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erico2k2:
I agree with you, the man should structure his home to avoid such.I cant ever imagine my wife raising her voice to my Mum let alone a fight.On the other hand my Mum is way to busy to have a month in my house.

I just wonder such women still exist.... .. Some even pray to marry men whose mother is dead, height of hypocrisy by some women not knowing it would haunt them too later as someone would also pray for their death too. No sane lady brought up from a reputable background dares disrespect her MIL, I'd rather prefer my partner vents her anger on me than my mother if need be. Wives have issues with MIL when MIL stays beyond necessary, but this is where the wisdom of the man comes to play. Marriage is no child's play, it requires lot of wisdom.

Your brother is a weakling who lacks the aura to organize the affair of his home, strike a balance and hurt no party. The wife on the other hand must be a petulant personality, no matter how annoying your MIL could be, the husband still knows best how to handle his mother rather than resolve to self help. Na so your daughter in law go beat you someday, just watch! Her own would even b with hot water. Karma is a bitch, always waiting for all. Learn to do good even when paid with evil.

Oyindidi:

Mama hand look like that of a young girl. That's by the way.. People die anyhow these days, don't go and kill your brother's wife cos of something you know nothing about. She might have hit mama due to the fact that mama was hitting her. Think before you fight, mama's boy

The reason you gave for probably the lady necessitating having to hit mama back lacks substance, it's clear the husband respects not his mother, no man who respects his mother would dare allow his wife talk down his mother talk more of raise an eyebrow not to talk of raise a hand. These same useless men would be pampering their mother in law like they gave birth to them. Nothing like one's mum, even if outsiders disrespect one's mum, surely not one's partner!

I rep olu iwa college now adeola Odutola College,AOCOSA! number 51, aitan o ko ilekile, adeola o ko omo komo! To our sister school, I hail the JOGSOBA!

Fresca:
All these girls forming "virgins" una see una life?? U will not want to sample the product before getting married, u think you're doing the guy? My dear you're doing yourself...

OP please give her the D, just give her to silence her. Just no do give am belle oo..

But how would u feel when another man dig you different from your husband when you're married, no sense of guilt? Because, it's a bizarre to me to even think talk more of say it out not to to talk of doing it. Anything can happen before or after marriage, ability to resolve is a priority, it's clear the lady never loved the guy, she married him for something other than love.

If the right girl isn't tagging along in the course of your climbing up, just forget about who left and focus on making more money. Man without money is a woman! Forget the blokos in between

jusRadical:
You do not know.

Isam is gradually breaking new grounds. While we Christians sleep, they are bent on conquering the world. They go the USA and Europe because those are new grounds they need to conquer. Why go to Muslim countries is conquered?

Look at England, they are conquering it gradually: at least they have a mayor there now

Islam is the fastest growing religion in the world and the second largest after Christianity, but with the force used by Muslim brethren to cover new grounds, they need become the fastest. As much as they're growing, their growth is riddled with controversy which long soak their cloak like blemish all over the world. But i support POTUS' call

Challenge her, sit her down, be romantic and speak senses bluntly into her, two years aren't a child's play for emotional sarcasm. Speak senses into her, let her know she would lose you if that won't stop. If she won't respect you first before challenging your stand, she's not worthy a partner. The love no dey shack again.

Cruel! but on the other hand, I had thought Evans was highly notorious, how could amaka have brought his downfall? Criminals are always wary of ladies because they know only them could bring closer their doom. no amaka led to your downfall, it was just the right time for him to fall. All days for the thief, one day for the owner!

hamzeiy:
am still trying to see the connection between the quote and what you are saying. a typical example of somebody that is talking but he isnt saying anything. the point here is that the entire topic has noting to do with easter or religion. grow some sense pls.
fyi dont expect me to be responding to your rants. i got things to do with my time

Dude, u didn't see the connection because u chose to turn a blind eye to the glaring link. Read from the beginning the bone of contention, then u would see it was only right Adebowale89 in his sagacity which shows he thinks logically to have brought in. Don't be labor the issue, what applies to the goose applies to the gander. So take a chill pill, clear the log in your eyes before removing from others who see more clearly than you, then read again and see the connection base on the quote from the complainant.

