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slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright



Talk way poorman take dey console themselves

Been a while man, trust you are good ?

Penielly:
Good day everyone, please am confused on which decision to take,am age 33 and got a federal job of 111k per month,am afraid that this money can't be enough if I start having family,so am thinking of looking for a greener pasture in Dubai which my friend over there ask me to come and look for work,that we can save and move to another country,am just confused now now what decision to take, please help..

Don’t listen to your friend oooo, Dubai is worst than Nigeria ooo cos you can’t get a reasonable job there bruh.. I have friends there who are even begging me to come over that they will pay for my passport and all sorts, these are d same friends that do say they won’t hesitate taking up 50k job in Osun than staying over there oo

Amotolongbo:
Can you allow this kinda “truth” be written in your ward’s report card?

Why not?
Could remember when I was in pry 3, the teacher wrote “ He is troublesome” in my report card. My parents being a teacher understands he was just being truthful so they called me and made it known how disappointed they are. They don’t even complain about the woeful performance

Tbvxl:
It helped me a lot. I detected the bitch was cheating on me. May God punish her wherever she is

Amen and all other bitches doing same

passionberry:
Same here oh ..I had to rent my shop sell everything to one woman ,go find job again ..business should rest for now ..I can not come and kill myself ...lagosians dey use juju sell market oh if u join them you won't sell .

Please I will like to dm you to ask further questions as regard this food business.

MrMou:
I no know why people dey blame the woman. Na the man mumu na! We have been warning men to make virginity your first criterion when you dey find wife before other positive attributes, una say no! Una dey there dey form liberal abi "woke"! O'npe ko to cheat!

No be rocket science: A woman who's been around town before marriage is way more prone to this crap than a woman you marry as virgin because she don get yardsticks to consciously or subconsciously compare you with no matter how she dey form good now! With a virgin, you're sure to know the mileage of your wife's "kitten" & you'll also be almost be sure to avoid craps like this & as well as Okafor's law!

I have seen a woman who got married as a virgin and still cheat so dis ur criteria no follow

dingbang:
I'm scared if my babe will do this to me

Bruh, over 90 % of ladies will do this. Only God knows how we got to this stage

1F30M4:
You're indeed a clown lol..

While I'll agree with you that any form of breach in communication between two or more parties who are in a mutual relationship, sows seeds of doubt, a cause for concern.. The right thing to do is to call the attention of the party(parties) involved, as the case may be.. In this context, you did the right thing by expressing your displeasure, you went way overboard though.. It shouldn't have gotten up to that(your attempt to fool her, consistently chatting her up & what not), that consistency shows that you really do love her, you're hurt but then you just want some form of closure before breaking up with her..

She does love you though but I can't say I know why she ignores your chats or her late replies(not just minutes, many hours later).. You both should've really talked about it yh cos if she can reply a "random stranger" relatively faster than she does to you(her supposed boyfriend), there is something wrong..

Oh well, if you feel the breakup will make you feel better, then by all means go for it.

So wise . Shouldn’t have gotten to breaking up with her cos she was even honest of having a bf she loves. Some girls will even deny ever having a bf.

Jack005:
Lol, bro I've been there and it's really not easy getting a good lady nowadays.. We know nobody is perfect but it just keeps getting more complex as the days goes bye.

Aswear

Jerrick:
Just have in mind that whatever happens, happens! Girls that won’t fall for this no reach 4 for Nigeria currently

Aswear . I see no point cos I doubt any loyal babe dey

Fedric:
I noticed that my girl friend doesn't like to come over anymore. Of late she Dosen't pick my calls often, she picked after 20 times .

I called her plenty times yesterday but she didn't pick my call giving me silly excuses that she left her phone at home while going out.

She repeated the same thing today and her excuse was that she went to an office and she can't pick the call. She later say she have to submit the phone to the security officers at the gate and that's the law of the institute .

I never see this kind of excuses and when I talk to my sister, she was like she might have gone to a man house and don't wanna pick .

The main issue with her is she believes I complain too much and she also raises voice at me any time I told her an issue I don't like.

I'm seriously tired and I am having different thoughts .

I wanted to marry her but her attitude keeps preventing me from making such move.

I feel bad right now and I needed an advice .

I feel so bad that my thought right now is to pretend, use her, dump her and make her feel regretful of making me go through emotional pain.

Should I just let her go and I should go on my who way?

Or should I just free her and start doing as if she don't exist in my life again .

I'm not happy right now and I feel so bad .


