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Mvici:
I Lost Confidence In My Girlfriend The Moment She Asked Me To Marry For My Mother.

I had a girlfriend some few months back before the covid 19 outbreak, that was after we went home from school due to the strike and the pandemic, we both are in the same school which is IBB university lapai, in our final.

So at home this faithful day, I put a call through! We both were talking, laughing on phone, so she ask about my mum, I said she was fine and she now ask abt her loneliness because no one at home, I told her but I'm still here with her, she ask what if school resume and what if we should go for our service next year, she now told me to marry another man for my mum.... lol... telling me who knows" that my mum might like the idea if I should table it with her. Gosh! I actually laughed about it then on phone with her but inside me, it wasn't funny at all.

The next day, what she told me was still bordering me, so many things were just running on my mind...so even if by mistake I wife her in future and the Lord decide to take me when we have a grown up child like me, who is planning on becoming a graduate this year and have even spent 30 years in marriage already....she won't even mourn me for long before accepting another man's proposal or bleeping with another man or probably her one time ex.

I decided to ask my mum with play, mum be sincere to me, you and my dad have been married since far back 1986... U both were in marriage for about 30 yrs before he past away few years ago, may his soul rest in peace..this is 5yrs now are you considering on marrying any one or having any kind of body movement or even can stand the presence of another man in your life?

Guess what her reply was....
Mum said my dad was the only man she know in her life and that's how it going to remain by God grace, period! and I shouldn't ask her such again with cry/smiles on her face because she has me and I will give her groundchil........

Seriously I don't know why I brought this here but pls tell me, any girl that can ask a 52 Year old woman to re_marry even after she has a child, isn't it clear that she can't stay without having sex to anyone as long as her husband is on a peace keeping mission or even travel abroad?

Thanks everyone.

I sincerely hope you break up with her since she is blind and hasn't noticed that she is too good for you. Shes too mature for you and doesn't deserve a guy/ husband thats still a baby...smh....

Stop hiding behind the excuses in this write up, the major question should be will a man feel secure enough to marry a woman when he doesn't have a job. Will he be able to handle his fears of his wife doing better financially ?

Michaelmercy:
Sincerely, being a Nigerian is one of Mistakes you must avoid in your next life

Sad but kinda true. When will things turnaround sef

Na dem sabi....they're even worse hit than we are....

It's ok for you to feel inferior afterall we cant all see things the same way.....do you read? If you do, I'll suggest you read a book titled how Europe underdeveloped Africa......However leaving that aside, I believe all human life is precious and equal. If that was your son or brother, will you still put up this post

There are 2 things she can do...
1) has she spoken to the person that gave the transfer instruction. She and her boss can parley the person, explain the situation to them and tell the person to get a court order.
2) liase with the other bank,(not via mails oh). Visit one of their branches with your staff id card and explain to a full staff there. Bankers are usually compassionate to fellow bankers on such issues.try and get the persons phone number and speak to him/her
3) Establish a formal complaint with the recipient bank

No 1 is usually the fastest sha

Hmm..God is with this girl

sweettease:
I cried when I saw that video. They murdered him in cold blood! It was targetted and merciless yet they never would have tried prosecuting the perpetrators if not not for social media and the publicity it got. Person pikin! Life is not fair indeed!

My exact thoughts. If the video didnt come out, the murderers would still be roaming freely

I really wish Africans are into research. I thought about this when it was reported that more black Americans were dying from the disease. Alot of people of the negroid race have the sicke cell trait and it's the blood clot that makes sicklers have their crises. Scientists should check if we will find some redemption in sicke cell drugs.

VeeVeeMyLuv:
these guys are working round the clock and are hell bent in making Belinda Gates statement a reality.

As in ehn...I wish an invisible barrier can just come to divide those that have chosen to be senseless from the rest of us.

This is actually irresponsible. The government has banned public gatherings and then a governor is attending a public gathering....who are these rules made for sef

MAN OF SORROWS

1 Man of sorrows what a name
for the Son of God, who came
ruined sinners to reclaim:
Hallelujah, what a Savior!

2 Bearing shame and scoffing rude,
in my place condemned he stood,
sealed my pardon with his blood:
Hallelujah, what a Savior!

3 Guilty, helpless, lost were we;
blameless Lamb of God was he,
sacrificed to set us free:
Hallelujah, what a Savior!

4 He was lifted up to die;
"It is finished" was his cry;
now in heaven exalted high:
Hallelujah, what a Savior!

5 When he comes, our glorious King,
all his ransomed home to bring,
then anew this song we'll sing:
Hallelujah, what a Savior!

