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RomanceRe: My Wife Caught Me And My Side Chick In The Act by Abemy(m): 2:41pm On Apr 23, 2023
You never can tell if she cheats too, if you weren't caught,she would be boasting of having the most faithful hubby.
RomanceRe: My Wife Caught Me And My Side Chick In The Act by Abemy(m): 2:34pm On Apr 23, 2023
What are your reasons for regretting?

That you should have listened to your side chick and gone to the hotel?

Or that you shouldn't have cheated?

Or your only regret is being cought?
PoliticsRe: Festus Keyamo: How I Bought My House In The US by Abemy(m): 6:41am On Apr 23, 2023
The reason V. Putin said Africa is a cementary, that their well to do spend their money abroad, live vacate or live abroad , only to be buried in Africa after their death.
PoliticsRe: Buhari Apologises To Nigerians Hurt By Regime’s Policies by Abemy(m): 8:50am On Apr 22, 2023
You can continue to negotiate for your Boko brothers.
RomanceRe: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by Abemy(m): 4:27pm On Apr 19, 2023
Thanks Rokiat, for acknowledging that a few of us still exist. I must confess, it is not easy.

Personally, I made the decision, not to cheat on my wife, even before I mate her. I decided not to cheat on any woman I settle down with.

Temptation would always come, it usually become stronger, especially when we are away from each other. On several occasions, beautiful ladies had approached me, asking how I cope with out my wife for a long time. Many offer themselves without me asking them, but the vow not to cheat never depart from my conscience, and being fast to remind and even tell people who don't know my wife, that I am married, has been a helping secret.

As I write, we have been away from each other since December 17,2022 due to security reasons. Her few weeks away from me always almost make me ruin this personal vow, but I always remind myself that my wife, is more beautiful than any other lady out there, and with time, I get used to it.

Other factors that help me in winning this war so far is the fact that, I know how women bodies work, I am sorry to say this, no matter how pure and neat other ladies look, I see them as potential infection vectors, another helping secret is, I am not financially bouyant enough to finance my family to my dream taste, I can't afford to share my Limited resources to pussy hawkers. When I was single, I will ask a lady out, but anytime we had canal knowledge of ourselves, I would be asking myself what I benefited, I knew I benefited nothing, so, I still believe it will be same today.

People who see beautiful, sexy, succulent and seducing ladies as temptation has never been faced with real temption.

I disciplined myself before marriage. I stopped girlfriend things two years before I started searching for a wife. I didn't father my partners in sex, and forced God to direct me to one, no, I departed completely from them, I did a new search, and there is no ex in my dictionary. Within my first year of marriage, ladies I haven't spoken with for years, started calling me, asking what happens to them, as I got married, these are girls we broke up and forgot about each other. Outrightly telling them to move on, and even threatening to hand their numbers to my wife saved me the stress, at some point, I set a female's voice on my phone and answered their calls and calmly advised them to mind their business.

People around me knows me too well, so at times when the temptation would have overcome me, the fear of ruining my reputation aslo helps.
RomanceRe: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by Abemy(m): 4:13pm On Apr 19, 2023
abidem4real:
Only poor, low libido and shy men are faithful men!
A man is not created to be faithful to a woman. Two or more women are made for a man by nature.
That's what you think, but it's not true.
RomanceRe: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by Abemy(m): 4:10pm On Apr 19, 2023
Thanks Rokiat, for acknowledging that a few of us still exist. I must confess, it is not easy.

Personally, I made the decision, not to cheat on my wife, even before I met e her. I decided not to cheat on any woman I settle down with.

Temptation would always come, it usually become stronger, especially when we are away from each other. On several occasions, beautiful ladies had approached me, asking how I cope with out my wife for a long time. Many offer themselves without me asking them, but the vow not to cheat never depart from my conscience, and being fast to remind and even tell people who don't know my wife, that I am married, has been a helping secret.

