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kelvinUchiha:
Hi Nairalanders,

I just packed into a new house last month and things have been moving really fast for me. So much stress and I had spent a lot of money furnishing my apartment and moving stuffs. So, two weeks ago my neighbour came to my house to greet me(as new neigbour things) I was very excited because she was beautiful and around my age bracket. I told her to come in, this was around 11:00 am i offered her a drink and we were talking about so many things.

I found out she was just my type of girl quiet and intelligent. We talked about the previous tenants and she told me my house was fine. I was happy, I said finally all the stress from packing was worth it. She left by 6:45 pm that day. The next day, I saw her spreading clothes outside so I approached her, we greeted and she asked me if I've eaten. I said no so she said she cooked spaghetti and she would bring for me. She arrived with the food, I thought to myself this must be a wife material o. We were both eating till she said let her feed me. Like play like play I'd feed her and she'd feed me. Before I said Jack Robinson we were already kissing and smooching.

I wasn't with my condom and I wasn't prepared but I felt this girl was a nice and innocent girl. She probably just likes me. So I gently removed her clothes like a gentle man and we had sex. I swore to myself I won't release early or get tired so at least she would feel me and come back for more.
We enjoyed ourselves, we were happy and I know she enjoyed it as well, she held my hand and we were stack naked gisting for about 20 minutes staring at each others eyes.

So eventually she went home.

After three days, I went to ease myself only to see white pus from my penis that morning. I was so surprised. My heart started beating and I rushed to my phone I googled it and I got things like UTI, gonorrhea, staph, HIV. I was really scared. I called her, she came and she was normal. I didn't tell her about it. I just wanted to find out if she purposely gave it to me but she seemed like she didn't know. I travelled home to see my mum.
I went for test spent about 3k for urethral swab, blood test and urine analysis.

It came back positive for Staphylococcus. I was so annoyed at myself for not using a condom the same time relieved that it was negative for HIV. I spent a total of 9k on drugs and injection and I came back home. Mind you, I bought two packs of condom in case.

I like this girl and she likes me but I wasted one week treating the staph without telling her and if I tell her now she would see me as a bad person and I don't know how she would react if I tell her she gave it to me. I'm really confused because I don't want to lose the relationship. My mind is telling me not to tell her and continue using condom( she's very sweet) but I love her and I don't want it to be harmful to her but she may decide not to give me sex again. I'm worried.

Please for matured minds okay. Its really important, life is at stake.
Thanks.

How can you have unprotected sex with a stranger? Do they write HIV on the face, just because she seems quiet? You still have to go back for HIV test after 3&6 months. Wish you the best with that.
As for this infection. Just pray that it has cleared finally. Staphylococcus is a very very very very stubborn infection to treat. After a while, it can rear its ugly head again and then you start another bout of antibiotics, which become less and less effective as time goes on. Even the whites call staphylococcus the gift that keeps on giving.

I would advise you to face your health for now, and forget about how to have sex with her next time. Build up your immunity to ensure it doesnt come back. You can inform her, let her start treating herself too.

FreeTraining:
Ajaramahuuuu jarahaa,,,,U shall die suden,,,receive it were ever u are',so shall it be,,,GREAT Ajaramahuuuuu

I am not reading.
As you have conceived whatever you typed in your mind, so shall it become your reality. As you read while typing, so shall your eyes see it. As you typed, so shall same hands receive it as your portion. Ameeeeennnn.

[quote author=FreeTraining post=61977238][/quote]I never read your essay balderdash that you wrote.

But as you have typed with your fingers, so shall it be for you and so shall it be tied to your destiny forever in trillion folds. Ameeeeeennnn!

What is your business with she is yet to give birth after many months of marriage? Nigerians self.

