₦airaland Forum

deji300:
How many months for uk skill visa administrative process.apply since june

U mean administrative review??
UKvi administrative review will teach you patience if u don't have ...... not to scare u ooo...i have seen AR that took 10months

But hope the AR team has responded shaa, and u won?

And hope ur sponsor doesn't have any issue with his license ...that another thing that can cause delay??

uchennay:
just to boost their chances at asylum hearings as fake defenders of sodomy

Hahahahahahahaha hahahahahahahaha

Moyewa00:
I am unable to disvirgin my wife. We just got married this Saturday. She's tight Anytime I want to penetrate her she will feel pain Her vigina looks as if it blocked.

It's not blocked..perhaps it a micro-perfortaed hymen, penis alone fit hard smal..cut ur index finger nail very low and ur index finger and oil to guide ur rod together with your finger ahead locating the tiny space available....if u have big hands use your pinky...

e go pain her, na once you go do am like werey..... then go gentle after u are in........ If u are over gentle trying to use ur rod alone, u go dey there for two weeks...

Socratiz:
You can't be sleeping with a lady and think you'll just clean your mouth.

Why?? When Women sleep with men and clean mouth...no issue...una go even call the man mumu, asking him if she forced him...

If he reach man turn, una go dey expect he should go and pay for bride price....because she said oga im pregnant...weda na chike, bayo, or suleiman get bele...it no longer matters

una well done ooo !!!!

chrisactiv:
initial price was 310k now adjusted to 290k

......it's ur phone u can even put a price tag of 1million if u like......u dont owe me an explanation....
But I saw when u put 400 plus as initial price........which made the guy up there said he can get iPhone 12 for same price..

LilNetty:
When they ask me I told them I will do it later after the marriage they said no that they must do all at once and they told me if we won’t be doing it that my wife to be won’t be changing her name.

Lol....see funny threat.....will name change make her love you or die for you....who cares about name change in 2024....

As long as ur kids bear your name....if wife like make she bear tinubu name

LilNetty:
Please I need your candid advice
My wedding is coming up in some months and I need your advice. My fiancé and her family are insisting on court wedding which I don’t want to object to. I should have moved on but she pregnant. What can I do?

Oga....so u cannot say what you want or don't want when they were saying their own....??

Na so them go tell u say u must pay 2million when your father in-law die....I hate when pple make demands as if they are federal government.

idahme:
...

Baba ..na their way jare....
And they think like that becos they always assume their yansh is a bigger sacrifice that wateva u can do

Even if u give woman 100million Dollars...once she spread legs..she believes u guys are even or worse case ...u still owe her more

chrisactiv:
na FUFU you go carry go house last last

U came late to this party....these comments you are seeing na because he the initial peace was 420k

See as hate & village pple follow person go Canada,


Small time she go say na skit....

South Africans go soon use this one score cheap points

Starboytwo:
Bros, don't you think that's his own style? Or didnt he see the dirtiness from day one. Too much dobo clouded baba eyes from day one. So na now he just clear.

Im not such men bros, I've had girls over, stayed months sef, during Covid. No such thing. There was dobo all through, at the same time there are terms and conditions... No compromise or little compromise.

This is just a case of a man who got tired of the dobo and started seeing redflags. I don't blame anybody but him....

Weda na after dobo or before dobo....doesn't change the fact that redflag na redflag...

. Even if they are married.....u cant be a source of tension to someone just because of dobo....e go reach one point ring and marriage certificate won't matter..

TheWinterBird:
If you're not married to someone, you've no business moving them in and asking them to play housewife,

U are right...he shouldn't expect wifey duties

but it's okay for her to expect wifey privileges. eating free in this economy, keeping her money, not being kind enough to help her host, bills free, still expect him to pay her rent....

There's nothing wrong in both parties expecting some advantage in staying togeda ....why u think e should expect nothing from her staying there is absurd ......but hey! I'm sure we will soon get to the "she ddnt force him" part....

Starboytwo:
Bros, person wey open eyes admit woman for house no get any help pass the free "dobo".

The woman way enter man house too don ready mind say na dobo she brings to the table. Or are you insinuating the woman jazz the man.

Man don dobo dobo dobo tire, he Don tire, he no freak am again, he con come here make we help am pursue him partner.. I no dey help such help. Na mumu help I dey call that one.

Make he Continue dey fire the dobo.. That's his work.

...weda u Bobo woman or u no dobo....they are both human beings living together that should not be a source of tension to each other....

U eat free food, live bills free,still dirty join, She dey even expect make the pay the rent of the house wey she dey find.... Her tension too much

Starboytwo:
Op, what about all the "dobo" you have doboed her

Which akant she go put that one.

Better wake up and propose.

She did not dokoed him abi??.... Na men like u dey make banny use sex as leverage for everything, even in marriage

Afodot0022:
She brought up the idea of me supporting her to get her apartment, this is someone that work and even earn more than me.

na from afar dem dey enjoy banny pass once banny enter ur crib on a cohabitation level. ..guy forget,u don run urself street.... Nor complain too much....u don fvck up already...

Only one thing will get her out of your house quickly.....You pay her rent..and cut her off because she go expect say you go keep paying rent ..

because if wan use break up make her leave...u need to be as wicked as bokoharam ooo .because, where u want make she sleep if she leave ur house...??

Look on the bright side man...this period she came to stay has given u a taste of what marriage will look like ...she's not helpful, not kind, see u housing her as her right as girlfriend and not helping her...her yansh na her leverage....

