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Re: Please Help Ayomide - An Abandoned Child by queenafric(f): 5:08pm On May 11, 2012
I never at any point made it look like TeHN didn't want to help. I only stated that I didn't get a reply to my last three emails. No insult intended, but the only reply I got after I sent my contact details to d group's email was ur last post on dis thread b4 this. I also didn't get a reply when I sent another email this morning asking if all was well. I understand that d child's situation is not life threatening but at d same time, I think it is common courtesy for d group to have replied to my emails explaining the situation of things to me. Moreso, on Monday, u guys already told ur representative to hold on about making that trip wit me, but I told her we can still make d trip since I was already on my way to see her that same Monday.
Now to move ahead with this case, I will be making another trip soon, inorder to conclude the enquiries concerning d available homes and their fees. I apologise if my earlier post was misunderstood or caused any harm to TeHN's reputation. That wasn't my intention. Hope we can now move forward in unity for the purpose of achieving a success story soon. Meanwhile, expect pictures from our last trip soon
Thank u.
Re: Please Help Ayomide - An Abandoned Child by SisiKill1: 5:19pm On May 11, 2012
Very Admirable. . . QueenAfric, may God Bless you and give you the strength to finish this good thing you have started.

I'm a bit perplexed at some people's responses here. I see words like " Dumb Founded" and "Shocked" and "Speechless" and it makes me wonder. . . If maybe these people who are dumb foundedely and speechlessly shocked don't live in Naija. Surely they are not telling us this is the first time they have heard or witnessed such pathetic stories of child neglect?

To make it very clear, I am not against helping this child. . .I just think it is very hypocritical to act all shocked and dismayed over this one child when on your way to the office or market or Mega Chicken you probably drove past 10 like her. Is it until someone brings the case to NL before we take notice? Is that what we are saying?!!

@ QueenAfric
In your last post you used "We". .i.e We are looking for a home to put her...etc, can we safely assume the we includes the girls grandmother? It would be very high handed to think one can just remove a child from the only family she knows and place her with strangers with no say whatsoever from the grandmother. Again it is admirable that you want to help, I'm grateful that there are still people like you who take notice of the things that "just ain't right". . .God Bless you for that but please proceed with caution and please include the grandma in all the decisions you make because at the end of the day. . .You are still a stranger. . .one with good intentions but a stranger nonetheless and the woman, despite her inability to care for the girl as well as she should, is still her RELATIVE!!!

This is what Moremi in his usual gbagba brashy way is trying to point out. . . Lol

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Re: Please Help Ayomide - An Abandoned Child by r231(m): 5:32pm On May 11, 2012
queenafric: I never at any point made it look like TeHN didn't want to help. I only stated that I didn't get a reply to my last three emails. No insult intended, but the only reply I got after I sent my contact details to d group's email was ur last post on dis thread b4 this. I also didn't get a reply when I sent another email this morning asking if all was well. I understand that d child's situation is not life threatening but at d same time, I think it is common courtesy for d group to have replied to my emails explaining the situation of things to me. Moreso, on Monday, u guys already told ur representative to hold on about making that trip wit me, but I told her we can still make d trip since I was already on my way to see her that same Monday.
Now to move ahead with this case, I will be making another trip soon, inorder to conclude the enquiries concerning d available homes and their fees. I apologise if my earlier post was misunderstood or caused any harm to TeHN's reputation. That wasn't my intention. Hope we can now move forward in unity for the purpose of achieving a success story soon. Meanwhile, expect pictures from our last trip soon
Thank u.

Hi,

I replied all your mails including the one you sent with the phone number and that's how olowotee was able to contact you and go for the visit. We sent you another email today to update you on what is going on as well
Re: Please Help Ayomide - An Abandoned Child by OAM4J: 5:44pm On May 11, 2012
queenafric: I never at any point made it look like TeHN didn't want to help. I only stated that I didn't get a reply to my last three emails. No insult intended, but the only reply I got after I sent my contact details to d group's email was ur last post on dis thread b4 this. I also didn't get a reply when I sent another email this morning asking if all was well. I understand that d child's situation is not life threatening but at d same time, I think it is common courtesy for d group to have replied to my emails explaining the situation of things to me. Moreso, on Monday, u guys already told ur representative to hold on about making that trip wit me, but I told her we can still make d trip since I was already on my way to see her that same Monday.
Now to move ahead with this case, I will be making another trip soon, inorder to conclude the enquiries concerning d available homes and their fees. I apologise if my earlier post was misunderstood or caused any harm to TeHN's reputation. That wasn't my intention. Hope we can now move forward in unity for the purpose of achieving a success story soon. Meanwhile, expect pictures from our last trip soon
Thank u.

