So you really believe that marrying a 3rd class degree holder will affect your kids academic performance ?

Yeah i do. if its something that resides in the Genes (that you could tell by simply engaging her in clever conversations), yes. . It could affect my kids and i wouldn't want that, i've seen living samples and i have same as friends. But like i said earlier, if she's Intelligent, but other trivial factors worked against her while in school, then well, i myt reconsider Though i've always prayed to God to give me a very brilliant pretty chick as a life companion. . So that when our genes cross-fertilize, we could produce exceptional kids. . .

eminemkayc:

Yeah i do. if its something that resides in the Genes (that you could tell by simply engaging her in clever conversations), yes. . It could affect my kids and i wouldn't want that, i've seen living samples and i have same as friends. But like i said earlier, if she's Intelligent, but other trivial factors worked against her while in school, then well, i myt reconsider     Though i've always prayed to God to give me a very brilliant pretty chick as a life companion. . So that when our genes cross-fertilize, we could produce exceptional kids. . .

Ima Ima:

i would expect u to speak with wisdom. my mum had primary skul cert.did catering and house wivery in a catering skul.no uni or secondary skul.she even used to go for dinners and cocktails with my dad and mix with other educated wives,

and all SIX of us: the kids i mean are not dumb.there are managers,writer,accountant, banker><>>>blah blah blah. she says she dint go 2 skul but all her kids can cover up 4 her

so your analytic whatever isnt accurate. God is above all.

What part will your own gene play? Or are you suggesting that your wife's gene will be the dominant one in child's mental make up?

Ima Ima:

@justwise sorry 4 d mixup my posts were directed at eminemkacy and not u.thanks 4 handlin dis well.

eminemkayc:

brilliant q
i want a symbiotic kind of interference as regards chromosone transfer into our would-be kid(s). Personally, iv spent a chunk of my life's span working on some research issues in deep-sea engineering and only unwind with [b]intelligent rap music and by God's grace, i know my thinking potentials is so high and deep ( i know cos its in the veins,[/b] got two uncles who r top researchers in the medical field etc) and would want my partner to have at most the same (this is a personal dream iv always wished for). So we'l both contribute to the formation of the child. Mathematically, the trait transfer to the unborn child during child formation is still unclear but has been shown to be a direct function of the build up of the traits contained in the genes of the direct parents or grand-parents. . .

Credit to you for what you have achieved in your field, nobody can take that away from you, however, your intelligence and potentials 'maybe' restricted to the field of deep-sea engineering research, there are other areas of life you maybe out of your dept.
I haven't seen any research that backed up the claim that people with good degrees make better partners or produce better kids, marrying somebody who is as intelligent as you are will not necessarily translate to a successful marriage life and this is the point of this argument

Thats the irony of it all cos if you'd met me in person, you'l get a complete misconception of my personality. truth is, am a completely grotesque individual cos i RAP (so well, rap virtually [size=16pt]ALL[/size] EMINEMS TRACKS both released, his features and unsigned hype) , crack ribs, derive mechnics equations (advanced ones), do computer aided designs and models as well as finite element analysis, write programs, socialize properly etc. In fact the last thing that'l come to mind when one meets me its the research part of my person. so it's all about TIME-MANAGEMENT!! am like a computer, i mange this resource called TIME so well. yes no one's arguing about intelligence equaling success in marriage/relationship, but, hey in em's set theory a chick's brilliance MUST be part of the items she's got to offer before she becomes part of shady's life. Yes, i got all the awards in my own time, but i kept all of that sheet aside when i left the skul gates i knew the potentials lied within and not in the inscriptions on the document and that has made me what i am today, not forgetting God's approval!!

eminemkayc:

Thats the irony of it all cos if you'd met me in person, you'l get a complete misconception of my personality. truth is, am a completely grotesque individual cos i RAP (so well, rap virtually [size=16pt]ALL[/size] EMINEMS TRACKS both released, his features and unsigned hype) , crack ribs, derive mechnics equations (advanced ones), do computer aided designs and models as well as finite element analysis, write programs, socialize properly etc. In fact the last thing that'l come to mind when one meets me its the research part of my person. so it's all about TIME-MANAGEMENT!! am like a computer, i mange this resource called TIME so well. yes no one's arguing about intelligence equaling success in marriage/relationship, but, hey in em's set theory a chick's brilliance MUST be part of the items she's got to offer before she becomes part of shady's life. Yes, i got all the awards in my own time, but i kept all of that sheet aside when i left the skul gates i knew the potentials lied within and not in the inscriptions on the document and that has made me what i am today, not forgetting God's approval!!

fxtopedia:

At times I smile seeing some nasty thread making front page!
However, there could be a reason and that is why I feel like
responding to this thread,

Marriage is beyond degree, material thing and even money.
That does not mean that, the couple will not be wealthy, but
considering those thing that can fade away before marriage
could spell doom to the couple.

If you marry someone with 1st class and after 5years of marriage
she started bed-wetting what would you do? Or she become blind
after wedding what would you do?

Or you marry a lady with good grade but after wedding you discovered
that her womb had been damaged due to abortion and that she cannot
put to bed in life, what would you do? I can go on and on,


One of the virtues to look for is CHARACTER!

I'm not disputing your claims but my question is: If you married somebody as intelligent as you are will that make a successful marriage life?

Da Doctor:


I AGREE WITH THE ABOVE. BUT MAINATIN THAT NOTHIBG STOPS A LADY FROM MAKING AT LEASST A GENTLE MAN GRADE 2.2 AND HAVING GOOD CHARACTERS.

IN THE FAMILY WAY, U NEVA CAN TELL WHO WUD CARRY THE FAMILY TOMMOROW. THOUGH CHARACTER IS BEST, EDUCATION IS STILL OKAY TOO. AS A LECTURER I KNOW THAT THE DULLEST OF STUDENTS MAKE AT LEAST A 2.4 GRADE WHICH IS A PALTRY 48 PERCENT IN AGGREGATE. AND SOME SCHOOLS EVEN TAKE LOWER GRADES FOR 2.2. IF U SEE WHAT THESE LADIES DO HERE. YOU WUD PUT A TAG OF 1ST CLASS ON ANY ONE YOU ARE INTERESTED IN. LOL

ckc:

Hi pals just want to ask of your sincere opinions? Wuld u marry a lady that had 3rd class in her degree?

Da Doctor:


I AGREE WITH THE ABOVE. BUT MAINATIN THAT NOTHIBG STOPS A LADY FROM MAKING AT LEASST A GENTLE MAN GRADE 2.2 AND HAVING GOOD CHARACTERS.

IN THE FAMILY WAY, U NEVA CAN TELL WHO WUD CARRY THE FAMILY TOMMOROW. THOUGH CHARACTER IS BEST, EDUCATION IS STILL OKAY TOO. AS A LECTURER I KNOW THAT THE DULLEST OF STUDENTS MAKE AT LEAST A 2.4 GRADE WHICH IS A PALTRY 48 PERCENT IN AGGREGATE. AND SOME SCHOOLS EVEN TAKE LOWER GRADES FOR 2.2. IF U SEE WHAT THESE LADIES DO HERE. YOU WUD PUT A TAG OF 1ST CLASS ON ANY ONE YOU ARE INTERESTED IN. LOL