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Re: My Message To Men by Nobody: 5:12pm On Jul 08, 2023
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Re: My Message To Men by ACRI: 5:12pm On Jul 08, 2023
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Re: My Message To Men by Treasure17(m): 5:13pm On Jul 08, 2023
"A broke guy is nothing even to his family''. Fact.

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Re: My Message To Men by superintendents(m): 5:13pm On Jul 08, 2023
how can a man compares himself with woman..

grin
E shock me

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Re: My Message To Men by Entanglement: 5:16pm On Jul 08, 2023
blazepascal:


Stop comparing yourself to the ladies.

We don't have the same privileges. They have all the chances to live and experience a better life.

They might never go hungry. They might drive the latest version of car, they might live in the best apartment in the city, use the latest technology, fly first class.

But you as a man will have to suffer to become someone or experience these things. Working should be your moto.

Suffer today so you can have a better life tomorrow, don't compare yourself with your sisters, don't hate the females in your city for living a life more than you.

We are different, a man must suffer to become someone of importance. That's why you must understand what is taking your time and little money and cut off with them.

You identify your wastrel in your life. In this journey of life, a man's worst enemy is idle time.

Let this message scare you, wake up and stop comparing yourself with the females. A broke man is nothing even to his family. A broke girls is something to her family members.

Don't be delusional, we are different and our chances are not the same to smile or be respected. A broke guy is not respected, he has no value to his community, they laugh at you when you walk by, the beautiful ladies call you loser. Get up.

Get up! Be scared of your future.



#BLAZE
na you and your family go suffer since poverty dey Una lineage undecided
If you dey suffer no means say othe people family dey suffer also, you just dey unfortunate say them born you into poverty or descendants of poverty that's why you dey yarn sand comot from your mouth like this undecided

Instead try work hard so that you go break that generational poverty and make your pikin no suffer for life as you dey suffer so (base on your write-up)


This your nonsense writeup no dey applicable to certain type of individual abegi

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Re: My Message To Men by Omoawoke: 5:16pm On Jul 08, 2023
Opanka44:
Ok. In my next world( if there's any), I would like to be a woman. See, been a man is the most difficult thing ever especially coming from a poor background and without both parents at a tender age. If I go to bed, I can't sleep because I get scared. I am always thinking of what the next day holds. How I'm broke and how I can survive and help my siblings. I fear

You have gay tendencies for wanting to be a woman

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Re: My Message To Men by Fortune118005(m): 5:21pm On Jul 08, 2023
How can a man compare himself with woman?
Its unimaginable!

One thing you need to do as a man is to make money. Life is easy when you have have money as a man. Every other things will come in place when you have money.

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Re: My Message To Men by Kemadealadire(f): 5:21pm On Jul 08, 2023
Lol, let me not talk. Everybody works for their money nobody is handed anything unless those born into wealth.

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Re: My Message To Men by Entanglement: 5:21pm On Jul 08, 2023
AndroidAI:


Chai.

Go and blame your parents for bringing you into poverty by failing to provide basic needs, not to talk of a legacy.

So all you have known is suffering, and you think more suffering is what makes you a man.

Stop generalising. There are a lot of men who will never suffer, because they were privileged to be born in a great home.

Secondly, being a woman doesn't eliminate suffering. A lot of women are suffering too. It's not a gender thing. It's the sad reality of life.

For those who still suffer because their parents are nobodies, my sympathy is with you all.
abeg help me tell the guy ohh, and I pity people were dey follow that poverty guy dey reason!

Make he go blame his father and grandfather for dropping nothing to am!

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Re: My Message To Men by bluefilm: 5:23pm On Jul 08, 2023
blazepascal:
Stop comparing yourself to the ladies.

We don't have the same privileges. They have all the chances to live and experience a better life.

They might never go hungry. They might drive the latest version of car, they might live in the best apartment in the city, use the latest technology, fly first class.

But you as a man will have to suffer to become someone or experience these things. Working should be your moto.

Suffer today so you can have a better life tomorrow, don't compare yourself with your sisters, don't hate the females in your city for living a life more than you.

We are different, a man must suffer to become someone of importance. That's why you must understand what is taking your time and little money and cut off with them.

You identify your wastrel in your life. In this journey of life, a man's worst enemy is idle time.

Let this message scare you, wake up and stop comparing yourself with the females. A broke man is nothing even to his family. A broke girls is something to her family members.

Don't be delusional, we are different and our chances are not the same to smile or be respected. A broke guy is not respected, he has no value to his community, they laugh at you when you walk by, the beautiful ladies call you loser. Get up.

Get up! Be scared of your future.
#BLAZE

Joblessness is too bad.

If not, why will someone keep regurgitating this same crappy message over and over?

As a man, you don't even need anyone to tell you that you've got to be up and doing.

It is an intrinsic trait that naturally comes with being a guy.

Making it seem as if you are delivering a very important message amounts to nothing but a complete waste of time.