As I write, we have been away from each other since December 17,2022 due to security reasons. Her few weeks away from me always almost make me ruin this personal vow, but I always remind myself that my wife, is more beautiful than any other lady out there, and with time, I get used to it.

Other factors that help me in winning this war so far is the fact that, I know how women bodies work, I am sorry to say this, no matter how pure and neat other ladies look, I see them as potential infection vectors, another helping secret is, I am not financially bouyant enough to finance my family to my dream taste, I can't afford to share my Limited resources to pussy hawkers. When I was single, I will ask a lady out, but anytime we had canal knowledge of ourselves, I would be asking myself what I benefited, I knew I benefited nothing, so, I still believe it will be same today.

People who see beautiful, sexy, succulent and seducing ladies as temptation has never been faced with real temption.

I disciplined myself before marriage. I stopped girlfriend things two years before I started searching for a wife. I didn't gather my partners in sex, and forced God to direct me to one, no, I departed completely from them, I did a new search, and there is no ex in my dictionary. Within my first year if marriage, ladies I haven't spoken with for years, started calling me, asking what happens to them, as I got married, these are girls we broke up and forgot about each other. Outrightly telling them to move on, and even threatening to hand their numbers to my wife saved me the stress, at some point, I set a female's voice on my phone and answered their calls and calmly advised them to mind their business.

People around me knows me too well, so at times when the temptation would have overcome me, the fear of ruining my reputation aslo helps.
HealthRe: Erectile Dysfunction Driving Me To Sucide by Abemy(m): 12:29pm On Apr 19, 2023
When last did you deworm?

How old are you?

Do you know of amoebic dysentery?

When last didi you treated Typhoid and malaria?

Are you sure your problem is not inexperience?
FoodRe: How Much Is GARRI In Your Area? by Abemy(m): 4:57pm On Apr 17, 2023
A custard rubber container (painter) is 1200
Christianity EtcRe: Will People's Prayers Work For Me After My Death? by Abemy(m): 1:37pm On Apr 16, 2023
legitnow1:
GBAM! ON POINT
What we don't pay attention to, when reading the Bible is what event, propelled the statement. Confusing one event to the other is what actually confuse many.

God don't need your permission to answer prayers, if God decide today, not to end the world, you can not do anything. Why we are this confused is because, God nolonger talk to us, like in the days of old.
Christianity EtcRe: Will People's Prayers Work For Me After My Death? by Abemy(m): 1:33pm On Apr 16, 2023
legitnow1:
WHERE DID HE MENTION AFTER DEATH?


YOU THINK KINGDOM IS NIGERIA WHERE YOUR PAPA GET MONEY, SO ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE?


DADDY/MUMMY, WILL BE RUNNING AROUND DOING EVERYTHING FOR YOU, ABI?


U THINK HEAVEN IS RUN THAT WAY?
You are arguing blindly.

Jesus didn't need to mention death, for you to know that with faith, he can answer his own. It was through faith, that the apostle rised the sunahmite woman's shield from death, same faith can take the dead to heaven, by the prayers of the living faithful.
Christianity EtcRe: Will People's Prayers Work For Me After My Death? by Abemy(m): 1:22pm On Apr 16, 2023
fidelmarshal199:
I really like people that ask critical questions like this, I've also asked this question myself but I've not gotten a convincing answer. Hopefully someone knowledgeable enough will do justice to the questions unlike these ones throwing tantrum above
I answered and referred @all, to Luke 17:5 and 6.

Prayers are answered by faith. If your faith is as little (as big as, if you like) as a mustard seed, you can ask God for anything, and it shall be done unto you.

Remember, Jesus raised many from death and performed many miracles, he told us that we can do even more then He did, if we had our faith as little as a mustard seed.
Christianity EtcRe: Will People's Prayers Work For Me After My Death? by Abemy(m): 1:15pm On Apr 16, 2023
Yes, if those praying for you have their faith as little as a mustard seed, God will grant thier request.