Please check your mailbox, we sent you a reply this morning and apologized for the delay. We sincerely understand and appreciate your passion over this case, it is not in our character not to respond to mails, we were caught up with some pressing issues and as you might have noticed a team manages TeHN, so every mail and issue has to be discussed and agreed upon by the team before we respond. By next week we will hopefully give maximum attention to the girl's case.

Please we will be expecting your mails with the pictures and details of your findings so far. Well done and may God bless your efforts.

TeHN



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I didnt see R231 post before posting this
Re: Please Help Ayomide - An Abandoned Child by queenafric(f): 6:17pm On May 11, 2012
@ Sisi_kill, the 'we' includes d girl's grandma, TeHN and myself. She (d grandma) even prefers d child being put in a home but on d condition that she can visit her. We (myself and TeHN) can't put her in a home without d full consent of her grandma and even her father. I do appreciate ur advice about being cautious in whatever I do. Thanks so much ma.

@ R231, wao! It's nice to hear from u again. It felt like forever..lol. Actually, d last email I got from u was d one u requested for my contact details and it was dated May 3rd. I sent 2 other emails thereafter b4 today, d first one contains my contacts while d 2nd one was to notify u guys dat OlowoTee had contacted me and asking u guys to acknowlege it. I sent another one today at 8.04am, made d comment on dis thread about not hearing from u guys at 11.28am . It was when u replied dis thread stating u already responded to my email, that was when I now checked my mailbox and confirmed u replied at 2.38pm. Well, let me just say that am glad u replied. It made my day, and thank u too.

@ OAM4J, I am happy we were able to sort out all d misunderstanding. It sure made my day. I will be looking forward to a happing ending soon. Thanks sir.
Re: Please Help Ayomide - An Abandoned Child by Busybody2(f): 6:42pm On May 11, 2012
@ OP

Your post I dredged up below from the Obuh's thread proves to us mere mortals that this "act" of yours is not a flash in the pan moment but proves this line is something you are passionate about and something close to your heart. . . May God strengthen you and guide your steps as you go about doing this. It is well.


https://www.nairaland.com/801338/man-raises-family-under-lagos/16#9584581

queenafric: Just seeing this thread now though i havent read d whole responses so far. I would av volunteered to go check out d family on behalf of nairaland but since ifyalways is up for it, then i 'll just step back. Meanwhile, if ifyalways need someone to go wit her, she should pls let me know soonest. Thanks
Re: Please Help Ayomide - An Abandoned Child by tpia5: 10:17pm On May 11, 2012
if the child cant talk that means she's mute and there's a chance she might be deaf as well, though the grandmother doesnt think this is the case.

please make enquiries about schools for the deaf in the area [lagos or ogun states or the environs] and see if she can be enrolled there. Also what can be done about transportation, accommodation, etc to such schools.

my two cents, could be wrong.
Re: Please Help Ayomide - An Abandoned Child by tpia5: 10:20pm On May 11, 2012
list of special needs schools in nigeria:

http://exced.net/index.php?page=specialschools
Re: Please Help Ayomide - An Abandoned Child by mutter(f): 11:00pm On May 11, 2012
I would like to describe the girls situation as life threatening since she crosses roads without being able to comprehend the danger.
However bulldozing may not be appropriate here. One needs to exercise caution and get the facts right. I think this child needs not just education but also love.
It would be nice to know what the monthly cost would amount to and then I am sure the money would not be a problem,
I pledge to contribute what I can.

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Re: Please Help Ayomide - An Abandoned Child by Busybody2(f): 12:57am On May 12, 2012
tpia@:
list of special needs schools in nigeria:

http://exced.net/index.php?page=specialschools


Wow, pretty impressive. We have a heart, afterall cool
Re: Please Help Ayomide - An Abandoned Child by Nobody: 1:02am On May 12, 2012
BB wink
Re: Please Help Ayomide - An Abandoned Child by Busybody2(f): 2:29am On May 12, 2012
jennykadry: BB wink

