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Tajbol4splend:
And by the time you get home, the table woulda been set, all u gotta do is take ur bath and devour the food, that is nice, isn't it?

Yes.
Devour the food, drink very cold water, belch and watch TV while waiting for the food to digest before I go to bed.

TashaGirl:
Really . Lemme try it

Disclaimer! I didn't teach you the above o. I'm a good working wife, plix!!

TashaGirl:
hand won't be enough when you start banging Wella

If you were banging wella yourself, you go know say hand+shower head is Bae.

Zceesneh:
thats how ur father did his when he newly married ur mother

If you had a father, you wouldn't be so comfortable calling people's fada upandan. Your mother apparently gave too many f^cks...to total strangers.

This has been happening for years na. Used to be eba, okro and 10naira.
The thing be like jazz.

TashaGirl:
and intimacy gadgets too in case he's too tired to do it

I prefer my hands and/or the shower head, plix!!
Remember I'm a good working wife and I have to cut costs!!
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Back to topic:
Dedicate a Saturday every month so your good working wife can have her me-time to recharge. Help her sit the kids at this time. You also get your Saturday with your guys.

As a family, you budget and buy gadgets that make the housework load lighter e.g. Washing machine, tank for water storage, blender and the likes.

You can both take turns to massage each other's backs at the end of a long work day.

He can wake to help you pacify baby when baby cries in the middle of the night (seeing that you are both waking early the next day for work).

When he gets home before you (as a working wife), he can get started with dinner and also assist in doing some chores before you get home.

Most women fall out of love with their husbands by the time the kids start coming. This "falling out of love" is often due to the man's uncaring, cheating and autocratic nature.

When the child comes, the mom pours all her love on him/her (have you heard the advise women give each other? Ignore him and focus on your kids) which is so easy because the love mummy is getting from the kids is so unconditional and pure. The kids love her when she is soiled with kitchen work. They love her even when she stinks of stale breast milk and her tummy is bulging like that of a pregnant woman. She remains beautiful mummy.

The child grows up and leaves to get married and then poor old mum becomes a monster in law because she lived all her life for the kids and can't bear to lose them to another.

VeeVeeMyLuv:
lol the babe tactically dymistified the youngman.

2sharp

Your girl is perfect. See hair. See skin. See laps. See shape.
In fact she's a goddess.

Congratulations!

For the first time in a long time, I am speechless!!

If you really want her to take the job, and if she also loves and wants the job but her apprehension comes from her fear of interference, then it is a simple matter.

It is YOUR prerogative to ensure she doesn't become meat in the mouth of your people; to be chewed, swallowed or spat out as the case may be. There should be nothing like village people carrying their burden to "our brother's house" or going to spy how big she's cutting meat for her soup. Or packing "our brother's rice" from the store.

If there is a clear cut divide, she will enjoy the place more than she does Lagos which is crazy and fast-paced.

count:
It was very interesting to see that you don't need so much money to open an account now. It was one of the things that turned me off initially from the bank, glad that's been fixed. As for customer service, that one is a problem everywhere, i think employers should pay more attention to this aspect of things and create a means of checks and balance for customer care agents.

Diamond Bank does this....
They have mystery shoppers.
They call customers for feedback.
They take complaints very serious.

Her eyes look bleary like she's sleep deprived....

nuelyoyo:
Chisos!! See how u just dropped it cold. God pls don't let aameyah handle my case file on judgement day in heaven.

Haba Bros....

Sexxkillz:
[color=#000030]Truer words have never been spoken. [/color]

Sexxkillz, I don't believe this. You sound disillusioned.

[quote author=saweide post=52142235]aameyah you are one of the disrespectful and nagging woman we are talking about.. If u can abuse someone husband in this forum then it shows how u wud behave to ur husband.. Get life

This story is shared to learn one or two things[/q]





See your mouth like "you are one of the disrespectful and nagging woman we are talking about". Biko, who is the we? Trying to incite an e-mob action against me or what? Lol.
Ehen, back to you.

You are obviously one of those who thinks you will automatically get respect because of the shriveled thing dangling between your legs. Wake up and smell the coffee. You EARN respect. It is not automatic!


I wish you were standing in front of me now so I could walk you the F!CK out of my sight.