Read Luke 17:5&6.
HealthI Am Fighting A Disgusting Addiction by Abemy(op): 7:53pm On Apr 09, 2023
It all started more than three decades ago. While on a morning assembly ground in a nursery school, our health teacher was to inspect our hair, teeth and nails. I had my finger nails grown long without trimming them, a ruler used in drawing marginal lines was to be used in striking on any untrimmed nails.

I rushed to use my teeth and do the trimming before my turn could reach.

I never knew what I was getting myself into. After that morning, I continue to use my teeth to keep my nails short up to this moment. I personally hate doing it, it disgust me, but I became addicted to doing it, even if I use Lazer blade to cut them, I will still be using my teeth on them.

I know the health implication of doing so, but I am simply helpless. How do I get out of this mess? I even found myself several times, cutting my nails with my teeth in the public, when they are even yet to grow long.

If not because of this, I wouldn't have believe there is an addiction. Dear friends, I need help. How do I handle this.

Happy Easter as I await your suggestions.

Cheers.
PoliticsRe: INEC Fraudulently Allocated Votes To Tinubu- Kwankwaso by Abemy(m): 11:40am On Apr 03, 2023
When will BBC be fined N5b?.
PoliticsRe: Ganduje, El-rufai, Gbajabiamila, Fashola, Jostle For Positions In Tinubu Cabinet by Abemy(m): 8:14pm On Apr 01, 2023
If El Rufai become the National Security Advisor, fulanization agend will be completed without any hindrance.
PoliticsRe: I Was Threatened To Manipulate Results – Abia INEC Returning Officer Oti (Video) by Abemy(m): 8:06pm On Mar 29, 2023
When did her tenure in FUTO started, I want to use Pantami's case to confirm this incurrptible VC., Or she came after the fraud?
HealthRe: How Can One Treat A Smelling 'Private' Please? by Abemy(m): 3:50pm On Mar 26, 2023
If the lady could talk to me one on one, I could help with the cute without conducting a test, she could even spend less than 5k in drugs depending on the out come of the investigation, and she will be fine.
Vagina Swab is costly, culture and sensitivity may be adorable, but orally, the cure can be detected.

Let her or any lady in this situation chat me privately, he she needs my WhatsApp number, let her request for it.
PoliticsRe: Reverend Father Hyacinth Alia Wins Benue Guber Election by Abemy(m): 12:35pm On Mar 21, 2023
The election was inconclusive, voting currently ongoing in some LGAs
PoliticsRe: Kano Imposes Down To Dusk Curfew by Abemy(m): 9:05am On Mar 20, 2023
Rigging tactics
PoliticsRe: There Is Complete Failure Of Governance In Nigeria – Rotimi Amaechi by Abemy(m):
Amechi just confirmed that Rivers is a state, full of pretenders, back biters, ingrates, and selfish cawords.

What efforts has he made to influence positivity in the government he has been part of, for seven and a half years?

He was quiet, hopping to benefit from the same failed system, now he is just waking up, because he felt he has been cheated out.

Tell Amechi that we, the considered second class citizens are used to the faliur, but if he felt he will continually remain in government corridors, reality is about to stare him in the face, when he has to face Wike at home,.and Tinibu at Abuja.

Of course, Wike will remain influencial, some how, whether his party wins or lose s.

