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chidiokay:
i dont think it is wrong to put anyone in a bus when its obvious they dont know where they are going or you find them at wrong location

....u can comment objectively and unbaisely on a narrative without necessarily supporting the narrative....it's clear u cant be a fair person without letting your personal view impair your comment or reasoning....
. A happily married woman doesn't have tell a fellow woman that not being married is bad just because her marriage is great ...... As a person must be able to objectively view a matter based on the existing conditions

chidiokay:
bro there is nothing conventional about living a double life, there is no inbetween you are either being real or fake

double life is forming you are rich but you are actually poor.....
.living life based on the condition available is surviving and making do with what life has thrown at you, not living a double life.

If you are poor, does that mean u must support anything poor people do....?? Are u saying you can view and comment from a rich person's perspective??so because she's married means she can never support divorce, or separation,or staying alone based on the situation or context?? Oga u are funny

chidiokay:
i believe in "common sense" ... whatever condition you find yourself let people see the real you... baba who go like you go like you.

people can have different views about any issue based on how they are looking it per time...why is this difficult for you to accept
For example ....i don't like gay pple, this is based on their sexual life style..but that doesn't mean I can't support a random view of a gay person.....

chidiokay:
Tbh, how can someone not want to marry or have children , bro that is a defect ,

. Like I said u cannot be fair or objective..it's clear with this comment...

There are pple who are loners, they even thrive in solitude, they enjoy solitude...calling their life a defect is just viewing them from your own shoes...

chidiokay:
even God couldnt stand to see adam being alone, woman was not in God's creation blueprint, but baba God sharperly improvised cos loneliness suite no one lets not fool ourselves

Adam could not find a suitable companion, then God made Eve...
So Why do u think those that are happy because have found other suitable purpose in life to make them fulfilled are deceiving themselves... Did Jesus marry??, there many prophets without wives....marriage is great but is not important to some pple becos they have found other fulfilling things which is enough for them......

chidiokay:
Rihanna is one crazy bitch, she once discard the thought of marriage or having kids ... but today aunty rihannna is mesmerized having a family .. no one has children n wish deep down they didnt..

please how did rihanna enter this dialogue?? ...u just like to take anything and paint a narrative out of it....
....rihanna has always dated many guys even after being assaulted by Chris Brown ....she never at anytime said she ddnt want kids... Kids came with Asap Rocky....she's not even married...so what's your point

chidiokay:
i started watching L word series from my teen age .. i realized even gays and lesbians crave family & children cos it is in human core nature

there are also gay pple that dont want kids....u seem to have an unbalanced view of issues ..u pick whatever narrative suites your argument and use it as standard....With Due respect, it's a sloppy way of driving home points

chidiokay:
if you marry a good man dont come line to join the bandwagon men are scum that's my point [

Marrying one good man doesn't give a woman the right to claim all men are good......because while it may seem like nice marketing or fine solidarity for men....its fallacy ........do u know if shes commenting based on other statistics of bad marriages and bad men out there
...baba, In fact, a large percentage of men are scum if we want to be honest......so whats ur point??

Let me ask you... so because u have good wife in a 3years marriage means that if you support the "fear women" comment in a paternity fraud thread..does that mean u are living a double life??

Or because u support the comment the of "being careful with women" in a thread discussing about a woman who divorced his husband to take half of his wealth... now means u are pretending...??

Alphamentips:
I'm so tempted to help u get enlightenment on this but it's a journey you have to embark alone.

Another reason I don't want to engage you on this is because all truth passes through three stages:

First, it is ridiculed; second, it is violently opposed; and third, it is accepted as self-evident. And I don't wanna be on the receiving end of your reaction.

Just like when a doctor breaks a sad news to you that your relative passed away.

You go almost unleash all your anger on the doctor because your mind will vehemently reject what does not align with what you've always known to be true.

That's why people who are irreligious, agnostic or atheist are attacked and called the Devil.

