Mrlance15:
I created this account for anonymity, I am 26, and I lost my virginity very recently, I stayed a virgin this long because sex wasn't my priority, I was chasing money and education, I had several opportunity but it just doesn't feel right, even when I was in school I do sleep over at my girlfriend's but I never touched her or make a move.

It was alot of pressure then because I was the only Virgin in my clique, when my friends discuss sex I just say stuff I learnt online just to contribute and not feel left out, they all believed i am a pro who have had sex many time, I never told any of them that I am a virgin because they'll mock me, I was so troubled that I vowed to loose my Virginity this year, getting a girl isn't hard for me as I am average looking and doing a little well financially, I have dated girls in the past and I didn't attempt anything sexual with them, one even came to my place one morning, joined me on bed and tempted me till I got an erection but I didn't make a move still, one even left me because I didn't try anything sexual with her, I didn't know it was her reason until she told me five months after we broke up,

Fast forward to when I met the girl I lost my virginity to, we clicked so fast and within a week it became a serious relationship, at first I told her no sex, she pretended like she doesn't want sex too, until one day she came around and we were cuddling and she started touching me, asked me to lay down and she was kissing my nipples and bitting my ear, so I got aroused, lost control, when I tried to take her clothes off she let me, her bra same thing until she was stark naked, so I dived in without protection, it happened so fast and I wasn't even enjoying it, it was way different from what I expected because I have fantasized about sex alot,

After the sex, I became gloomy and filled with regrets and fear, especially when I started having muscle pain the next day with serious tiredness, I thought I have contracted something, so many things going on in my head,

First problem is, why did someone like me who is always careful make such a mistake having sex without protection, I was so scared of STDs but I wasn't thinking when it happened,

Second, she's not a virgin, she is a pro when it comes to sex she was only pretending at first, I felt used, I felt stupid, then I asked her about her period, something I should have done before sex, she said it's fine but I still don't feel relief, I just hurriedly put on my clothes and asked her to leave, she just looked at me with confusion, put on her clothes and left, then she chat me up in the evening, and mentioned the sex, that was when I realized that I suddenly hate her and I hate myself for same reason, I have been avoiding her since then, my only thought so far was, "shey na the sex sex sex people dey hype be this" it's not worth it at all, if you're still a virgin please cherish it and don't loose it until you're married, sex is overated.

Sorry for the long read.

You got to deal with your mindset and free yourself from the beliefs of remaining virgin or hating against sex..

I guess you are a xtain.. feelings like this always happens in most scenario which is not needed all the time.. hating yourself and beating yourself up wishing if you could turn back the hands of time..

You are dealing with anxiety and fear if sex.. you are not forced to do it . But know that the 1st time sex is always like that it truly happened to me , the first time I had sex was when I was 20 years old.. and that day I wasn't able to cum cus it felt strange ..

You might decide not to have sex , but if u do it second and 3rd time that's when you get to know what sex truly is..and it's good sensation

Sex is not everything though.. but with the right yansh , pussy, dick and chemistry .. na bomb oh.. you didn't have a chemistry with her and also it was your first time , chillax .

Joelobioha:
Osama bin ladin

Lol

See this brooda.. though I go fes fear sha oh.. but

If she got a cool ass , there is no way am not whooping that ass at last

She gat to get on the kneels and suck my Dick..

Gasvon:
Do not mind my grammatical errors.

I'll be 25 years old this year, 5'11 tall, caramel skinned and handsome. But I still look like a teenager cuz I have no facial hair.
It bothers me every single day of my life and my self esteem is so low.
My peers look much more mature than me and guys younger than i am are even strutting facial hair yet I have none.

It's really affecting my confidence cuz people tend to look or talk down on me cuz I look like a teen facially.

Do you know the most painful part? Girls! Yeah girls don't look my way cuz of my young face. (Nigerian girls love mature looking guys). I've never had a GF of my own all my life yet I love women so much.

