₦airaland Forum

sonOfLucifer:
came here for Owerri girls. Adaeze003 are you from Owerri?

Nope...

sonOfLucifer:
I know you do. Just had to chip in something.
Return my happy wknd na

Have a great weekend...

Your moniker(if that's what they call it) gives me the creep btw...

Why is everyone about bonnie and enzo? That was a flash forward you know? A Lot can happen in 3 years.

Now, I had to be really patient to watch this episode of TO! I mean, all that talk!!!!! Ha! I was bored out of my mind with the stories! The next episode should better be less talk! I'm only excited about the danger that is to come. I'm sure that's why they brought the so called "seer" to keep us expectant and glued.

Btw? Notice the line up?
One by friend- Klaus
One by foe- Elijah
One by family- Freya
Might not be so but that was interesting how they did that...

Well, TVD... hmm do I smell another triangle brewing with Stefan in the middle again? Me no likey.

darkenedrebel:
How can you say he was rapëd. .Do you people listen to what they say in the series at all or just view moving pictures. jeez.. He was only traumatized, & hated himself cos he felt helpless

Oh puleese.... I like that explanation

You do not get a bonerr after getting tortured!

sonOfLucifer:
Finally figured out why I follow you. You're smart. Happy weekend. Keep thrusting God. lol.

I know the difference between "trust" and "thrust"...

So, don't reconstruct my sigi... thanks

Enough of the crying already... Jeeeeez!!!

Just take a deep breath and live your life!

The post does not describe me but I'm a woman (abi lady sef) in Nigeria.

Again, enough! No1 has a gun to your head to live by societal norms...

But is that a denim jacket beneath the blazer?

Blue and purple I can deal but adding white, cream, peach(that's the color of the belt rii?)? Too much.

Would have been ok without the white blazer/jacket and the purple neck piece... I think...

I'm sorry, she's 19!!! Not a baby, she took money to pretend she was asleep while he's at it. If the mother is worried about him ruining her child, she's too late... that girl is long gone...

It's obvious this happened in the same room because she said "left me on the bed.... went to the mat". the 19yr old could have just threatened to scream or screamed even!

As for the man? I just have no words...

macuwon:
Ok, i believe the man is paying school fees, his wife is not a teacher, better still, pay for home lesson, still better than an ape looking wife dt can do homework.

And you're not ape looking

Na wa oh! This is actually the reason the whites saw us as fit to be slaves and called us monkeys...

We actually wish to be white... we've tailored our lives like theirs but that's not enough now is it? we want their skin now too!

But more than that, here we have a black man throwing shades at his own race, telling them how ugly and undesirable they are because they're darker. Isn't that great?

I am dark and trust me, my little tale is not to garner your sympathy nor further your frustration... I'm like they say, #justsaying.

Set yourself free tho, the whites no longer drag you with a chain...

SmokingGunZ:
Have you ever thought of it@ topic?

What if your sexual preference isnt the same with him?

Pfft...

"Don't let the help serve him when you're around, you may lose him to them" ?

Wtf? Wtf?? Wtf Nigerian men have reduced themselves to brainless beings who have no control whatsoever over themselves. Sex zombies... mummified intercourse machines...

freecocoa:
Now it's copied, anyways I said nothing about mourning or whatnot, I'm only saying mocking isn't the way to go either but what do I know? Rock on.

Is it a must to confide in family members? What if she already did and wants to augment with NL?

Really? I guess one should also stay if they married a murderer because it's part and parcel of the deal, get real jor.

Wait o, I have trouble understanding the question, are you saying one should expect infidelity or what? Is that normal behavior?

My point exactly...

coogar:
but there must be a reason the guy strayed in the first place. there's always a reason behind every action. have you even heard from the other party before laying bare your prognosis?



men have had to stay for the kids too.
see eh....at the end of the day, husband & wife must have found themselves worthy to enter into a marriage contract. none of us was there when they met or made sacred vows to each other. let them deal with their issue, abeg!


since my legs isn't in her shoes, shouldn't logic dictate that she should not cry near my ears since i cannot exactly tell which toe to bend to make it feel better?

let the person wearing the shoes do the needful. i didn't buy the shoes for her neither do i own her feet. why is she complaining on a public forum to the people who know zilch about her shoe-size?

Point noted...

coogar:
of course, women get hurt when they find out their partners are flirting with other girls, never mind shtupping them. my point is the consequences of such liaisons are graver for women than men especially in marriage.



it depends!
every case should be assessed based on its merits. in most cases, divorce could be deemed selfish especially when there are kids involved. why should the kids suffer just because the so called adults can't sort themselves out?

Now, the kids won't have to suffer if he kept his thang in his pants rii?

It's the kids talk that has led to women staying in homes where they're basically trampled on, they are advised to put their family first before their own sanity which of course is not my problem if she's cool with that. Now, what does the so called "head" of the home sacrifice? A couple bucks??

Now, the way I see things, marriage is meant to be for the benefit of man and woman. Sure, compromise will be made occasionally but that's up to the two people in the marriage not you, me or society.

"Your legs are not in the shoes so don't try to suggest what toe to bend to make it feel better"

Vixxie:
Why don't you just make your point without the derisive talk!?

Ok.