And I don't want you to put the Devil on me

U have a lot of fallacy going on here..

..u jump into conclusions alot that I'm some religionist that will call u a devil because of ur views...
..if u ddnt notice....I only mentioned one of your many comments.....and my comment is based on the context of Africa being intrinsically limited in brain power but blame religion and the whites ... But somehow u made it about Jesus and devils

U have some weird notion that you know better than any theist .....I don't know why...but i want believe Its another fallacy because no one is all-knowing,

U seem to have this urge of schooling me on something u already Believe I don't know, which makes u sound condescending and I believe made you miss my point.....

Alphamentips:
I no dey like discuss religion, sports or politics with strangers because it's an edgy topic especially an African or a religious person... you'll get emotional and we'd miss the opportunity of having any meaningful advancement in the convo. So I'll pass.

Knock yourself out with whatever rocks your boat, Bro. If you believe Jesus is your Lord and personal saviour no qualms. What's my own inside there?

Lol...my context isn't about Jesus....im shocked at how you arrived there.....my point is about we blacks refusing to admit who we are, grow and develop.... and stop blaming the whites and religion for it...



Both black atheist and theist what have we developed from....

Both white atheist and theist are thinking, researching and investing things .. That's my point

kheny12:
your sense should have told you that it was typing error. He wanted to write "I don't want to spoil the toilet floor".

Sigh!! ....u rushed in to insult another person only to expose urself....


Lol.....English is bastàrd... The werey can fvck anybody up at anytime

Alphamentips:
Christianity was spread in Nigeria mostly by the Brits, Portuguese and Romans now Italians.

Religion is practiced everywhere ....I'm sure uve traveled abroad.....Issac newton was a Christian, many founding fathers of science are strong Catholics, Jews, etc....so why is that it's mostly us Africans that complain religion is preventing us from knowing what is good and developing it.... or we blame the whites that brought it here for using it limit us from developing

... is it not the same bible and Quran they read over there and are still developed? Abi is Saudi and Dubai not a nation??

What u guys don't want to admit is that the black man is limited in brain power mostly because of the "good" environment he's forged in..
....my oga...necessity is the mother of invention.....it's no surprise that the corner of the world that has the harsh snow weather first thought of creating fridge.... it wasn't a thirst for cold water that drove the thinking for this invention...

chidiokay:
i can't even think of any box that can contain coco except you meant a bus

why do u want to put people in any box...?? Just try to relate with their comment based on the context they use per time....

chidiokay:
when you live a life contrary to your real self that fake life bro, if the intent is to deceive can you decieve yourself

it's not fake life per se...it's called trying to be conventional. pple live like that because life throws a lot of things at people contrary to what they truly want and they are are just surviving and managing it... For example some pple don't want to be married...but it's conventional or socially acceptable to be married...so they get married and have children...but deep down they don't want that life...

chidiokay:
where playing the devil advocate becomes a constant k, someone needs a Dna test

so you cannot make a comment thats not driven by your personality or life style or situation... ?? That means you can't be fair or objective in your views

chidiokay:
i find it abysmal that you share same sentiment with that one on some matters ... is it that your experience don't count or your marriage influences your aspersion

i strongly believe the side of life people see is what modulates there views/perception about life

ok, In climes black women had there sexual utopia delivered to them, my interest is weytin dey use am achieve ..... @least we see the ones that are immmune to men subjugation and slut shaming even left their marriage asap ...kii lor fii dà


coco your deposition sometimes would
have made sense if you were not under a man ...

U don't have to put someone in a box because of their comment..........
.sometimes people live lives contrary to their true self.......and sometimes its just online yarns or being a devil's advocate ......

Omoluabi16:
I wouldn't use the word 'unhappy'. But then, I consider marriage a form of achievement. They call it settling down, don't they? She should've have included both genders. Forget all this talk of baby mama. The baby mamaism syndrome is a reflection of the kind of family you come from. Deep down sef, men dey go Shiloh dey go hustle wife. You're 45, still following Nkechi, bisi and Hauwa up and down who go respect you?

