GFICECOLD:
For days now I have been sick because of this my girlfriend attitude, after much talk on begging her about this whole trip to Lagos that we'll do it next year just to receive the insult of my life. She called me all kind of names just because we couldn't travel to Lagos this December apart from that we never had any fight but its just like she has been keeping everything down up till yesterday.i begged and begged her so she will calm down but nothing at all and I will call her to check up on her I have to give her like 4 miss call before she'll pick up and it's one reply I will receive then if I talk much she'll say I have nothing to say and end the call.
This whole thing has giving bp, and heart pain because of too much thinking and thinking, I have done everything to make her happy I have sacrifice my time for her but its like I havent done enough, she call me self centered ignorant boring just one person and this is the same girl I'll meet and she'll be laughing but once I do any small thing I'll get all the insult of my life I really can't handle it anymore I have tried forgetting about her but its so difficult for me, I even called her today that I wanna see her tomorrow she said she will go out with her friends I said okay but later we will she said if I have nothing to say she will end the call I have actually cried begging her but its not helping me its already Making me feel sick I just don't want to have any heart issues that start affecting me before I even get old, I can't do anything I can't even socialize with anyone I can't do anything I'm just useless I can't even work because I'm always think it's really really hard for me so hard

I understand that same feeling bro.. take it easy and listen to lots of music.. if possible u got to have friends.

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Beebah2000:
No mind them
Op, you deserve this.

Botking:
Sexual predator

You can say that again

Damori:


The dreams are always bad dreams. My mood after I wake is always negative and in most of the dreams I'm either trying to get her attention and failing, or doing something that makes her upset, or sometimes she acts like she doesn't even like me and then I feel sad and wake up. It's torture honestly.

Bro go and find that girl and apologize to her and her spirit man.

He spirit is definitely not happy with you.. and if u made a promise to her jist to get the virginity instead of being plain that u can't marry her oh .. hmm I will advise u go plead for her forgiveness , so you won't be tormented again.. and who knows u might even try to be making it up to her in future trying to get her back and she's still not gonna give u the attention anymore.. good luck

You all wish him or her could eat and lick ur engine area but say your phone should never be touched by your partners (it's privacy) is your under not a (private part) ?

aktolly54:
she is not a serious type of girl (base on her comment so far) ,I hope the bf just forget about her and find another beautiful girl with less family wahala

She later made a post y'day with an update on the break up message the guy sent to her on how he has used her e.t.c in a thread sha

Beauty16 I was one of the people in ur post who didn't criticize u so much go check ur formal thread I knew there might be more to this ... That's why I wasn't to quick to speak odd against ur complaints.

Move on dear you will heal though it's ain't easy

If she got big ass edeh pain me small , but I will just quick think like.

You have anus near ur vagina.

It's possible dry shit don deh stuck for your anus..

You do periods, you fat and you go deh small if you no bath , so what difference are u from others or from males . If I think about this I loose the strong attraction and voom..

aktolly54:
it seems you don't picture the kind of babe behind that moniker, she don't want a relationship ,she just want guy that will be giving her money, plenty money and along the line she might not have a true feeling for the guy and dump him then jump to another rich guy. You don't read where she said she don't give a shi.t about guyz when her father was alive. Its because her father dead and his business going down make her think she need a man to support her. She need support not that SHE IS READY TO LOVE ANY GUY, she is broke bit.ch looking for someone son to leech by closing her puss.y

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if that's that was the case and her true intentions oh , kole work .. na this kind people weh wan try wetin you deh talk above.. type of man like me go prank with having a spiritual convenant by going to herbalist..

Even if we go there I go tell baba say make him do fake .. but in her mind she will be trapped with the mindset of convenant and should incase she break it , the fear and thought of having the real convenant will continue to torment her.

Tohsynetita1:

He's not a scammer, had purchased from him last week.

Ah thank you so much.. ❤️�

Jeon:



TO AVOID FORNICATION

Toto weh I don Bleep? Ok sha there's one thing we call rebranding..

Henryfour:
I dated a gal for 6 years b4 she left d relationship,she lefte cux i was financially down. Dis happened last year, buh d tin is ,she did not leave instantly, it fook her 2 years of waiting.
Leaving me cux i had a financial problem is not d issue here now , cux even my siblings whom i invested on disrespected n left me as well.D issue is ,we r abt getting back n I wish to marry oooo buh, i need help cux am afriad cux of some bad dreams i had yesterday, after speaking with her.