Advice please.

bruh, this same story line exactly line mine ���.... olohun

SaintAlbert53:
very heart breaking...

she went to Nysc camp, I couldn't reach her after the third day she got there. I tried so many times to connect to her, but all attempts failed.
Finally, her line went through and when i asked her why happened, she confidently told me she gave her phone to someone who needed it urgently.
We talked, laughed and at the end of our conversation, she told me this: Teddy, I am sorry things aren't going as planned before I came here, i am seeing someone else and i really like him so much..

I was speechless and i no cry o but tears dey rust down my eyes..
Then I told her;

Me: Who's this guy?..

Ex: You don't need to know him Teddy, I just want you to know we won't be talking on the phone anymore because he doesn't enjoy me talking to other guys..

Me: Mummy u mean this thing abi na Yahoo format be this?

Ex: Just try and understand, like I told you when we met the first time, I don't like to have anything with my ex-. So, please get someone to love you, i am sure you will be fine in no time. Bye, God bless you.

It was like i was listening to one of John Legend's song until she updated all her social apps dp with the new guy's pic and wrote MY KING..
OH MY GOD.. SIGHHH

Make I help u swear for her ?

richmond500:
Lalasticlala, the heartbreak don reach ur side too?
No worry, e deh enough, all of us go collect am.

Welcome to the heartbroken association of Nigeria. Idumota branch.... pls do feel at home

Dis quote always make me life” e go soon reach everybody “ like play like play , e don Dey go round ooo

UyaiIncomparabl:
I am not worthy to answer that question. We make mistakes, sometimes.

Hmmm... I dig
Peace out

UyaiIncomparabl:
Do NOT try it. I repeat, do NOT try it. You will live to regret it. Men do NOT forget easily. Except, of course, you have resolved in your mind that you're not going ahead with the marriage plans again, then fine, tell him and say your goodbyes. Anything aside from that, you are on your own. If he chooses to accept you back, you will never have peace in that marriage. You will keep getting daily reminders of how you cheated on him, and how cheap you are. Udo!

Is she not cheap?

Draught:
...

Still waiting for the day Osimhen will remove that ridiculous blond hair color...


..
My team 4-3-3: Okoye
Def : Aina, Troost-Ekong, Balogun, Sanusi
Mid : Aribo, Ndidi, Etebo
Fwr : Chukwueze Osimhen Iwobi

Or
4-2-3-1
Defense same as above
DefMid: Ndidi and Etebo
AttMid : Chukwueze Iheanacho Iwobi
Fwr : Osimhen

What’s Iwobi doing there ?

Spending123:
If you're not ready for heartbreak, if you're not ready to block and unblock at least three times a day, if you're not ready to cry at least four times a day, please avoid relationship.....A wise is enough for a word, oh sorry, enough is a wise for the word.

Aswear people won’t know you are dishing out the best advice bruh, relationship sucks aswear. The mind is messed up, the head is going gaga, heart beats faster, appetite is lost... just fucking name it ��‍♂️��‍♂️��‍♂️

samuel19222:
are you in Germany

No bruh , the picture caption is what made me quote that my bros

samuel19222:
DanielHouston I hope you are safe over there, may Jah protect ya because your little donation for this forum is way too big. Jah bless

Depression is fucking real man,never too believed it until I found myself depressed aswear... only God can help pull through

Tajbol4splend:
The kind of religion they practice in the North doesn't allow them to protest against bad leadership, it teaches them to respect and tolerate the decisions made by their leaders whether good or bad, because if they protest and voice against tyranny, they will not make heaven, primitive people.

How do you know?
Fear God

Iyajelili:
This

Please ma, kindly assist me with the pdf .
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Please kindly assist me in checking my name .. abeg

Good morning , I just came across this thread . Please kindly share the pdf where I can check if I am shortlisted

franchasng:
I never met my wife's parents nor siblings until the day I went to pay her dowry. She pleaded with me many times to come to her place, I never showed up.


Quality men are not usually easy to get so when a lady finds a quality man, she handles him with care. You belittled yourself before her in so many ways.


Why are Nigerian guys always in a hurry to meet the family members of their girlfriends Its a turn off.


Now listen and listen well, that girl is seeing another guy she considers far better than you and seeing you or picking your calls irritates her, ladies don't usually handle such things well unlike guys that can manage a community of ladies and all the ladies will be happy and fulfilled lol.


Stop believing that good ladies are scarce, they are not, in fact, I wished I could marry more wives cos I keep seeing super hot and good mannered ladies that deserve to be wife's, so I wonder why you single guys cling unto one girl thinking she is the only mother Theresa on earth.



