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Afodot0022:
She brought up the idea of me supporting her to get her apartment, this is someone that work and even earn more than me.

na from afar dem dey enjoy banny pass once banny enter ur crib on a cohabitation level. ..guy forget,u don run urself street.... Nor complain too much....u don fvck up already...

Only one thing will get her out of your house quickly.....You pay her rent..and cut her off because she go expect say you go keep paying rent ..

because if wan use break up make her leave...u need to be as wicked as bokoharam ooo .because, where u want make she sleep if she leave ur house...??

Look on the bright side man...this period she came to stay has given u a taste of what marriage will look like ...she's not helpful, not kind, see u housing her as her right as girlfriend and not helping her...her yansh na her leverage....

Lol.....this nigga is funny...expecting support from a Nigerian babe staying in his house??

See baba, In her head, she's already supporting you by dating you....see...dont get it twisted oooo...she staying in your house is also her doing u a favour in her head...not the other way round

Hahahahahahahaha... It's like u just came from abroad not too long ago... ...

Don't forget...the apartment she wants to rent..u will pay all or part of it...

Tightpussy2024:
Not you but your post.
A man included, "evidence" in a post relating to indomie and went as far as checking the dustbin to find empty egg shells and it doesn't occur to you that he has a problem? And that he has already made up his mind to do away with the girl before this. He only needs confirmation

Oh..I ddnt know it was about ordinary indomie . I thought it was about lying through the teeth

But hey...wateva version that the girl did nothing but the guy is the one with the problem is totally fine ....

Tightpussy2024:
Mumu

E reach insult??

Lol

blahc007:
You forgot to add the part that she is a dirty person...another addition to the redness of the flag.

Lol

Tightpussy2024:
The story is incomplete. He must have been counting his indomie or penny pinching and she is scared.

Lol..... Hahahahahahahhah

Paternity fraud : he must have offended her

Prostitution.. he must have refused her all she wanted....

Sleeping with ex night before wedding...he must have bought the wrong wedding gown

Adultery.....he must have cheated first or abused her..

She denied her husband sex for 6months... His mouth must be smelling, he must have been annoying her, he must have been stealing her money

Stabbing and killing her husband ... He must have been a bandit and boko haram...

ivolt:
If money is missing in an organisation(fact), and the boss decided to ask the accountant.
If the accountant denies any involvement, he is lying not gaslighting or manipulating.

Lol...U are creating different scenario fom the op to suite ur narrative so that u can play ur right/wrong, condescending game......

To gaslight someone u must be twisting what someone clearly saw or have some evidence for or heard or perceive, making the person doubt themselves or the situation......but the scenario u created is just ask and respond scenario with no premise of what led to the asking . This isn't even remotely same with the op's story

If my babe clearly saw me walking on the road with another girl that I'm trying to toast and she accuses me....me saying that's not what she saw, but i was going on my own and the girl just happen to be walking beside me on her own way and that shes just being jealous and paranoid, and I am form upset ...that is gaslighting...

.. See dude... if u wanna play right and wrong game..continue .....U seem to be enjoy being condescending .. So enjoy yourself

ivolt:
Stop using words wrongly.
Gaslight has specific meaning.
It is not synonymous with lying.

Lol.....gaslighting is a form of manipulation...it usually involves lying...how do u make someone doubt what they see or perceive .without lying or twisting the event...
She even try to make it look like it's the guy that's wrong....

.anyway...I cannot argue with you.... Go and sort urself out

Will this Russia/Ukraine issue end without a nuclear bomb coming into play ..?

because it's like this back and forth exchange of small small bombs will continue for a long time

KnowAll:
But oh boy! What they injected into electricity sector is equivalent to our national budget. We can’t compete we are a poor nation.

Poor nation but But ur president is buying 150billion naira jet....using car of over 2billion naira....
Nigeria is not poor....money is just being allocated for rulling class' excesses

GatheringClouds:
Hallelujah. ..
9:50am on this very day u insulted your father's mate on this very platform..few hours later u return to the same platform to announce all by yourself your irreversible failure.
U see yr access to data & Internet has given u liberty to relegate yr father's equal.. absolutely responsible for yr lamentation 11months efforts was terminated in a split second.
Going forward due to your ignorance don't be quick to type in response rather ask questions to be clear otherwise It will end in yr self destruction.
Make no mistake to misinterpret English in your mother tongue that ended in confusions in yr mind without any form of provocation or insult whatsoever. Stop been a rude boy segun everyone on the Internet is not yr mate as u lack no manner at all.
U cannot be allowed to enter Canada with excess luggage of cyber bullying hence visa denial
U applying for Australia don't repeat this mistake little boy. I forgive u

U kukuma take glory for the guy's refused visa application.... Hahahahahahaha.... Vawulence on beast mode....

the guy vex you oooo?

jerryklopp:
Our culture and tradition doesn't favor the current time we are now. It is not a must to get married, or have children , or be in a relationship. All these honestly doesn't bring any form of fulfillment.

Marriage still favours some pple .. if a person is lucky, their bill paying days may end or significantly reduce...., have u not seen some pple that marriage gave them access to free car, free trip to Bahamas.....so contrary to your advice ... its worth being desperate for ...