My only pickin, come here and give momma a hug dearie, maybe I don't say it enough, but I love you and no one can ever take your place, not even a million stray agy cats tongue wink kiss cheesy
Re: Please Help Ayomide - An Abandoned Child by tpia5: 3:46am On May 12, 2012
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Re: Please Help Ayomide - An Abandoned Child by Busybody2(f): 4:04am On May 12, 2012
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Re: Please Help Ayomide - An Abandoned Child by tpia5: 4:15am On May 12, 2012
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Re: Please Help Ayomide - An Abandoned Child by tpia5: 4:22am On May 12, 2012
being told that Nigeria Schools don't accept disabled children in "normal" schools

there are special ed schools in nigeria but i cant say for sure how well funded they are.
Re: Please Help Ayomide - An Abandoned Child by OAM4J: 4:41am On May 12, 2012
jennykadry: BB wink

Iyawo, do you still check that your fake email box? I doubt you do, cos if you do, I would have known. smiley
Re: Please Help Ayomide - An Abandoned Child by Busybody2(f): 4:43am On May 12, 2012
tpia@:


there are special ed schools in nigeria but i cant say for sure how well funded they are.


Yeah, I have been told their are special needs schools in Lagos and Abuja but don't know about them being wellfunded, just that they cost the earth and parents have to learn sign languages, hence reason I expressed surprise and shock when I clicked the link you provided.

Phew, free me joo
Re: Please Help Ayomide - An Abandoned Child by Nobody: 11:06am On May 12, 2012
OAM4J:

Iyawo, do you still check that your fake email box? I doubt you do, cos if you do, I would have known. smiley

Excuse me say what? If you were not busy attending to busybody's needs in our room you would have seen that I replied you 2mins after you sent the email angry tongue

Ejo e ma binu, I will check more often embarassed

Busy_body:

My only pickin, come here and give momma a hug dearie, maybe I don't say it enough, but I love you and no one can ever take your place, not even a million stray agy cats tongue wink kiss cheesy


kiss sha just leave small space for me when you are done with OAM4jenny4life. angry
Re: Please Help Ayomide - An Abandoned Child by Nobody: 1:02pm On May 12, 2012
awwwwwwwwww tears in my eyes BB&JK kiss kiss kiss
Re: Please Help Ayomide - An Abandoned Child by Nobody: 1:14pm On May 12, 2012
Tears ke? Are you sure we are the ones that brought the tears to your eyes abi it is as a result of one knacking session with oga cc, because this one you are talking about kids so on threads, i have lost my trust in you. In fact I see a junior and sister on the way soon. Say Amen grin no wonder she wants a spacious car like x5 IncAse they both need it to get away from the two they already have at home. Busteddddddd angry


How I miss my outstrip, where is she? I got her good goat so I am sure the goat is still lactating. Abi she has converted her house from US house to Italiano house and used her shower water as the rain water with her husbands iPod playing Andre boccelli. Home is where you make it. Outstrip has finally made her home an Italiano home
Re: Please Help Ayomide - An Abandoned Child by Nobody: 1:43pm On May 12, 2012
My dear I'm broody again ooooooooooo lipsrsealed but the thought of all that throwing up et all scares me embarassed

You are right; we have a search party on for the following "lost" people; Uju, Debrief, mutter and outstrip. Where are they sef angry

My cabals just went awol without permission grin
Re: Please Help Ayomide - An Abandoned Child by shopclue: 4:23am On May 13, 2012
queenafric: @Mutter,thanks for ur interest in this child. I actually wanted to suggest about ways in which we all can help this child. I will suggest that 4 other willing nairalanders including myself, making 5 in all, should come together to form a caretaker team for funds to be raised on behalf of dis little girl. Despite showing some interest at some point, I am yet to get a reply to my last 3 emails from the Nairaland charity. Right now, myself and someone else is making effort to get a good home for d child. The grandma can visit whenever she want. The funds will be used to maintain d child in d home cos they receive payment per term. As for d child's mother, I was made to understand dat she hasn't bothered about her since she was 8months old. Also, I am working towards getting the consent of a good authority. Hopefully, everything will go fine as planned. Meanwhile, I am appealing to anyone who is honest and is willing to work with me in ways to raise some funds thru this medium for dis poor little girl. Pls whatever anyone decides to do, know u are doing it for God and d lord will bless u all continuously as u try to help. Thank u all.

