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 Family › Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by abimic(m): 4:50pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
Just leave the other lady out of this, focus on your marriage and don't ever Contemplate leaving your home except a threat to your life was involved. Your hubby bears much of the brunt for being a skirt chaser and a disloyal partner. But you surely let it degraded this much without taking charge of your marriage. With three kids, you should have a guidance family pastor, or someone in his family close to your home he holds dear in case your approaches fail. Always be wary of cheating partners, they can go extra miles to satisfy their interest pushing off blockades even if their wives or husbands except urgent steps are taken. Remind your hubby of the kids, confront him maturely, let him tell you what you're doing wrong, remind him of how the love started, his words, his promises, good or bad, rich or poor, where you got it wrong and where he needs to help you as it's expected of him if he ever loved you, remind him of how you can't afford to share him with another lady, how you supported him, loved him through his errors, how you adored him, cherished him, and why he wants this to die. You could be emotional to the point of tears if it would save your home, but never lay too much emphasis on his most recent errors but hammer on it once and well, and threaten him with losing you and his home if he won't help you in building a home he always dreamt of for his family. In your mind, have plan B if he won't stop, because it's not easy for a cheat to stop, especially a married one, the other lady has nothing to lose and might not stop until your home is in tatters, pray, be spiritual, keep your family pastor informed, let him speak to you both, I hope you're not the type that restricts family members like mother in law, meet with your MIL if you ever held her in high esteem, she can speak senses into him, that's if the girl isn't close to her than you sef, and if plan B eventually fails, maybe the family never supported your union or the family is getting back at you for something, because you hardly see a responsible married man who would disrespect his family pastor and also disrespect his mother, if alive or no one he respects in the family, it only shows that woman herself was never responsible either. 1 Like |
| Politics › Re: Buhari Should Sack Aisha Alhassan, Ministers Disloyal To Him - Mohammed Danlami by abimic(m): 10:27pm On Sep 07, 2017 |
Donald trump, Supreme leader of NK, Mugabe, Nana, name it, would have fired her over a phone call, your allegiance must be to the country first of all and the person u serve, if u wouldn't want to be loyal, tender your resignation, if their ideals differ from yours resign and stop being a pain in the ass. No one employs who is not going to key into the mission and vision of their company, even if u won't, you don't name it outside to show how asinine you could be, it only shows such person is bereft of ideas. |
| Crime › Re: Orphan Raped By Husband Of Woman Who Adopted Her, Suffers Urinary Incontinence by abimic(m): 9:44pm On Sep 06, 2017 |
The annoying thing with our court system is all can be granted bail regardless your offense if one is equipped with a good lawyer at your defense, even the judge would be confused in the long run. Ordinarily, why would a married man whose betrothed wife still stay with chooses to rape a minor, even the devil would be mad at him. What befits him as punishment would be to be served in his own coin, same should be done to his wife and both should be sent to jail with no offer of bail and allowed to serve their jail term with hard labor in nudity. I trust those gays and lesbians in prison, by the time they're through with them, their yansh go both they drip shit afterwards. Their manhood and womanhood would suffer the chronic and extreme brutality effect. Just send them to maximum security prison in ikoyi.. .. .. |
| NYSC › Re: Anambra Corper, Jenyo Ojo, Dies A Month To Passing Out - Pictures by abimic(m): 4:23pm On Sep 06, 2017 |
Vast majority of places in anambra prides motorable and well networked roads, sure definitely recklessness on the part of the drivers or riders would be behind it. RIP to the deceased. I could remember my days in ihiala then as a corps member, going for CDS from lilu was sickening, remembering how far it was, far and tiring, orsu in imo was even closer. |
| Sports › Re: 2018 World Cup Africa Zone Qualifiers: Full Results Of Match Day 4 by abimic(m): 2:06pm On Sep 06, 2017 |
I expected Zambia should be the one In a shaky level needing a win most definitely to secure their entry into Russia W/C, 2018 but for Nigeria on 10pts and two games left to play, Zambia on 7pts and the others on 3pts and 1pt respectively, I believe Nigeria has qualified already while one needing a win should be Zambia as the country on 3pts can still catch up with them if Zambia fail to further their cause with any win whatsoever. |
| Romance › Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by abimic(m): 7:22am On Aug 18, 2017 |
