Unclesmart12:
Good morning FAM, I've been dating my girlfriend for four years now since our 100 level in the university. She has been the perfect partner for me and a really strong backbone that has kept me going in tough times, I've lost count of ladies I've dated but this Lady has got me hooked full time hence the seemingly long duration of our relationship, because before now none of my relationships had exceeded 6 months. I think it's important to note that I'm her first date/relationship too.

Sometimes I feel lucky to have her, she loves and cares for me to bits and I do the same too though it's apparent she loves me more. I've good intentions towards her and sees her as part of my future, I will gladly marry her once I'm lsettled and ready for that but I've one nagging issue with her.

Academically I see myself as an average student on a CGPA of 3.47 according to my 300 level results since I'm yet to see my final year result ( fresh graduate ) though I channelled over 80% of my efforts and time in school to hustling.

My girlfriend on the other hand is on a CGPA of 2.76 which I still consider a reasonable result considering the school we graduated from. She's been hunting for a teaching job since she graduated with little success and frustration is gradually setting in.

She visited me recently and while in my place she got a call from a friend to bring an application letter to a school she's been eyeing for a while now. She drafted a letter and gave me to peruse through it. Going through the letter seriously broke my heart, obviously the reason she hasn't been getting interview invites wasn't far fetched. It was riddled with grammatical errors and blunders, she could hardly string correct sentences together and punctuation was totally MIA talk more of paragraphs. It was a total disaster.

There was no way she was going to get a job with that kind of letter unless maybe through man know man. I took time to teach her on how to write a letter and to be honest it was just like teaching a basic two child how to write a simple formal letter. She couldn't even get simple spellings right, I'm not a genius neither do I see myself as an exceptional student but I really expected more from a graduate. I tried so much to mask my frustration and disappointment so she won't feel bad.

I don't want to judge her but that her performance really left much to be desired and left me upset that I'm beginning to consider my future with her.

I don't know if there's anything I can do to help her because I'm currently learning block chain development and UI/UX designing so I barely have time to spare now.

Please I need your advice on how to handle this situation.

Dear op, you are not the only one who is/has experienced such. It's so annoying and frustrating when your partner is dull academically and not smart that you have to do almost everything for them ranging from doing assignment, seminar work, test, you just name it and at the end their CGPA is an apology. I broke up with my ex at my 400l due to what you just stated above.
Honestly it can be so annoying. We are all not perfect, but some people's own is something else

Easylion3569:
My girlfriend last saw her menstration last month, its been 30 days and 4 day since she last saw it.. So i was wondering why, and i had to visit a chemist who gave me a pregnancy test tools called 'accuracy'..
he told me how to use it, and what the various line display means.
so i called my girl and told her to urinate small on a small cup, followed the instructions and two thick red line showed..
and the chemist said two line is positive.
i'm still schooling i don't kno what to do now.

everything i have worked for, how i have planned my future is now trying to fade away.
i cant even hold my tears

This is very commendable, you are a strong man and your parents will be proud of you

Pogba on the red

Another goal smelling, Liverpool with a free kick, wasted

Mod abeg update d score line, na 5-0 o

Penaldo with a consolation


It's cancelled

Goal

Salah on the beat

Second half underway
N. Keita 1
M. Salah 2
D. Jota 1

Salah on the beat yet again
5 goals

Oga penaldo don chop yellow card o

Goal!!!!!!!
M. Salah

Mason greenwood with a nice left footed strike at the edge of the 18 yard box, Becker saves

Where is the breast in sifia pain, lemme confirm something

After passing both written and oral interviews, and scaling over 400 applicants to be the only one standing, you and your useless boss now decided to reject her cz of cancellation . Very annoying nonsense

See i kant be crushed because of my crush, i don't like what i hate o

Every day on nairaland you must see a caption of big python killed by my neighbour, big python killed by my older brother, big python killed in my neighborhood. Make una continue to dey kill the pythons o, but abeg make tori no change one day to man killed by big python, man killed by small python, man killed by cousin python

you no be any relationship healer, you be infidelity supporter, cheating boosting driver. After guy man don cast finish you come use music weaken the wife so that he fit escape and continue hurting her with lies and denial. Chai u badt

This excuse is very useless, stupid and dumb, anybody that tells you to upgrade is clueless. With your hand work and ssce result you still feed yourself and settle all your bills, you are very much okay as a man. Not all the guys here can boast of eating three square meal daily even with their executive qualification. If your woman loves you truly she will stand her ground for you. Shame on the mom for speaking like this, these are the toxic mother in-laws we need to run away from

What should the family of a man who has BSc, PhD do to the woman he wants to marry and she has zero education level but very industrious

I can testify for that of taraba

Dis death na follow come original. Dey don reason him matter finish come use negligence nail d man

May his soul rest in peace

I'm still shocked at this news, through out my years in KASU i have never heard of violence from any student, only normal female quarrels from the hostel. When the school has now decided to dish out admission letters to thugs and area boys all in the name of generating more money . We were 35 during my set but now you will see 150-200 students in a dept

Looking at the way his white robe looks tattared and dirty suggests this wasn't suicide but murder made to look otherwise. The ceiling was broken through to tie the rope for the execution. a victim he is

EXLOVER:
I remember back then in the university, i thought i was in love, i never knew she was using Kayamata for me, i used to give her part of my feeding and hustling money.

