₦airaland Forum

teamc:
Got married 2yrs ago and we have a beautiful daughter, she has this dream of studying in Canada and I support her dream.

Our immigration consultant recommend she apply alone to increase chances that i and our daughter can join her later.

Now visa is out and she will be travelling next month. I have read numerous stories about how women change when they travel out.

Should I be worried?

Yes Stop Her with everything you got!!!

stop her, there are lots of men in Canada who does nothing but hunt for other people's wife.

Proudlyngwa:
Someones investment

If only they had spent minimal money in contacting guys like me.

I guess no insurance, no safety idea on MSDS, no smoke detectors and alarm,
Wrong Electrical wiring system.

FULL HOPE ON GOD FOR SECURITY

ALL LOST.

Because in Naija we always like our Mistakes to be more expensive than our expenses .

No 4uukiing remorse to give.

Nobody cares weda u give a remorse or not.

And thats 's the simple reason why you would always roam the street aimlessly looking for who to patronize whateva 4uk you do and you won't find.

KeyEndurance:
Hello Everyone Please I Need Your Help. Whenever Am Alone My Dick will Stand Gallant like A Soldier but When Am With A girl To Have sex the Thing Will Start Sleeping. Please Is There Any Medicine That Can Solve This problem?

cut it off

Them no born him papa well make him sue

OOOOOOOOOOOOOOMO, this is a zoo.

Zoo that helps ypu to see in close contact the animals you soo on Nageo Wild looking well fed at the same time.

The only thing you see in Nig zee is a malnourished lion, monkeys

VeryWickedMan:
Pictures of the Serpent or I don't believe it.

ode somebody

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Viraltrends123:
Just like Atiku and Obi didn't lead their states to greatness

We will vote competence 2023. Tinubu led Lagos to greatness, he will lead Nigeria to greatness also. Nigerians, vote wisely.

https://youtube.com/shorts/eOsWmWcAjQ0?feature=share

Without being economical with words, you are a good example of a foolish being. I hope your family realizes that and regret having you as a member.

9jahotblog:
kikiki get off my mention joor. Why holding for years if not the kogi state government that opened the file this month.

Now give the write up to someone intelligent enough to help you read and explain to you

meritadavize1:
Weldone governor Bello, Kogi state doesn't belong to North...

ago

9jahotblog:
then why did they got C of O from Kogi State government then when they know that they are not interested in buying the land. Kogi government should sanction them with fines seriously.

You lack ability to read and understand

I can bet after a week of storing that bleached oil, its gonna start stinking, one u dont want to have in ur food

Krazy is in ur head

She was with you, you started experiencing bad turns, she went and met another man, the man is experiencing same fate.

She must be a bad luck and God might have delivered you from her.

He is really deserving of a national honour

bibianna:
What will happen to our vulcanizers?

Some people are about to loose their jobs

Ginaz:
Good evening house.
My phone got stolen last year November. The thief cut my window net and stole my phone along with the charger through the window. I woke up around 4.a.m searching for my phone with no success till I looked at the window and saw the big hole staring at me. I was so shocked is an understatement.

I have replaced my phone but right now I wake up in the night and start looking for my phone even if I must have safely keep it.

I wake up and first thing I search for, is my phone.
I open eyes, first thing I want to see, is my phone.


How do I stop this biko? Who have experienced this? Is it panic attack or what?

It is called PTSD

It either gets worse if you do not take conscious effort to snap out of it, it wares off overtime. I have had similar experience too when i got robbed at a bustop.

Till date I feel terrible walking past or staying at that location

New222:
I won't try to sugarcoat it. I'm 25 years old, she's 19. Still in university because of the endless ASUU strike.

I've been having unprotected sex with this particular girl for a long while now. We've been dating for close to two years. I practise the "withdrawal" and "safe" days method. I met her a Virgin too.

Just realised she's pregnant. She started showing a lot of symptoms. Darkened areolas, nausea, breast heaviness, headache, back pain e.t.c.

I asked her to get do a pregnancy strip test and it came positive. Two red lines.

Though it's not what I ever planned for myself, I won't really mind having a child at my age. People will so much insult me, including my family but I'm sure my family will take care of the child.

The issue is the girl. Her family (Deeper Life) are wahala, big wahala. Educated people that behaves as if they never went to school. Now, we detected very early, her first period is supposed to start tomorrow (which I'm sure she'll miss). She's still very young and about to start schooling. I'm sure her dad will disown her (he once sent her away from his home over a slight misunderstanding, refused to let her back in until it was shown she was innocent).

I told her we have two choices, keep the baby or remove it. I am confused too, but I didn't show it. Pls what do you think?

We're really considering ending the pregnancy. Since it's very early, I'm considered getting m...p......r..l. I need medical advice pls. Above all, I don't want to endanger the girl's life.
I've read about abortion pills. I don't know how to get them or their price. Or should we keep the baby? Her dad will surely disown her, might later accept her, but it will definitely end her Education. What do you think? Should we get the drugs pls. Or consider another option? Should we keep the baby?

P.S: I know nairaland. I've been here for years, insult are welcomed. I never imaginned I'll ever open a thread like this.