I slept, in d dream ,there was dis lady ,she needed a palm fruit, i helped her to get d palm friut only for her to leave without appreciating me. In dsm dream , a man threatened to harm me shd i trace pass my boundaries.


I v had dis look like dream b4 we broke up, in previous dream, it was a cult leader dt ceased her n threatened to kill me if i did not give way.

Its more like she has a spiritual link .. wetin i go do

Chairman accept this advice e go help you , base on a physical and a spiritual man sha.

See number 1, according to the dream oh, it means you will labour to satisfy her , yet she will be ungrateful and leave you without thinking twice how you feel ..

2, She's got a spiritual husband or spouse oh.. she herself needs to be free from this to have successfull marriage or relationship.. and this spirit spouse happen to be s strong one , the head

Behold , you girlfriend has suck dick , bleeped , slapped in the ass and also told the guy he does well than you.. infact that guy might even know you while they both laugh at you , and she will give her out of the money you gave her..

Also don't forget there's a point in time it slipped out and she put it in..

Trust no woman.. once a woman leaves your door, put your eye out of the skull like a crab..

Or shut down any emotions you have with her for that time ...

beauty16:
I was into a relationship with a guy some month after my dad death,thinking it will bring a helping hand to my family not knowing that it's a situation worst,this guy doesn't support me rather than making things worst for me I told him my reasona for the relationship and he promise to support me but ever since we start dating not even a dime has he support me even when my little brother was hospitalize I talk to him about it but he added that if I can also be of a help to him right now he will also be grateful that I should forget about my brother sister and mother issue and concentrate on my own future first he is telling me that the little money am earning for the business am doing to support my family I should be bring it to him to use it and plan our future that he want to get married to me,that I should be thinking about us not my family,I don't want to ended up married someone that will not understand what I fell for my family.
The worst part of it is that when I ask him for a help to support my business to make it big since people come to the shop a lot,he promise to do that for me but uptill now not even a dime has he bring,sometimes when customers enter the shop they won't get want they want,my daddy shop is now going down.
So yesterday he came to my mum with one of his family member coming to ask for my hand in marriage without even my notice that he is coming,so my mum told them to go and come back that she want to hear from me first because I didn't tell her anything about anyone coming to ask for my hand in marriage so this visit was unaware to her so they left,I have been a guest of this forum for a very longtime now so yesterday that I was very angry I decided to join this forum and seek for an advice, I just don't get it advice needed please

Number 1. I don't really know your intention to this mam you talk about, though allot of people criticize you, nevertheless I am a man but won't do that

Take this advice if you truly love him..

Now this is it.. if you are not sure he's going to be a supportive caring man when u get married and you are scared of him only trying to eat away from your dad's business or your business are running.. now what you do is sit him down talk about your fears to him and why u doubt him , maybe u think he will be so stingy after u get married e.t.c. (note: don't expect him to go bring money to support the business yet) don't pressurize him but you guys should plan.. and put it at the back of ur mind he must have a job he's doing and you also have a business, with this you can always support each other .

Now if you truly love him ask him what's his plan towards you , and about marriage or when u would like the union to stand.. and you both should go for spiritual consultation of ur relationship leading to marriage irrespective of your religion ok? To know if you are compatible.

And after this the last step is you telling your mum you love him and you are expecting him to come with his people or with someone for your hand in marriage, simple that's all..

beauty16:
yes we are yet to be married so does not mean you have never give your girlfriend a dime or support her before

If I like I Will, if I don't like no one can force me!! Bro.. even though u get baby for me...

Giving is a decision not an entitlement.. and if I have been giving you and along the way you keep proving to be ungrateful or be a parasite.. I will break away from the hypnosis of empathy and become over red piller against you .

NoFucksToGive:
Thief scammer criminal

I am not one sir . With due respect.. and if you think I am that is ur opinion ,not mine and won't ever be my reality.. 1 love.

No spoil my legit market. That's why many people aren't succeeding in online marketing, anyone into digital business you term them Yahoo boy...

Highest if you are interested u can request video call on Whats app simple..

.... Still intact

Yes I am ready to give you a software on your phone , activated to send b u l k campaign with pics , l I n k , text , and also extract con tact's from what Sapp group.

Drop comment just 1k for 10people

No relationship can thrive without financial security, if it's normal to manage fine.

But if it's below average it becomes suffering, and if it goes like this for a longer period of time one of them will betray ..

Its got to be normal , or maybe in abundance..

Zhirinovsky:
Prayer has rules and regulations as does Yahoo.