The issue here is..why do you feel that such pple are looking for respect....??

Do you know how many married men being disrespected for various reasons...??

Do you know how many single men that are highly respected??

Lies as usual ....

The same lies they spread when u wanted to remove all the subsidies the only thing citizens enjoy from their common wealth...."it will make nigeria have money to do more for the people"...it amounted to nothing but enriching the executives,law makers and judiciary

Now u have started spreading more tax companies to death lies after u have made the economy unfriendly for businesses

All these will reach its peak eventually shaa

The person don buy job..... count charge go long ooo

Attempted murder (other road user u ddnt kill)
Murder in the 3rd degree(the person u killed)
Manslaughter...
Aggravated manslaughter...
Driving without license..

U can't escape jail time ooo...but then again... Na Nigeria if u can pay DPO fee millions they can try and make sure ur case never gets to court...

I've never heard penis explosion or bleeding just becos u ddnt pee quickly..


Oga ade....go hospital oooooo just to be sure

Blood in urine is not a good sign......

surgical:
you can rig successfully in areas you are popular, as of today I don't know tomorrow Tinubu is only popular in the southwest out of 6 geopolitical zones
He cannot rig successfully without the people cooperation

Elections are rigged from 3 fronts....

At the venue...when pple don't show

With INEC who won't transmit result at venue so they can change figures laters

The corrupt justice department that have all received luxury cars, free houses, and 310% increment in salary..when the case goes to court

Right before our eyes..the tribunal went against established electoral by using technicalities to rob Nigerians ....and here we are..stuck with this insensitive, cruel man who has no business ruling

surgical:
Let them keep at it ,let's see if they will be able to help their relic leader win a reelection, except he undo the rubbish he has done,relying on buying people and riding will not work because that's the only strategy in their master strategist kity

Sadly Nigeria is filled with these party agents pple that doesn't care weda Nigeria is great or not... They are fine with the stipends they collect hoping to be their turn one day to rule


Unless all Nigerians wake up and come out in mass to vote....there will always be room for rigging when only 40,000 pple come out to vote out of 200,000 registered voters are available in a location with 3million eligible voters.... Now add the INEC, police force and justice department that are all in the pocket of the corrupt president...

We are stuck for 8 years man....

fuckingAyaya:
Reno mockery what do you have to say concerning this?

Reno be like....."This is a normal thing happening everywhere even the US" Nigeria's unemployment rate is still behind some African countries so its not bad at all....then the àss licker of the highest bidder will look for a way to relate it to Peter obi..

DesChyko:
You're correct. Forget about what we see, we need stats to prove there is an inflation in in the country.

Forget about what the media reports, we also need stats to prove that the Presidency just got a new A300 jet and Escalade car.

Forget about what we pay, we need stats to know that subsidy was removed from anything.

Hell, we even need stats to know this post was made on Nairaland.

Lol..sarcasm on beast mode......

Whenever u point out the anti-people and insensitive moves from the APC government, their paid followers will be asking for proof accusing you of hatred.....

I pity them and their family...it's hard supporting a government that you know deep down is not doing well....

Huge figures that only translate to more money for the rulers and associates

StillDtruth:
Your comments are nothing, because they nothing.



Now, you have resorted to Lies.

The thread shows what i said and what i did not say and the proofs/explanation i gave, which you did not counter, hence why you have started resorting to lies.

Repeating yourself just proves you never had any thing to say and you still do not have anything to say.

So deal with the Truth
When you have eliminated all which is impossible, then whatever remains, however improbable (or unpleasant) must be the truth. Arthur Conan Doyle.

Lol..lies..which lies again...are u not the one claiming everything is sex


Baba...I have countered ur claims....

1.....the law u are hiding under doesn't not apply to ur fallacious claims because u have not eliminated anything....
There are many other interpretation of eden events far .ore plausible that ur carnal driven version...sex has impaired your mind..that's all ur see...