Nonsense angry

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Re: My Message To Men by zezebabs: 5:27pm On Jul 08, 2023
Everything you say is true, I man should be smart and wise
Any serious mistake could be costly for a man

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Re: My Message To Men by wiseone28: 5:31pm On Jul 08, 2023
THANKS JAH I AM X GENDER
Re: My Message To Men by whytediamond(m): 5:31pm On Jul 08, 2023
EconomistXplain:
i am so liking this thread

Very complex post. Stirs deep thought. Been on the first page for about 15 minutes now.

Debate dey sweet.

Points are valid from everyone comment in favour or against.

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Re: My Message To Men by Omoawoke: 5:32pm On Jul 08, 2023
Opanka44:


No, haba na. I was just trying to say that men suffer a whole in this life to achieve greatness while women achieve same on a platter of Gold using their Bottom power

You have your advantage too, a man with money will age like wine…
When you are 40 or 50, life just start, you can acquire all those 25 years old girl and enjoy them to your fullest

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Re: My Message To Men by Omoawoke: 5:32pm On Jul 08, 2023
SenatePresdo:
My message to men is, try to lift others even if nobody lifted you.

You know how hard it was for you, and how you were lucky in some phases, not everybody got that lucky, you could be their luck.

And lastly, no matter how much you spend on a woman she will forget you the day she decides to follow another man.

But if you spend on your fellow man, even if he makes new friends and even follows another woman, he will never forget your deeds.

Be your brothers keeper.

Absolutely correct.

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Re: My Message To Men by wiseone28: 5:33pm On Jul 08, 2023
SayNo2SmallPrik:


If you sef fit land your dream job with your CV packaging….why you dey always stress us ?
He want to help us out of poverty, when him is living in poverty 😁😁

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Re: My Message To Men by Hanndye: 5:34pm On Jul 08, 2023
Generally,men are built for hard work while women are built for......... Well, I don't know. For want of a good word, let's see who takes the cake.
Re: My Message To Men by Kayclite: 5:35pm On Jul 08, 2023
SenatePresdo:
My message to men is, try to lift others even if nobody lifted you.

You know how hard it was for you, and how you were lucky in some phases, not everybody got that lucky, you could be their luck.

And lastly, no matter how much you spend on a woman she will forget you the day she decides to follow another man.

But if you spend on your fellow man, even if he makes new friends and even follows another woman, he will never forget your deeds.

Be your brothers keeper.

Maximum post.

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Re: My Message To Men by highchief1: 5:35pm On Jul 08, 2023
blazepascal:


Stop comparing yourself to the ladies.

We don't have the same privileges. They have all the chances to live and experience a better life.

They might never go hungry. They might drive the latest version of car, they might live in the best apartment in the city, use the latest technology, fly first class.

But you as a man will have to suffer to become someone or experience these things. Working should be your moto.

Suffer today so you can have a better life tomorrow, don't compare yourself with your sisters, don't hate the females in your city for living a life more than you.

We are different, a man must suffer to become someone of importance. That's why you must understand what is taking your time and little money and cut off with them.

You identify your wastrel in your life. In this journey of life, a man's worst enemy is idle time.

Let this message scare you, wake up and stop comparing yourself with the females. A broke man is nothing even to his family. A broke girls is something to her family members.

Don't be delusional, we are different and our chances are not the same to smile or be respected. A broke guy is not respected, he has no value to his community, they laugh at you when you walk by, the beautiful ladies call you loser. Get up.

Get up! Be scared of your future.



#BLAZE
if I’m asked a billion times which I’ll like to be again I’ll chose to be a man.As a man we have only one task.Once u make money u will know that man life sweet.I didn’t struggle for more than one year before I become successful.My advise to men is to be spiritual because most of the times what’s holding us back na spiritual matter.As u Dey make money try Dey invest Nthg hard for the life na brainlessness be most men problem.

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Re: My Message To Men by Tonytonex(m): 5:37pm On Jul 08, 2023
FROGMAN101:
Nice content

Men are not valued. Unless they are popular or have money.

Don't joke with your finances. Guard it like you crazy. Thats all we got.

Be very very choosy and demanding when you deal with women too. Go for the very best. TALK TO A LOT OF WOMEN

Dont go and suffer and then settle with one entitled fellow.
This comment is more than the thread.
Facts.

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Re: My Message To Men by GUNITGuy: 5:38pm On Jul 08, 2023
O.P Mr. simp lord
Someone just wake up to concur rubbish....Who told you women don't suffer....who told you men Don't have privileges and who told you all men have to suffer to make it .....
If not they mock a man for being broke fo you think that's his motivation 'beautiful women"
If that's what is driving your life purpose is just to have money so you can bed women in this 21sr century youve lost it completely even before you have money because when you eventually have you would definitely loose it your mind set about money is not right ......
With time most of what you think is all in all won't matter and those so called beautiful ladies stroking your ego would not count ...
I pray life doesn't teach you some realities that are not on SM

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Re: My Message To Men by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 5:39pm On Jul 08, 2023
Likewise women.