For whatever reason, she deserves to live, infact I'm just jaw dropping at comments on here, doubt they read the previous thread, alhaji did a bad thing and must pay for it, alhaji would upgrade from using girls and start to rob innocent people on the road and some other vices if not nipped in the bud. Infact, the SUG of her school can champion a course for international awareness if the situation drags too long, that's only if the SUG is even effective. This cruelty is way too extreme, nothing should have warranted taking another man's life, it's just too sacrosanct.

Queenarbie:
Am yet to get the online assessment mail but got the on demand video interview mail. Pls, do I proceed with the interview?

I feel you should, I got the video interview link which is the stage one, guess the video interview is now the stage one as against the abstract, Numerical test and others. So take your test, after which the second link should come or you just await it.

EgunMogaji:
Thank you for improving my vocabulary, I was not aware of this word.

It's nice learning new things on here as opposed to the more typical mindless drivels.

My pleasure sir!

Bolustical:
Each time I pass through Abeokuta enroute Ibadan, my heart prays for him for massive transformation of Abeokuta with his road projects

Even flyovers are six lanes unlike what is found in most places.

The model school project are visible enough.

While he has touched Otta, Ijebu, Abeokuta he has not shown enough concern for Ifo.

God bless Amosun,
God bless the SW,
God bless the Omoluabis,
God bless Nigeria.

The deplorable state of roads in ifo local government especially matogbun, lambe,akute, agbado and oke aro is nothing to write home about, still nothing is been done to ameliorate the sufferings of the masses, I wish he could torch light these places too for road transformation.

obailala:
Yeah that's right, terrific could be used to describe something frightening (terrifying); likewise it could be used to describe something great/outstanding.

Most a times, terrific Is mostly used for something extremely good, beautiful, surprising and although it also means very bad or frightful

Some of these words don't have a single meaning, like blood money, the initial thought of the definition still holds from Merriam Webster, likewise impeach which has been long debated and settled. Many people created similar threads in times past but this is cool still, the lousy part got me laughing when a radio presenter goofed last week, I just laughed that I wish he knew the meaning, he would retract.

If there's job security, then one doesn't really need quitting his/her job. Not enough freedom, waking so early in some instances and answering to some memo could be really annoying. Salary only make you comfortable but the right business maketh one rich. Team business all the way... I and obim, while we keep at it, a steady income.

lalanice:
right!
I'm all for dnt spend d evening where you cannot spend d night. if you're staying late? you best be sleeping there

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Hilarious, if he's spending the day till that time of the night, it's best he spent the night there, very blunt! I know my baby could say same too. Married people are to spend enough time with their families because that was what they signed in for, no matter how eventualities took its toll, there is time for everything. One would wonder what a married man would be doing till that time of day only to be hanging out with friends, crap! when other days are there in the cool evening to hang out with friends. Night Night, I hate being out at those time... ... Make robbers, street urchins and police no go use person shine

FFK wouldn't stop to wallow in self denial knowing fully well the role of foreign affairs ministry, it's the role of the minister to do that he did and he never erred. If any one was to commiserate with Nigeria over terrorist attacks on our soil, then it's the president of other nations or their foreign affairs minister. I wonder how many condolences other nations would have sent in base on attacks on our soil, since it's very continual and seems normal routine, reason none commiserates with us any more. Condemning terrorist attacks by Nigerian government everytime would look ill act since it's always re-occurring , but acting to stop the menace would be far better than words.

pweetyoge:
Ha!!!his interview is not on the island naah. that is like running around in circles plus time consuming. just take a bike to Lagos garage in ijebu, take palmgrove/ onipanu bus rather than oshodi( around 800naira or 1k) on ur way to lag, drop at obanikoro bustop. simple

Your route description was very modest and okay compared to following through epe when he could get to Lagos garage and at most 1k using a car sef to Palm Grove or if he can see jibowu, but still the Lagos garage route is still far better, even down to oshodi is better. These days, time is money than merry go round wasting time and spend more.

Anyone who crosses his part knowingly or unknowingly would be killed by him... That's disheartening.... . What sort of person goes about saying that. ..? only God can save us in this country.

Obim and I should top the list!

Hmmmmmmmmm.. .
Oluwamae comes to mind.. . It's well.. .. .

oluwamae:
thanchu..happy easter celebration.

Happy new month chinwe lol

Right from my University days, UNIPORT has always been leading the pack when it comes to NUGA, and UNIBEN has always being within a touching distance to UNIPORT, I knew this year would not had being a difference for either universities.

Happy Easter to...
Yemsai
Jerrytemi
Jodha
Oluwamae
Esty20........

