Rayban25:


They're the best for knacking and dumping..not to keep as girlfriend..theres a clear distinction

you know sabi anything.. go carry dull person all in the name of security, na ther you go cry pass.

denzel231:
you know sabi anything.. go carry dull person all in the name of security, na ther you go cry pass.

You wey sabi something go marry olosho as wife now abi what do you think?

Steverolly:
I've noticed the way I lose interest in girls that have lots of male friends, like it's a red flag for me.
I don't know if it's insecurity or whatever but I'm very good looking, in fact I don't even approach girls, they approach me. I've also met a lot of great girls but once I notice they have a lot male friends or they Relate so much with guys I just lose interest.
Is this normal or it's just me?

Guy, run as fast as your legs can carry you. Some of these girls won't want to have anything serious with any particular guy so as to be freely doing stuff with any of the male friends she so desires, anytime. While in service, I knew one. She freely gave out knacks to 50% of the friends. You know what, she been no dey feel guilty at all.

iksman2002:

Bro I think your being insecure or you have low self-esteem.

is the country as a whole secure?

Steverolly:
I've noticed the way I lose interest in girls that have lots of male friends, like it's a red flag for me.
I don't know if it's insecurity or whatever but I'm very good looking, in fact I don't even approach girls, they approach me. I've also met a lot of great girls but once I notice they have a lot male friends or they Relate so much with guys I just lose interest.
Is this normal or it's just me?

you are insecure. The one with few male friends might be doing worse than the one that's always around guys.

jaxxy:


Generally a girl with too many male friends is a red flag bt there is a twist.

there are girls with many male friends bt she openly friendly, free and Platonic with them. This is not a red flag for me. I like people who appreciate good company bt keep their manners and boundaries.

However there are girls who have many male friends and are also lose and have no boundaries with them publicly or privately. These are obviously red flags

Bt there is the homely coded chick who has no male friends or it seems she doesn't bt she has many male clients and acquaintances. shes very secretive. This type will sell u in the market and u won't know u have been sold like ordinary fish.

and there is the true introvert who don't have many males friends and don't need many friends either. They are the joys of the traditional insecure man and the philanderous ones scared of nemesis.

You see the bolded?
These are the ones I'm talking about and met with.

Rayban25:



You wey sabi something go marry olosho as wife now abi what do you think?

see male prostitute dey claim sanity ... U hear say I complain lmao... insecure men with low self esteem

kokomilala:
Male Friends Of Girls Are Quasi Shaggers

Your fear isn't misplaced. You are right to question such a position.

I've heard about best friends- male and female- having sex, I mean, having amorous relationships.

On the face of it, it looks innocuous. And people don't suspect anything. But women are naturally weaker and can easily fall into temptations of sex.

For me, I cannot wrap my head around what relationships exists between a man and a woman if it's not work or business. It has to be that they are getting down with each other.

True.

denzel231:
see male prostitute dey claim sanity ... U hear say I complain lmao... insecure men with low self esteem

You've not answered the question

But what do I expect from the child of olosho..if your mother were sane she for give birth to sane child now

Bro the fear of those cheap holes is the beginning of wisdom. Know this and have peace ✌️✌️✌️

Whatever you do, Don't ever let a woman treat you as an option, most Females crave attention and the ones that keep so many male friends around are usually just looking for the highest bidder, they will toy with your emotions, if you don't have the mental strength for this, just flee, there are other females out there who know what they want and would let you know form the onset, they don't play mind games, Better still go work on yourself make a lot of money and see how easy they are.

iksman2002:

Bro I think your being insecure or you have low self-esteem.

I disagree with you bro. It's like those cheap holes have not taught you a lesson !!!

Steverolly:

Bruh, I normally don't do this but I've been avoiding girls almost all my life because of my self development which have seen massive improvement. I'll be 21 by the end of this year with no form of love or whatever.... people be thinking the boy is gay "cos he's fine and they've not seen him with a female", why do you think I shouldn't also face this aspect of my life?
So I'll just meet somebody and marry no dating or friendship, I know what I want please and my family issue shouldn't be your problem. Thanks

May God bless your hursle. Thank God you discovered your purpose on time. Some of your pals are still digging that endless hole with nothing to show for it.

MechanicMike:



Every man must chase women & love them at the same time..that's how real men operate...you sayin u prefere man over woman & that u always happiar around men is a gay sign. Gay men always to to faggggggot & then finally turn to homosexual faggggggot people. We don't well come those kind of people on Nairaland sir.they have aid!!(no offenscce)

Bro you're not making sense to me 😔😔😔😔

Caleycash:
You're mentally unstable... you need psychological evaluation ASAP!

U upset we expose Yor gay kind sir?am upset we expose u two.
My nigggggga..is Yor human rights to be gay & marrrry has much men has u want..but juss don't bring Yor gay faggggggot $hit to Nigeria or else u will be shoot!!!(no offenscce)

ACE1010:


Bro you're not making sense to me 😔😔😔😔

Op say he doesn't like women coz hanging around mens make him happiar... technically he gay but he in denial meaning if he don't stop being gay,he will transform to faggggggot & start dressing like female!!((True story))

Steverolly:
I've noticed the way I lose interest in girls that have lots of male friends, like it's a red flag for me.
I don't know if it's insecurity or whatever but I'm very good looking, in fact I don't even approach girls, they approach me. I've also met a lot of great girls but once I notice they have a lot male friends or they Relate so much with guys I just lose interest.
Is this normal or it's just me?

What you need is a mentor, to help build your self-confidence.

