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she may naturally be a shy person, but those, r indications that she probably likes u.

Woke4all:
It's not wrong to express yourself so what do you want maybe i can be of help.

Exactly,

Question: Does exercise make u lose weight when u dont watch what u eat?

This guyyyyy * nodes head* @ poster, Yea, forgot to say, u have no reason creating this topic. Na wa, oooooh . What is wrong with an ugly girl?

can u complete ur story plsssssssssssssssss, araaaaaaaaaaarrrrrrgh.

The reason is simply. The poor are less informed. The rich is aware of FAMILY PLANNING, n can afford it regularly. but d poor may not be aware n even if they r aware, can they afford it? Most of the kids frm d poor class r accidental, not planned for. BTW, the rich may appreciate the advantages of family planning, but d poor may not, Hence, the low socioeconomic class comes with lots of disadvantages, n this is just one.

:d

lol, na now i dey laugh my own.

Right.

Thank God for his mercies.

@ Acidosis, u're right, MOST ppl wldnt take such a decision. No matter how spiritual. But since they are humans too, it wldnt be outta place to show 'em love n support in anyway u can. JUST KIND WORDS CAN PRONLONG THEIR LIVES BY 1 or 2days. LIKe i said earlier, theres only one Jesus, whom wldnt mind living n staying with them forever. Since we're humans, we have to think n think wisely, cos we didnt create ourlives n as such we cant give ourselves a 2nd life. So that guy shld be reasonable in his decision. Whichever decision he takes, is alright, its totally his decision.

Hey, its alright guys @ Blank n 190. Atleast the point has been gotten, i'm glad. i hope some others get it, too. Lets talk with without being insultive. Thx.

Uche2nna:
Hey U do not have to take to heart wat your friends r telling U. They r not the one getting married to the man for the rest of thier lives. They r not the one who is going to be sleeping on the same bed with the man. At the end of the day it boils down to U, U and only U. Choose wat makes me[b] U [/b] happy. If it is money that makes U happy, then bleep whoever is telling U poo about love cos U aint gonna be satisfied with that.If it is love that makes U happy then bollocks to whoever is talking to U about finances cos that will not keep U happy. But remenber life is not a graph with x and y cordinates such that if x equals this then y must equal that. Life is more complicated than that.Believe me, whether U choose the rich guy or the poor guy U will still encounter problems that will test your inner strenght. It is all left for U to make it work. No one decision is safe and secure that is Y it is life. I have seen a lady who married cos of money but then some years into the marriage, the hubby's biziness collapsed and the money dried out.There is also this case of a lady marrying a young man when he was a churchrat. Years of toiling and saving by the lady helped in building the man's bizness empire. How did the man thank her. Well he exchanged her for a younger model! Basically he kicked her out and brought in a younger woman. Life is not a graph, girl!!! Choose wat is best for U and work at it!!!!!

I agree  with u Uche, smtimes u struggle with a man n u pays u by throwing u out when he becomes  stabilized. You see, such men r 'conscienceless'. But not all wld act same way. thats y we need God Almighty involved, all d time.

Uche2nna:
Hey U do not have to take to heart wat your friends r telling U. They r not the one getting married to the man for the rest of thier lives. They r not the one who is going to be sleeping on the same bed with the man. At the end of the day it boils down to U, U and only U. Choose wat makes me[b] U [/b] happy. If it is money that makes U happy, then bleep whoever is telling U poo about love cos U aint gonna be satisfied with that.If it is love that makes U happy then bollocks to whoever is talking to U about finances cos that will not keep U happy. But remenber life is not a graph with x and y cordinates such that if x equals this then y must equal that. Life is more complicated than that.Believe me, whether U choose the rich guy or the poor guy U will still encounter problems that will test your inner strenght. It is all left for U to make it work. No one decision is safe and secure that is Y it is life. I have seen a lady who married cos of money but then some years into the marriage, the hubby's biziness collapsed and the money dried out.There is also this case of a lady marrying a young man when he was a churchrat. Years of toiling and saving by the lady helped in building the man's bizness empire. How did the man thank her. Well he exchanged her for a younger model! Basically he kicked her out and brought in a younger woman. Life is not a graph, girl!!! Choose wat is best for U and work at it!!!!!

I agree with u Uche, smtimes u struggle with a man n u pays u by throwing u out when he becomes stabilized. You see, such men r 'conscienceless'

KOYO:
@ uche2nna

marriage is truly an institution where u learn afresh, from the stratch, there is no perfect way to go about it or handle it, it only takes the grace of GOD and his wisdom to succeed in marriage.

thanks.

NOW YOU'RE TALKING

Uche2nna:
I dont think U really need some advice. What U need is a choice. U have to choose bw Love and Luxury. And my sista, I tell U there is no straight answer cos it all depends on the woman. I have seen women value luxury more than love and they got married cos of luxury and that made them happy in thier marriage cos that is all they wanted----the money!! I have also seen women give up luxury for love and were still happy in thier marriage cos all they wanted in marriage was to be loved, cherished and appreciated.So it all depends on U-----wat do U value most?

EXACTLY, CHOICE is it. Not ADVICE. In as much as anyone wld opt for comfort anytime, we cannot over emphasize the advantages love brings. Love is the reason ppl r alive n even live longer, n not wealth. Wouldnt u prefer a situation whereby u're soooo depressed n d one u love comes by, gives u some words of encouragement n supports u to any extent, than when u're depressed, u're flown to hawii, n when u return d depression continues. So my dear, the fact that u know u love sm1 n ofcourse i suppose he loves u too, has it. REMEMBER, NO CONDITION IS PERMANENT, KOYO.

