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Health › Re: Lagos Discharges 87 Coronavirus Patients Today by ACE1010: 8:13pm On May 27, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: 3 Weeks To Wedding & I'm Confused! Please Advise Me by ACE1010: 4:05pm On May 26, 2020 |
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Sports › Re: Messi Shaves His Beard As Enthusiastic Barca Stars Train Before La Liga Return by ACE1010: 2:36am On May 26, 2020 |
A legendary G.O.A.T  |
Sports › Re: Messi Shaves His Beard As Enthusiastic Barca Stars Train Before La Liga Return by ACE1010: 2:34am On May 26, 2020 |
naijaboy756: God........
Person shave ordinary beards chop front page for Seun nairaland.
All the hairs( head, armpit,beards and junction) wey I don shave, I no see one like.
Baba God, announce me a beg
Just announce me Show your human faze na  |
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Just Confessed She Fornicated Inside The Church by ACE1010: 2:13am On May 26, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Just Confessed She Fornicated Inside The Church by ACE1010: 2:12am On May 26, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Just Confessed She Fornicated Inside The Church by ACE1010: 2:10am On May 26, 2020 |
Ezennwa: hmm!
Sin is more than turning our backs on God, it is turning our backs on life, Immorality is much more than adultery and dishonesty, it is living drab, colorless, dreary, stale, unimaginative lives.
Without moral progress, stimulated by faith in God, immorality in all its forms will proliferate and strangle goodness and human decency.
Mankind will not be able to fully express the potential nobility of the human soul unless faith in God is strengthened.
Anyways, I doubt this story sha What's there to doubt  smh After all the preaching, you ended up spoiling everything with your last statement  |
Sports › Re: Victor Osimhen Father's Death: Lille Offers Private Jet For Burial In Nigeria by ACE1010: 5:49pm On May 25, 2020 |
Rip sir, truly there are no words to describe this feeling  |
Family › Re: Why Children Of Strict Parents Turn Out To Be Worse by ACE1010: 5:42pm On May 25, 2020 |
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Crime › Re: TC Okere Stabs His Wife To Death by ACE1010: 5:33pm On May 25, 2020 |
demoBaba: Did he married her 50 years ago? Lazy youth Sure you didn't read the article, strong youth  |
Travel › Re: Zimbabweans React To Nigerian High-Speed Train by ACE1010: 3:53pm On May 25, 2020 |
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Crime › Re: TC Okere Stabs His Wife To Death by ACE1010: 3:47pm On May 25, 2020 |
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Sports › Re: Godswill Uche 'Bala': Kelechi Iheanacho, My Childhood Friend Who Forgot Me by ACE1010: 9:51am On May 25, 2020 |
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Celebrities › Re: Jude Okoye Reacts To Cynthia Morgan And May D’s Allegations by ACE1010: 11:18pm On May 24, 2020 |
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Celebrities › Re: Jude Okoye Reacts To Cynthia Morgan And May D’s Allegations by ACE1010: 11:15pm On May 24, 2020 |
Davash222: I'm just wondering what Cynthia Morgan bought from Jude that she's owing him 40Million dollars. Not $40m, but N40m  |
Family › Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by ACE1010: 5:08pm On May 23, 2020*. Modified: 6:50pm On May 23, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: COVID-19: Buhari’s Government Totally Irresponsible, Has Failed Woefully - PDP by ACE1010: 7:58am On May 23, 2020 |
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Family › Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by ACE1010: 6:28am On May 23, 2020*. Modified: 7:15am On May 23, 2020 |
KingSatan: As a man, a father and a grandfather. I have lived life to an extent and this is my view on this subject.
The previous thread was simple and concise, "Never marry a woman who has no means of income".
But that is the truth!
Gone are the days when people marry "Obiageri's" according to the Igbos. Back then, things weren't this bad. Considering the family setting in those days, women had no other role than to cook, birth, raise children and clean the house.
So their parents prepare them for marriage, teach them how to cook, satisfy a man and raise children. They also spend alot of time grooming their hairs, taking care of their skin (Some parents send their children to fattening rooms) and waiting to get married.
When we got married, we married to keep them at home and show off to our friends. Only a few of us married because of love. Some of our partners were not our choice but our parents.
So when you marry, your wife and children should always reflect your wealth and networth. Most especially, YOUR WIFE.
I repeat, back then things were not this bad and everyone knew their roles.
But in today's world, so many things have changed.
Women should bring to the table as much as they expect from the man.
Raising children costs alot of money and shouldn't be the responsibility of the man alone.
So many marriages have crashed on the alter of poverty or "One stream of income".
We must learn to tell ourselves the truth always.