2..every truthful claims should at least be built up from plausible, valid premises,.......ur claims have no valid premise to build on......u just brought it out of thin air....same way u claimed eve is one so called Lilith........so ur claims cannot be valid ....

3... How can u just reach conclusion about a matter without any supporting similarities...
it's funny that u claim that the forbidden fruit is just a symbolism for sex and Satan slept with eve yet u cannot support ur claim with what the other fruits they could eat in the garden symbolize in order to give strength to your claims...

How can someone just jump out out from no where and claim that A=B with no premise of where A is coming from...

StillDtruth:
None of them amount to a counter to the posts which is why you never raised them before; and they still remain invalid today. Sorry, you said nothing.

Lol....My comment is now nothing because it exposed that ur claims has no credible premise.... .....

U cannot not even validate where ur claims began from...u claims that the bible account was changed or false is ur first erroneous claim with no proof or explanation ..

U claim the fruit in the middle of the garden that God told them to eat is sex and that devil slept with eve .....so u should be able to validate your claims by also telling us what type of activity the other fruits they were allowed to eat in the garden are....

U have no validity for ur claims.....U are just jumping to conclusion...ur claims also have no valid premise, neither are ur conclusions plausible .....

StillDtruth:
We know how truth deniers sound like.

You are too proud sir.....do u know the difference between claims and facts...?? All u have are claims and fallacies of hasty conclusions...your claims are not even close to being plausible....

StillDtruth:
But, when i speak, you tend to wish i never spoke since clearly, you find what i say very painfull especially as you truly never see anything wrong with it, only that it causes you pain. So you bash me and ask me why don't i let sleeping dogs lie?

u feel attacked because u are too proud.....I am not attacking you that is why I never tagged ur claims as wrong or false....

...my comments are purely b because others like u have run into errors because of trying to form authority by interpreting scriptures using different context....
That's why I kept asking you...what is the point of u claiming Satan slept with eve?? U never answered..... It's seem like a sexually impaired interpretation which can be viewed as a canal logic ( and canality is common with all human beings nature...)

I further asked you....Does it change the fact that the sin is disobedience and separation of the creator?? But all u see is hate because u are too proud to consider constructive opinions

StillDtruth:
Simple: did you not hear The Law?
When you have eliminated all which is impossible, then whatever remains, however improbable (or unpleasant) must be the truth. Arthur Conan Doyle

this statement or law does not in anyways give validity or confirmation to your claims....because u have not eliminated all the impossibles.....there are many interpretation of eden accounts even more plausible that yours....

First.....u never addressed why anyone would change biblical accounts....u just claimed the eden accounts is half truth.....u went further to claim the half truth is even worse than a total lie...how ?? The bible records they sinned and were driven from God's garden ......whether it's sex or fruit or something else...how is it a lie that they disobeyed God??


I am asking you now...why would anyone a change a sexual instruction from God to something else like "don't eat a fruit" ?? Why will the anyone want to change the account that the Satan slept with eve....??

I mean, Angels were reported to sleep with the humans...so why will anyone change only one angel's sexual act with eve to eating of fruit...??


There are many sexual stories reported in the bible....why change the eden story?? ....u have not even try to explain this yet you jumped to just claiming u have some version that is truth..... U claims have no validity they are just claims....they are not even plausible...

Boogeymannn:
Good morning NL family. I just registered this new account to seek your advice. I am a married man with a 16 months old daughter, I want to relocate my wife and kid abroad while I stay back to continue my business. I have 12m cash right now which I can raise to 14m if necessary. I don’t believe in selling properties to relocate and I can support my family with at least $1500 every month until they’re able to settle fully. I need advice and suggestions on countries and best routes, considering my little baby. I really want them to leave this year, there’s no hope for my kids in this our country. Please help me.

