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ShogunNoName:
He wasn't complaining. drop the keyboard and go back to school so you get a proper education

Lol......He's not complaining..yet when offering reduce he came online to guilt trip his members that they dont love God for giving little..it is u don't don't know what complaining is..

If he's preaching cheerful giving...he should accept cheerfully...all these ranting is not necessary ....

psychfind:
it means dey weren't such while they were giving tithe in the first place

They weren't what??

TEYA:
You that knows how to get context, did you look for context before posting? .

Yes I did I looked ...and my comment was simply driven by his complaining and guilt tripping his members that they never loved God...
.i just feel it's embarrassing for him as a preacher of cheerful giving to be saying all these........he should accept all that comes into the church purse cheerfully too........and not always come online to comment over everything someone said or did...... Preachers of the scriptures needs to guided in their utterances...pple are already accusing him of trying to raise money by using controversiality as online content

The other video of him I watch...that how he was sounding very weird...claiming he brought most of these tithe collecting tactics, accusing another preacher that doesn't collect tithe of staging miracle in the UK.....

My point is, Pastors supposed to dey comport

juliuscaesar:
He's not complaining. He's stating what happened when people stopped tithing and the church had to adapt.

U ddnt read where he was guilt-tripping, saying his members never loved God, accusing thrm.of now giving little......if that not complain then what is it??...if he's preaching cheerful giving, i just feel its not necessary saying all that

EreluRoz:
I'm glad you always see me as mama 😂 I'm used to it infact I unconsciously intimidate people and I'm not even 25 yet but I enjoy it because you sef know say I be mama 😂,me sef no small. Yeye

Lol.. ... Intimidate who?? With your comments that makes you sound like u missed your medication? Come nor make me laugh this afternoon.

..wait...why do u suddenly feel the need to tell me ur age?? See this wèrèy... You think I give a flying fvck......because I said I don't straff cougars u come dey form spec...

Ajeh!! Not even 25 kiii you there..

Elegantspiker:
True,

When I see absurd things people do for love, I feel I am safe after all.

100 percent safe.....

GemUnique:
Well your explanation isn't factual.

Hydroquinone has nothing to do with collagen. It only interfere with melanin production.

Sigh!!Show me where I said said hydroquinone has something to do with collagen??.

HeatSeeker:
In essence you are dating someone else's boyfriend and you are trying to justify yourself. Isn't this a shameless thing to do?

Why are u trying to make a woman see reality....Women like making themselves feel better with their versions of truth......

Lol... I have seen side chic dating married man but consoling herself she's more important to him than wifey because he sleeps at her place many times in a week and takes her on business trips.....like wtf

Heck!! A woman will form monogamy in her head with a polygamous man by telling herself that if he was happy he wouldn't have looked outside for another woman...hence shes his real soul mate and completes him

Elegantspiker:
Girlfriend.

I don't have a girlfriend because I am allergic to love.

Me and the lady, Karla in the series, Shantaram, have the same make up. That is, how to love. Can't give out love.

U don't need love to have girl friend or wife. Ur girlfriend will probably not love you too but only be with for what orgasm and financial gains......

Love makes u be at risk especially if u are with someone who loves u less or doesn't even love u at all....although love can be amazing if its near equally shared......
..but generally, whoever is not emotionally invested in any relationship has more leverage and sees clearly amd not throw away away objective reasoning or do stvpid things like the king of England who relinquished his right to rule to marry a two time divorcee, who couldn't bear children....

KnowAll:
It has been done in many jurisdictions even Brazil which is the 6th largest economy in the world did it a few years back.

I understand you.....ur reason for doing it is because somebody as done it....just like when they introduced stamp duty charge during buhari's era...it was justified with "shebi its dome in italy....
when we want to do something that will favor the government we look for countries that have done it...e.g but private jet when u tell others to suffer and wait for policies to improve, increase VAT, buy over 2B naira worth of car for yourself, increase salary of the third arm of government by 310%...

But when it's time for masses to benefit...no more comparison will come up... like UK that does free health care for it's pple, like US where education is free to high school level, like other countries where cotton, flour, and essential goods are subsidized to make the poor breathe a littlr

I understand you....ajeh!!

What u have failed to mention is how this will benefit the masses.....how it will translate to reduce suffering for the people who voted

Baba...let's try to be making/supporting pro-people and pro-economy policies... And not just say say they did it one country....it's sounds very crazy

Abi naaa...since u can't improve the naira kukuma readjust the figure to create pseudo improvement on paper

Órí yín tí dàrù..

eniboi:
Pls anyone in the house can put me through on how i can Update my visa I want to change employer?

Link below

https://apply-to-visit-or-stay-in-the-uk.homeoffice.gov.uk/sort/start/skilled_worker_in_uk



Read the ukvi policy well to ensure u need to update visa........

They wills till go and bow and lick yansh seff for loan....

bdon12:
Look tithe is not d only way to giv to church.u can giv to d church at ur own will not under compulsion.Tithe is compulsory n a scam .

Please dey try get context before you mention someone..

I don't get.. He told his members to stop paying tithes....yet started to complain when they stopped and the collections reduced..??

EreluRoz:
That biro cover wey you carry na im you dy hype yourself ontop

....u women wey ordinary finger dey make una moan and shake go dey insult penis.... We don hear...shaa carry your cougar yansh go another place

EreluRoz:
Small boy

Werey!! Anytime prick don dey hungry you ...u come dey poke me....me nor dey straff cougar abeg......carry your cougar blood go another place...