Back then, you don't spend so much to raise a child. If he or she wants to go to the community school or follow the white man's way of life, you send them as a punishment. But those humble and loyal sons, follow you to the farm and when they come of age, you give them farmlands and wives if possible. But that's not the case anymore.
Apart from formal education abroad, I also encouraged my children to learn sellable skills. One of my son is a fashion designer and that is what puts food on his table in the UK. His college degree only reflects on his call cards.
I told this to my children (Daughters inclusive) never to marry a man or woman who has no verifiable means of income.
Money is needed to run a home in the 21st century. Alot of money!
We no longer live in mud houses or drink from pots.
As for "Entitlement", I think every couple should have that mentality depending on the context.
The man is entitled to his wife's emotional commitment. She is his wife and this also applies to the man.
I am tired of typing.
To be truthful, i warned my son's against mingling with an average African woman. They simply don't want to know the truth. They hate the truth with Passion and that is why true feminism failed woefully here.
In the Diaspora, most men who want peace of mind avoid African women because of their "Entitlement Mentality" and how exploitative they are.
Many of these women don't work but enjoy proceeds of child support from numerous partners. You think it's a coincidence? No it not. It was deliberate.
They just want to seat at home, get fat, enlarge their butts and walk up and down the street like a pussy cat that resides in Buckingham Palace.
Should I talk about Nigeria, where you meet an average Nigerian lady and realise that;
1. She is a college graduate because a "Man" sponsored her in school (Both of them are no longer together as a couple).
2. She has a roof over her head because a "Man" made that available (She has no intention of marrying him).
3. She uses the best smartphone because a "Man" bought it for her (Just another random man).
4. She has clothes on her body because a "Man" gave her money for shopping (Obviously he is "One of those mugus" .
5. She has food on her table because so many men send her money.
This same woman has no other skill but sexual skills. The only thing she can offer is "Sexual Intercourse", "Birthing Children" and "Companionship" but she expects the man to "Mark her birthdays with a brand new Escalade", "Buy her parents a new house and train her younger ones in school". Is that not exploitation?
This same woman hates her mother inlaw because she sees her as her rival. Anyway, women have always hated themselves from time immemorial, don't get moved when you see them shout in solidarity, it's just for a few seconds.
When asked about their contribution in the relationship or Marriage, some will say "I birthed children for him". But that's your natural default woman!
Even if you sleep with a sexually active mad man, you will get pregnant and birth for him.
Some will even say, "I satisfy him sexually. I gave him my body and soul". But that is same thing you did with your numerous ex lovers.
According to Pastor Sam Adeyemi, he said "If a woman does not help her husband financially, then how else does she want to help him".
In this age and time, it takes two adults who have a verifiable means of income to build a healthy family.
Cheers! The words of our elders, they say are full of wisdom... The fear of an average Nigerian woman is the beginning of wisdom |
Family › Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by ACE1010: 12:09pm On May 22, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: I Accessed My Gilfriend's Phone, Now I Can't Walk. Help! by ACE1010: 7:30am On May 22, 2020 |
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Sports › Re: Roman Abramovich’s £66million Private Jet With Banquet Hall (Pictures) by ACE1010: 1:41pm On May 20, 2020 |
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Sports › Re: Roman Abramovich’s £66million Private Jet With Banquet Hall (Pictures) by ACE1010: 1:40pm On May 20, 2020 |
obembet: Chelsea fans right now..
This is our man  |
Romance › Re: What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by ACE1010: 12:01pm On May 18, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by ACE1010: 11:58am On May 18, 2020 |
Tadeknkeepcalm: Ehya, That statement is very painful. It can make someone even commit suicide.
Now that you can't break up with the girl, kuku break up with your mama 
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Sports › Re: Emmanuel Okocha: I Cried As Okocha Dribbled Khan, 6 Defenders In Germany by ACE1010: 6:44pm On May 16, 2020 |
StaffofOrayan: I heard Khan lost his manhood on that unfortunate incident 
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Travel › Re: Nigeria Airways: The Nigerian Picture That Will Bring Tears To Your Eyes by ACE1010: 6:27pm On May 16, 2020 |
Yeah, back then the eagle's claws were firm and can grab anything but now that same claws have been infected with maggots, worms and snakes.... It's a shame  |
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by ACE1010: 11:07pm On May 14, 2020 |
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Family › Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by ACE1010: 9:20pm On May 14, 2020 |
It is true that money is the root of all evil in marriage especially when the table turns to favour the woman. Ops I commend you for your patience up to the point of restraining yourself physically. Thank goodness that the table has turned in your favour. God bless your new life |
Family › Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by ACE1010: 9:08pm On May 14, 2020 |
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