P.S: If you're using withdrawal method and it works, it WILL STILL EVENTUALLY FAIL YOU. I used it for a really long time, now I'm here.

I'm sure you aware that you just confessed to being a criminal.

She's 19 now and you both have been dating for 2yrs, means you been dating her since she was 17 and having sex with a minor.

Keep it up

Anobody:
I'm a single mother of two teenage sons, lost my husband 10 years ago and have been struggling to cater for them singlehandedly. My first son is 19 and the last 17 years but I'm getting fed up with the disrespect and regret not taking them to the village so I could remarry.

They both left secondary school and working to save up for school and I don't ask them for a dime. My last son suddenly started behaving like a tout, pierced both ears and turning his hair to dread, takes my stuff without my permission and even to extent of holding my hands when I get furious to beat him.

My first son is dating a girl and spends all his money on her to the extend of asking me for transport fare sometimes. Sometimes they come home by 10 or 11pm and are ready to fight me if I get furious to discipline them.

What broke the camel's back was that my last son went to a friend's bday party overnight without telling me, my first son said he called to tell him he won't return and NONE OF THEM TOLD ME under my roof.

I've tried talking calmly, denying certain privilege and discipline but it keeps getting worse, my last option is to take them back to their father's village before I die of hbp.

I'm depressed nairalanders�, please I seek matured advice, thanks.

Please help me push to front page

This looks more like a confession to me.

That growing up, you left them to the discipline of the street with little or no input, now its time for them to live out the street you seem not to be happy about it. You reap what you sow, it obvious you did not bring them up in the way you would like them to thread and they chose a path for themselves.

Commit them to prayers if you are prayerful, molding them to what you want now means you would break them them start the process of remolding.

Number 1 is a vital information. Remove it and disqualify yourself immediately.

These kind of kids were plenty in the class then.

Now I realized what was going on back then was their enthusiasm towards/to learning.


For most of them its their disposition towards life, the seal to achieve.

And yes most of them I know are doing amazing well today career wise.

So you want people to go buy a 6feet piece of land to bury their dead.

Such that after a year or two cemetery attendants already swept the remains and sold the land to someone else.

As good as your opinion might almost sound, its merely an avenue to make billionaires out of these cemetery guys

This is a shameful thing to say as a serving minister. Its a confirmation as to how much this administration failed

TheOldGods:
We have been dating for a while now. Been coming to my house and my parents knows her. Normally she visits and sleeps over and ofcourse because she is my guest ,I'll have to give her food etc.


So today I decided to be different. I told her I was hungry and if she was, ofcourse she hurried and said yes, dresses up and jumped in my lexus. I just smiled, and started the car and we drove to a restaurant.

Before we got down from the car, I told her that I don't want to spend more than 3k on the meal between the both of us, and I told her to handle it, which she said fine, and split the fees to 1500 each. She got her food and a huge chicken which everything was 1500 naira on her end, and I got swallow which was about 1050 naira on my end. And the total money was 2550 naira. Then suddenly my girlfriend told me she also wants plantain, that the money is not yet upto 3k. That it must reach 3k. I was shocked because, if we were married then she can't help me save money when I tell her let's cut down cost. I thought she would even be happy that she saved me money and now we didn't send upto that 3k. But wow.

The waiter wanted to take the food and add the plantation of 450, but I refused and told her to collect her payment as we were done ordering.

My so called girlfriend then got angry and decided to seat somewhere far away from me, and we didn't see each other till I was done eating, although she waited for me. To my surprise she didn't eat that food, she packaged it back in a takeaway bag, and kept it for me. I asked her why she didn't eat the food she ordered by herself which was already 1500, as we agreed, and she said she won't eat it, and I took the food back. I ate the food myself with the chicken.

Right now, I don't want to take this relationship serious. Did I do the wrong thing by not allowing her spend the remaining money and making it 3k? Which ofcourse was the remaining money from my own food.?

Do not hastily generalize, be sure this is not an isolated instance. Observe her disposition to spending and saving if you have not. Just before you arrive at a conclusion about her

funkmrflexx:
I ended the relationship with My ex due to her bad characters. And then I later got married.
While we were dating I wanted to get my ex a place for her to stay due to d fact Dat she doesn't have anywhere to go when she graduates.
Both of her parents are divorced and remarried with kids. She can't go back to her father's house because he harrases her sexually and his wife his not welcoming. She can't go to her mother's house cus her stepfather won't agree. During d time we were dating she was staying with me for this reason but as soon as she got into school her character changed so I ended it all.
Now think of her predicament I'm thinking of getting her d house I promised so as for her not to go back to her dad's house. I have the money to do it that's not a problem.

I'm still having second thoughts though. Abi Make I just use my money package myself

Do it with the consent of your wife.

I have a feeling anambra is about to work again

that overhead in the first pix there is the only overhead in the whole of Ondo state apart form the new one in Ore round about

With this fuel scarcity

This is like damage control, its more of salt to injury.

He's still wearing native that has gator

Every disaster is an opportunity to the Nigerian government to embezzle.

Pathetic