Women and cheating na 5&6

Jakumo:


It is only men that are instantly attracted to beautiful women. Most women are initially attracted NOT to a man's physical appearance, but to the way in which he speaks to the women, and jokes with them in those first few critical moments when they first meet. I therefore sincerely doubt the OP's story that women approach him primarily due to his perceived good looks, REGARDLESS of how well-built or handsome he may in fact be.

With all due respect, I must therefore reach for my bullshit whistle once again to alert the viewing public that someone is telling a tall story here that does not match up with the known psychology of female attractiveness to men.

Don't say what you don't know cause alot of girls have made advances at me and I am an introvert. I don't even know how to toast a lady but I always have them show interest in me.

yrhuhfy113:


MARRY IN YOUR 30s
you don't have any major ASSETS TO YOUR NAME....

the ladies of today ARE NOT BUILT TO BUILD WITH ANY MAN, they come in after the man has started enjoying his own money

HAVE SENSE and get your life straight abeg

You can never make generalizations like that. Just because you haven't found a woman who you can build with doesn't mean that he can't attract a woman like that.

Those kinds of women are attracted to specific kinds of men and you probably are not the kind that they are looking for.

LagBlogger:


Don't say what you don't know cause alot of girls have made advances at me and I am an introvert. I don't even know how to toast a lady but I always have them show interest in me.

Exactly my point.
That guy doesn't know what he's saying

Steverolly:

She told me of one occurrence that happened with her Ex, she suspected the guy was cheating cos she was to go to this place and he didn't want her to come that day.
Said she went to one of her friend's place (a guy) to spend that night, also added that nothing happened between them which I really doubt....lol

Nothing happened?? And you believed that crap??

Freelancerr:
She's for the street

How to know?

80% of girls are into hook up codedly but won't show it.
So if you have a girl you suspect she's into hook up, I would advice you become careful with her before she pin another man pregnancy on you.

Tho, what I do to a girl I'm dating is I clone there chat mostly WhatsApp.

Once it's cloned I check and read all their message directly on my phone even without them noticing.

I do this for some months so as to be sure of whom I'm dating, make I for no go enter one chance.

I'll teach anyone this trick only if you check my signature and text me on WhatsApp.

Note : you will pay a token before we start. Cos it's not free oooo.

scam

Freelancerr:
She's for the street

How to know?

80% of girls are into hook up codedly but won't show it.
So if you have a girl you suspect she's into hook up, I would advice you become careful with her before she pin another man pregnancy on you.

Tho, what I do to a girl I'm dating is I clone there chat mostly WhatsApp.

Once it's cloned I check and read all their message directly on my phone even without them noticing.

I do this for some months so as to be sure of whom I'm dating, make I for no go enter one chance.

I'll teach anyone this trick only if you check my signature and text me on WhatsApp.

Note : you will pay a token before we start. Cos it's not free oooo.

Bro let's talk.... send me your number

LagBlogger:


Don't say what you don't know cause alot of girls have made advances at me and I am an introvert. I don't even know how to toast a lady but I always have them show interest in me.

HALT THERE..YOU ARE GAY!!
Son so u claim women rush to toast u but u scare to say helo.... corrrrrrrect?...thanks for EXPOSING Yor sef to be gay.shame on u sir!!((no offenscce))

bepositive11:


You can never make generalizations like that. Just because you haven't found a woman who you can build with doesn't mean that he can't attract a woman like that.

Those kinds of women are attracted to specific kinds of men and you probably are not the kind that they are looking for.

The bible supports that a man as young as 21 should focus on his destiny than women.

IN TRYING TO BE POSITIVE pls be realistic.


In this country he is too young to be thinking of women and he has not achieved anything major yet.... check his past topics, then you will understand.

Jakumo:


It is only men that are instantly attracted to beautiful women. Most women are initially attracted NOT to a man's physical appearance, but to the way in which he speaks to the women, and jokes with them in those first few critical moments when they first meet. I therefore sincerely doubt the OP's story that women approach him primarily due to his perceived good looks, REGARDLESS of how well-built or handsome he may in fact be.

With all due respect, I must therefore reach for my bullshit whistle once again to alert the viewing public that someone is telling a tall story here that does not match up with the known psychology of female attractiveness to men.

detective jakumo, always reading btw the lines to uncover falsehood ....but I don't agree to that your submission that most women are not attracted to good looking guys

Same with,no 28,no woman, I'm happy for my life. Baby Mama all the way

MechanicMike:



U upset we expose Yor gay kind sir?am upset we expose u two.
My nigggggga..is Yor human rights to be gay & marrrry has much men has u want..but juss don't bring Yor gay faggggggot $hit to Nigeria or else u will be shoot!!!(no offenscce)

Madman!!!

Boss wetin you smoke like this? Like this the second time you commented on this and you are still talking off point. Get a grip man.

MechanicMike:



Every man must chase women & love them at the same time..that's how real men operate...you sayin u prefere man over woman & that u always happiar around men is a gay sign. Gay men always to to faggggggot & then finally turn to homosexual faggggggot people. We don't well come those kind of people on Nairaland sir.they have aid!!(no offenscce)

Steverolly:
I've noticed the way I lose interest in girls that have lots of male friends, like it's a red flag for me.
I don't know if it's insecurity or whatever but I'm very good looking, in fact I don't even approach girls, they approach me. I've also met a lot of great girls but once I notice they have a lot male friends or they Relate so much with guys I just lose interest.
Is this normal or it's just me?

You're on point.