It has affected my confidence that I don't even approach girls I fancy anymore cuz I'll be disrespected. I'm tired of being like this.
Yeah I'm handsome and get complements here and there but when ever I say my age, people say I'm lying that I'm a small boy.

Even boys that I'm older than will be talking to me without respect cuz they have facial hair and I have none.

Please how can I speed up my chin hair growth? What can I use ? There are small strands of hair on my chin and i've got little moustache but it's really slow, I need something that I can apply to speed the growth within 3 months at least.

I know minoxidil is very effective but I don't wanna use it cuz I'm scared of the side effects.
Please I need your suggestions. What can I use to speed my facial(chin) hair growth up?

Have you tried hair implantation.. go to YouTube and search for beards implants..

Started growing beards at age 17 by 18 I already go full beards , at 20 I don become chairman..

And now am 28.. people are different and so is speed abd growth it all boils down to genetics

bukky1994:
but u know suicide isn't an option, everything will be fine

Yes yeah... On point

bukky1994:
Jesus won't be happy with u If you try that shit, u Better rethink, there Is hope bro

You Jesus that wish to come to life even with a body... If they don't like this earth why do they still insist on trending for fame and glory?

Suicide no be crime.. commit am if that's what give u peace .. I no get time for motivation abeg

MufasaLion:


He should go fück a hoe because of that?

Okay.. he should sit there... U only attract what u incline yourself too.. you control your destiny by your thought and actions..

There's nothing like fate

Go Bleep one big yansh ashawo . U go begin deh attract big yansh ladies.. that's the rules

You just said he prefers to Bleep on empty stomach.. maybe he didn't eat well.. and had too much energy loss

Delight2014:
It does work
it is spiritual but mainly from devil.
Don't indulge in it
wealth comes from God and God is the Almighty, he has the supernatural power that is greater than all other powers.
He can give you wealth if you beckon on him.
Igbo adage says" Uba si na Chi meaning wealth comes from God.

LMFAO.. human sacrifice is done to God also in bible u no deh read bible??

Abraham's son was demanded as a form of test to Abraham.. had it mean Abraham refused God might kill his son forcefully and say he created it.

Jepthar daughter was burnt as a sacrifice to God in the bible as burnt offering.

It was said that Jesus was son of God, but people still don't understand that he was a prophet used only according to the bible and how it speaks lowly of human... While jesus was also human a mortal.

the same person was killed as a sacrifice.. a more reason you all call jesus a lamb.. human life is greatest sacrifice in the spiritual world..

even if God wan give u wealth he go demand u serve am.. nothing is free.

If u no do.. no money.. and if him give u money u change, him fit kill u, or strike with mental illness schizophrenia. Know this and know shit.

There is no all love God.. every being if at all they exist thrive on deals and exchange..

Send it to me I be yahoo pastor.

At least u no go like this one as you done see Yahoo pastor..

But I thought they've prayed about this even before he went on to propose..

No go marry better pikins and leave church babes that are codedly runz girls..

The kind shock for him face , na that kind shock man deh get when the girl don tell am no sex till marriage .

My guy don Jones , he for don wipe the pussy balabala LMFAO

daniella45:
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YOUR TYPE WILL COLLECT FINE TIRE FOR YOUR SIDE
YOUR BRIDE TO BE WILL TURN TO LAPTOP WHERE THEY TEST BEFORE GOING INTO MARRIAGE
]EVEN LAPTOP GET NO TESTING

See this wan .. abeg getat..

I don't debate with women

Pastor wey pray for una wedding day didn't see this coming??

most marriage like this sef them deh talk say na pastor choose am or na God.

No sex before marriage..hian if I hear?

Nop life is made up of positive and negative and these two is what gives a spark to illuminate or give energy..

You can't have positive+ positive , or negative plus negative, it is negative plus positive.

You are either fire or she's water or vice versal.. one person will be hot and another a bit calm... That's how life works .