@queenafric,

Ki le need? Make a list of things like food, bathe stuff, haircare products, lotion, dress, shoe, towels, etc? Does she have her own bed? Blanket maybe? Need toys? Books? Can she get a private tutor for special needs child to put her in good stead before enrolling in a school? She doesn't have any age mate friends I suppose? That'll really make her happy to have somebody to play with. Her own age I mean. Can you arrange that? What will it take? What do you need? What are your challenges? I can get some things here and I think I can use my imagination to just buy what'll fit and things she may need while you make your lists, am sure a lady friend here too will be more than willing to assist, will talk to her. I have a friend in UNICEF in Lagos, I can ask her if you identify where you need her help and how you plan to go about this. Have a good evening.

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Re: Please Help Ayomide - An Abandoned Child by queenafric(f): 12:00pm On May 14, 2012
@ shopclue, bless ur heart. Actually, most things that a child her age lacked will be needed and whatever clothes, toys etc that would be donated will surely be received with a big thanks and delivered to the recipient wit photos to back it up. As for the private tutor, I don't know any that specialise in teaching children wit special needs but I can make some enquiries about that.
Pls do tell ur lady friend that I can make do with her assistance, as well as ur other friend that work with Unicef. Thank u in advance and have a lovely week ahead.

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Re: Please Help Ayomide - An Abandoned Child by shopclue: 5:59am On May 21, 2012
I apologize just getting back in here. Where do we send stuffs? Please can you email me? Still didn't get a chance to tell my other friend, but I bought stuff I felt she'll need, will make sense if we send together but I'll ask her. Let's talk off forum for a bit. (I really hope I can live up to that to really talk), but I'll reply emails as fast as possible though. Thank you BIG! Will be in touch when I get back to Lagos.

email: sales@pinkequity.com
Re: Please Help Ayomide - An Abandoned Child by shopclue: 9:06am On May 27, 2012
queenafric: @ shopclue, bless ur heart. Actually, most things that a child her age lacked will be needed and whatever clothes, toys etc that would be donated will surely be received with a big thanks and delivered to the recipient wit photos to back it up. As for the private tutor, I don't know any that specialise in teaching children wit special needs but I can make some enquiries about that.
Pls do tell ur lady friend that I can make do with her assistance, as well as ur other friend that work with Unicef. Thank u in advance and have a lovely week ahead.

Where you dey o! I no see email or anything. If you sent before, please resend. How do we get in touch with you? I know am lagging behind but seriously it's not intentional. But there's somebody I sold something to in Lagos and they owe me balance, I can ask them to simply give you that before our stuffs from here gets to you. I discussed with my friend here and she said she came here to read the story and will fully support you too. About my friend in UNICEF, I want to know what's up with you before I call her so I can tell her what you need exactly. Email me you hear? Pls. Take care for now.

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Re: Please Help Ayomide - An Abandoned Child by queenafric(f): 4:02pm On May 31, 2012
I am truly sorry for responding late too. I will contact u via email asap. Really grateful.
Re: Please Help Ayomide - An Abandoned Child by mutter(f): 5:45pm On May 31, 2012
queenafric is there any new information about the school. Sorry my baby`s circumcision gave me some problems was away for a while,
Re: Please Help Ayomide - An Abandoned Child by queenafric(f): 8:46pm On May 31, 2012
@mutter, been trying to send u a pm. Dunno why there's a preset message there already, so can't type in my own messages. For now, the only school/ orphanage that is available and willing to take on the child is expensive. So, that's been ruled out. Can I chat with u privately?
Re: Please Help Ayomide - An Abandoned Child by mutter(f): 9:00pm On Jun 01, 2012
Yes if only I know how it goes here
Re: Please Help Ayomide - An Abandoned Child by yamakuza: 10:31pm On Jun 01, 2012
queenafric: @mutter, been trying to send u a pm. Dunno why there's a preset message there already, so can't type in my own messages. For now, the only school/ orphanage that is available and willing to take on the child is expensive. So, that's been ruled out. Can I chat with u privately?

1. Click send with that preset message. She'll get it in her email and then reply you from it

2. Follow her on NL. That way, she'll get an empty box when she tries to mail you (and vice versa, but not inverse)

www.nairaland.com/952229/member-following-replaces-friending-nairaland/5#10983677
Re: Please Help Ayomide - An Abandoned Child by queenafric(f): 7:26pm On Jun 03, 2012
I already followed her, but thot I should be able to send her a message once that's being done.
@mutter, got ur msg but unfortunately can't reply back. Wait a min! I just got one msg now showing ur email addy. Will mail u soon but d network is acting up now. I just managed to send this one.

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