From Christian angle, they both have sinned, taken a life, and are both guilty. From culture, it's ethical the boy and girl iron out a common ground, marry themselves against all odds as a girl in her 27 would not get easily, suitors of her desire but that which comes her way and could have no choice than settle with one in the long run, and God so did it, her past never get revealed as i doubt there's any man who would want to marry a lady u heard aborted before, fear go even high sef because your head would be counting number of times she aborted before then. But what sort of love requires you to spend 10 yrs dating a lady, if you're not ready to marry a lady, get off the relationship or stay single and if one is a flirt and wasn't interested in serious relationship, I expected by 7 months at worst get off the relationship so that no love is lost beyond the ordinary and the other partner can find his or her bearing. Whatever happens in relationship or marriage, be it good or bad, the guy must have allowed it and if the lady is overly gullible, monsters would feed on her being unintelligent, like this case, the girl over trusted the guy and couldn't face the disgrace to mother a child of whose father never paid her bride price because u hardly see guys who would marry after one. Anyway, it's just a lesson to others and the guy is under no obligation to marry the girl, every thing was on mutual consent, but to save the disgrace, the trauma, disappointment which could eventually make her depressed, the guy should Remember how it all started and marry his love, because if the guy loves this lady no more, it's evident when he finally marries another woman, he would marry a second wife after 20yrs because he would get tired of his wife after child birth and look for younger women out there, nature of dogs. Erico2k2, jodha.. . Let's read your views 4 Likes |
| Politics › Re: Photos Of Man Injured By Buhari's Boys During Resign Or Resume Protest In Abuja by abimic(m): 4:06am On Aug 16, 2017 |
snoopylinus:Read the post again if u miss the salient point passed across, moreover, he learnt his lessons. In Nigeria, u don't act like u feel, u think before u act because in the long run, many who cheered you would desert u after it all backfires. You could take the protest to kaduna yourself next time to proof you're immortal! |
| Foreign Affairs › Re: Grace Mugabe Surrenders To Police After Assaulting Gabrielle Engels by abimic(m): 3:51am On Aug 16, 2017 |
All serving first families over the world enjoys immunity anywhere they go to, it would be settled diplomatically! |
| Politics › Re: Photos Of Man Injured By Buhari's Boys During Resign Or Resume Protest In Abuja by abimic(m): 3:45am On Aug 16, 2017 |
The convener of this peaceful protest is himself a mumu, even in Lagos, I dare not speak publicly against a public office holder like a politician because, u might end up speaking against someone adored by who listens or overheard this. Funny enough, someone as well thought like charly boy didn't know PMB enjoys massive followership amongst the northerners. Ignorance isn't an excuse, he was only short sighted and got what he deserved. Yet they complained of police tear gassing them last time, they failed to see the volatility of FCT, protest that could be taken to ASO rock was taken to the market, height of careless adventure. |
| Education › Re: ASUU Declares Indefinite Strike, See The Memo by abimic(m): 8:55am On Aug 14, 2017 |
Jodha:See this girl o, Biafra tearing Yoruba, who dey teach you Yoruba? Maybe na dat your friend... .. See u, two weeks strike? When u saw ASUU released a text book called communique over the so called strike, u want to console yourself that, it would be two weeks. Dear, brace up it's gonna be beyond one month or two, moreover, baba isn't around yet, wait till the sheriff is back in town  |
| Education › Re: ASUU Declares Indefinite Strike, See The Memo by abimic(m): 8:19am On Aug 14, 2017 |
Thank God, jodha can go home and rest for two years |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Have You Ever Read The Bible From The Start To The Finish? by abimic(m): 9:49am On Aug 13, 2017 |
Yea, finished the new testament but the old, he no dey gree end abeg! So I'm taking my time....  |
| Education › Re: Top 10 Most Competitive Courses In Nigeria Universities by abimic(m): 9:33am On Aug 13, 2017 |
Sure this list didn't take Nigerians into consideration, how can list of competitive courses be drawn without accounting, economics, pharmacy, mechanical engineering, funny enough, these courses are in high demand in the market. Who still does petrochemical engineering these days? this op ehn, u could have said chemical, Petroleum, gas engineering to save stress. Even polymer engineering still rates higher than petrochemical. |
| Politics › Re: This Photo Of Fayose With Fayemi Shows Why You Should Not Fight For Politicians by abimic(m): 5:36pm On Aug 09, 2017 |
talebearer123:That's babafemi ojodu, the SA adviser to the president on political matters, he received the #BBOG conveners at the entrance of ASO villa some days back on orders of the AP! |
| Culture › Re: Sikiru Adetona, Awujale Of Ijebu Is Dead by abimic(m): 10:13pm On Jul 31, 2017 |
If true, rest on awujale of ijebu, a great product of my secondary school, ogbagba 11 |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Seven Nigerians Make List Of Top 20 World Richest Pastors [see List] by abimic(m): 9:14pm On Jul 31, 2017 |