If you have a leadership tendency as a man fine., If she's also tends to lead and has that same quality.. there might be a clash somewhere, cus there will be a time she will want to be dominant and you as a man might feel offended.. so one must be strong where the other is weak..

Honestly i have been asking myself this , though non believers, atheist and other religions marries without their god threatening them their marriage is heading for doom. That only Jesus' can make it sweet? What? With his dead dick?

With the nature of the bible demon god , he's so jealous which he said himself, he creates evil which he said in Isiah, and with he's nature in the bible.

Do you really think man especially men have their own free will to decide their life and thoughts without being influenced by some types of alien spirits?

Let's assume the family was once a Christian and they become an atheist, yes I repeat they left Christianity and it's dogmatic beliefs and hypocritical laws they themselves broke before they became famous..and changed their beliefs what do you think the bible god will do anyway.?

Or if it's rather one of them that lost Faith in the bible ways, and is yet to convince the partner or if god sees the other will copy the partner what do you think he will do to the other , stroke with madness or kill the man or woman?.. or create enimity between them that the other Soo resent the other .?

No matter how hard I try to believe in the bi ble book I still don't trust anything that has the ability to do goof and create so much CHAOS just for glory sake or for a single soul loving his or her partner more than him (that's more of human nature too).. Love is all right?

But Loving others without loving him gets him crazy and a control freak.. my thoughts though.

EnemyofGod22:
Here is it, what does woman have to offer man today ?

Men know there is a good chances they will loss their friends, their respect, their space, their sex life, their money and_if it all goes wrong _their family ( the family the man is from).....


The worst part of it,if the marriage is legal.
The woman who contributed nothing financially,takes half the man's savings, pension and properties,

My question is,what exactly marriage offer's men.

Lalasticlala,mynd44,justwise, dragnet.
Please push this to front page.

They teach u to serve jesus abi yesus ... Lol .

Person weh claim to create marriage no know seh man go suffer for women hand..?? The greatest threat to all form of authority is men so also.. men aren't favoured anywhere at all..

davealvaro:
i swear bro, no evidence, if u talk dem threaten u .,i wish God can just come sit with me and let's talk,,why would him always allow the devil to win, what is he trying to prove,.... by the time things will start getting better, another bad phase will come up, ahhh na wa oo

We all say the devil blesses and give problem.. not only devil all that's lie that's if even they exist..

When a spirit being or a God blesses.. he or she doesn't want you to be happy all alone without putting another challenges in your life

You can ask me why Jacob hips was broken even before blessing him

Can u tell me why same God gave Paul power to work for him and still places a torn in his flesh, eg problems and demons beside him plus blindness??

I don't trust anything that has the ability to do goo and evil..

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar

Small money don enter your hand now
You want forget area

You want to go chill with the big boys for better location

If money enter my hand better big money.. I go change area away from ghetto..

life is filled with growth the ideology of staying in ghetto while your life upgrades is an outdated idea and stupidity form of forming manager man who knows how to manage wealth or a moral man or religious dogmatic holiness..

No man can lay law down on how I live my life , I deh craze? Our morals is what separates us.. even Moses for bible weh deh lay law give people no be everything bible God give am..

Different things works for different folks .!!! Peace bro.. 1 love

saheedbadmus:
Well I don't seem to believe the story but if na true u dey talk..guy no chop clean mouth as some people dey advise you o..if she is presentable and u also like her ,why not give her a trial..its better to marry a lady that loves you than u marrying someone u love o..ifs very hard to see a woman express how she feels towards a man..for her to summon courage and tell u how she feels, oboy no Bleep up and if u no like her just tell her u can b friends ..abeg no go chop clean mouth o ..no b every girl be chop and clean mouth..some are u destiny changer and ladder to upliftment o..and at her age she needs something serious so don't say because she carry her self come meet u,u go come put more wahala join d one she get b4.

Bro you spoke well.. one of the enormous things I admire in a woman , is the courage to speak out on how she feels about a man..

