Funkybabee:
Ladies to you

Fiscus105:

words instead of vulgar above.

Funkybabee:
Good morning to my beautiful ladies here and our fellow brothers though una can wail like you normally did before. This post is not for you but for ladies to share their opinion 👎👎

I saw a post on instablog where a ladies share her opinion on why you shouldn't marry a man who cannot afford the thing you can do for yourself.

Back to my own view, I think it's not about how much he earn but how much he can give, a man can be rich and be stingy at the same time while a man can be rich, give and still not care about cheating thereby disrespecting your feeling.

I met a guy this year, got to his apartment saw there are no things there when I asked he said he just moved to this state with a new job but still setting up small by small, I said that's good to me for the fact that he's going to one of the old disciplined church while also he has completed is Master unless he has no ambition that he will be definitely good to go.

Later I discovered something about him, he don't used to call unless you chat don't know how it look somehow to me because I don't like calls too but I feel somehow, if you ain't online, he will wait till you come online to chat whether two or more days, he's after sexual thing though he said he's a believer, our house is not far to his place I normally trekked that's why I don't care about tfare at all so one day, I loosed my hair, went to his place to greet him omo he doesn't even look my way but after his satisfaction and later on he began one filmsy excuse of waiting for his brother to come that I should prepare to leave now. it didn't bother me too much until I got home and call my brain to order that am I for real with this guy, I later left him but he keep begging me it's not what I think, but I told him to come and see outside for him to spend assurance while herefused to that

Omo ladies come and share your experience concerning this una guys are welcome with your bashing

A love without giving is a lust. It's not about be material or how much he can give but the willing in his heart and to love someone without caring about his materialistic is not an offence

AllBlack:


You are a big pile of vulcanized shit.
you want to correct your father? Look for your mate and go back to primary school. Shit is an absolutely correct word and I chose it because it best describes you.

SyrusdeHansome:
U for tell us say de guy use u like toilet tissue wer u be. 4 u to bring dis kind nonsense to de public e mean say u be big girl with no sense. Is it that most of u don't have sense or what?

Fiscus105:

Shit , it's vulgar word like pussy.

AllBlack:


Yes and I chose to use the word because that is exactly what you are.

pansophist:
While I have no issue with the topic, will breakup of the relationship/marriage be the automatic consequence if the man looses his source of income and can't afford to spend on her anymore?

Persephone1:


Lemme park here.

MODIFIED: I see most guys read this thread upside down or why are they hyperventilating?

What's the usefulness of you lots in a relationship if you can't spend on your woman? What can you offer as a typical Nigerian man?

superlanny:
Women sha and this their weird mentality. They never want to struggle with a man, who or what says a man earning lower than you today will be incapable of earning more than you in the nearest future. Life no be competition, because he can afford what you can is not a guarantee the relationship will work, breakfast is and will always be a steady factor.

But they see nothing wrong in a man dating a broke and hungry hoe.

Na why many of them dey wear wedding gown pray for husband, evening newspaper dey sweet read, just continue forming James Bond

Michelle55:
Wahala for those in relationships! Those of us sleeping soundly with a huge smile on our faces, let's gather here mbok.😂😂😂🌝

pocohantas:


Will you break up with your wife is she loses her limbs and can't cook or clean anymore? I ask because I have never seen you or any man at all ask this question when it is a man tabling the usual requirements.

Fiscus105:

Fiscus105:
Can you imagine out of thousands reading it, it's only that can read it and understand.

What is different between her post and every other posts on front page in term of speech writings?

Oga, u only wanted to call a dog bad name in other to hang it jare.

Posts here are not official writing.

onadana:



You don't want to spend but shamelessly you want free punanny... bro e no dey work like that again.Love is a doing word with reciprocating.

pansophist:


Can't cook or clean? Did she lost the skill or just refuse to carry her matrimonial duties?

About loosing her limb, of course not, that will not lead to a breakup. Then my pledge at the alter would be meaningless.

pocohantas:


Did he lose his job or just refuse not to carry out his matrimonial duties? Of course it won't lead to breakup, her pledge at the altar would be meaningless too.

pansophist:


He lost his job, as already stated in my first comment, that is why he can't carry his matrimonial duties.

In as much as a woman understand that life is not as planned, and bad things do happens to men too, then I agree with the proposition of the topic.

Otherwise, it's just to mask rabid hypergamy for what it is not.

onadana:

You're so right.Love goes awry once it's one sided.When you give I give respect dey plenty.Shameless men shy away from their responsibilities.A man is the head,we should prove it.

Funkybabee:
Ladies to you

Slimplush:

And you mean, the offer a woman can make is taking care of home and spreading leg.... TF?? ...

AllBlack:


You are a big pile of vulcanized shit.
you want to correct your father? Look for your mate and go back to primary school. Shit is an absolutely correct word and I chose it because it best describes you.

Postinor:
a nice good dick,I would love to Bleep u

pocohantas:


Then they throw the love word around. They think any union would stand on just love withput duty and accountability? You wouldn't want a woman who isn't homely, but you want to shy away from provision. Tuehh!

Michelle55:
Wahala for those in relationships! Those of us sleeping soundly with a huge smile on our faces, let's gather here mbok.😂😂😂🌝

Sonnobax15:

No guyman out there is stingy.....

My own banny can attest to that......even with the little I have as a Hustler,she can attest to the fact that I do try my best to make her smile. .....cuz one thing is sure,and that's the fact that she dearly worth every single penny I splash on her........


The earlier every 9ja banny realize that a guy wouldn't spend foolishly on her unless he sees her as someone with a stable head on her neck,the better for her..