The Yahoo boy does juju and gets results because he keeps to the rules giving by his shaman. If he dare breaks the rules the consequences are disastrous.

You as a Christian have rules to keep for your prayers to be answered.
1: flee away from sin (esp. Sexual sin; masturbation, porn etc). Always pray for forgiveness asap and power to glee from all forms of lust.
2: study your Bible always and renew your mind towards doing everything written there.
When you study your Bible always it will teach you and expose the things in your life that hinders your walk with God things that make your prayers impotent.

The more you walk in righteousness, the more your prayers become more effective. You will pray for 15 mins and open doors/blessings will overtake you.

Everything you need is written in the Bible for you to study, live your life accordingly and have good success.

I can't be living my life always a d be reading some mythical books, renewing of minds is all about read more information that u can't think of something else . Do u think all in bible are true ?

Some are made up bro!.

All other points valid ..

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Yinkakolawole:
Adam & Eve are of white origin, black came into existence through the sons of noah which is HAM the father of canaan, canaan is the black man noah cursed. Noah curses canaan through his son ham when he look at noah unclothedness without telling his brothers.

Mtcheww all this ur theory no make up sorry. We need to understand that religion are traditional beliefs of a particular sects starting from a particular country and then with the hope of spreading out...

The creation story is the spiritual aspect like when u belief in the bible God you are Adam descendants...

You all can't take a child without your DNA but claim to all come from Adam and eve?? Many people should have same DNA if not the whole world as it's been claimed..

aktolly54:
Nairaland people abeg I want ask question, if someone lost womb, does it mean the egg is lost as well? She can get baby through another woman(IVR or something), na to collect husband sperm and inject it into another woman with the real wife egg.

Back to the matter, your can't leave state for the girl and go far away. If he stay in Lagos, he can just go ondo without telling anyone

Lmao Lagos to Ondo , look like set back

Abeg choke this girl with ur something jare , make she drink akamu

OLUPET009:
There is this lady we dated for like five months, before going out separate ways although we are still great friends. But before we started dating, there is a pastor friend (good) of mine who once ask out around March this year with the help of a senior Pastor who arrange the meeting between them, but she refuse giving some k-leg excuses. During the period of us been together, she took in but requested she aborted but I wasn't ok with it though. Just recently the Pastor friend call me and say they are getting along n preparing to marry her by next year. Wine has starting flying self. He even ask me of advise concerning the LADY. Meanwhile she is not aware that I know about their relationship. According to her she has dated three persons before me. Both of them are very close friends of mine. Should I tell Him the whole story And possibly save him or I should just close my mouth and watch how things play. I need mature advise please.

See chairman, that lady no get shame though, but no tell ur pastor friend yet , all you do is advise him to look out well well and shine eye sha and when saying this don't appear to serious or like any serious emotion is attached.

And number 2, no make this lady break your friendship bond , cus I bet you she will try do this 100% once she discover you guys are friends.

And 3, if u hear anything like say ur friend complain for the marriage peren in future , omo quickly burst casala oh and let ur friend no seh u no want spoil their joy earlier.. say na why u deh tell am make him shine him eye...

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Some of you condemning sef , don do am before with the teachers or whether as secondary school mates ..

Like I care . If u be above 18 years and u give me bodi to much.. if u get yansh I go poli you.. not even the way most of these 20s ladies don spoil themselves

Egypt , somalia , south Africa, and Korean babes are hot

Deanxy1:
It has been almost two years now since I broke up with my Ex whom i dated for almost a decade since when we were in secondary school up until we both graduated from uni ( we went to separate uni).

There were so many things that happened leading up to the break up. We kept having one issue to the other and we were quarreling almost on a weekly basis for the last two years of the relationship.

Amongst the many issues, one which stand out was her dating another guy. It started with her denying they were dating to when she could actually post his picture on snap and other social media handle and that was the height of it.

Friends told me to cut her loose but I couldn't and the whole toxic thing continued ( in retrospect, it was just naivety ). So little by little the love she had for me waned and I became tired of the whole thing and we just stopped talking and went our separate ways.

And it's been two years now but each time I run into her or see her picture, my mind skips. This has continued to happen ever since we broke up. I had long cut any form of contact with her but our childhood friends are kind of alike, so sometimes there's always that possibility of bumping into her or her picture from time to time.

Please what do I do?

I understand the feeling, and this mostly happen whenever you were the victim who loved the most, got abused , dumped , and left with anxiety and heart beak...

So the traumatic experience leaves an imprint in the mind of the victim.

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