She told me never to smoke marijuana, if i do, she would stop loving me, i obeyed her. I rejected marijuana from all my friends, Until this particular day, i lost a bet of 17million, i was so angry, sad and depressed. My friends started to console me, one offer me marijuana this time. After smoking it, i was going through my phone gallery and i saw myself with her, i was so angry more, ask my friends why am i cuddling her, they started laughing saying I'm high, they said that's my girl.


Immediately i got home, she came to visit and i almost slapped her when she came to hug me, she then wanted to touch my preek i stopped her, and she asked me if i smoke marijuana, i said yes, she started crying and she ran mad immediately, she's still mad till today.


Guys y'all should start smoking Mary Jay

werey

Denvacandy:
Was just randomly thinking how people that are jobless are surviving in this country with the increase in price of things.

I earn roughly 100-130k monthly and i can say its not being easy, spending money on food, data and unkeep.


So i really need to know how people who are
jobless are coping in this country, people that have no source of income.

Experience is the best teacher, you want to know/feel how it is right, lose your job and you will have a first hand knowledge

Ohh God bless my late Mom, i dare not try this rubbish when she was alive. Even though i was so free but i never did such, your son has been doing this act right from school that's why he sees nothing in it to stop. Imagine her walking half naked in my house at night after i have warned her to stay away omo youths don take over. Ma'am you have a fault as a parent and your son should be blamed also

Bewiseedet:
Mind your business. Your son is matured enough to chose who to love. Isn't it better you try to know the lady better than just portray her as a prostitute?

This is shameful of you, a mother should mind her own business with the son she feeds and take care of. This is how bad our society has turned into where there's no more respect and fear for parents, imagine the boldness of the girl to sleep over. Shame

Make the mistake of breaking her heart and death is sure for you, shebi na you force yourself to get her even after the obvious warning. Because you see fine girl your brain IQ come low you come dey blinded. Guy, no human being on Earth is 100% perfect so manage her like that cz from what i have read, you be player

Very fortunate of her to be posted there, till the end of her 12 months, there won't be interrupted 30k stipend, no supervision or stress of teaching anything/body. Just chill at home and chop govt money

Very fortunate banny

Back in 2007 i wrote a love letter to this girl asking her out, her Mom and sisters all read my letter. The relationship never started neither did it end. A week later my love letter was returned to me rough and torn showing clear sign that it had passed through many hands and eyes

flokii:


That is their problem.. they want you to be loyal and submissive which is not part of professionalism. Some will even go as far as asking you to go to the market to buy foodstuff or do their house chores just because you work under them.

May God provide a much better job for you soonest.

Amen, i believe this

I lost my job this year June because my female boss felt i was not loyal to her. She wanted us to worship her even as she would cut our salaries monthly and deny us many benefits. I tried hard to avoid her by keeping to myself. She had already approved my termination letter before she realized i was only maintaining my lane, twas too late and i was kicked out. I have accepted my fate and praying to God for a better opening

Kaduna south you said, now we are bleeped in Chikun local government . Where guy man wan run go like this

Just see d belle of dat man on white

Folabifreeman:
And till now nobody has explained what it's all about.. typical behavior from motherfuckers

Nigeria jubilee fellowship program is an initiative from the Federal government to help jobless graduates who finished school latest 2017 and are not above 30 secure some organization, companies, institutions etc to be attached and work for a year, the pay is 100k. The best/outstanding graduates would be integrated into the places they were initially posted.

kayteajay111:
Good morning �, please I have been trying to apply for Nigeria Jubilee Fellows Programme(NJFP) since Monday during the day and night but I'm still unable to complete the application, even with the use Chrome and Firefox, I'm unable to submit at the final stage.
Has anybody completed the application?
What is the secret?

Alot could be the reason you can't complete your registration, i faced same challenge since Monday but only succeeded yesterday evening. I noticed that the server rejects some states of origin, it refused to display local government of some states, if you don't complete a particular page then you can't move to the next page, if you click on review application it will show client-error order