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Re: I'm Lost, She Is Pregnant. by ALFADOS(m): 4:21pm On Apr 18 |
Pious101:no kill person with laughs, all these item how can he afford it lol |
Re: I'm Lost, She Is Pregnant. by Sapasenator: 4:23pm On Apr 18 |
Monday60655: 1 samuel 15 v 3 Now go, attack the Amalekites and totally destroy [1] everything that belongs to them. Do not spare them; put to death men and women, children and infants, cattle and sheep, camels and donkeys.'" Your God is commanding children to be killed above. Even infants. I am sure this is the same God that has told you abortion is evil right? I don't blame you at all, it's not your fault that you think that way. |
Re: I'm Lost, She Is Pregnant. by mrdharkchild(m): 4:24pm On Apr 18 |
purples25: So he'd know the pains in bringing up a girl child and still watch as history will repeat itself with his own daughter, as he did with this young girl. Some people are not sexually starved, most of these mistakes are from peer influence, society and social media trend. We forget that we make other people's mistakes and suffer it alone. Lolz. (Music) Kanye West--->>> Violent Crime 1 Like |
Re: I'm Lost, She Is Pregnant. by chinex11(m): 4:30pm On Apr 18 |
Ynix:what I am saying is and irresponsible person should have no business with raising a child. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Lost, She Is Pregnant. by Barcalee: 4:42pm On Apr 18 |
Trevor125: Guy it is what it is confront your fears. I'm not trying to black mail you emotionally.But what if the lady dies while trying to abort,is your life not ruined all the same? Which ever way it goes it's still murder. Just let the baby come and begin to prepare yourself to become a responsible father. Let me tell you it's not by the work we do that we are able to take good care of our wife and kids oooo,guy na grace of God. Some people chop money pass us and they can't even feed their family of four properly it's not gain saying is what I have seen |
Re: I'm Lost, She Is Pregnant. by Monday60655(m): 4:50pm On Apr 18 |
Sapasenator: I don't blame you. This is the very reason the Bible said my people die for lack of knowledge. You can't read a portion of the Bible in the arm of the flesh and expect Holy Spirit insight. If not you should have known why God destroyed the Amalekites. It didn't even stop there, ask yourself about Sodom and Gomorrah etc. But no need engaging this with people like you. As I said before, the evil that men do live with them. Psalm 25: 14; The secret of the Lord is with them that fear Him, and He will show them His covenant. |
Re: I'm Lost, She Is Pregnant. by Monday60655(m): 4:52pm On Apr 18 |
Sapasenator: Who created it? I should be the one asking you to wake up from your slumber so that you will not perish for lack of knowledge. |
Re: I'm Lost, She Is Pregnant. by Sapasenator: 4:56pm On Apr 18 |
Monday60655: Continue in your religious delusion. What knowledgeable are you talking about? The most prayerful and religious countries are the poorest in the world and live lower than animals. You are not different from someone who is high on drugs. |
Re: I'm Lost, She Is Pregnant. by Monday60655(m): 5:02pm On Apr 18 |
Sapasenator: Why are you shying away from the subject of discuss? May God have mercy on you and open your spiritual eye to see the wondrous things of the Lord in Jesus name, Amen. |
Re: I'm Lost, She Is Pregnant. by Sapasenator: 5:02pm On Apr 18 |
Monday60655: I don't blame you my friend and I actually feel some level of pity for you at the level of representative religious brainwashing you must have been subjected to all through life coupled with the environment in Nigeria. It is honestly not your fault that you think this way. |
Re: I'm Lost, She Is Pregnant. by Dennisochampa: 5:04pm On Apr 18 |
maasoap:Let's assume d lady opened up to your son and tells him she will never have a child because of an abortion she carried out b4... And he's your only son... Will u allow him marry her... Yes or no |
Re: I'm Lost, She Is Pregnant. by Monday60655(m): 5:06pm On Apr 18 |
Sapasenator: The same way I pity you because your adversary has succeeded in blocking your spiritual eye and blindfold from knowing the truth. May God open your spiritual eye to see the wondrous things of the Lord in Jesus name, Amen. |
Re: I'm Lost, She Is Pregnant. by Sapasenator: 5:06pm On Apr 18 |
Monday60655: May you find purpose for your life and start using your God-given brain to actually think and solve real life problems. I honestly feel sad right now thinking about you and the amount of repetitive brainwashing campaigns you and most religious Nigerians have been subjected to. Really sad for you my friend. You really stand no chance. |