REDEEMER, SAVIOUR, FRIEND

1) I know you had me on your mind
When you climbed upon the hill
For you saw me with eternal eyes
While I was yet in sin
Redeemer, saviour ,friend

Chorus
Redeemer, redeem my heart again
Saviour, come.and shelter me from.sin
You're familiar with my weakness
Devoted to the end
Redeemer, saviour, friend

2)Every stripe upon Your battered back
Every thorn that pierced Your brow
Every nail drove deep through guiltless hands
Said that Your love knows no end
Redeemer Savior Friend

3)So the grace You poured upon my life
Will return to You in praise
And I'll gladly lay down all my crowns
For the name of which I am saved
Redeemer Savior Friend

Wow...So happy for this guy...thank God..

Wow...Isn't God good

I've had a hot chest since yesterday morning and cant sleep. No blocked nose,fever and the likes. It's making me worried.

januzaj:
This is good. We are getting there. From testing kits, it will get to vaccine. African countries only wait for others to make breakthrough in everything without doing anything.

Your correct. This means we've gotten one more thing about the virus right. With all the success stories of using zinc and quinine based drugs, I'm sure an antidote wont take too ling again

loveliveshere:
That's the problem, lots of people already have this virus but are asymptomatic. We only hear of the elites getting positive because they are the only ones having access to testing.

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I just keep praying for mercy because of the point you just raised. The rich are getting tested that's why they know their status and get treated early enough, decreasing damages and increasing their rate of survival. These people have aides, domestic servants who they have come in contact with, these aides have their own families who mingle with the common masses. The common man is told to sit at home till he develops symptoms before he can take the test. At this point alot of damage would have been done thereby reducing the chances of survival.
Please, common men like you and I, let's try to stay indoors and go out only when necessary. When you go out, cover your nose. If you cant afford a nose mask, use a hanky laced with a bit of jik/hypo. Wash your hands thoroughly as often as you can. If you cant afford sanitizers, you can put spirit in cotton wool or baby wipes and use to clean your hands and surroundings.
Once again the system is showing us that it cares only about the elite in the society. May God break this evil cycle
We have only God, hope and necessary precaution on our side. But let's not give up because one with God is majority

Jesus take the wheel....If he has been in contact with his brother, he might have the virus, pass it onto his captors and boom the spread continues.....

Good morning sir,
Trust you are doing good. Please I had a weird dream. In the dream I was with my parents in the city where they stay and all of a sudden I found myself with the wife of a pastor I admire alot(pastor Mildred okonkwo). We entered a plane and said it was theirs and that she is also a pilot. And then we were in the city where I live. I was just telling myself that I didnt tell my parents before leaving so they wont be worried

Nigerian scientists have all ported to the financial institutions to make money

Hmm....strange how my perspective has changed in a few days. Had plans for what I intend to achieve each month of the year...as at today, I'm still trying to picture what the world will be like after this pandemic. Just living one day at a time. Life is truly fleeting and nothing worth dying for

Please what authorities can we report people who just came into Nigeria from Italy and have refused to self isolate

Was asking my cousin this question on sunday

Lamanii22:
Hmmm... Where/how do people meet or find abroad husband lol..

Have you ever met this lady in person before?

As in, I always wonder....me sef dey find. But good one sha

See this cute kiddo....see his smile....I pray God helps him forgive his biological parents when he grows up...kai

Good evening sir,
Trust you are doing good. Please I had a weird dream. In the dream I was with my parents in the city where they stay and all of a sudden I found myself with the wife of a pastor I admire alot. We entered a plane and said it was theirs and that she is also a pilot. And then we were in the city where I live. I was just telling myself that I didnt tell my parents before leaving so they wont be worried

Lemme rephrase this whole scenario....as a woman, if your husband is always excited to resume work on Monday so he can see his secretary, what will you advice



Besides,if his secretary will cause him to sin, he should let go..or if he can, let him set her up in another department where they dont have to interract

I experience the same thing too especially on my face and laps....looks like a fresh cut when I wake up. Sometimes, I dont even realise it,till it stings while having my bath....Dermatographic urticaria on the other hand is different. It's an allergic reaction.I used to experience it during my first term in boarding house and my body will look like I just got flogged.

The mere fact that the English editor depicted her baby as a chimpanzee is enough reason to leave...harry has always been a liberal and his family knows it..he still holds his moms death against them...the royal family didnt protect Meghan enough from the racist press.....the current queen will be the last true monarch and all her successors just figureheads....glad they have taken this decision now