Women face most of these things written in the post but society thinks many women out there live la Vida loca because they are women. It doesn't work that way. Think about a woman from a poor home with many siblings — A burden of performance and high expectations is placed on her to be better and maybe, uplift her family from generational poverty. This way, pressure sets in and she does unquestionable things for the money while displeasing herself and pleasing others. Or maybe, take on jobs because she wants a better life for her family and herself.

Yes, life may be a bit easier for a female especially if she's pretty, attractive, educated, and has a good head on her shoulders. The not-so-fine ones may not be so lucky especially if she's an empty one.

Men, easy. Being “just” a woman is not a leverage to living a soft life. We face as much degradation, suffering, family expectations, pressure and what have you just as you. Just like you, we have a lot of anticipations placed on us from folks who don't even care how we eat next and it's not funny. Just to inform you to break that bias. Everyone has to be up and doing even though I advocate for “feminine enjoyment”. grin

OK. Bye.

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Re: My Message To Men by JagabanBorgu: 5:40pm On Jul 08, 2023
labake1:
Keep men promiscuous nature aside, it's not easy to be a man. A man that doesn't work won't eat, a woman might decided to be a full house wife but a man can't try it, wetin your wife and children go eat if you stay at home?
The hustling spirit dey man blood since birth.

If you are not there yet, keep trying and don't give up. As a woman, try and get a life too. If men and women bring something to the table, the house won't collapse.
Ire o
Promiscuous men always roll with women, guess that doesn't make women promiscuous.
By the way, women especially this present generation are what u can àffórd with money easily.
The more u can afford, the more u are free to get, paying for different lands doesn't make u grèèdy, does it?

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Re: My Message To Men by NuCypher: 5:41pm On Jul 08, 2023
blazepascal:


Stop comparing yourself to the ladies.

We don't have the same privileges. They have all the chances to live and experience a better life.

They might never go hungry. They might drive the latest version of car, they might live in the best apartment in the city, use the latest technology, fly first class.

But you as a man will have to suffer to become someone or experience these things. Working should be your moto.

Suffer today so you can have a better life tomorrow, don't compare yourself with your sisters, don't hate the females in your city for living a life more than you.

We are different, a man must suffer to become someone of importance. That's why you must understand what is taking your time and little money and cut off with them.

You identify your wastrel in your life. In this journey of life, a man's worst enemy is idle time.

Let this message scare you, wake up and stop comparing yourself with the females. A broke man is nothing even to his family. A broke girls is something to her family members.

Don't be delusional, we are different and our chances are not the same to smile or be respected. A broke guy is not respected, he has no value to his community, they laugh at you when you walk by, the beautiful ladies call you loser. Get up.

Get up! Be scared of your future.



#BLAZE

Excellent words! It would have made even more sense if you said "a broke girl is something to some man out there". There is no shortage of men looking to play a saviour to a woman, even if she's dead broke.

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Re: My Message To Men by Cutehector(m): 5:41pm On Jul 08, 2023
Lift your fellow men.

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Re: My Message To Men by GUNITGuy: 5:43pm On Jul 08, 2023
Entanglement:
na you and your family go suffer since poverty dey Una lineage undecided
If you dey suffer no means say othe people family dey suffer also, you just dey unfortunate say them born you into poverty or descendants of poverty that's why you dey yarn sand comot from your mouth like this undecided

Instead try work hard so that you go break that generational poverty and make your pikin no suffer for life as you dey suffer so (base on your write-up)


This your nonsense writeup no dey applicable to certain type of individual abegi
Someone doesnt even think straight ....Some people are women pleasers by default ask him how many men has he helped ...This are the kind of men that would give a woman #100million naira for doing nothing than just beautiful because he believes a woman should not suffer while all men can go to hell

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Re: My Message To Men by ConquerorK: 5:43pm On Jul 08, 2023
labake1:
Keep men promiscuous nature aside, it's not easy to be a man. A man that doesn't work won't eat, a woman might decided to be a full house wife but a man can't try it, wetin your wife and children go eat if you stay at home?
The hustling spirit dey man blood since birth.

If you are not there yet, keep trying and don't give up. As a woman, try and get a life too. If men and women bring something to the table, the house won't collapse.
Ire o

Omit the promiscuity, it's not just a man thing so don't make it look like one. Women control the access to sex and that's a fact yet the average woman jump from dick to dick more than the average man. Men have to prove value before ladies will open legs, it's why most men of value don't give a Bleep about the so called love of a woman when they become sort after, they know what it takes to get where they are and will not settle for one person or someone who has opened her legs multiple times. So stop making it a man thing cos when you women were in control, y'all never learn restraint or give a Bleep Abt a struggling man.

Women control access to sex and birth
Men control access to relationship and resources

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Re: My Message To Men by erai30(m): 5:44pm On Jul 08, 2023
The reason why God created woman out of man's rib is because he has given them natural suffering, so that's why men have to provide for them. Every month menstrual suffering, breaking of their hymen suffering, nine months suffering and then delivery suffering. Men ought to take care of them and give them some enjoyment....God bless women grin

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