Re: I'm Lost, She Is Pregnant. by steeltrust: 5:06pm On Apr 18 |
Bro Iβm sure youβre blaming your parent for bringing you to this world unprepared. Abortion is not a sin. If you feel you donβt have the resource yet to take care of a child then donβt bring them. It in same bible that said if you canβt cater for your family it a sin on it own too Abortion mission if not you go suffer |
Re: I'm Lost, She Is Pregnant. by GreatAchiever1: 5:08pm On Apr 18 |
Sapasenator: We are all a product of brainwash, but the question is what are we brainwashed by? Even by rejecting God, you are also brainwashed. Again if you are not financially well to do to train a child, why have sex, why can't you wait till you are atleast financially capable, or were you forced at gunpoint to have sex? 1 Like |
Re: I'm Lost, She Is Pregnant. by Konjiboii: 5:12pm On Apr 18 |
Tel her to keep the baby but let her know that after the child is born you will do DNA, if sheβs trying to hook you then that scare will make her rethink and take it to the next man or terminate it. Which ever way the sin wonβt be on your head. |
Re: I'm Lost, She Is Pregnant. by GreatAchiever1: 5:13pm On Apr 18 |
MOG6670: You talk like being religious also means being stupid and dumb. Some religious folks are just as smart as an atheist and the likes. Have you heard of Christian apologetics? Have you seen a debate between a Christian and an atheist about the existence of God. What you say is wrong, even some who ain't even Christians will agree with me on this. |
Re: I'm Lost, She Is Pregnant. by Jaysonblack: 5:15pm On Apr 18 |
Odogwu congrats sir! Abeg let us know abt the naming papa bon boy |
Re: I'm Lost, She Is Pregnant. by Sapasenator: 5:16pm On Apr 18 |
GreatAchiever1: I was brainwashed by church and religion most of my life. I have been exactly where you are now and was even born into it. I attended church 5 times a week, preached in buses, morning, cries, countless crusades and evangelism. I have done countless restitution, abstaining from sex or immorality as you people will call. I know you very well my friend because I was like you the most of my life. I have also had the privilege to travel round the world and observe different cultures and realized I was lied to all my life. From Asia to North America to Europe, I realized the biggest mental bondage in Nigeria is RELIGION. I am courageous enough to review and challenge everything I was taught and compare with realities. |
Re: I'm Lost, She Is Pregnant. by Monday60655(m): 5:19pm On Apr 18 |
Sapasenator: A word is enough for the wise. No wonder the Bible said no matter what you do, a perish child must perish. But I pray, may you not perish as a result of your ignorant in Jesus name, Amen. Rev.22.11 - Let the one who is doing wrong continue to do wrong; the one who is vile, continue to be vile; the one who is good, continue to do good; and the one who is holy, continue in holiness." Rev.22.12 - "See, I am coming soon, and my reward is with me, to repay all according to their deeds. The choice is yours my friend. |
Re: I'm Lost, She Is Pregnant. by Monday60655(m): 5:20pm On Apr 18 |
Sapasenator: A word is enough for the wise. No wonder the Bible said no matter what you do, a perish child must perish. But I pray, may you not perish as a result of your ignorant in Jesus name, Amen. Rev.22.11 - Let the one who is doing wrong continue to do wrong; the one who is vile, continue to be vile; the one who is good, continue to do good; and the one who is holy, continue in holiness." Rev.22.12 - "See, I am coming soon, and my reward is with me, to repay all according to their deeds. The choice is yours my friend. |
Re: I'm Lost, She Is Pregnant. by GreatAchiever1: 5:23pm On Apr 18 |
maasoap: People lose pregnancies in the situation called miscarriages, hence it isn't on their hands. Again this is the consequence he has to bear, it is now his responsibility. Besides if he is financially not capable then it should be a motivation to work hard to fend for the child. He is broke today doesn't mean he will be broke forever. |
Re: I'm Lost, She Is Pregnant. by Sapasenator: 5:29pm On Apr 18 |
Monday60655: You see my problem with you. You abilities to think for yourself has been completely decimated throug years of repetitive mind programming. You always have to quote a book riddled with so many errors. A book you or your pastors dont even know the origin. This makes me truly sad for you and I Sincerely apologize for what you have been made to pass through. I honestly have siblings ike yourself who are equally brainwashed and still in mental captivity. That is what happens when you are threatened with hell fire all your life, you end up living hell fire on earth. |
