₦airaland Forum

Some of you men think that if you bring someone from Nigeria and do papers for them you have become their God, or that somehow excludes you from normal challenges that marriages face. Any small thing, ha her eyes have opened etc No, maybe she's just sick and tired of your BS as a human being regardless of location. America is not the land of milk and honey. No matter how many safety valves and rupture discs you put in place, if everything will still scatter it will. So keep your blue passport inside your safe and let's hear word. If you're so worried about being taken advantage of why not marry your mates here. Abeg make I hear word this evening.

Dude looks about 40 years old. Why marry a 19 year old as a 30 year old man and bring her away from her family, isolate her and start maltreating her. US Embassy sef no try.
They shouldn't approve that kind of petition.

Ladies don't let them lie to you to bring you here and abuse you and spend your salary. Find better husband in Nigeria. There are plenty women here for them to marry

I don't know what's going on with these men

Lord have mercy

Eni eleni. Before rat will bite him

This is just terrible

idupaul:
So two months salary is now adequate compensation

Can you imagine

hmmm

Trip hazards. Does Nigeria even have an OSHA equivalent? Or is it every man for himself

The lesson I'm learning from this is that we should always watch our utterances. Regardless of the provocation or who you are complaining to, just watch what you say. Many innocent people have gone to prison over the words and threats they made in anger. May God help us.

abike12:
These streets are getting rough. Anyways $600 available for transfer to boa account. Contact in my signature. Of course you know I won't send first so please don't contact me with story.

update: sold to omotisa .

These streets are getting rough. Anyways $600 available for transfer to boa account. Contact in my signature. Of course you know I won't send first so please don't contact me with story.

obamabinladen:
"Except if there is reasonable ground to do so".


What are the reasonable grounds?.

Besides the reasonable grounds should mean they get a warrant to search it. These people are not ready to move with the times

one chance. she should've know better than to try it with daddy Freeze

Nnamdd1:
Oyo State Governor Senator Abiola Ajimobi's daughter Abisola Kola Daisi was spotted wearing a pair of Christian Louboutin Salopatina Glossy Patent Leather-Trimmed Hematite Embellished Mesh Pumps that retails on Net-a-Porter for N643,615, Prada Clutch, and a Versace dress to complete her outfit.

Seems there are no news of recession within the Ajimobi family amidst of all turmoil between Oyo State Government and LAUTECH students.

http://www.naijahelm.com/2017/01/governor-ajimobi-daughter-spends-over.html?m=1

No comment

Lord have mercy. What could've led to this?

Very nice. May God continue to keep this home...

hmmmm...

If not that some Nigerian men are suffering from self-hate, what is so beautiful about these women that warrants them getting imported to Nigeria for runs? With all the beautiful Nigerian women. Serves them right for getting extorted and serves the girls right for being disgraced.

Happy birthday beautiful woman.

aginamuk:
I don't eat paper
You can flog me all you like but that will not make my investigation any faster. You guys in naija just don't get it. One of the guys Ayo sanky346 asked to call me got off the phone with me moments ago and after explaining to him the same thing I have said here over and over he said:

"Someone has tried the same thing with me and he kept sending me money gram even after I told him to stop. Stand your ground and teach him a lesson and hold the money. Seven months may be too harsh but do like two or three months and he will never deposit in your account again."

FYI: I do not know this guy from Adam. Ayo gave him my number to call me and "beg". People in the US get it. Even the person that deposited the money in my account gets it.

I support you on this one. Interest rate in the US is less than 1% so we know it's not about that. The reality is that if for any reason your bank comes back for that money you will be out of $10,500 and it can lead to trouble depending on the source. Make sure you keep all screenshots and pages of this thread as your evidence. I know someone that was arrested in Alabama for something similar so I understand.

Kenooff:
For you, I consider the payment intentional and not mistaken as he boldly stated that he warned not to pay into his account but you still continue doing that up till the 4th time. You didn't deny the 4 payments after the warning but kept on shouting this last payment is a mistake.

Fact! Even for $300 transfer I make sure I confirm the recipient before sending. Anyone that works hard for their money cannot repeatedly deposit it in the wrong account.

This post is an ad

#1 is def right

Woah!

EgunMogaji:
If there's a God, the exchange rate will steady at N500 for the next few weeks

But then the cost of building materials keep rising at similar rates on the market.

6" block is now N175. I paid N110 when I started my project in 2016.

Iron rods, sand, granite, you name it. Everything is increasing with the dollar

Toks2008:
COURTSHIP OR DUE DILIGENCE?

When it comes to starting a purposeful affair with a possible marital union we tend to apply caution and we will try to know about the other person hence we say we are in courtship.

But in my opinion I don't see courtship as a prerequisite for choosing a spouse but I would rather go for due diligence.

While courtship is regarded as a period where two people in a romantic affair gets to know each other in order to have a proper understanding of who they are...due diligence can be said to be an outright investigative process to clearly ascertain the persona of someone.

Yes we know that neither of the two guaranty a great marital union,many people could pretend during courtship no matter how long the courtship lasts,but due deligence will reveal a better picture of who that person is.

In fact I believe that the secret to the longevity of our parents marital union is due diligence where the two families of both bride and groom meticulously take time out to know relevant details of the family as well as the person their son or daughter intends to marry.

For me I will go for due deligence rather than the flimsy charade called courtship which is just a means of wasting your time and indulging in endless sexual gratification.

While most Men will choose courtship,I will employ the ladies to go for due diligence on the man they intend to marry to avoid time wasters and baseless courtship that is never a sure pass for a good union.

I don't know if this makes sense.

Happy new year Nairalanders.

This makes a lot of sense and thanks for sharing. These days people spend courtship having sex and feeding each other lies. Due diligence will put you in a better position to make an informed decision. It's not by force to marry someone with from certain type of background or with baggage, and instead of sitting around to let them romance you and tell lies you're better off going to find these things out yourself. The only problem is for people outside the country, how do we go about verifying the many tales that Nigerian men tell us here? Some people's oriki should be omo oniro lati iya oniro to loyun fun baba oniro. Tufia!

But if this is true it's the height of wickedness. I can't wrap my mind around why a father will do this to his son.

Nah, she aint

God bless my mother! The best Project Manager, she even adds her money to get the work done quicker.

lol! Scary and at the same time obviously fake

Ymodulus:
List of Business

1. Currency Business:
a. The Western Union way :
b. The Form M way.
c. The Personal travelling allowance way
d. The Form A way

2. Tomatoes Business
3. Mini Real Estate
4. Bitcoin Business - How i made a N409million+ and Banked a N19.4million profit in November alone

Mind blown. Congratulations on making the best of a not-so-pleasant situation!

Little boy gotta eat! Hml to her and God bless ALL our mothers