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Mason mount should follow him as well.

Ladies/women loves fantasies and fiction — it's what goes on in their head when they day dream of everything they want in life, since many of them don't get to live the life in reality; they take pleasure in reading it in Novels, Novellas and also get to watch it on Tenovella/Zeeworld movie series etc.

They somehow outgrow it when real life hits them in due time. When you flip the script, this is a good way to spot a smart lady - No smart lady watches that series. They rather stay in touch with reality.

Reality is savage.

Dude what if I told you; that girl has been priming you with her submissive nature/behavior because she knew she would eventually need your help in the future which is now — and later on another time? This is according to the Briffault Law.

You broke the red pill code of conduct the moment you showed commitment to her by extending your good deed to her mom (Christmas stipend giveaway) — this enabled her to see you as one who is likely to invest in her future — and that future is likely to begin after you have paid half her rent (spare me that "I made her work for her money for phone nonsense" ), According to Briffault law, That past doesn't EXIST to her any more so, don't expect her to remember that when a new rich guy comes along to sweep her off her feet.


You not a simp but a regular guy with a dose of red pill but now at a crossroad. I 'd like to think of you like an ALPHA who has resources to take care of his own but has this fear of the unknown.

My advice to you:

Go on ahead. Assist her with the half rent payment, since she already played her submissive card very well up until this point — you the one who failed to 'plate' her and leave when you had the chance to; it's NOT too late now but do it with sense so you don't lose value and respect in her sight.

How?

Assist her with the rent and leave!
No further communication with her, Be elusive when she tries to reach out to you — Screw trust, you don't control her 'free will' and can't truly tell/predict her behavior in school. Rid yourself of her priming scheme and this can only be done by GHOSTING her.

If you fail to do as I have adviced you — you will find yourself in another dilemma that will require you to 'help or not' — will eventually help and that my friend, is when you get your SIMP seal of approval in her sight.

C'est La Vie

Hathor5:
Not so much after marriage as after pregnancy/child birth. The woman sacrifices her body to bring a child into this world. During pregnancy, even if there are no complications, the body is not fully hers. After delivery she needs to recover. Her hormones are out of balance, there are injuries down there. She is also breast feeding. Imagine someone sucking on your nipples several times a day. She also needs to carry the baby around, cuddle it, put up with the babies saliva and vomit. Every day, for months. Then another child is born and the two of them are all over her all day long. In the evening the husband wants to claim her body too. It's not easy.

Many women love sex too. Don't be deceived by people on this forum who want to tell you that women are all in it for the money. Our clitoris is much more sensitive than the penis. We can have multiple orgasms. We are capable of enjoying sex and a man's strong arms and shoulders can take us to heaven but nursing a baby and having toddlers all over us takes a toll.

If you want to be polygamous, find women who agree to it and go for it but if you do it to manipulate your wives and have them compete over you, know that you are creating a toxic family.

While it's good to help with chores, shopping and what not, having someone (family, nannies, daycare) free us from the little terrorists is a great relief.

Bravo! You couldn't have said it any better. Good points.

cococandy:
All talk and stories.

When most men get a woman who loves to have sex and do it often, they don’t know what to do with her. Insecurities come flooding.

If it weren’t so, slut-shaming women wouldn’t be a thing.

Nice point from another angle but not usually the case as most women suddenly develops low libido after second child birth.

zainabicy:
This is because after a while d man stops trying to make d woman orgasm. They take and take and take.

So after a while, we sef lose interest, children dey, work dey.

you emphasized like; you talking out of experience.

Canadianelenu:
Recently, the increase in armed robberies and banditry has become a disturbing trend in Nigeria. It is even more horrendous when the men of the underworld not only steal when they attack but will also rape any unfortunate female caught in the invasion.

My wife and I were watching a real life crime documentary one evening and in the documentary, a lady was shot and killed after resisting rape advances from 6 men who invaded her residence.

Fortunately, the criminals were later caught using forensic evidence and paraded by law enforcement. These men were tough looking strongly built men who no doubts would have torn the lady apart if they had succeeded in raping her.

However, the shocker was when my wife of 4 years said, and I quote “she just died for nothing and has caused her family a lot of grief...if it were me, I would just let them have their way and live to see another day”.

Although this sounded very right, it also sounded very wrong at the same time and has since been messing with my head as I cannot get the picture out of my mind. We could both see that they were 6 hefty men and yet she felt she should have................

