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hungryboy:
na the same thing were my friend were no fit even afford bicycle been talk

hahagahagahaga wating consine me,i don tell u hw my dress worth.


Moreover am nt ur friend

sinaj:
he didn't rape him, I think Itz a set up

sinaj:
I really feel for diz guy serzly!



He also lost the endorsement deal he had with Adidas. Smh

Also lost his baby nd wife jux because of 5min illegal pleasure


his career he built up for yrs is also gone.



Diz one na anoda Samson!

are u sure adam johnson is a five minuetes man? .


By da way na rape he rape dat kid

tearoses:
Adasun

Please can you confirm;
You came back from work/out and you entered your living room and found a strange man in your living room.
Your wife turned and said to the man, lagbaja, this is my cousin Adasun.

Where were your children when you walked in?
Did they not call you daddy
Are there no pictures of you and your wife in your living room?
What happened afterwards? did you sit with him as a guest in the living room bearing in mind that you are a cousin or did you enter the inner quarters.

Yesterday I asked you 2 questions
1. The circumstances round you being caught (you don't need to answer that one as I already have an idea)
2. The circumstances around the children not being fed

I totally agree that 6 months is way too long for your wife to continue to dish out deliberate and sustained punishment and there needs to be closure one way or another ASAP, however most people are having a go at your wife based on the 2 questions I have asked you to clarify (the kids being left unfed and the male visitor)

Please be very specific in what really happened so that people can give you apt advise and not only advise you only based on what you have divulged.

first of all it hapn suprisingly.yes they are pictures of both of us.inshot our wedding pictures hang boldly on da wall.i don't wheather da man's eyes did nt caught

sight of da pictures.


As for da kids,i did nt knw where they are when i came back,it's later i recall dat their teacher invite them to her child birthday party when they came back.


Why would i just entertain dat idiot.i ask her immediatly when she uttered dat sentence."u introduce me ur husband as a cousin


On hearing dat,that idiot figdeted and keep apologising until he fled da room.my wife was even calling him back.


As for da feeding,is nt dat she don't cook at all ooo,she kind of nt stable in her cooking like bfor especially da break fast.if i ask,she would like "go and cook for them na,or call ur mistress to do it for u"


inshot she did dis many times with her using harsh words.

digitite:
Haba mallam. Don't tell me that young lady Yourmain is wayyyy smarter than you.

wolahi,make she i for try smart girls,i go show her my brain i big phass her own

Jaywilzee:
did I mention your name?? Was I talking to you?? Egbon mind yourself please

look at dis one oo??who did u mention then?ur wife


Get a life boy bfor i pour my anger on u

bardella1:
Lol..some people's comment tho..OP ehyah..ur wife brought her cousin home na
Or is it now bad to have a male cousin
So bcs u cheated on her u automatically assumed shez cheating on u too..
Or did u meet them un top of eachoda like she caught u
Better reason and reposition ur life
If u don't like her again and u feel u prefer oloshos now..divorce her
Buh if u still love ur family and u dnt want ur children to say 'my parents divorced cos my dad cheated' continue d begging u caused it all..
Call d elders to her again so she can change for d better
Learn not to cheat on ur wife
Is it so hard to do

read da post again.she introduce me as a cousin not da man

thelish:
U begged becos u nor fit take care of d kids alone. Not that u r sorry. With this ur divorce thought and with comments full of pride. She knows u r not genuinely sorry.
So u nor even sabi cook, buying food for ur kids?

oo here comes da pride stuff again



i will just assume i didn't read this.:-/

Joy1706:
Advice like this, show him more love, ignore bla bla bla is the reason why men won't stop cheating on their wives. Cos there are no consequences whatsoever for their action. Check well, that man is still cheating on his wife. He just learnt to cover his tracks better

haba joy why all dis

Do u want me to use an axe and break my heart bfor u knw dat it's da first and last tym i did those shamful act?

Listen i was somehw polluted in da heart dats what lead me to da heart.

Even right at it i was regreting okay.hw i wish u knw me wel

am nt dat bad as u thing.am nt even egocentric

all i want is to get confidence and controlled of my hwz again

Jaywilzee:
u ar so full of shit!!!....I cnt blive dis shit got 2 fp......MOD u F-up

who is dis one,take a plier and pin ur tongue or i wil do it for u.


Are u da one dat knw beta than da mods,ar u even gud in ur own job if u have one?


get a life dude

Joy1706:
She even cooks for u. You married a good woman I swear. Yeye boy

halfricanadian:
Just let him know i'm not your wife

And again i wont do all that if i was your wife i wont divorce you i wont put my kids through hunger i would feed you but geeez d house go hot for you

you cant watch tv at ur will

You cant sleep in d bed room at ur will

So on like dat na to show u pepper not making u jealous i dont av time

Just tell him im not your wife

u c ba,man go stil complain 2much if na like dis.tank u jooor.bt wait o.

