyindidi:
You no well

Kobojunkie:
No one is against marriage. But the point is that the chances are 83% that you will end up in the claws of poverty if you marry down in Nigeria today. Look around you at the reality that is Nigeria today. Your 200k salary, by the time you divided it into two for living for 2 or 3 people already puts you below the poverty line.

ArewaTech1:
I understand your point.
But believe me, with 200k net salary monthly one can live comfortably here in the north. (maybe I'm being too optimistic haha)

lexy2014:


Elder, pls enlighten me.

You said



My question: Is that ur personal experience?

Simple yes or no