Imagine pastors listed as richest till the extent a statistics was drawn, Nigerians are too churchy, yet many sins pervade in the land when pastors are more concerned with growing their wealth base, infact, with the number of churches and how churchy people are in Nigeria, I expected we should be least corrupt. Anyway, if my pastor preaches modesty, he can never be found in that list. Money is good, but modesty is the best. I respect the catholics, Anglicans, Deeper life, orthodox...etc! 1 Like |
| Car Talk › Re: Benz Vs BMW – Which Is Actually Better? by abimic(m): 3:21pm On Jul 31, 2017 |
BMW, audi, Honda, Tundra... ... My choices for cars! |
| Family › Re: Man Impregnates His Sister-In-Law In Nasarawa by abimic(m): 8:02pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
Come in here jodha as usual The man should shoulder 95% of the blame while joy the remaining for he broke his marital vows, loyalty, respect and for the lady, I won't blame her for she gave her reasons for the way she dressed that day which didn't look like she started that day, she sounds loose to me for who goes sleeping like that and still leave door not locked in a house not your own? even if it were your own rented apartment, u are not expected to not lock the door except the lady is on free sharing spree as some persons lack courtesy mentality of knocking. The husband is a dog who could even lay with anything, justify his idiotic actions with lame excuses. The man was never tempted that day, he has long harbored the feeling in him but saw the opportunity easily, again, joy was never a disciplined girl, she also had wish to snatch her sister's hubby, because I expected joy to dance a slap on the guy's faces, bit his nose , leave him a mark but the girl sef want do coupled with a man who was wishing to have her regardless what. The pitiful thing the man fails to understand is, joy go still chop the thing outside wella, since she enjoys sleeping with no pants in her sis house. He would only realize late that he badly treated a no cheat, committed, faithful heroine to get an advanced professional prostitute wey go enjoy well when she enter university. Na d money and care wey she never see before dey make her say anyhow, she go soon get tire wey she jam mehn wey go even take care of her than this man, she go go after that 1 then because anyone who could break her blood sis marriage is capable of anything. |
| Crime › Re: 14-Year-Old JSS3 Girl Raped & Murdered By Thugs In Lagos (Graphic Photos) by abimic(m): 7:10am On Jul 28, 2017 |
Me? Leave what in God's hands!? Those boys no go see dick to father any child again in their life, not even their lineage starting from them till Jesus come would ever father a child by the time I'm done with them. Infact, they would see a nak@d lady and beg her to cover her unclothedness. Nonsense!! Useless children of useless parents, it's better they're wasted! |
| Programming › Re: How Much Do Web Developers Earn In Nigeria? by abimic(m): 10:35pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
bassdow:It's not easy being a developer, so much time devotion.. .. Combining job with software development eats time a lot........ The end matters... ... ! |
| Phones › Re: 9mobile Recorded The Highest Number Of Porting Subscribers, See Full Reports! by abimic(m): 12:44pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
With the debt hanging on its neck, laying off staff is imminent, they're only doing this to save face. |
| Politics › Re: Buhari Not Coming Back, Stand In The Way Of Biafra & Be Destroyed - Nnamdi Kanu by abimic(m): 10:36pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Finally, APC would just add one more state to their feather, they should keep believing kanu while APC wins... hahaha.. Obiano go cry last, then, APC takes over the whole SE with their gimmicks, then kanu would seek asylum as usual or be remanded where it, sorry he belongs. |
| Family › Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Beat My Mum (Picture) by abimic(m): 4:13am On Jul 02, 2017 |
Jodha:Funny enough I invited you here, and they won't let u rest..... no mind them joor! 1 Like |
| Family › Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Beat My Mum (Picture) by abimic(m): 4:10am On Jul 02, 2017 |
Jodha:Lol.... . Tracking them with calls would annoy you more!? Don't make me remember your hols, their disturbance was so amazing, u need more of that. You think UNIBEN I finished from isn't that stressful but by the way, it depends on how you want to be stressed though. Happy Sunday, Happy new month. |
| Family › Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Beat My Mum (Picture) by abimic(m): 1:08pm On Jul 01, 2017 |
Jodha:U are adding weight.... . Issoryt! How your disturbance siblings? hope u tracking them with calls from school, I really need them be disturbing u wella just like last time u were on hols. So u still think your school is the most stressful, no worry, person wey never go another papa farm go think say im own papa farm, Na im big pass! Hope you've started making out time for yourself now out of the busy school schedule! |
