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ABEKEADEeeeeeeeEEEEE: Theres a snowstorm tomorrow, uRE gonna be indoors all day, wont u need something/someone to keep u warm Pre-Valentine?!!?! I could be of service and I wont charge you the usual fee. Hell, my services could be for free if I deem fit!!!

Bk mind ya sef, no let Plat vex for you ooh.

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Will you behave like someone normal for once?

and stop being Nairalands town drunkard?

LWKMD- Plat baby, his name must remain on that list. Let 190 go report us to the FBI if he doesnt like it.

And how does Johnathan being VP or President relate to romance issues. Mods, please place this wayward thread in the right section.

@platinum

I have not seen any new couples love.

@smooth and gabry, make una still dey siddon for there. Who told you it leads no where?? Not because people don't blab out their personal business on NL, does not mean ish is not going down. Ya feel me?

@All. Recap will be posted later. Valentines day is a few days away, lets step up our NL matchmaking.

^^^^^ Goodmorning dear.

about to dedicate a song to my beautiful ladies

Jacquan, we are waiting for your song.

^^^^Gbam, took the words right out of my mouth.

I'm just really confused cos how can a guy say he loves me and then would cheat on me. Is that true love?

Not true love honey. Once a cheat, always a cheat. I say drop him like a bad habit.

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Slap back a lot harder. Hard enough that it will ring in those ears for the rest of her existence never to raise another filthy hand on me in abuse. . . and later apologize of course.

Hmm i didnt know you were this wicked.

Notcommon wey dey look for ladies picture no even get picture for in profile, hisssssssssssssss

^^^^ abi ooh. Jaquan bring your a*s in here and give us some more eye candy.

My Dear Abeke

When I'm with you I will not cry even a single a tear
And your touch have chased away all of my fear
You have given me a life that I could live worthwhile
It is even better everytime you smile

It so magical those things you've made
To bring back my faith that almost fade
Now my life is a dream come true
It all began when I was loved by you

Now I have found what I am looking for
It's you and your love and nothing more


Say something . . baby

Hey baby,

I have been swamped at work. Thanks for the teddy bear, I wish it was a real one that I could hold next to me at night. Once i get home, I send you a song dedication.

my dear dont mind them, its sad that someone cant offer their opinon without being called out

id rather she kept it real than to be like some posters who pretend they dont know what a pen is is

Hey babygirl,
Thanks, i hope you're having a good day.

it be like say you be big time freak o

So because i think intimacy is a huge part of marriage, that means i am a big time freak?? Well i guess its time to keep my opinion to myself lest i be called something worse than freak.

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Folks come on here and make ridiculous comments about virgins, ordinary people are so easy to know with their common approach to everything. Since when been a virgin becomes bad? since when people proudly talk about not been a virgin, what an undignified word from a lady . . , maybe am not in your world tough . while mung(s) think its normal for a girl to have slept with countless guys before she settles with her husband who has slept with countless female, other have a different approach with sense of pride. Social structure are meant for ordinary people who will never rise above a certain level in life, on the real we have to marry people with similar view point to straighten the blood

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I sure never said being a virgin is bad, I am just stating that I can never marry a male virgin. I respect your opinion and as well you should respect mine. We are 2 different people with different perspectives and this world will be so boring if we all thought the same way. kapish

a lifetime commitment based on intimacy?  I find this thread hilarious.

My dear bawomolo, I never said a "lifetime commitment based on intimacy". It would be stupid for anyone to marry somebody based on the sole reason of great intimacy. The point i am trying to make is that Intimacy is a huge part of marriage and thus i cannot trust my sexual satisfaction to a virgin. I need proof that a man can satisfy me before I take that lifetime plunge.
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It's funny that so many men are saying they'll leave and when they'll come back they'll have intimacy. So that just going to set everything straight? What about the memory? Is it just gon' disappear during intimacy? She done lost her mind thinking she can just slap me and poo won't go down. In fact, in my marriage vow I'm gon' put in bold, if at any time you hit me intentionally or unintentionally, you are to immediately pack your belongings* and leave the house.

*things you bought for yourself with your own money. Note: This doesn't include the money I'll give to you during the course of this marriage to buy something for yourself.

@Stephenp

Careful, your age is showing in your comment. You don't drive your wife away because she slaps you. Anyway you are still young, you will learn as you grow older.

cold (m)
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The only time my wife wld b justified in slappin me is if she caught me in an uncompromisin position wit anuda woman.Anythin outside that God help her;she'l b declared "Dead On Arrival".

@Cold
Na wah for you ooh. With how big you are in your picture, how can you even think of beating a woman. So if I were your wife and I slapped you out of anger without catching you in a compromising position, then i am "dead on arrival abi". Na wah for you naija men ooh. What does it cost
you to walk away and punish her in other ways??

I have not seen her this morning. I know she was asking after you over the weekend though.

dissappointed and SMH at most of the ladies' responses!!

As for me, I would be greatly honoured to find a guy that has managed to go against the tide and remain a virgin till marriage (very rare though). I'm very sure we'll have sooo much fun practicing at it and getting good together

I don't think you understand what you are asking for by saying you will be honored to be married to a virgin . Intimacy is extremely important in a marriage. Being married to a male virgin is like playing russian roulette, you are commiting your life to someone where you have no idea of his sexual drive, you have no idea of his stamina and enduarance, you have no idea of his sexual powress. What if you get married to a male virgin with a low sex drive and he only wants to be intimate once a week, leaving you sexually frustrated?? What are you going to do then? Go outside and cheat?? We all know how proud naija men are and I have no patience to be stroking any man's ego after he just fumbled like a clumsy slowpoke.

I want to be married to an exprienced man who will leave me speaking in tounges after being intimate with him. I want to be aware of a man's sexual drive before commiting my whole life to him. I want to be aware of his sexual powress, creativity and endurance before saying "I DO". I want to be aware of how freaky my husband can get which will excite me and make me run home from work to go be in his arms. All that male virgin thing na long tin, If you are planning on marrying a male virign, I would ask you to reconsider cos a lifetime commitment can be a really long time.

Smooth, I think you are secretly in love with Ayettymama, you need to get off her a*s

hmmmmm

and what are you hmmming about??

too bad nethacker, I am already taken

broke backside joke of a princeling

what sort of evil women do we hav on this NL?

No one wants to marry a virgin man!

well for information purposes, it takes a man to have committed FORNICATION for him not to be a virgin at the time of marriage.

fornication is a sin in the eyes of God and fornicators and adulterers will not inherit the kingdom of God!

I 'm really appalled that none of the ladies that have responded to this thread has the fear of God

Oh please, go cry to someone who cares. A man being married as a virgin is a big joke to me. sorry, my opinion.

kunbee, wus up. One bobo has been looking for you to be his valentine. Check the recap and let me know if you have accepted so i can update my recap.

Missed you too, did you find a val yet?? did you and 190 sort yourselves??

^^^ No! But I want a normal guy. I'm sorry but I don't think a virgin guy is!

I second this emotion.

@Op,
A virgin what?? Hell to the NO. I don't want a fumbling idiot on my wedding night. I want him very experienced to he can keep wowing me with his bedroom acrobatics. A virgin guy is a huge turn off--Mba No.