That's a rare gem and me no deh think say them be hoe . Na the courage gan gan me deh admire cus they went against the odd of the society and religion blah blah blah... No Bleep her up bro..

I posted this screenshot below in a thread about understanding women.. and this he said above might sound odd but it's just the plain fact...

The only thing you gain as reward being a married man is harems of beautiful women whom will make you enjoy your life to the peak and also keep her on her toes every single time..

Also securing money if fund for yourself for your future only not for children or wife . Cus your woman fit carry your pikin go. Na only you go remain

This I state below I have experienced it first hand!.

1, A woman's full respect relies on how well you can cater for her needs and what's hers .

2, No woman can ever love you deeply than your. Mother.

3, A woman can never sacrifice for you , bro don't even think about it..

Immediately you fall short in catering for her and what's hers e.g her children and her, don't expect her to sacrifice waiting on you.. am telling you the fact.

The fact remains that you are never her blood nor will ever be part of what's hers .. what's hers remains her herself , her children, her father , mom and siblings.. swallow the bitter pill...

If you fall into deep problem, she will jilt you , take your child and move on with her family.. you will be shocked how quick you are forgotten or her quick zeal to abandon you for a moment

Climax07:
Another day, another anti-christ agenda as if you were forced at gunpoint to be a christian. If you you don't still know that Christianity is not a religion then you were never really a christian.

Lol as if it isn't in the bible where people's will were taken and his own forced on them ...

Paygram:

If you believe in x-rays created by humans to show you what you can't see, then same humans said they wrote the holy books(Bible) to show you God and His ways, why not believe?

Actually many of us grow into religion, and never experienced God and religion has been relegated to cultural phenomenon, personal doctrine and dogamatism.(which is was it is)
God is meant to deal with you on a personal basis. You can ask Him for direction just for one week and you'll see the different.

Because the religious books contradict itself , 2, everything remains unseen though I believe their are spiritual ability and I know human are gods believe it or leave it ..


2 reason why I don't believe all, is because I know human are not perfect even though you are the most anointed or energetic person u will still make mistakes or be led by what christains called flesh at times.

3, Human invented most of this God's you are talking about, and most of them are prophets , gifted people, and those who have white or dark magic abilities to do supernatural things ... Most of all these religious stuff are not different from all the gods or ancestors in Yoruba land , Igbo , e t.c they are ancestors... And that is why often times they must all come from a particular country or sect of people who will then be spreading the beliefs and message...

Paygram:
God is real. Whether you believe it or not. HEY,If seeing is believing, can you see your brain? What prove do you have to confirm that you have a liver?

Why many of us doubt the existence of God is because we've not encounter Him yet.

All I pray for each and everyone of you is an encounter with God, then you'll know that he's real. You can ask Saul who became Paul of Tarsus. And I have too.

Your first points are not valid I mean no harm or insults though..

It's clearly clear that without the brain or liver any living being on earth can't function well.. go do an x ray and you will see that you got a brain and a liver..

Rosement:

Guy, this is a forum not my father's house, I was not asking you to stop giving your opinion, it is your hand you are using to type not mine so you can type whatever you want, I was only concerned. Even on the road, if people see on adult acting like a child, will they not feel concerned? I just wanted to be sure that you are okay.

As a citizen of Nigeria even if you love Nigeria so much, will you make it a duty to select criminals and punishment them if you are not assigned to be a law enforcement officer? God is the highest authority and He did not assign me to be a judge over others, a mere human being like you cannot instruct me to leave my daily business to start selecting evildoers.

People like you are very nosy, you are the type of person that did not study astronomy but stays awake in the night to count the stars, you are the type of person that will leave your own food at home and go to your neighbour's house to taste his/her in order to give your opinion. We are quite different, I am a wise person so don't expect me to fetch water into a basket.

Do have a nice day!

I hear Una madam wise !!!

When it comes to the matter of pastors naso u go hear don't be a judge and I understand..

The same way the same God assigned others to stone people to death when they did something?.. we no wahala..