| Family › Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Beat My Mum (Picture) by abimic(m): 9:24pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
Jodha:Jodi jodha... Hahaha.. . I know u would have a hard stand... Good....! .. . I know also u would respond at first hand when ur attention is needed on some issues.....Even devil would frown at the DIL with her reaction, it only goes to show the kind of husband she married. It's obvious the woman knows her hubby doesn't respect her MIL, hence she could denigrate her MIL that way, regardless what the MIL had done, there are better ways to handle it, the husband would surely know best except the hubby is even immature to handle such salient issue. Anyway, thank God for my mother and my baby, they both get along easily. Imagine the scratch on the MIL! Me i still blame the husband o, he gave the room for the disrespect.... .. How you dey,? your health? Guess you've recuperated well enough.... Yeah! Your academics.. .... hope u coping well the lady that feels her course is the most stressful in Nigeria? 1 Like |
| Politics › Re: "Pay Your Tax Or Face Criminal Prosecution, Up To 5-years Jail Term" - Osinbajo by abimic(m): 12:47am On Jun 30, 2017 |
asuustrike2009:No mind those guys, they know the right thing but would be disturbing themselves with mid level Nigerians since they know they can easily be forced to their biddings. |
| Politics › Re: "Pay Your Tax Or Face Criminal Prosecution, Up To 5-years Jail Term" - Osinbajo by abimic(m): 12:45am On Jun 30, 2017 |
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| Family › Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Beat My Mum (Picture) by abimic(m): 12:33am On Jun 30, 2017 |
erico2k2:MIL grabbing her DIL's neck and DIL beating MIL only shows they both are fit for themselves, it's a situation of wolves in a pack, height of irresponsibility from them both. Remember in time past, parents then don't do genotype, but they must surely do a background check on the family they're to marry both male and female side, they tend to know lots about their respective families, here the lady learns in depth about her to be MIL, but nowadays, many rush into marriages without understanding the basics therein. For a lady who wants to enjoy her marriage and safeguard it would always draw close to her hubby's family, believe me there are instances the hubby could be so highly mad base on stress from work and other personal things and feeling frustrated, let's say 15 yrs into the marriage, then the wife offends him believe me, sometimes, only the mother could possibly put him right at that point, where then would the wife run too? Pastor? Prayers. You can't possibly fight your in laws off, no marriage is an island devoid of families, such marriages won't survive long. remember marriage is a journey, heading to a destination, u need to respect all you meet whether they do u wrong or right, just know how to handle your way around them. If at worst, the MIL did as u claimed, I still blame the lady for not knowing earlier, the MIL must have shown that tendencies from intent to slap or little abuses, hence she would have known how to avoid that state. Do u know in some places, it's a taboo to slap your husband talk more of beat his mother? |
| Politics › Re: "Pay Your Tax Or Face Criminal Prosecution, Up To 5-years Jail Term" - Osinbajo by abimic(m): 10:14pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
I should start paying personal income tax so that I can be participating in funding our president's medical bill abroad. Me i no get money to waste over the President medical funding, they should develop our country from the gains of our natural resources. Period! So that melaye and Co can be flaunting exotic, expensive cars on social media.. Nonsense! ordinary Evans, dey no fit jail, but dey get strength to jail tax defaulters for 5yrs. |
| Family › Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Beat My Mum (Picture) by abimic(m): 5:11pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
Come down here jodha! |
| Family › Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Beat My Mum (Picture) by abimic(m): 5:08pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
erico2k2:Most of em girls here are just hiding behind the phone claiming what they're not and saying things like it were that easy. No sane being would ever support this lady, even the devil would frown at it. I quite agree with your point, reaction under pressure, but as a lady,wife, mother to be, patience is a virtue she needs as more trying times would come that she might be tempted beat her husband or his siblings if she doesn't do that already, because a lady that beats up her MIL, there's no one in that family that she can't beat if she can handle such. infact, whoever beats her MIL has no regards for that family, she would be the bread winner of that house most definitely or a very financially buoyant personality whose husband would miss if lost or or one whose husband can't control, as pride goes before destruction. Infact, anyone that slaps another is a semi animal, when you're not agbero or Dino melaye! Words are enough damage! but say it rightly as they could injure too, but say it to the right person though! |
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