Izit easy to be collecting 300k monthly for doing absolutely nothing? Lol

saweide:
ameyah or what do u call ursef ?
Am not surprised at all...
Is this how u behave too?
U better change ur lifestyle
A woman who does not submit herself can never have a home

Oh puhleez! The name is Aameyah. Double A, you olodo.
Now back to you because this is not about my submissiveness or lack of.

I can see you are seriously pained that you had to quote me twice (truth hurts). See who is dishing out advice about homes. Do you have a home yourself? Is it not the one a woman is managing to help you build that you are throwing away for a paltry 100k?
Just take a deep look at your sorry life and make amends. Else, na baby papa you go everly be....

fulaniHERDSman:
well, denial is a stage most scam victims go through initially. They also get abusive upon being rescued at early stages. Let me save the willing ones first. Get back to you soon

You men and kalo kalo (cheating nature).
Just look at you and at how you painted her the devil while you are the angel.
She is abusive. She nags. She is not submissive. She disrespects your mum. She goes through your phone at night. She does this, she does that. Shuoo. Only you!

From this your whiney post, you sound like a nagging, immature boy filled with bitterness and complaints. It is so obvious you are the one with the issue. Yelz!!

First year, you never knew she was like this. Second. Third. Fourth. Bros, where you blind? Or simply because you have seen a fresh chick that wants to give you 100k (cheap gigolo like you, selling his soul for 100k when your mates are putting 500k into MMM as spare change ).

You are in what you claim is a committed relationship yet you chat up random girls after chasing away her own male friends, getting her pregnant and reducing her desirability in a highly saturated love market.
Put yourself in her shoes. Would you fold your hands while she chats a guy who wants to "invest" money in her business? Won't you accuse her of promiscuity? Ehn, broda sege the angel?
Would you fold your hands and watch her sell herself for a paltry change (as you are doing) and watch 5years go down the drain? (Even though you are not worth it, you are still the father of her child and half bread is better than non).

In fact you are lucky she only goes through your phone at night. She hasn't poured you hot water while sleeping and run away with the baby after clearing the house down to nothing. That is why you have the mouth to proclaim love to this your 100k lady.

Poor man. I like his spirit.

Stupedinluv:
Cute but guy looks too young for sister

And so?
eJolosi and e-badu belle!!

Congraaats sir. I'll always appreciate you for the role you played in my life.
More of God's blessings....

This is crap. This should have never made frontpage.

Op, you are a disgrace and a shame to womanhood and to hardworking women in the career paths you just listed. I'm out of this f^cked up place, mehhnn!!

Built2last:
Let me educate some ignorant minds before you try these two and sentence them in your mind as always.

FX racketeering is done by all banks in Nigeria and CBN is the chief in this business.

Going by what they are charged for on deposits. We have the NFIU, Nigeria Financial Intelligence Unit. All banks are to install this tracker on their system to notify EFCC of any amount exceeding 10, 000 USD.

Did Diamond bank install that on their system?
Did it notify EFCC?

Babatunde being a marketer I know goes out to bring in money for the bank.

It's not his duty to know how much a customer paid into that account. Arresting him now for being an account officer is bad on the part of EFCC.

EFCC should go after Diamond bank that accepted the money and not a bloody marketer.

I am sure when Tunde informed his boss that a million dollars has been brought in by one if his customers. Adamu. They must have celebrated him and called him a performer. Now things have gone sour and it's the officer managing the account you see EFCC harassing. .

I write this because many bank staff looking for daily bread are in EFCC net for simply being marketers.

I approach you to open account with the bank not me. You open with 30k. ..Two weeks after you deposit or wire 1 million dollars into the account. The officer who went to open account is pushed to face EFCC. Instead of the bank enjoying the float and interest on the account to face EFCC. They push the marketers to face the music.

Who broke the law quoted above? is it not the bank? This law is displayed boldly ib the banking hall of every bank. Why did Diamond bank accept the money in the first place? This is why I left banking

You have simply said it all.
If you don't pull the numbers, you are shredded in your morning meetings.
You pull the numbers and when there's wahala you are told you are supposed to monitor your accounts, do due diligence and report suspicious monies.

Can't see anything lavish o. Just a show of rented cars. Have they seen Nigerian weddings?