190:
^^
Sorry ma'
Please who precisely is pissing you off like this!

Hey one ninety, never mind mister. Just making sm folks here understand that opinions r required n not insults. For instance, if ur opinion is that u'd fly out. Thats absolutely ok, cos thats an opinion n not an insult. U get that?

Hey, can some ppl ever be civilized for once?? Gawd, IF u cannot make a comment without being insultive, u bera go to hell. Wetin dey worry una sef?Now let me ask u, r u being paid? Just incase u're not aware, we're here to make our individual opinon' as it suits us. You're not going to be shot for dropping an opinion n walking out quietly. For Christ sake, these kids shld grow. I suggest u children shldnt involve urselfs in adult conversation next time. , IS THAT CLEAR, NONSENSE

:-x

@ POSTER, calm down, take ur time n take a decision. PLWHA are still human beigns just like u. They shld not be discriminated, pls. They need ur love n care.  If i were in ur shoes, first, i'd test myself, if i'm negative, i wld have a reasonable 'think', i wld assess her, n ask myself can this person do the same if it were d other way round? If NO or YES , u know what to do. Cos i dont think ppl should die for ppl that cannot die for them. There's only one JESUS.

They both look cute 2geda. She's rather lucky.

REALITY101:
i no be yahoooo boy oooo,i am just recession proof Lmfao, Hey dude im done with you on the bad side, so what's on with yoo

Hey man, whaddup? I'm kool mehn. how're u doing? BTW, glad u're done with the dude on the bad side, just like i did. Was going to offer u a hundred pounds to ignore him n d others, dead serious man. You know, there r more important things n ppl to life,

lashontae:
Thanx @ [size=8pt][size=8pt]Michelin89, Otukpo, Ujujoan, Ranoscky, Adaphnic, I think the world needs more people like you and maybe less people will derail off the straight and narrow![/size][/size]  

@ POSTER, I appreciate the fact that u appreciate the good comments of a few ppl here. it shows u're distinguishing the valuable/helpful comments frm d worthless ones. You see, in life we sift the chaff frm d wheat n move on. Yea, absolutely. NOBODY, i repeat, NOBODY has a right to condemn a fellow human being, at all. So, hey, i admire ur courage, u're wonderful, u can be better, a step is all u need to be better, n u've started it. Soon u'd get what u want. Persevere, hold on. You'd be fine. Take care, be good, act right, be right back.

@ REALITY 101, my bro i dey. whats good? Your sis is doing great mehn. @ tkb419, u ok? You've just made no sense. You've just proved u're the 'anuofia'?

BTW, @ POSTER, i'm glad u've changed ur mind abt bleeping J. God bless u. That wld hv been a tough decision to make, i believe.
However, its unfortunate u cohabit with such an uncultured brat, SHIT HAPPENS, u know.
Whatever u plan to do to her, just to sanitize her a bit, PLS DO. I repeat PLS DO. With exception to bleeping, i beg. You're too much, jarreee.

PS: pls ignore some annoying comments here, dem no reach.

@ REALITY 101, God bless Jareeeee, me i taya for these Y-folks. Wetin?

Really, sm comments here, dey make me vex. This lady needs moral support n some sort of supportive opinion in taking a decision, if not she wouldnt have posted this lengthy text. & then only to get silly comments. Some of u guys here, shld put ur self in her shoes n imagine what u'd want to do. So pls be of sensible help in ur opinions. Some of the things the poster has said here, are clearly out of grave annoyance, so it shldnt b used against her. I have suggested earlier, n i still say, she shld talk to d girl to desist, they shld indulge in a reasonable conversation, n let d girl know how unhappy u are. If she no gree hear, ,, anyway, we'd get to that later.

Really, sm comments here, dey make me vex. This lady needs moral support n some sort of supportive opinion in taking a decision, if not she wouldnt have posted this lengthy text. & then only to get silly comments. Some of u guys here, shld put ur self in her shoes n imagine what u'd want to do. So pls be of sensible help in ur opinions. Some of the things the poster has said here, are clearly out of grave annoyance, so it shldnt b used against her. I have suggested earlier, n i still say, she shld talk to d girl to desist, they shld indulge in a reasonable conversation, n let d girl know how unhappy u are. If she no gree hear, ,, anyway, we'd get to that later.

iyobs7:
no dull ya sef ooo, boyz are not smiling ;d ;d ;d ;d

lol, yea ''boyz r not smiling''. Indeed. @ Postaa: I fink u shld see what her problem is, outside ur house. e fit be scam, u know. n y d pidgin? d tin don hook her sotey she shun English. I feel her 'no long thing' approach, though.

lol, '' just because d tiger is hibernating doesnt mean it has ceased to be a tiger, I feel ur pain, dear. Human beings can really push one to d wall, honestly. But sometimes, u need to calm down, take ur time n straighten out things. Warn the girl, i.e just talk to her, ''tell her make she relax, if not u go evil up''. Its annoying really i've encountered someth similar, n ofcourse vex no gree me think straight, i vex so tey i do wetin dey my mind. But just calm down n talk to her. Tell her she's exceeding her boundaries, n as matter of fact, d toe she's stepping on is bleeding, if not u go vex big time. just give her a chance to amend. if she doesnt, Fire down. Me sef, i no fit shout.