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Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by LordReed(m): 3:58pm On Jan 29 |
Nataliace:Why would you leave your children and go to your parents house? 1 Like |
Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by grandstar(m): 3:59pm On Jan 29 |
ikeno: The man should stop sleeping around. She only recently found out about his cheating. He is womanizing full time. It is hard for him to stop |
Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by CandidAdmin(m): 3:59pm On Jan 29 |
Golan007:Yeah, of course. But the wrong thing here is the "cheating" Marry ten if you want. But that cheating is wrong. |
Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by Golan007: 4:06pm On Jan 29 |
CandidAdmin: Hmm! How is cheating avoided when a man is taking a new concubine? |
Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by bolabadmus38: 4:11pm On Jan 29 |
You actually made a big mistake y leaving your matrimonial home even leaving your own biological children.Gaba!. I believe you are wrongly or I'll advised. You didn't really ponder on your decision thoroughly. My dear,and other young married women over there,I want you to know that men don't really care about their wives leaving them again. Some men look at it as an opportunity to reorganize their lives. Anyway, it's really unfortunate. Honestly,I feel there is something you are not saying here. Probably, you are making life miserable for the man and he does not want die by depression. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by DarkJeddi(m): 4:13pm On Jan 29 |
DestinedForGrea:Men are polygamous by nature.. The earlier you accept it and make peace with that the better.. You can keep on quoting some holy book in delusion,if you like.. 1 Like |
Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by KanuSE: 4:15pm On Jan 29 |
Nataliace: I don't think you truly love your husband and he can see it. I believe coming back to your hubby was actually driven by necessity and not love, you came back bcoz you wondered why he wasn't chasing after you. Sopé otílo! 1 Like |
Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by chidiokay: 4:15pm On Jan 29 |
BloomingDale: Should every woman take your advise, how many women would remained married go n sleep over it Despite he was cheating there was peace in the marriage until she discovered and use pepper body destroy her home I guess OP took advice from single friends like you, don't know when married women will have sense, naa that there single friend wey no get boyfriend from morning reach night dem go dey follow for advice, it never ends well. 1 Like |
Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by aktolly54(m): 4:16pm On Jan 29 |
Nataliace:you don't have good adviser , your husband cheat and you pack out yourself thinking he will come and beg you. |
Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by DarkJeddi(m): 4:17pm On Jan 29 |
BobbieZion:You can believe what you like.. The evidence is there for all to see.. The difference between polygamy and adultery is the society,not biology.. |
Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by ppogba: 4:22pm On Jan 29 |
Gadafii: The Stupid wife featuring: Toto Decay, Iyabo Ojo, Kunle Remi and RMD. |
Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by CandidAdmin(m): 4:22pm On Jan 29 |
Golan007:Because marriage comes in. That's what makes polygamos socially acceptable. Nobody wants to be called and starts hearing stuffs like I saw mama sikura sleeping with your husband or mama Ngozie. That cheating destroys moral lifestyle of the society. That's just it. |
Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by Golan007: 4:23pm On Jan 29 |
CandidAdmin: You haven't explained how it is performed though. |
Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by BloomingDale(f): 4:33pm On Jan 29 |
chidiokay: Imagine getting a disease all in the name of marriage. You are not serious. |
Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by Macnnoli4(m): 4:35pm On Jan 29 |
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Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by Macnnoli4(m): 4:43pm On Jan 29 |
You should be thankful to God that he hasn't given you STDs or HIV. My advice is to do what May Edochie did, leave him, get support from your family and friends during this trying times, start life anew, become financially independent,you can be closer to God if you like. Just concentrate on your happiness. The truth is you can't change him, he doesn't even respect you enough to even pretend to change plus you won't be happy even if you come back. If you are sexually frustrated after leaving him, use intimacy gadgets. Look for a man that will truly respect you he can be a bit younger or older doesn't matter. |
Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by CandidAdmin(m): 4:45pm On Jan 29 |
Golan007: I don't think it needs an explanation. As long as there's a marriage and the wife or family's wife are aware, that alone displaces the word cheating. The only way cheating can be brought in is if you've promised her to never to marry another one. So obviously, you aren't supposed to make that promise. When our fore fathers wanted more, they married another not going about sleeping with women. This conditions cancelled the word cheating. And if you still want more, marry more. I think the reason why men prefer to cheat is so that they can avoid responsibilities. |
Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by izubext007: 4:47pm On Jan 29 |
For your enemy to catch ur husband , u need to work on ur self |
Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by Sagefromtheeast: 4:48pm On Jan 29 |
Nataliace: GET A JOB,LADY. |
Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by Trustworthiness: 5:00pm On Jan 29 |
DestinedForGrea: Men being polygamist in nature is factual and not lie. It does not meant your are justifying what is wrong. It is a fact. Some men can control themselves while some can't. Reason best known to them. When a man decides to free his will and go polygamous, no womon can stop it. He can rather do it legally by marrying another wife or he goes adulterous. 1 Like |
Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by chidiokay: 5:06pm On Jan 29 |
BloomingDale: We have a true story before us, the lady in question didnt claim she was infected at any time, leave imagination People get disease/Infections outside marriage doesnt make it less hurtful & bad ... Hot soup requires patience, a wise woman builds her home |
Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by Sagefromtheeast: 5:08pm On Jan 29 |
BloomingDale: I'VE SEEN WOMEN THAT TOLERATE MUCH WORSE. IT'S NOT A SELF ESTEEM ISSUE,IT'S A LAZINESS ISSUE. SHE CAN'T WORK FOR HER SELF SUSTENANCE. SHE JUST HAS TO LEECH OFF OF SOMEONE ELSE. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by BloomingDale(f): 5:08pm On Jan 29 |
chidiokay: Good luck to those whom decide to stay. Only a cheating wife or one with low self esteem/financial dependence will stay. |
Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by sylve11: 5:09pm On Jan 29 |
Zonefree: Lol |
Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by BloomingDale(f): 5:11pm On Jan 29 |
Sagefromtheeast: Yeah, no decent woman or one whom loves the husband will stay in such a marriage. They both deserve each other. |
Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by ariesbull: 5:13pm On Jan 29 |
Nataliace:your stupid...you left ! U were listening to Facebook bitter feminists Now you are out .... By and stop begging ...enter the streets |
Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by Enice(m): 5:17pm On Jan 29 |
DestinedForGrea:Men are polygamous in nature. That's a fact. Study animals and you will know this is true. The difference between a man and an animal is that men are civilised while animals are not. It's civilization and the rule of law that make men stick with one woman |
Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by TheFarmer1: 5:17pm On Jan 29 |
BadBradley: I've taken time to read through some of your posts and comments here on Nairaland. Not only are they lacking in knowledge, they also portray you as a daft herling. Take some time. Read through your comments calling Africans names. "Black people with bestial impulses and primitive material showoffs. But they are the poorest and the most destitute of all races.". That's one of the very many mean things you've posted. It shows how bereft you are in terms of intelligence and knowledge. You have a lot of growing up to do. |
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