Nice one here.... Keep it up!

Jodha:
Been true to one's self has nothing to do with it... What of if they were having teenagers in the house.. They should still bath together and be true to themselves.... To the detriment of the children..what do yhu think would run through the teenagers minds seeing them go to the bathroom together?..

I didn't say it's wrong.. I only stated it'll be awkward since the mother in law is around.. Some things are best kept between the couple... I call that unnecessary pda.. The mother doesn't have to see them bathing together..

And oh yes! ... 6 months is the proper time for her to heal and regain and strength before anything... He should be able to control himself.. If he's truly a man.. Or did he marry his wife.. Solely for sex?..

Lol.. . Did he marry his wife solely for sex? Intimacy is paramount and the wife in question could have being of help to her husband by even making a suggestion but rather felt unconcerned, she's lucky to have a committed man even contemplating whether to do outside, if it were some men, just know a mistress is somewhere servicing him if doesn't disturb you for sex for six months and he's not even talking about it and how you both could help yourselves. The lady doesn't even seem sympathetic, she thinks it's her right to feel unconcerned, na when another woman more systematic than her finds her way in na dat time she go know say marriage no be child's play, that when it comes to sex, the two should learn to iron a common ground out comfortable to both parties, sex is really powerful, it can make or mar relationship talk more of marriage if a common suitable ground isn't agreed on. Nothing to keep within the couple, PDA is necessary after all they're married, if in law doesn't like it, the guy's mother can come instead, and what omuguo is happening after two months sef,wouldn't the in law go and meet her own husband too? Bathing together can be done strategically at some times in the day, that's y when the two couples are jasi, that can not be an issue, infact this in general is no issue, just that the wife is unconcerned and not helping matters either. When you marry an understanding woman, nothing would ever be a problem as she would make life easy and the man living long in good health.

Jodha:
The baby is just two months nah.. Does he wants to kill his wife... He should allow her rest.. Jhoor
. Plus it'll take like 6 months for her to heal.. 2 months is way too early..
About the mom... His wife is totally right.. Since there is no other room.. He should wait..

Bathing together would be awkward nah.. Since the mother is around...

Are u saying they change what they do since in law was around, that means they're not true to themselves, in-law knows her daughter is married and for married people, bathing together is a norm except she wants her daughter's hubby being enjoyed by another woman because even men of God kiss their wife in church, she's now called wife, so nothing like bathing together is shameful or wrong, that shows their love waxes stronger dear. Never change because of people, always be true to yourself, whatever I do with my wife before in-law comes as long as it conforms with common sense, it's very illogical to stop such even if pastor comes to pass the night. 6 what?.. 6 months, that's too much nah..... . For a married man to stay 6 months without sex, did she deliver sextuplet?.. Bae calm down.. .. Good morning..... Happy new week....

What your views are... @Jodha and @jerrytemi.. ..?
I expected first the place should heal which I'm not sure two months would have being enough but assuming it has healed at the moment,the presence of granny shouldn't pose any threat, one reason I like sometimes, understanding ladies, the man even sounds 20th century, I expected he should have re strategized since granny was coming, him and his wife should have started bathing together rather than him sleeping parlor and be inviting his wife to parlor to make love when all of a sudden, anyone could burst in at that time which in turn could lower self esteem. I just wonder why couples don't cultivate the habit of bathing together even when opportunities avail itself.

Firstly, his approval was confirmed by the Senate which invariably means the senators are more or less self centered, ignorant and directionless set of people, infact it's a disgrace to the senators or should I say Dino is just deranged bringing up age as an issue to ask for his resignation. Just as magu seems to be facing confirmation challenges, if it were true that age would have him disqualified from being the CGC, the senators I know wouldn't have confirmed him but melaye is just trying to be relevant. Again, as regards the uniform, it's no issue, if the uniform was a must according to law, the AGF and vice president would have advised him to go in his regalia but because they knew the senators are just trying to be relevant over irrelevant issue, then the reason to take the issue to court. As regards his resignation over age, the senators should get busy with important national issues and when they have something important to discuss with Ali, they would see him in the chamber when invited to discuss the issue. That a retired General wore a FRSC uniform doesn't mean others would follow suit and doesn't make it right, our personalities differ. I for one wouldn't have worn it as long as it breaches not the law. Wearing it would even be a slap on immediate junior officers since he never passed all through their ranks.