Whatisurproblem:
you are looking for reasons to leave your girlfriend now you have it, she lied fine, forgive her and move on, or wait until you meet the one that will jazz you, beat you, and continue to render you useless, you see bad advicers you have here will ruin you, go now and made amend with your woman and guide her in whom you want her to be. That's all.

How did u automatically know that girl that op said took his money behind him, lies and gaslights him is a good girl and staying with her is a best advice...?? Or u don't care what type of girl she is...he should just stay with her?

Just asking to learn nii oooo, since u have somehow assume every other advice here apart from your own is bad and will ruin him...

TheWinterBird:
It's possible she sees you as a friend and nothing more. You're the one thinking too much into this.

So when a guy says he wants to take you out... U don't even think he may possibly want something? U 100 percent think it's a friend thing nothing more??

The judge that will preside on this case will laugh tire.....

Charge somebody to court for packing sand for rituals.....how do u even prove motive

AndrewTate:
you must be mad! If you’re not mad I won’t agree!!

Lol....

plantist:
He don go back go collect money from the Muslims: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vanguardngr.com/2024/03/abia-to-borrow-125-million-from-islamic-dev-bank-otti/amp/

He ddnt borrow it eventually....it was even mentioned recently that he hasn't borrowed since he resumed office

Shebi na tinubu dey crazeee thinking say more money in the hands of the state governors will translate to development.....

Magnoliaa:
So why do you have a problem with "women's thinking"

I don't have a problem with all women's thinking or ur thinking.....I only express my disagreement in a context......just as men are scum or men are evil has its context but doesn't really mean all men are scum or evil

Magnoliaa:
when you think exactly the same way, and believe women are always at fault?

And I don't think the same way...neither do I think women are always at fault...may be you cherry pick on the comments that i fault ur gender, I fault men too...... The truth is I don't fault any gender, u are just mistaken and forming pseudo-solidarity for your gender......I fault all behaviors i don't agree...

I mean, I don't understand how u expect me to blame a man for paternity fraud, wife's infidelity, etc ....he's the victim fvck sake.

Lol...if we tackle this bad behavior now..some pple will say we are wicked and we hate them..

Her fellow supporters will soon come and justify her actions with how it's not big deal or that the dead husband must have offended her

9jatriot:
I do not understand, if subsidy has been removed then any petrol station can sell at a rate they want.

U will not die young....
Let them be deceiving themselves....they removed subsidy and still want to control price

They should kukuma kill the petrol station owners

Magnoliaa:
You and Luminouz must think everyone is as unintelligent and as wicked as y'all are.


E say the way women dey think. How do YOU think? You that you've found the most unimaginable, asinine angles to justify rape on this forum. The day I made a sarcastic post, flipping things that men normally say and apply it to them, you were the one crying the most.

You know deep in your heart that you're the one with a comma in your thinking. There is no story about men/women on this forum that you will not find a way to blame the woman while exonerating the man. Always. So why would you not think everyone is as narrow-minded as you are? Why would you not think everyone thinks in black/white, only in defense of their own gender?


And of course, you will not recognise what being a devil's advocate mean even if it was punching you right in the face.

If it was a woman who came to share this story about her man eating her food and lying about it in her house, would you have expressly blamed the boyfriend? Would you have called him an hungry boyfriend? Would you not have called her all sort of names? Called her desperate in a thousand languages?

Nonsense.

U have so many records of me, yet I don't even know you...are u sure u are not mistaken??
Justify Rape?? Sigh!!
You obviously have a lot going on with you, and seized this moment to pour it out..... If I've offended you some how....I apologize...
If you don't like my views on your gender's behavior, that's normal...you are woman, u see thing from your "men must be at fault" angle ..I'm no gonna apologize for that..

talktofemi:
Even if

Sigh!

Ayomide11111:
Never! I am not someone like that.
I am not a stingy guy. Infact there was a day she took all the cash (#5000) inside my cross bag and left me with nothing, hunger almost killed me at the studio that day, because I didn't know she has taken everything. Yet I didn't complain or scold her. She said she's hungry and she has somethings to do at the church that's why she took all the money and I forget about it. And there's no way a lady can starve in my home even if there's no food stuff I must provide definitely. Because when a lady begins to starve she can compromise. What else she wants me to do.

U shàlàyè too much.... Its a redflag..

Make una nor dey date hungry girls...this one come add lying, and selfishness join her hunger

talktofemi:
Even if he is stingy ...even if he doesn't like to share she shouldn't have lied. Moreover it is his damn house, with all the things therein.

He doesn't like to share?? .yet she has his key...someone that doesn't like to share won't give another person unrestricted access to his space and things...The way women dey think ehnn....

Ayomide11111:
You're definitely right oo BOSS. These are the things I've been thinking over and over for a while since. What if? If she could denied so bluntly like on a cooked noodles, what if?

She cooked for herself alone and quickly washed the evidence because she ddnt want you to know of her self centered move ...instead of just saying I'm sorry when u found out...she gaslight you....

It's a redflag to me ooo ...I don't know about you... I hate when someone offends me,, deny it and still look for way to make it look like im the one that did wrong....

yad2eidi:
too much. what nigerians should fight for is fuel reduction. price stablity etc. not salary increment

200k is too much?? Are u in love with poor conditions ...even if fuel returns to 180naira...
30k was never a good minimum wage...

Throwback:
What is a 12 year old or 13 year old doing in SS3?

See this one.....

They are picking beans niii....