Ladies, am I over reacting and men, what do you think? How can something feel so right and so wrong simultaneously?

Do not let that bother you. It's evolutionary for women to be submissive in such an ugly scenario — during the course of evolution, women who did the opposite died out of existence and will continue to die out leaving the submissive once to evolves more; this is why, there are more submissive women that men naturally.

In one sentence.

Your ex has lost financial frame which badly bruised his ego to dominate as the man.

Nairalandwizerd:
Pelosi is an old hag. Pelosi is a Terrorist

Do you even understand the news before jumping into this conclusion?

Okorocha is flirting with PDP.

AB doesn't actually like sourcing for potential lenders on the internet.

olufemiojo04:
Hello bosses.

I created my payoneer account in 2019. The last time I used it was September 2019. I just received a payment of $400 to it late last year. I want to send now, it's saying I need to receive one or more payment bla bla bla.

What's going on, please, help me out

Yes, you will have to receive 3 more payment or $1000 threshold to enable payoneer to payoneer transfer.

Crap!

My crush in Brazil is 10 times prettier

You know what is funny about this idea, Many men will still be blinded by love and accept to raise other men kids post - birth DNA confirmation.

For some men, simping traits and white knightism are very well embedded/encoded in their DNA. To them -- women are always vulnerable and innocent and should be protected even if their WRONG are brought to light.

biden123:
Lol that's by the way sha..

Why do you publish books using American names as the author?

It's called 'pen name' -- you can have or choose as many pen name(s) as you want according to different categories/niches you write in.

I do have about 3 pen names at the moment and looking to add some more. Another thing is; the white folks are looking to read from fellow white folk NOT an African in Africa unless your book is about Africa culture or lifestyle. Failure to adopt a white pen name -- chances of you making money in that white authors dominated category is super slim so, instead of using Afam Chukwu when not easily use Brandon Smith.

BF69BF:
Do you have CC?
Load am cash app
Cashout
O ni maga bill am
Small money ball out
Usain bolt run am
You get sure client lock am
If you no get money leave am
EFCC n bo japa

This girl don high oooooo haha, funny babe.

No!

Do you beat Dog (an animal) to train it?

The way to train a child is Reward good behavior and Punish (non-corporal punishment) for bad behavior.

For the punishment:

Deny them of whatever give them pleasure.

Deny them of their freedom

Deny them of thier rights, benefits and allowance

Ground them

Give them some speech after scolding etc

If I was her, I would pierce the condom so they cum.

I'm guessing this has something to do with the new CBN dollar policy but they only stalling to clarify the issue to you -- As they also want your monthly dollars.

Open a domicillary account to receive dollar inflow. And as regards this issue, escalate involving CBN, Get Twitter influencers to reweet your plight. You would get a call.

Indeed

korilala:
Blackmailed By My Ex!!! Don't Know What To Do.

I dated this lady several years back but due to her promiscuity we broke up but by then she was pregnant for me.

When my daughter clocked 3, I asked for my daughter to stay with me (she's staying with her mother's family) but she gave me a condition. That I forgive her and forget the past and we should plan a future together with our daughter. For my daughter's sake I accepted and she moved in with us but alas she still messages her ex and still reaches out to them. I confronted her again today and her reply to me is "you better don't kill yourself."

We're not married but every time I tell her to leave she threatens to take our daughter who is only five years old and who has grown a strong bond to me.

Mods in the house please advise me.

Dude, Let her go with the child.

Make arrangements for her up-keep. Get her to sign up papers agreeing to guarantee safety of the kid and if anything goes wrong (prior to her carelessness), you taking full custody of the kid.

Listen again - let her Go!

Don't throw away your life simping over her. She isn't worth it. Your kid would come back to look for you (her dad) in due time.

DicklyD:
Your reasons please

It often ends in regret. And you will not break even not to talk of making profit.

The car gets abused, maintenance and parts replacement are expensive, Drivers are never truthful or trustworthy. Mechanic will ruin the car even more with their trial and error style of professionalism.

The business is predatory and parasitic in nature, And this starts from the Ehailing app company to the drivers down to the riders.

If you not readily available to monitor/inspect your car often, NEVER make the mistake of coughing out millions or thousands of naira to buy a car for ehailing/ride sharing/Uber purpose.

I'm particular about RENTAL not HIRE PURCHASE.