Why can't we accept this ideology God of the bible placed in old testament, today ?? Because we see it a evil.

But yet still praise the people who does those things in the bible and see them as heroes. Call a spade a spade. NO ONE IS ABOVE JUSTICE!! not even those who create justice.


make we forget am ... no one dies on argument na money be Koko..

Rosement:

I don't discuss the Bible with people that are not matured enough to understand the Bible. Normally, I wouldn’t have interrupted your ranting. You are not the first person I have seen ranting on this forum but your post mislead me, you should have allowed us to know that you are already an atheist. Why did you give us the impression that you are a Christian with doubts?

What you said about pastors in general is not even true. You are only disappointed because you put your hope in fake pastors instead of God, not everybody that call themselves pastors are true men of God, some are just deceivers. In this world, anybody can pretend to be anything. Are some people not even pretending to be Nigeria prince to dupe people?

Atheist are not even much but most people are still not wicked or evil. Even with all the sufferings in the world, religion still allows people to continue to have conscience no matter the situation they are in. Some people are even doing good in the name of religion and those that prefer to do good in the name of religion are even more than those that prefer to do evil in the name of religion. I am not debating with you and I am not trying to make you understand, I only stated the obvious. You are free to still dwell in your ignorance even after reading this words.

The cry of babies have not even changed the climate or our economy. What changes can your ordinary ranting even bring? I know every human being has thoughts but do you think it is necessary for you to post your childish thought on a forum. Anyway that is your business, no one cares or is it your picture that was printed on one thousand note? Just make sure you state clearly that you are already an atheist next time. My time is precious, I am not interested in fetching water into a basket. You are so free to believe whatever makes you sleep well at night.

I hear you almost all of them gave false prophecy, tb Joshua, s u leman , e.t.c mention them.. why can't you as well be an ambassador to expose the fake ones if you truly love your religion , blasphemies and injustice ?

I choose to be that baby because I still have the courage to speak out and ain't dying in silence, and not the cowardice you have in not having the courage to challenge beliefs..or what your religion does which seems blatantly bad and filled with injustice

Moreover this is a forum , where you voice out and not ur own personal space to keep quiet.

Peace out ✌️

Rosement:

You have no right to question God, you are just one of His creatures, you are a mere human being created from dust. You have not finish telling the president of your own country how to live His life, you are here trying to dictate for God, the greatest authority of all, you must be high on something. You did not enthrone God so He is not asking you for permission to continue reigning or ruling.

The president of a country has authority over the citizens and he has every right to give laws and punish law breakers. God is even more than the world president, He has authority over all of us including the presidents. He is the one that will determine your fate whether you like it or not.

Can't you see your pride is worthless? You cannot even go to the presidential villa to question your president and you think you can question the Almighty God. Have you forgotten that you are ordinary dust and you will surely become dust again? You are just an ordinary, powerless being that has no power to decide his own fate. You, an empty barrel actually think God will have time for your childish ranting, even presidents don't have time for daily ranting of citizens.

Hello listen... Carefully the greatest form of injustice started from the bible and between God, Jaco's , and isaul , see Supporting a lier and a birth right thief... Ok? If truly God of the bible created heaven and earth, then corruption and injustice started from then as well.. and he was also part of the role models

Now I keep saying it.. no one created no one.. you all got different DNA you can't even proof this yet saying, u cane from dust dust dust I still don't get and understand... You have no right to question laws people will say of course.

Which physical or Spiritual law makers did you see getting to the top without, killing, doing injustice, and being cruel and not spilling blood.. go and sit down..

I just hope you are holy as you speak through this place with so much passion for ur religion like you knew how all went through...

Religion is not the base of morality or being a just and upright man.. we have some great unbeliever yet very good in heart than all this superstitious christains..

By the way your pastors miss corona virus prophecies , you still follow them?? Of course you will say they are human..

But forgetting the book u read to die for is written by human and they are also bound to making mistakes... Get that shit..!!?