Timbuktou:
Your post is all over the place. What, exactly, is your point?

Yeah I know... I lost my cool for a bit was just irritated by the mockery...

My point is, you don't have to be a woman to relate or identify with feminine problems. Just treat them as other "human" problems. Got that part? If yes, proceed to the next.

Equality in marriage or no equality, no body should be ridiculed for wanting out of a disrespectful union. Do you understand me now??

coogar:
before nko?
a cheating wife carries more weight than a cheating hubby.

That's society for me I guess but doesn't mean women don't get hurt from finding out the man they lay with is busy sticking it in every hole.

It's basically the same thing. But then, who cares right?

True story or false story, getting a divorce by man or woman is not a bad thing if you feel you're treated poorly. That's my point.

Timbuktou:
Everybody knows there's no equality in marriage. Did the woman pay a dime to the husband's family to secure his hand in marriage? The man's the boss whether you're comfortable with it or not. It is what it is.

I don't care about all that really. Anyone can be the boss but there's nothing wrong in leaving a marriage whether there is a 50-50 split or not.

Money is not something stacked up for the male folk alone, women can fend for themselves so throwing punches at her is really petty for a "man".

We're all human we should make our decisions based on that, bride price or no bride price, give advise in a humane way and not be up and about mocking people who seek it just because you're some "man".

The only thing off about all this is, if the wife cheated, divorce will be the first option

But hey, what do I know...

I kept squinting while reading

Some girls are really trying. I once asked on one thread what is so bad in singlehood and I got a "shoro niyen" as reply

"He comes to stay with me after work then goes back home to her" note! This will forever be your story if you stay with oilcompany.

As for unemployed, you are getting married to him for all the wrong reasons so chill with that too. Plus he's overly suspicious, I mean claiming another man's kid? Be like he impot...

Like others said, take a time out and be single for a while. Start afresh I know you're worried about the age but don't make decisions based on that alone.

masterchi:
and u dnt mean ladies should sleep around. Ok its either u r confused, naive or a hypocrite

He's actually confused, naive and a hypocrite.

Vixxie:
That's because we fall too deep. When a woman falls in love, she falls in with her heart & soul. She loses her head, hence she is able to tolerate the weirdest of vices.

Just stop with the yeye talk already. What love? Ladies stay in abusive relationships because they're in love?? Who told you biko? Or are you in one??

Anyhoo, I don't care why people tolerate such, my own is, don't cry and come close to me looking for advise... I'll just give you tissue and leave you there.

Timbuktou:
A husband should be proud to provide for his family, as a wife should be to care for her home. He's fulfilling hi an end of the bargain, she should do same or face consequences.

Yeah but when she works and is contributing nothing at all, he's even paying the house workers, he cooks for himself... she's practically just existing in the house.

And probably it's putting a strain in his pocket that's why he's complaining.

Oh well... what do I know.

faith551:
This white guys knows that we are insecure, and now they are taking advantage of that to showcase us as fools.
This should be an insult to the black race, why won't it be a chemical that turns white to black in 6hrs?

No white man wants to be black...

Saylawchar:
My friend told me that he even employed someone that comes to the house and washes their clothes on weekends including the wife clothes and the baby's clothes. He also employed a cleaner that comes home every weekend to clean the house. That the wife claims she doesn't have the strength to be doing both considering her work schedule and she wakes up 5am to bath for the son and get him prepared for creche. My friend further said the wife doesn't make him breakfast nor keep food for him to eat. He cooks for himself most times.

Oh my Lord!!! If this is true then that woman is just....

Well! I aint married so But if I'm related to him I woulda asked him to stop providing for her personal needs. But don't take me seriously oh...

Well... I hope you get exposed in the worst way possible and your wife will be courageous enough to leave your nasty self...

Weaves and make up on a 12 year old girl?

Oh well, that's non of my business...

Sandra bleached her dark skin

Non of ma biz too...

All the guys looking at her and thinking of sex? Ya'll are really foolish.

donhils:
Sometime ago I heard some people on this thread praising Breaking Bad, now I've finished Season 1, half way into season 2 yet nothing to awe me about the series. Is it that some guys here don't just see movies b4 praising them to high heavens or they don't know how to know interesting ones??

It seemed boring to me at first too but if you're half way into season 2 and haven't got the hang of it then maybe it's not your kinda series. There's nothing wrong with that, different people, different taste...

jewelbaby55:
Dats why I don't date students.... If I dating you I know u are capable of taking care of yourself and u don't live under your parents. And you must be able to take responsibility in case because I swear in my life that I will never commit abortion. Thanks to God for helping me so far. Ladies date men Dat have marriage plans and are hardworking and loving not students Dat will drain you. Be wise

Are you seriously thanking God for fornicating "successfully" Chai! What will I not see in this life time?

Ps. I aint judging you(before you come at me) but there are some things we should leave God out of.

What happened to "till death do us part"?

He's just unreasonable.

He should persevere and pray for her...

He should also try not to provoke her... you know how some men can nag...

Fight for your marriage Mr Pastor, the bible does not permit divorce in such cases sef...

Is this even a question?

Contract... then the guest can eat the reception food and go home.

The marriage will be moved to a convenient date and will be private...

Case closed...