madjune:
Early 2000s while I worked at this small time office in Lagos, I walked into these three female colleagues of mine talking about how they would never date a guy who doesn't own a car.

Lol. Then, most of us male colleagues in the office jumped buses to work and somehow we all got to know how our ladies perceived us.
Few years on, things started happening and we guys began to pick up...buying cars, establishing businesses, owning lands and cars.

Come and see these ladies naa. They began to form closeness. Inviting most of us to churches and weddings.
Looking back, I'm quite happy on how most of us guys in that office turned out.
The struggle and hardship shaped us.
We learned the courage to call a spade a spade snd move on.

Thing is, things will change for the upright and hardworking soul; no matter what.

Always pay attention to how people treat you when you've little or nothing.
That's the beginning of wisdom.

Funkybabee:
Good morning to my beautiful ladies here and our fellow brothers though una can wail like you normally did before. This post is not for you but for ladies to share their opinion 👎👎

I saw a post on instablog where a ladies share her opinion on why you shouldn't marry a man who cannot afford the thing you can do for yourself.



Back to my own view, I think it's not about how much he earn but how much he can give, a man can be rich and be stingy at the same time while a man can be rich, give and still not care about cheating thereby disrespecting your feeling.

I met a guy this year, got to his apartment saw there are no things there when I asked he said he just moved to this state with a new job but still setting up small by small, I said that's good to me for the fact that he's going to one of the old disciplined church while also he has completed is Master unless he has no ambition that he will be definitely good to go.

Later I discovered something about him, he don't used to call unless you chat don't know how it look somehow to me because I don't like calls too but I feel somehow, if you ain't online, he will wait till you come online to chat whether two or more days, he's after sexual thing though he said he's a believer, our house is not far to his place I normally trekked that's why I don't care about tfare at all so one day, I loosed my hair, went to his place to greet him omo he doesn't even look my way but after his satisfaction and later on he began one filmsy excuse of waiting for his brother to come that I should prepare to leave now. it didn't bother me too much until I got home and call my brain to order that am I for real with this guy, I later left him but he keep begging me it's not what I think, but I told him to come and see outside for him to spend assurance while herefused to that

Omo ladies come and share your experience concerning this una guys are welcome with your bashing

A love without giving is a lust. It's not about be material or how much he can give but the willing in his heart and to love someone without caring about his materialistic is not an offence

Persephone1:


Lemme park here.

MODIFIED: I see most guys read this thread upside down or why are they hyperventilating?

What's the usefulness of you lots in a relationship if you can't spend on your woman? What can you offer as a typical Nigerian man?

flokii:
Hanty don.go chop gb0la come.her dey use guys catch cruise..
@OP Hope the guy drill you wella.

Shebbs:




After Sleeping With You From Pillar To Post Using His God-Given AMU To Finally Destroy That Infectious Gutter You Carry Around Without Giving You Money You’re Here To Wail, Shameless Self Entitled MotherFucker! If I Were Your Parents I Would’ve Just Listed You On List Of Children That Should Of Been Aborted.



Omo oshi iya e ma sunkun lori e last last

Don’t Go And Look For Work To Do Or Learn A Trade And Give Your Life A Worth Or Meaning Be Looking For Somebody’s Son To Carry Your Problems For You, Gone Are Those Days When Cheap Girls Like You Tie Men Down With Your Smelly Pussy.

“I Loosed My Hair, Went To His House To Greet Him,” As What? Road Traffic Agent Or Road Safety Officer? Miss Greeter Welldone! Born To Greet!! Keep Greeting, He’s Supposed To Give You Money To Make Your Hair Because He Is Your Husband Or Father. Useless Ewu! Ever Since You Met Him In What Way Have You Bettered His Life? No Wonder He Fvcked You And Asked You To Go That His Brother Is Coming, Lol.

If I Be Your Brother And I Come Here Come See This Rubbish Na To Put Rat Poison For Your Food Make You Chop Just Die Because You No Get Value.

Funkybabee:
Good morning to my beautiful ladies here and our fellow brothers though una can wail like you normally did before. This post is not for you but for ladies to share their opinion 👎👎

I saw a post on instablog where a ladies share her opinion on why you shouldn't marry a man who cannot afford the thing you can do for yourself.

Back to my own view, I think it's not about how much he earn but how much he can give, a man can be rich and be stingy at the same time while a man can be rich, give and still not care about cheating thereby disrespecting your feeling.

I met a guy this year, got to his apartment saw there are no things there when I asked he said he just moved to this state with a new job but still setting up small by small, I said that's good to me for the fact that he's going to one of the old disciplined church while also he has completed is Master unless he has no ambition that he will be definitely good to go.

Later I discovered something about him, he don't used to call unless you chat don't know how it look somehow to me because I don't like calls too but I feel somehow, if you ain't online, he will wait till you come online to chat whether two or more days, he's after sexual thing though he said he's a believer, our house is not far to his place I normally trekked that's why I don't care about tfare at all so one day, I loosed my hair, went to his place to greet him omo he doesn't even look my way but after his satisfaction and later on he began one filmsy excuse of waiting for his brother to come that I should prepare to leave now. it didn't bother me too much until I got home and call my brain to order that am I for real with this guy, I later left him but he keep begging me it's not what I think, but I told him to come and see outside for him to spend assurance while herefused to that

Omo ladies come and share your experience concerning this una guys are welcome with your bashing

A love without giving is a lust. It's not about be material or how much he can give but the willing in his heart and to love someone without caring about his materialistic is not an offence

flokii:
Hanty don.go chop gb0la come.her dey use guys catch cruise..
@OP Hope the guy drill you wella.