Welcome to Nigeria Rotimi Chibuike Amechi.
PoliticsRe: Message From President-elect Asiwaju Bola Tinubu by Abemy(m): 5:59pm On Mar 17, 2023
President announced, not president elect.
PoliticsRe: Atiku,PDP Withdraw Suit From Tribunal On Permission To Inspect Election Materia by Abemy(m): 5:33am On Mar 16, 2023
Sannisege:
Atiku knows that he will also be exposed if election materials are inspected. The fraud perpetrated by Igbos in favour of Obi in the South East will be exposed.
Go and read the entire news again, come back and either entirely delete this comment that is completely over the bar, or better still, edit it.
PoliticsRe: Atiku,PDP Withdraw Suit From Tribunal On Permission To Inspect Election Materia by Abemy(m): 5:30am On Mar 16, 2023
Jones4190:
atiku is a wise man, he know APC win legitimately
But he is still in court protesting the outcome, he hasn't withdrawn his case, he only withdrew the one on inspection of elections materials. Reason being that, Inec was adamant in allowing him access, but as the fixated date for the case approaches, they (inec) agreed to grant him access, that's why he withdrew that motion on comparing inec to allow him access.
PoliticsRe: Atiku,PDP Withdraw Suit From Tribunal On Permission To Inspect Election Materia by Abemy(m): 5:26am On Mar 16, 2023
tamdun:
Atiku withdraw because there's nothing to inspect,we keep asking u obidient if the result ur agents submitted to u is different from that of INEC
Your reason and Atiku's reason for withdrawal are not the same sir. You are therefore on your own.

In case you were in a hurry to comment and did not read to understand, you can go back and read it again sir.
PoliticsRe: Atiku,PDP Withdraw Suit From Tribunal On Permission To Inspect Election Materia by Abemy(m): 5:23am On Mar 16, 2023
Jones4190:
atiku is a wise man, he know APC win legitimately
You read, but either didn't understand or you are deliberately distorting the real facts just to spite Obidients.
PoliticsRe: CBN Says Old ₦200, ₦500, ₦1,000 Notes Remain Legal Tender by Abemy(m): 6:47am On Mar 14, 2023
OkutaNla:
Smh. Emefiewele just wanted to punish Nigerians for reasons best known to him. Las las, what was the point of the policy, if we're now back to square 1? After all the suffering he and Buhari put Nigerians through. Emefiewele, ONKR o.
Emiefile only destroyed evidence of over printing money for Buhari's administration as exposed by Goodwin Obaseki of Edo state, he only used Buhari's brain to achieve his mission.

Over printing of currency encourages inflation.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Happy 18th Anniversary Nairaland by Abemy(m): 4:17pm On Mar 10, 2023
It's been a great experience been here, I came across this forum in Earl 2014, I was here as a guest for many years before creating an account two years ago.

This forum has members from all works of life,you find here, the good, the bad the ugly.

We have people with PhD in Insultology, many of whom fail to understand that, the forum is different from Balablue blue bluuuu.

Happy 18th anniversary. We celebrated Mark Zuckerberg for giving us Facebook despite being a drop out, why are we raising eye 👁️ brow on SEUN.?

Kudos to you Mr. SEUN SEWA.

Thanks 🙏, to all Niarlanders .

Congratulations to all of us.
PoliticsRe: APC National Chairman, Abdullahi Adamu Loses Polling Unit To Labour Party by Abemy(m): 8:41pm On Feb 25, 2023
Voting is different from Balablue blue bu lu.
PoliticsRe: FG Orders Total Closure Of Land Borders For Elections by Abemy(m): 3:18am On Feb 24, 2023
Should it be Saturday mid night or Friday mid night?

Mtse
HealthRe: Doctors In The House Please HELP!!! (viewer Discretion Photo) by Abemy(m): 11:20am On Feb 23, 2023
My brother, have you done a test called "urine culture"?

A combination of antibiotics, antifungal, and anti steroids can heal you completely without a test. Try to soak your boxers in Dettol, hypo, jik or any antjerms.

Visit www.druthuman.com or, you can search ASK DOCTO UTHUMAN on YouTube, search on the topic, "HOW TO TREAT WHITE DISCHARGES, STOP VAGINAL YEAST, PAIN DURING SEX, CAUSES OF HEMORRIGIC CYST UTI"


If after watching you are convinced to contact him privately on WhatsApp, the contact is +256 704720301.

I believe, you and many who follow these links, will surely find help here.
RomanceRe: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Abemy(m): 9:19am On Feb 21, 2023
Ask Judith what she can do with 200k if given, asked Ifeoma the same.

Their answers may be of help.

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