FreeTraining:
Haha u can never be rich like dangote,,,,poor church rat like u, buy your casket and keep for your day of DEATH is numberd

Looooool.
You don't even need a coffin. You will kill your useless self last last.
And both earth and water MUST reject your God forsaken corpse. You will be thrown into the evil forest to rot like the useless junk that you are and even vultures and animals will reject and flee rather than eat. So shall it be for you. Amen and amen.

FreeTraining:
U are more important than dangote,? Your problem is poverty and in poverty u shall die

Your problem is hunger and the subsequent lack of self esteem, which has made you as useless as Dangote's poop.

As you have pointed a finger, so are 3 fingers pointed back to you. You will die and rot in penury.
Yes, I am more important than Dangote. Kill yourself!

[quote author=FreeTraining post=61947389][/quote]I wonder what youre trying to prove.
If a woman cannot stay without a man, then a man also cannot stay without a woman.

See your wide mouth like Dangote is a bachelor of 30 years. Guess his kids fell from the sky then.

And.
Yes, I am more important than Dangote. If you like, you can be as unimportant as his bathroom slippers, that's for you.

FreeTraining:
single is when a lady/ guy dicide to stay alone ,,,but she can never stay without a man' even you can not stay without a man/ woman,,,is she more beautiful or richer than Genevieve nnaji? the answer is no,, Genevieve got married again with all her wealth after so many years of single life' cos any woman that is not under a man control is nothing' no matter her wealth.

Just the same way you can't stay under a woman.
A man without a woman is nothing no matter his wealth.

[quote author=FreeTraipning post=61906147][/quote]Truth hurts. See how you are foaming in the mouth like the mad dog you are.
Who is after a rich man when I got millions chilling in my account? Is that and being a single mother not better than ending up with a contraption like YOU? Lol.

You must think every woman is like your prostitute sisters, who are permanently by the side of the road with their legs wide open to accept any d!ck with loose change. Who cannot even be mothers because of countless abortions, not of talk of being single mothers. Maaaaaad dog!


P.s
GO TO HELL AND BURN TO ASHES!

FreeTraining:
a woman will have just little money in her account' she will turn her self to a god' bigin to disrepect her husband'" no wonder God made man head of the House,, if God had mistakenly made woman the head,,, OH OH,,,men
have been in big trouble,,GOD WE THANK U

Are women not in big trouble with a senseless thing like you claiming head? So if they are calling head, you too will come out with your flat head?
Head that is not correct, is that one a head or figurehead?

#spits.

FreeTraining:
Wether she likes it or not she will still remarry in future and be under another man Control, if not she will remain single forever

And so what if she remains single forever? Is it your single?
So many married people live and are lonely like singles. You people should keep deceiving yourselves.

FreeTraining:
Which fresh girl,, mother of three,,flat breast? or over size pussy ?u can cheat nature ooo

Yes, she will still be fresh to someone who will salivate over her so called flat breasts and lick her over size pissy. Deal with it.

Ayo4251:
Don't goan re-marry...... Mtcheew

Gentledammie:
She's still incomplete without any man in her life.....take it all leave it !!

Association of embittered men.
It just pains you people to see a woman doing so well without a man. You people should go and face your own imperfect lives.
Live and let live.

He really is a decent man. Adesua is so lucky cos a good man is hard to find.

EmekaBlue:
Sure it's not consensual?! Just asking o

You are sick. Just stating o.

AstuteJay:
Let's not kid ourselves, the most important factor is the financial muscle. Once this is intact, the father rules his entire life.

Even when the kids are all grown and doing well, they dare not mess up with him because they still need his goodwill and contacts. If and when the mother messes up, the father (a typical African ma n) marries another wife and moves on with his life.

Dear men, let's do everything possible to build our financial muscle so as to continue to wield the big stick our entire life!

Power resides where money is.

You still won't learn, abi? People are talking about emotional availability and connection, you are talking about contacts and big stick. Ok. Kontinu.

Uniquexty:
The mother left the husband for obvious reasons and didn't bother leaving with her son....

