₦airaland Forum

May her gentle soul rest in peace.
My brother please take heart. Ensure you're surrounded with your loved ones. Loneliness is an antidote to depression. Please don't give room for it. I lost my wife too 5 years ago. It has not been easy, but God has been there for me and the children.

Faithellafranci:
My brother insist that I follow a Yahoo guy. He was like trying to tell me some things and my kind of person I don't like it and I have a guy already who I love so much and that also loves me so much and wants to marry me at all costs.

The guy is gentle, caring, and I have this believe that he is going to be a nice person. Our meeting was just too sudden. It was God that brought him to my way.

At first I have been into a relationship that it will be going well at the beginning but later on it will lead to misunderstanding and then break up will follow.

Believe me guys, I have this feeling like something keeps on telling me that this guy is going to be a good man for me. I love him so much that living him will be like losing my own life and above all he is a Christian, a very strong one at that and though he is not that financially bouyant yet but he is trying just that Nigeria don't know the value of graduates in this country. He went to school, he is a graduate.

I don't want to follow my brother's advise. I love this guy so much since we started dating. I know of what I have not ever notice in my past relationships that am noticing now he doesn't shout at me he is just too different.

Please guys I need your advice. I have asked so many people for their opinion on this but now am asking you guys now please help me come out of this confusion I on my own I have said it and I have made up my mind that I am not going to follow my brother's advise and ready to struggle with this guy to make it am ready to build a future with him money is not everything in life and I so much believe that we are going to have so much money he really wants to marry me and I have already agreed to marry him guys please I need your advice because soon he is coming to see my family.

Please I need you guys advise please.

Encourage him to date a yahoo girl nau....as if yahoo yahoo Na work!!!

xpressionx:
PUTIN WILL BE "PUTin" his place soon.

Let him wait till Buhari will send his herdsmen to join the war,Russia will be reduced to dust

chatinent:
Because of that you reject food? Una dey take risk for this life o. Abeg e get how the rejected food fit reach me?

You have to learn how to conquer anger the right way make you no go from problem enter more problem.

How you go reject food?

Small thing you go use brain do small yanga trick for a month or two, na she go carry am come dey beg you apologize., you come dey reject food.

But wait, how dare you! How dare you reject Nigerian jollof with turkey?

Cmanforall:
UK

Take this advice from me, and remember it came from me, you won't regret it. If you're finding it difficult in the UK later let me know.
But first I'd like to know some things about you.

What is your academic background that got you the 620k job?
Was your first degree in Nigeria or abroad?


Imagine if you add MSc from UK, and wish to return , will it not boost your office position with higher pay?

If you want to base in the UK, then the future of your children are secured in a working system.

As I said earlier, pursue the UK dream, even if you do minial jobs, you can easily make 1k pounds (more than 700k in naira)

Bro I totally disagree with you...you can't make a thousand pounds from menial job considering the present economic downturn...the said menial jobs are even scarce because the Ukrainian and Polish are at advantage over Africans in the UK...to make that amount monthly, prepare to do two menial jobs at the detriment of your education...and again the rent in UK alone takes 65% of your income monthly not to talk about tax....
Truth be told, the Young man should better remain in Nigeria and do online courses from the UK just as somebody has advised.... we're talking about 620k job, it's a massive amount on offer for him...my candid advice though....

Born2conquer:
I swear, the wrong people are getting the right job in Nigeria.

And it's unfair to those of us that are ready to stay in Nigeria

Why would I want to leave Nigeria when I am earning 620k monthly, how are you all getting this JOB

Bro I don't understand some people in this country...

My eyes have seen something. Pls you people should fear God na

Truvelisback:
Wetin dey do this one?

She's pretending to be responsible

Show us proof....
This administration can be very deceptive

Trust me, your man has cheated more than you.... you'll be shocked at what he'll do next

MadamVanessa:



Then he never knew that he will grow up to be a mere commissioner to a complete idiotic dullarrd.

You hatred for buhari is sucks

Zonefree:

Shey your eyes don clear now? This same advise is what we were giving you then but you called us names. We tried to warn us about this gender and their evil manipulations in your first post but you chose to listen to the advise of SIMPle men and sad feminists here.

Your body don calm down, bah? Can't you see you're turning to a motivational speaker

It's unfortunate you realized late that there's no gain giving your heart to a Nigerian girl... they don't worth it.

Welcome to the club, dude. Meet Elder Playmaker14 for proper induction.

This is what I call "okpotikpo" whitewash

Fira09:
OMG! Belgium WTF , after 61 years They still remembered to return his tooth to his country (congo), This is funny Sha.

Though his people betrayed him.

Africa leaders are greedy, useless and gullible

Prettygirl200:
Madam u better mind your business oooo

How would that save his friend's life??

duduade:
Please mind your business

What are you talking about bro...what if the said guy is/was your brother??

I'm 100% sure her father never earned 200k per month Nonsense .
The story may be fake though....

Chai!!!!!
What a sad way to die

What about all those guys she has knacking online nko??
Can they match her energy??

Bro, Your brother did not own anything. You get it?

AJOBI77:
Haaaa! Awo loo

1 Million gun salutes for him; he died in active service as a civil engineering student. He drilled till he got filled

He was fulfilled

What a perverse generation...
A generation of sex, sex and sex

Dripsandchills:
You vagina ppl can be so confused, u didn't respond to his messages and he did same to u now ur bothered. Overthinking things my feet. I wish he will never talk to u again, u felt u threw ursef at him? U like him n followed your body's intuition then ur head come de think trash join.. u use hand spoil ur luck, 33 years na here, menopause de junction de come ur side.

Puskas:
Vagina people and their victim mentality. Imagine how this one is blaming the innocent man for respecting himself. You shunned his WhatsApp messages for two days and you still expect him to be crawling on his knees begging you to reply his chats. Who does that except a man suffering from Simpson disease. If you are beautiful with a good character just like you described yourself you should have married in your twenties and not being desperate to marry in your thirties. Let me ask you one question. If the man is foolish enough to continue chatting with you and later marries you what exactly will you offer him apart from your worn out pussy? Be truthful and answer this question

OGA Buhari I hail your stupidity...
Is this man on aboki weed or what

MadamVanessa:




Poor innocent baby

Imagine a mother doing this to an innocent soul like this. You don't have to do this regardless of the situation you find yourself. May God punish her wherever she is.

When the fortune of this innocent baby changes for the better, the irresponsible mother would show useless face begging for forgiveness
That's the irony of life

You're just 24 and all you think about is sex, sex, sex and sex?? Can't you lazy youths focus on your studies for once??
You're in one of the best schools for God sake little bro
Forget about sex, sex and sex for now
There are so many kpekus out there waiting for you bro.... what matters now is for you come out with good grade, then hursle hard and make money....
Kpekus will come thereafter

Trust me, another man is shagging her

No wonder it is cheaper to carry guns and other dangerous weapons

You couldn't rescue KWARA STATE AND SOCIETE GENERALE BANK FROM KWASHIORKOR and LEPROSY...I laugh in Swahili.
This country is full of jokers

See a man who couldn't rescue KWARA STATE and SOCIETE GENERALE BANK from Kwashiorkor and leprosy...I laugh in Swahili
This country is full of jokers

Impossible

What a perverse generation

Receive sense since you get one