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oluwamae:
Funny....quite right

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Yes dear

oluwamae:
Marriage counselor!! �

Hahahaha... Likiliki...

The feeling to achieve more for oneself as regards self sufficiency is okay, but still, the lady might be ready to push through with you. If you found a good lady, you love her and she loves you in return obviously, then, there's no need to break up. Hustle hard, do not get too distracted, since she's just a lover, try and balance it, let her know your plans but not breaking up because u want to face your life, what's that guarantee u would be successful in the long run? As you hustle, if she tags along fine, and if she doesn't follow the pace, let her be. But believe me, do not put your eggs in one basket, any lady can leave u anytime, family is bae, double your hustle, carve a future for yourself, and you would never regret anything!

z11111:
Yes.
Marriage is about sacrifice between two people .

Exactly

Everything In life boils down to attitude, not one physical state or not. Been a virgin or not doesn't equate a happy home. I always love a happy home and two people ready to sacrifice to make things work.

Chai... This is serious..... They had better find a lasting solution to this menace before it eventually backfires in every wrong ways.

AreaFada2:
Abi o. These days that women have so much expectation, want to be like their friend who married a rich man.

Good idea but problematic in practice. Two women can hardly co-exist happily in one matrimonial home these days.

Exactly, even ordinary roommates, ladies hardly get along when they cohabit talk more of marriage. A man that wants to stay long should be weary of his partner(s), it tells how long he would live. A home with man married to more than one woman would hardly have peace even if outwardly, peace is been projected but inwardly, they sober.

Flowers95:
money is not the only reason for divorce, but it’s the no1 cause. for the average joe, money is important.

Ehn.. And u claimed to be married, obviously u love his money, when it disappears, u run for your life. Money isn't the core of marriage, it's just an integral part. Money is important whether married or not, so it's no yardstick since it affects both married and singles.

Even one, person no fit control, this one dey talk of more, maybe to stubborn men Sha.

There's nothing that can't work but when one sees his or herself as rigid, not ready to let peace reign, never understanding, proud and not considering the feelings and interest of the other... It can never work even if u marry Joseph in the Bible.

amiibaby:
Back so soon from Benue?


This buhari is so heartless I swear

Get facts right, he's not heartless welcoming a friendly nation, US have helped Nigeria in many ways we can't pay back, and Rex can't be received by PYO since PMB is in the country, Infact, from wherever PMB was even outside the country, he would gladly be happy to return to welcome a top US official since he's currying favor from them. The only mistake was paying a condolence visit a time it coincides with a top US official visiting. He could have shelved the commiseration to an earlier time had he listened or to a later time. It takes a dumb person to think PMB won't personally receive Rex.

Idumota, obanikoro, UNILAG junction at yaba

Melaye would for the second time be sued for providing false allegations again, I thought it was the same custom their boss refused to wear the uniform before appearing at the Senate that did this clean job, kudos guys. As much as Bello isn't living up to expectations, this is not one can touch him or come near either, Melaye should hit another or expect double Barrels in return.

Just that no right channel to direct our challenges to, tax is proportionate to amount u earn, even buhari earning millions pays a little above that from his salary for income earned...Anyway,when negotiating salary, I always end it with after all deductions....so that one employer won't be forming smarter than employee.

ehie:
This is supposedly not a "tyranny" nor a "dictatorship" Ortom has every right to snub and ignore him, he is not forced in anyway to entertain and "welcome" this man that parades himself as president..Wike does not want him in Rivers, Ortom should kindly tell him to go on his popoularity seeking tour in Yobe and in the brain challenged northern states who welcome their oppressors with open arms

U people keep peddling rumor when the truth stares u in the face, where did wike say he never wanted the president in rivers? The president can visit any state regardless whether the governor wants it or not, but it's always in the best interest of the masses when federal and state work hand in hand. Whether ortom welcomes him or not, he would still run to federal government when things goes beyond his limit. Infact, all those chanting ortom shouldn't go welcome him would even prepare an ovation for him had they been in his shoes but hypocrisy won't let them even get to that position in the first place. Sometimes, it's good to separate politics, the right thing and what's obtainable from each other. Politically, ortom needs to welcome the president and cancel everything for him as that's what is obtainable in Nigeria settings but hypocrite would be saying otherwise as if had they be president, they would tolerate such.

Adedamola8193:
IS AMOSUN THE FIRST GOVERNOR OF THE STATE I WAS IN ABEOKUTA ON FRIDAY AND DID GUY IS DOING GOOD JOB THE AXIS YOU MENTION SHOULD WAIT FOR ANOTHER GOOD GOVERNANCE

First of all, typing in caps shows your level of understanding in a public forum requiring decorum and sensibility. The bridge he constructed in Ijebu ode is in poor state at the moment just having stayed few years of usage, I couldn't believe what my eyes saw when I visited the region last month. The Amosun governance starts and ends in abeokuta, All other local governments are in dire need of attention, from lambe to akute to matogun to sango to Oke Aro to name but a few. Amosun is doing his best but it's a no no stellar performance in anyway.