Lol.....this nigga is funny...expecting support from a Nigerian babe staying in his house??

See baba, In her head, she's already supporting you by dating you....see...dont get it twisted oooo...she staying in your house is also her doing u a favour in her head...not the other way round

Hahahahahahahaha... It's like u just came from abroad not too long ago... ...

Don't forget...the apartment she wants to rent..u will pay all or part of it...

Tightpussy2024:
Not you but your post.
A man included, "evidence" in a post relating to indomie and went as far as checking the dustbin to find empty egg shells and it doesn't occur to you that he has a problem? And that he has already made up his mind to do away with the girl before this. He only needs confirmation

Oh..I ddnt know it was about ordinary indomie . I thought it was about lying through the teeth

But hey...wateva version that the girl did nothing but the guy is the one with the problem is totally fine ....

Tightpussy2024:
Mumu

E reach insult??

Lol

blahc007:
You forgot to add the part that she is a dirty person...another addition to the redness of the flag.

Lol

Tightpussy2024:
The story is incomplete. He must have been counting his indomie or penny pinching and she is scared.

Lol..... Hahahahahahahhah

Paternity fraud : he must have offended her

Prostitution.. he must have refused her all she wanted....

Sleeping with ex night before wedding...he must have bought the wrong wedding gown

Adultery.....he must have cheated first or abused her..

She denied her husband sex for 6months... His mouth must be smelling, he must have been annoying her, he must have been stealing her money

Stabbing and killing her husband ... He must have been a bandit and boko haram...

ivolt:
If money is missing in an organisation(fact), and the boss decided to ask the accountant.
If the accountant denies any involvement, he is lying not gaslighting or manipulating.

Lol...U are creating different scenario fom the op to suite ur narrative so that u can play ur right/wrong, condescending game......

To gaslight someone u must be twisting what someone clearly saw or have some evidence for or heard or perceive, making the person doubt themselves or the situation......but the scenario u created is just ask and respond scenario with no premise of what led to the asking . This isn't even remotely same with the op's story

If my babe clearly saw me walking on the road with another girl that I'm trying to toast and she accuses me....me saying that's not what she saw, but i was going on my own and the girl just happen to be walking beside me on her own way and that shes just being jealous and paranoid, and I am form upset ...that is gaslighting...

.. See dude... if u wanna play right and wrong game..continue .....U seem to be enjoy being condescending .. So enjoy yourself

ivolt:
Stop using words wrongly.
Gaslight has specific meaning.
It is not synonymous with lying.

Lol.....gaslighting is a form of manipulation...it usually involves lying...how do u make someone doubt what they see or perceive .without lying or twisting the event...
She even try to make it look like it's the guy that's wrong....

.anyway...I cannot argue with you.... Go and sort urself out

Will this Russia/Ukraine issue end without a nuclear bomb coming into play ..?

because it's like this back and forth exchange of small small bombs will continue for a long time

KnowAll:
But oh boy! What they injected into electricity sector is equivalent to our national budget. We can’t compete we are a poor nation.

Poor nation but But ur president is buying 150billion naira jet....using car of over 2billion naira....
Nigeria is not poor....money is just being allocated for rulling class' excesses

GatheringClouds:
Hallelujah. ..
9:50am on this very day u insulted your father's mate on this very platform..few hours later u return to the same platform to announce all by yourself your irreversible failure.
U see yr access to data & Internet has given u liberty to relegate yr father's equal.. absolutely responsible for yr lamentation 11months efforts was terminated in a split second.
Going forward due to your ignorance don't be quick to type in response rather ask questions to be clear otherwise It will end in yr self destruction.
Make no mistake to misinterpret English in your mother tongue that ended in confusions in yr mind without any form of provocation or insult whatsoever. Stop been a rude boy segun everyone on the Internet is not yr mate as u lack no manner at all.
U cannot be allowed to enter Canada with excess luggage of cyber bullying hence visa denial
U applying for Australia don't repeat this mistake little boy. I forgive u

U kukuma take glory for the guy's refused visa application.... Hahahahahahaha.... Vawulence on beast mode....

the guy vex you oooo?

jerryklopp:
Our culture and tradition doesn't favor the current time we are now. It is not a must to get married, or have children , or be in a relationship. All these honestly doesn't bring any form of fulfillment.

Marriage still favours some pple .. if a person is lucky, their bill paying days may end or significantly reduce...., have u not seen some pple that marriage gave them access to free car, free trip to Bahamas.....so contrary to your advice ... its worth being desperate for ...

Whatisurproblem:
you are looking for reasons to leave your girlfriend now you have it, she lied fine, forgive her and move on, or wait until you meet the one that will jazz you, beat you, and continue to render you useless, you see bad advicers you have here will ruin you, go now and made amend with your woman and guide her in whom you want her to be. That's all.

How did u automatically know that girl that op said took his money behind him, lies and gaslights him is a good girl and staying with her is a best advice...?? Or u don't care what type of girl she is...he should just stay with her?

Just asking to learn nii oooo, since u have somehow assume every other advice here apart from your own is bad and will ruin him...

TheWinterBird:
It's possible she sees you as a friend and nothing more. You're the one thinking too much into this.

So when a guy says he wants to take you out... U don't even think he may possibly want something? U 100 percent think it's a friend thing nothing more??

The judge that will preside on this case will laugh tire.....

Charge somebody to court for packing sand for rituals.....how do u even prove motive