Forget the nonsense that she used to help you, that's by gone and thank God she is the one playing herself not you, so forget the past memories and go find a better chick and don't ever accept her back because another guy have fu*cked her and only after that guy dumps her that she would come back to her senses. Unless she is a confirmed virgin with visible hymen, and she comes back with the hymen in tact and you use torchlight to confirm the hymen, don't ever accept her back, she doesn't love you, she doesn't respect you, she doesn't regard you.


Don't ever marry a girl that doesn't respect and regard you. Forget Love, respect, loyalty and submission from a woman is vital for any marriage to work.

Before I married my wife, she calls me more than 5 times a day and when I complain she would apologise and before you know it, she has called again despite having a very tight work schedule owing to the nature of her career. Now that she is my wife, she calls me more than 5 times everyday. Sometimes just to gist me or tell me irrelevant story that happened in her workplace or something like that which makes me laugh lol. Once a woman is in love, she wanna talk to you always, she will tell you every damn thing she does daily even when you don't ask.


Forget that babe completely, she doesn't worth the hype jareh .


And lastly as a single guy who is not yet married, you are not supposed to be dating just one girl. You are supposed to have at least 3 qualified wife materials and maybe 3 other parole. How can you tie yourself to one girl as a single guy that's looking for a wife Are you Pastor Kumuyi

You said the words of my old man bruh �

arsenal444:
I like your courage, u are a man

Aswear, e get strong mind.

The man said immediately he finished primarily 6, he was sent to serve Oga ��, served 4 different Ogas and only the last one settled him with just little cash that couldn’t even rent a shop���.
I told him not to curse his parent that they only did what they thought was the best for him and he should even look around, the igbos we have around don’t even have primary education and they are doing well so that’s what I fell his parent saw before deciding on that.
He said though his story changed in 2019 exactly Easter period , he went to celebrate Easter with his family at a nearby eatery, on getting down from the bike , he saw a small child walking across the road and a car was about hitting her, he said he did not even know how d whole thing happened buh he just dived and carry d child and even showed me all d bruises unknowing to him he just saved the only child of a wealth woman.
The woman invited him over and offered him 500k but he rejected it telling d woman to please teach him how to fish rather than giving him fish�, na there d woman asked for his qualification �����

Some people really suffered while growing up, it’s not what one can pray for his enemy to go through. Life was really tough to some and some had everything at their reach. Listening to some people story about how growing up was like for them ,one wouldn’t know when tears will be dropping cos mehn, life really dealt with some people like it bleeped them in the ass. Listening to wyzdom song “Bless me” moved me to tears cos I was like wtf! A primary 2 child cultivating for people to survive , still serve Oga and Oga still no settle am, could imagine how frustrated he would be then, mehn! Man will feel like a failure aswear. This song made me remember the story of an Igbo man I met of recent☹️☹️. The day I met him, I could hear him cursing his dead parent for not sponsoring him in school ���, he was so damn frustrated cos he came to sell all what he had that day. I sat beside him and tried initiating a conversation to see if I could just be of help in anyway.

luminouz:
Are you not her mom?

You are her stronghold,her comforter and her kids hearted supporter naaaaaa

Bruh, Na wetin Dey pain my bruh u Dey use joke . Aswear it’s sardonic

Iyajelili:
Good morning guys! Wishing us all the best of life.

Ameen

Enskynelson:
A Kogi State Teacher on Grade Level 9 Step 6 got the alert below as Salary for December 2020.
The alert as posted by Human Activist, Usman Okai CNA on his Facebook Page shows the worker received the alert for December Salary on 1st February 2021.
The question is: how will this person survive in this current economy?

Factors that can come into play in this situation.
1. There is an outstanding loan he is servicing every month like car loan, housing loan and all sorts
2. Loan taken from cooperatives nko.
It’s just like Osun state government complaining about their small allocation, deductions has been made before the net is being paid abi loan should be forgone? Osun ought to collect 6bn every month buh they receive 1.6bn, they can also come to social media claiming allocation given to them is small nah.
That’s his net bruh after all deductions has been made. People always playing the victim role

Jestin:
For the guy above, I don’t see this as a negligence on the part of the driver. I think it was raining and the road was over flooded.

Are you looking at a different picture sir ? Are you seeing what we all can’t see sir? Where do you see water bayii Egbon?

Kaeboy:
For those that got zero percent error. Quomodo system responded.

We still can see your email clearly bruh. No mind me jare , Insha Allah it will end in praise