He might have stopped the woman from leaving with her child. To punish the woman not because he loves the boy.
May he rest peacefully.

Omotayor123:
Yes! he should.
He should never be a party to abortion.

He can only advice. Is what I am saying.

Omotayor123:
Nobody is forcing... Like I said it's solely her choice. if she insist on abortion, she should Not blame anybody. and I will advice the OP to leave her for good.

Wetin many girls they beg for, "Responsible man" she see she dey play with him. mind you, she's also playing with her life.

You asked OP to put his foot down.
Mind you, I am not saying she should abort please....

Omotayor123:
The girl is not serious. when she knows she can't marry with pregnancy why agree to unprotected sex?

You're a man and you must stand your ground. Tell her you're keeping the baby at all cost and you will never forgive her if she aborts it.

Threaten to go tell her parents, I'm sure they won't support abortion either.

if she's really serious about it, you guys can get married before the baby bumb would be spotted.
The choice would be hers only to make.!

You can't force someone to do this. The baby is in her body. She will carry him/her for nine months. Birth. And tend to him/her afterwards.

You simply cant force this.

Charlieeeboi:
am ready to be a father but shes not ready to be a mother, so should I force her to? the deed has already been done and am aware dat abortion z a sin..buh wat can I do?

Confused pair. You're ready to be a father but you are not ready to go about it the right way and be a husband.
She is not ready to be a mother but she opened her leg wide for sperm to be poured inside.

There are so many means of pregnancy prevention, why looking for medicine after death? Wish you guys the best.

Nigerian MILs. Hope you are seeing this? Banky W's mum doesn't have 2 heads. CHANGE FOR THE BETTER!!!

It is only a graduate of ABU that doesn't know his or her worth that will be fazed by all this brouhaha.


What I have is in my head and can never be taken from me.

pocohantas:
He doesn't need to apologise. This is what happens when people do good for selfish reasons. I help my friends both male and female without expecting anything in return. Some of these guys, their stupidity is in them like peak. I am sure he was hoping to embarrass her, but unfortunately or fortunately...it backfired on him.

I'm happy babes are getting sense. We need more to get sense and stop being parasitic. That's the only way guys like this can be put in place.

They buy you popcorn and think they can bend you anyhow like straw on top bed to administer prick from various angles. He should go and sin no more. For the sensible and responsible guys, the Lord will take away refurbished olosho from your path.

"...they...think they can bend you anyhow like straw on top bed to administer orick from various angles...."

Where did she get this big ass from?

Stephanie had scandals with ex hubby, a footballer.
He accused her and her mum of doing jazz and so on.

I don't have time to pick them apart right now but apart from Kehinde Bankole and a few others, a lot of them have had scandals in the past. They are just older, wiser and more mature now.

WebSurfer:
You girls are too fine to be doing this,


May i suggest one guy each to keep you busy ?

I am too fine to be doing this of a truth. But she's nasty and had to show her that.

naughtyDiana:
Shiloh 2017 time to get that husband sis

Is that your problem? Loooool
No wonder you've been crying all over a proposal thread.

With your nasty arze, nothing for you!

WebSurfer:
Bia aameyah and naughtydiana , why have you been fighting since yesterday

SafeDavid:
Someone is going way overboard that's why.

You just can't understand why two girls would fight this way. Perhaps it's something that has to do with their hormones.

Correction. One girl (cute moi ) and an hermaphrodite. A raving mad one at that.

naughtyDiana:
lol, in ur cobweb infested head, you are kicking my butt shey? check my dp, ima young blood. unlike you wey wan enter nairaland hall of fame. aunty gwegs, so u watch the kardashians too? don't copy them o, they have money, they are beautiful. unlike u, with ur grey hair, who gets intimidated by a young girl on an online forum. depressed soul seeking to transfer aggression on me. I spit on your face. tueh!

Bla bla bla.
Nobody has time to read your essay. Rabid b!tch, keep foaming at the mouth and spitting. Looool.