If my freedom means pride to some people, so be it!!! All great Truth start as blasphemies

Yeah.

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Rosement:
Even those that are truly obeying and serving God cannot boast. Take a look at what God said to Elijah.
(1 King 19:18) Yet I have left me seven thousand in Israel, all the knees which have not bowed unto Baal, and every mouth which hath not kissed him.

If you believe in God it is for your own good, if you don't that is your own problem. I will not bear your name on the day of judgment, I can only advise you to do what is right but I cannot force you because God has given everyone of us freewill, we all have the power to make our decisions.

Just remember that live is short, some people saw yesterday but didn't see today, some of the people that saw today will not see tomorrow. We are all passers-by in this world, whether we die young or old, we are definitely going to die one day, death is inevitable. What really matters is where will go after we die.

Don't you understand that everything you have is not going into the grave with you. Even if you have all the money in the world and you are the most respected person in the world, you will still die one day whether you worship God or not. A lot of knowledgeable people are dead, a lot of scientists are dead, a lot of rich men are dead, a lot of great entrepreneurs are dead, a lot of celebrities and famous people are dead, etc. Even my great grandmother that lived for up to 100 years is dead, so what is life that we fancy it so much.

This proud body that is making us commit sin will eventually became dust again by then what will be left is our soul. If out of proud or ignorance you refuse to obey God while you are on earth, how will you feel if you discover that Heaven and hell is actually real when Jesus comes back or after your death? I hope you make the right decision before it's late.

May I ask you a question please..

How can a being without body or whom can't lift a single rock without the help or use of human be able to create a physical human with body??

Why not create one for himself and come here introducing himself..?? Or probably people will end up capturing him?

Or maybe the whole bible story is a lie saying he is a spirit

kwaso2:

You are clearly a kid. Follow your parents and their beliefs when you are old enough, you will appreciate them

Person weh don get 1 pikin na kid ? Wey deh with him woman and kid? See this one..

Rosement:
What will God gain from ruining your happiness? God wants you to be happy and fulfilled, He has good plans for you. Just serve Him truthfully and with honesty. Don't try to be a scientist just face what is important. The major commandment Jesus gave to us is love God with all your heart. You just have to love your neighbours genuinely to be able to achieve that.
(Matthew 22:36-40)
36. Master, which is the great commandment in the law?
37  Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind.
38. This is the first and great commandment.
39. And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.
40. On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets.

Matthew 25: 35-46
38 When saw we thee a stranger, and took thee in? or naked, and clothed thee?
39 Or when saw we thee sick, or in prison, and came unto thee?
40 And the King shall answer and say unto them, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me.

Jesus has done all the works for us already, what else do you want? He died for us 2,000 years old before we even existed that was before we could even do any works. Just like princes inherit their titles for their fathers without putting in any effort that is the same way salvation was giving to us as a gift by our Father and Lord.
Ephesians 2:8-9
8 For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God:
9 Not of works, lest any man should boast.

Our works are just evidence of our salvation. The same way we can identify a prince by his dressing, lifestyle or gestures, that is the same way a saved person is known by his works. When we reject salvation and embrace sin, we are like a princes that denounce their titles to live the life of slaves.
2 Corinthians 5:17
17 Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new.

all you said above is why must a prophet or human command love as if it's something to just be given.. or forced.. or maybe forced by his spirit into you?

It's just like saying a woman or your friend must love you .. unless you will have to kill him or make his life miserable... This is one thing I don't get about religion.. No forced things and such thing as not being complete without another person..

You know what that means, No free will , no freedom in your life . It sucks

This remains the truth and the main point am trying to prove is you all don't have a free will.. you all believe when God of the bible calls you that's the end you must love him by Force..

You condemn human for their behaviors and forcing love , you call people simp and you as a man can kill your fellow man for forcing a woman into loving him with physical or non physical abuse.. right?

Why do you all see what the bible God does to people good despite it appearing evil?