Whether your house wife is as beautiful as kimani and dresses as Cassey some men would still cheat, that which is outside that they've not tasted would be that they desire. Only God can save men from lustfulness. self control, contentment would serve a great deal. When men cheat, it's played down in marriage but reverse isn't the case for women. Fact is all men have the tendency to cheat but whether to cheat or not depends on lots of things.

NE suck so much from national treasury yet no improvement. Biko NE should park well Biko, we have other regions abeg.

That move won't sail throughout Nigeria, saraki, tinubu, oshiomole who has pocketed their states are not affected by stupid pension when they have direct access to the treasury.... The pension gives past leaders fair chances after office as not all became senators and not all are influential after office. What saraki should champion is reducing cost of running senate, is way too high. Instead of stopping the pension outrightly,u just reduce it, saraki has ulterior motive. He should just have forfeited his salary instead while serving as senator.

talk2dboss:
From my experience with Samsung Phones, Your screen is dead. You will have to get a new screen. Sad truth is that the cost of a new screen + your cost price of 170k = A new note 8 and some change.

Its quite sad that this happened to you. I am sure the seller had seen signs of this screen which was what made him sell the phone at that price to you.

My advice, since he said the phone comes with warranty, then go to his place with either a soldier or a policeman let him replace the phone (REPLACE THE PHONE OOOO, NOT CHANGE THE SCREEN).. Always run from fixing the phone, cos getting an original screen is very difficult. 10% chances.

Now you will spend money, maybe close to 50k for the police or soldier. But it is worth it if you are getting another phone

U b correct guy, when anybody cheats u in this country, go with Army and your mountain would be plain and easy. Police won't be feared like army! He should go with army, instagram na long story, he dares not try this shit with army officer, he would end up losing all the phones in his shop sef without any money paid back when army go destroy the whole shop. Nigerians like to cheat themselves unless you're the stubborn type and have backup.

Many ignorants people keep blaming the young man and not blaming the parents for failed upbringing. Our programmes on TVs are corrupt, the society is corrupt everywhere is corrupt, parents have failed to teach their female kids morality when literally they're pursuing money that's just not coming and it's also left for the kid to accept it or not. I saw a female teenager today, she wore a gown to her knee but from her stomach down,her tights were all out with no iota of decency left, it's so transparent that it can even lure animals to her talk more of male humans. Parents have failed to teach their kids morality and, the friends our female kids keep in school, what music they watch, have led to moral decadence. Even the adults are not left out jumping from one failed relationship to another with sex the baton for handover...some are guilty of it, but because they've not been caught, go to universities where there are 16yrs old girls gaining admission and spoilt already, Infact, they would champion the sex scene of bbn and how it ended. Unless you're caught, it's wrong to have sex with one below 18 without parental approval, reason the north differs, their parents grant approval there but it's solely for marriage and u do anything with the underage, so it depends on which side of the coin u fall.

#teamtundratoyota
#teamaudi
#teambmw

If the NASS are disgruntled with the election timetable, they should just amend the law such that power to prepare election timetable is given to themselves than enter power of wit with INEC. Their interest is what they're after. Nothing can change the timetable, so long sagay that knows the law is there, not these illiterates claiming to know law.

I love this... Reason I love tundra. I would intentionally be hitting other cars making them commit

Launcher:
A lot of people have placed hope on this program, many of them extorted self .

Exactly, many of them had been extorted already with hope of the president appending his signature on the bill,but guess it's a futile journey for their members as it's now.

At least biacan can escape the dot world.

What if it continues after marriage? There's no right way to go about it, just depends on the personality involved.

biacan:
Not that bad we can still fix him up

This is no dot that u can fix up Biko

doyinbaby:
Boycott cow meat.....the only solution to herdsmen crisis

Cow meat can't be boycotted, that a section boycotted it that's if it's possible doesn't mean many other millions won't buy for wedding, birthdays, anniversary, child dedication, burial, matriculation, sallah, Xmas, easter to name a few. Since attacks are majorly at farms, local guards at farms can come in handy, liaising with fulanis in each community and its Environ with strict laws would curb the menace, again, many bad people would use the opportunity to cash in on innocent people, harm and harass them blaming fulanis because our media strife in turmoil. So best is, having simple mechanism in place for security that would take into consideration future dynamic security challenges would help.

IkpuNnu:
May God Punish Jonathan Eternally!

Oginni?
How is Jonathan an issue here?

Very rare to come by, that's commitment, patience, understanding at work. It's obvious this couple would weather the storm come anything. Happy Married Life.

Crap, first of all, they both should be at same level but you chose to expose your favoritism, on no account should u have rated a HND higher than bsc, if u can't put them at par, let them be bikonu. Whichever, success is no respecter of your qualification, just be thoughtful, useful, take opportunities, meet people and work. Period!