Re: I'm Lost, She Is Pregnant. by MOG6670(m): 5:29pm On Apr 18 |
GreatAchiever1:be religous is good, being too religious kill "faster". one becoming a athiest is "for me" completely red flag. about what we are discussing, let kill cook and eat the bull once and for all: 30% of this guy problem will be solved if he live and maintain the pregnancy, and on another hand 70% of his problems will be solved if he eliminated this pregnancy. if you did'nt agree with this assertation, then point down ur reason in number. |
Re: I'm Lost, She Is Pregnant. by ufotunang: 5:34pm On Apr 18 |
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Re: I'm Lost, She Is Pregnant. by GreatAchiever1: 5:36pm On Apr 18 |
Sapasenator: I agree that Nigeria mental bondage is Religion, but if you were a true Christian, you would have known that most of what Nigerian pastors preached is different from what is in the Bible. And besides, if you were a true Christian, you shouldn't be looking at how Nigeria Christianity is, because we are not to be modelled by the Nation but by Christ according to His word in the scriptures. If you were a true Christian, you would want to hold to true biblical Christianity and wouldn't support the act of abortion in any way. |
Re: I'm Lost, She Is Pregnant. by Lovelydaisies: 5:36pm On Apr 18 |
drimzsmoke: You have the trait of a murderer. Give this advice to your sister's husband or do it to your own wife. |
Re: I'm Lost, She Is Pregnant. by Allisgud: 5:38pm On Apr 18 |
When u cajole her come dey nack the pkekus u dey form smart street boy,now he don happen in psquare voice,ur leg dey shake for ground |
Re: I'm Lost, She Is Pregnant. by Sapasenator: 5:44pm On Apr 18 |
GreatAchiever1: Nope. I have seen pastors who trully believe and live by the Bible. My mother is the greatest Christian I have ever know who lives and practices the Bible. Even then, lots of things in the Bible don't align with real life. I am not trying to ridicule you or your beliefs. Far from it but I am am able to evaluate everything I have learnt and compared with realities. I have also realized you can live a morally upright life without the Bible or religion. I have observed people while in Japan and Asia for example. |
Re: I'm Lost, She Is Pregnant. by GreatAchiever1: 5:47pm On Apr 18 |
MOG6670: 1. You said being religious is good, so what did the Bible say about fornication. So if you neglect that and continue, it resulted in a child and you want to abort it. If you say being religious is good, why would you neglect it twice. 2. If he has the child, you are looking at it from a negative standpoint, what if he works hard to fend for the child if it's his. And train up the child as his responsibility. Having a child has an effect to make a man to become more responsible. And in the future could be a blessing to him. 3. If we want to keep being negative, what if in the process of the abortion, the lady dies or her womb gets destroyed, are you not heaping more problems for yourself? |
Re: I'm Lost, She Is Pregnant. by GreatAchiever1: 5:58pm On Apr 18 |
Sapasenator: Yes, I'm aware there are pastors who live according to the Bible, believe me, I do follow them online and listen to their sermons, and in some of their spaces, they help me to become a better man. Your statement "The Bible don't align with real life". Are you trying to say that the Bible ain't true but just a bunch of fairytale or am I misunderstanding you? Yes, one can live a "morally upright life", but the question is, is this life all there is to live? Is there a God somewhere who commands us to live according to what He has revealed and not what we think is morally right? Also like I said before, I learn also from Christians who also preach or talk with facts and logic. Being a Christian doesn't mean one is illogical. |
Re: I'm Lost, She Is Pregnant. by MOG6670(m): 6:17pm On Apr 18 |
GreatAchiever1:your point are good gnd valid. But let scrutnize it. (about ur point 1 thats if he didn't commit the forniction. But in this case, the did have been done already. So living the pregnancy is just like bathing a pig because the guy will definetly cheat after marriage. Where love did nt exist, commitment will be absenbe (ur point 2) the guy will not work hard just because of the marriage. Because he didnt love, but instead he'll be depress and whine off. U can only be motivate by what u loue and cherish. (Ur point 3) yes she may die or live, life is all about takin a calculative risk and this risk is worth taking. The out come. Let said the guy love his banny, i shuld have support keeping the pregnancy 100%. But in this case ir a big no. #At last sex before marriage! |
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