U go flog am 2 if u lyk?


ehrm pedrilo abeg she no be my wife biko

halfricanadian:
Why u an evil bully?

Am i op's wife?

Ruby65:
The question is: Why did you cheat on her?

uckennety:
Look adasun!D moree you beg a woman! You lose your respect and self-worth!the rubbish have already happened!we can let it b d other of the day!


Call her to order!!!she better bE your wife or go to that man dt won't cheat!

bebe2:


nairaland don give bros back bone.

please how long has this issue been going on?

upto three months?

three months keeelets calculate.

Da tym she discovered plus da tym she want away frm my hwz equals 2 months.

When she came back,i thought i have got my wife back bt bros dis month is making da six month.

Wait oo u neva ask me hw i da manage sex yet oo.dat shows dat cheating,had callibate me for six month.


Virgin husband.lols

Elzends:
Op abeg attach tonto dike n olajumoke pic to this ur story if you want it to hit fp

Wake me up if this makes fp

mummydirect:
Huhhh! oga op, it seems you are not soberly sorry for your sins and you are here looking for advice on a sensitive issue like this. Do you know what you have done to your wife? let me tell you the truth, you have ruined her pride as a woman and made her a lesser being. She is just trying to live again after you have shattered her being, so leave her to recover in peace, and let me tell you, once you divorce her, another better dude is out there to pick and make her his dream woman. which woman will confidently accept to marry a cheat, pervert and a loose man like you,who can not control his manhood, definitely no woman would want that, hence my advice to you is to go on your kneel, beg and apologise to your wife, swear to her you will never cheat on her again, pet and love her, then most importantly turn a new leaf and embrace Jesus, the sea calmer and watch how your home will b the envy of your friends and neighbours. She is not cheating on you but only trying to let you know that there are thousands and one guys out there who will gladly accept her, if you think she is no longer sexy to you, talk to her remorsefully and she will soften down gradually I tell you, she is a woman and have a soft spot where she can be easily melted, so touch that soft spot of hers and you guys will be on second honey moon. abeg make una forgive any grammatical blunder sighted in d course of reading, na tiredness cause am.

who is after ur grammer?u just pass a message to me.


Have u ever being in a situation where it seems u are stranded.



Listen many of them are saying i have pride,i did not tried enough.am foolish and whatever


bt da truth is,i can beat my chest dat i have tried enough.i beg sooteeee i don tire.


What is more worse dan me da man of da hwz



behaving as if am da wife.doing hwz chores to pleas her.

Da fact is dat da more i tried to beg and pleas her da worse it becomes.


Once upon a tym ,i control my hwz bt now am like a puppet.i acepted it just to win my wife back.

Bt to no avail,it's even pissing me off whenever i flash back to c all i have done to make this marriage work.

Look i don't give a cheat anymore is time i get my mojo back.


Almost every sin can be forgiven,and she wouln't because of one sin turn me anyhow.am ready to stand now because i have suffered enough


she should stil knw am da man dis hwz not her. period!!!

Henrique4real:
These words of yours shows that you are not ready to work out your marriage. It seems like she is cheating, u haven't even caught her red handed as she caught you yet you are already thinking about divorce. Wicked people who cannot take the same Shit they serve to women. Am sure she has seen that your apologies are not genuine.you are the types that wud commit psychologically damaging sins against your felow humans yet u wud be like "forgive me quick so we can get on with life" or "forgive and forget quickly so I can stop feeling this guilt". You quoted someone's post and you were asking if his comment was supposed to make u feel better. Jeez! By their fruit, you will know them.you just came here to boost ur ego and seek support for a wrong decision u have already taken in your mind. My advice to all, leave this guy, he is not ready to work on the marriage he spoilt with his errant ways. Am sure your wife wud have been noticing other of your escapades without proof. Swear on d life of ur kids that this is the first time u have cheated on her! Bad Husband! If u are a good man and you said your wife was a good woman then why can't u struggle appropriately for the marriage? One girl don dey for bench dey wait abi? I dislike every bit of you for now.

why are being like this?

Am trying as a man should,am not perfect ok.bt listen i regreted everything down to da core.


Bt why is she strangling me with harsh words,bad eyesight,unecessary chart and most of all malice,malice!!!!! dat one is even da worse.


Do u knw she can't even tell me orally dat fud is ready?


Do u knw what she usually do
Hahahaha o GOD.


Dis lady i called my wife would write a written not and drop where i may or not possibly c it,and then tell me dat fud is ready


listen i cherish her somuch,ur words are not even helping matters.u ar 2 judgemental.

Why i just thought of divorce stuff is dat her bad behavior look so real and ambivalent sometimes.

Please they are many things i can't say right now,infact u just worse my day.and don't tell me dats da truth.