Canada might be a good option tru education since jobs are hard to come by from overseas.....with 10million you can cover a good %age of tuition fees...while u run the proof of funds in street paroles....

But....Exchange rate will make your move a bit tough....especially becos u want send a woman with a 16months old baby to a new territory..

It would have been better if you are the one going alone for now...as a man u go fit rugged find work, dey go school at the same time..so that in a few months u can be using dollars to pay rent and rugged the remaining tuition fees, instead of sending naira abroad

Don't get me wrong ..im not saying it's totally impossible with your wife going...but you go feel the heat man....because your wife, if she's not street baptized, she won't be able to work with a 16month old baby in her care through out her 2 years programme....

Trust me ..u don't want to be paying abroad rent, upkeep money and still be paying for child minder or day care from Nigeria with tinubu's exchange rate....

Baba..if u are making good money ..stay in Nigeria and build your life and business...1500$ per month u claim u can send to your family is well over 2Million....thats not a bad nigerian salary even in tinubu era ......

Or take the other option I suggest by going first....

Anyways....U go dey alright shaaa!!!

StillDtruth:
just say you do not like hearing Truths and you did not have anything to say but to troll.
.

...
....so because I did not validate or praise you and ur version of biblical accounts ..it now means I dont like hearing truth...lol..u are both a comedian and proud

. ...Guy let me ask u something ...first, who are u ?? Why do u think ur version must be accepted as 100% truth....are u Jesus sir??

Let's assume u are correct that it sex sex sex sex as u have claimed ....it is of no serious relevance...what is relevant is they sinned by disobeying God which caused separation between man and his creator... That is enough warning to anyone that wants to truly follow God

But u are the trying to form authority on one biblical account by throwing around non-plausible,fallacious version yet expect everyone must accept it otherwise it means they hate the truth...

..u are too fixated on sex sir, it's impairing ur interpretation of things...

StillDtruth:
Na sex that is chesting na in destroy dis world finish patapata na.

You no dey see say na im dey alwsys cause wahala dey scatter house and dey even dey cause make person die?

U are either a comedian or u just seem to view everything with a sexual lens....

Sex sex sex sex...
Una never tire for this sex version of Adam story...can't we just leave it as they disobeyed?

Wateva they did gàn gán... U pple are just jumping into conclusions and fallacies

Oluwashina72:
I had a serious sex in the dream that made me released when I woke up... Please what's the meaning

U shaa release real life and u see the spérm? U nor get problem.....na normal biology be that, combined with wetin u dey feed ur mind during the day like pórn

U should worried if u release but u nor see the sperm for your boxers

hahahahahahahahaha


Everybody just dey vex.....

ActiveFarms:
You will regret it greatly. You are going through a shift from the way you've structured your life and unable to manage between your new reality and your previous way of life. What you need is older women to speak with you in continuous counselling sessions that may span as much as two years period to help you improve in life in your marriage. If it's that character instilled from ones Faith, remember, God ordained procreation and sex in martial relations

Oga......don't let her frustrate another woman's son..nor be by force

marriage is not for everyone.....there are natural loners in this world that thrive in solitude...... and some pple's body don't have sexual drive or don't enjoy sexual intercourse,

mayb hormonal problem, mayb past trauma,or nature's design or whatver .... some pple are just like that......

When they say some pple have no business being married this is an example......

but they get married anyways and start causing wahala.....

Tellmeastory:
God will destroy all these foreign white devils and their local collaborators one day.

One…day.

Its just business to them.......don't take it personal...

Daejumong:
God is too righteous to treat a man He created in his own image like that- harden his heart unto destruction! Never! The God , Jesus , presented to us will never do such and He does not change!

Also, God is too powerful to need the approval or otherwise of Pharaoh to let the Israelites go! He can easily kill him in his sleep, He can teleport the Israelites if He wants . He is almighty!

.welldone with your sarcasm & mockery

Mumu couple ....Copying celebrity life style that use their life's issues to chase clout and gaim followers