EreluRoz:
shut up

E be like say u dey ment.... U don miss one of your drugs abi

They will still import under the guise of Dangote petrol is not of high quality ....or not enough to go round the nigeria after they create artificial scarcity by wickedly buying dangote's fuel and sell it to neighboring countries ....

Bunch of wicked pple...

Thats what hydroquinone containing cream causes ...when you are young and the skin is till firm because of the high collagen content, the effect wont show much....but with deficit of collagen as one ages, the expired turkey look starts to show up ..
it's only nigerian women i know that will have light skin, yet be using bleaching cream... They will say "its not bleaching ooo, it's just for toning and maintenance" ...... Like wtf....?

This was nokia's normal behaviour during their reigning days : Wicked hardware designs...

nnatobryno:
This is sheer wickedness, you are selling v8 on 'nairaland' at this point time

puremaker7:
You said everything the way it is supposed to be, the day I formed job lost was the day I saw the true color of my fiancee..
imagine I later married to that werey

Wow......can u imagine....

tosine90:
A lot of advice I read read here is not encouraging. There is no smooth marriage and I am talking from experience.

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Sir...I think it's not nice to be using this statement to make pple get used to living miserable with a partner that is unkind and the source of their unhappiness..

tosine90:
Your wife not helping your finances is not good thing but there maybe reason why it is so because couples should be there for each other and no matter what divorce shouldn't be an option in such case except for infidelity.
Is she the firstborn or breadwinner in her family?

another justification to accept his wife unkind behavior, but keep struggling alone to pay her own bills......how can ur husband be struggling and it won't occur to u to help..it's witchcraft..sir let's try to be calling a spade a spade... sugarcoating is not good

tosine90:
Now one thing you should know is this: you should accept is that in general women doesn't dash out free money to men except for few cases. And in women's perspective their husbands money is our money but their own money is her own

sir....you are just reinforcing bad behavior .......marriage is team work.. let's start reminding everyone going into marriage of this fact....pple should stop expecting that marriage must equal to no bill, and doing wateva the fvck the like .....we should stop telling men accept that it's okay for their wife to be wicked...... it only works in relationships where the man is very rich and has no need of a team playing wife

tosine90:
. Though that is selfishness it their way of thinking but as man of the house u have to be smart by collecting money from your wife by borrowing. And that's what I always do. If u borrow 10 naira, pay back 5 naira and scope her u will always refund her later until she forgets or let go of it then repeat it again. But u having that mindset of getting free money from your wife doesn't work like that in women.

sounds like a roommate that you both have sex.... The sad part about this mentality is that you have come to accept it as a norm....there are better women that don't behave this way....

tosine90:
In terms of she denying u sex. It always expected to be so. Once women get married they tend to lose interest in sex because it no longer a priority to them unlike wen they are dating.

sigh...sir u seem to have created explanation for all irrational and manipulative behaviors of women...

Women like sex..they like to fvck...the even go to hotels to get fvcked .....they cheat around and bring paternity fraud products to their husbands ...if your woman is not fvcking you....she's fvcking someone else .......y'all need to stop creating excuses for bad behavior..

tosine90:
It like winning an election. U don't campaign after winning an election.

it's not like election ....after election winners don't need the voters...
..in marriage..the wife still needs her husband's penis and she needs him to pay her bills...it is only wickedness and witchcraft that will make u be unkind to someone that is helping u in marriage....

tosine90:
. All women are weird the same. The differences among them are just a little

Sir No vex ooo...but.u sound like someone enduring his marriage...I may be wrong so i apologize in advance...
... men like u call it maturity and patience...but i think over the years u have just become used to distasteful and unkind behavior .....y'all justify it and advice others that it is the same everywhere....It is not...
And if it is....there is always an option of sating alone rather than living miserable...

Pharaoh4rin:
Goddammit! This is one of the most hard-core sh1t I've raed on this platform this year. You sound experienced.

But bro make I ask this question: for a man who doesn't have a loving heart towards women, is it OK to marry at all?

Specifically for women?? Is he gay? Or he doesn't just have loving heart towards everybody... Like a sociopath or psychopath.??

Anyways ...it is my opinion that marriage is not everyone....if he doesnt have affection towards women ...then he should stay his lane....why get married and frustrate another person's daughter.......

Advision:
You are a anyhow person.

Did you tell the girl that you do not see any future in the relationship?

Woman go dey chop and clean mouth ..una go blame the man even ask the man did she force u..??...if he reach man turn when relationship isn't working for him...una go dey ask am fvnny question .......Person dey see future from present....?? So Yall just feel once a man says hi to a lady...he must marry her unless shes not interested.....??

johnog4sure:
Sorry if I was wrong...different experiences I guess

Not offended.....

johnog4sure:
Your last advice is valid but everything you said before then only serves as a proof that you are not married yet

It's free to jump into conclusions.... So carry on with ur fallacy

Sounds like made up story...

Anyway.....

....virgin or no virgin...that one not concern me
Be sure u connect sexually with your woman ....if she doesn't show crazy flaming desire for you...but just spreads legs once in a while u approach...na one chance be that...
If you dey regularly hear..." don't worry u will enjoy it when we marry" .......werey japa!! .. ur egungun don nearly reach express.

...check her kindness & sacrifice level towards you, others around, her folks and your folks ....woman wey no fit buy ordinary bread when she dey come visit u....cut am off....woman wey nor dey ask about your folks, na werey.....only give me, give me, give me...transport fare to visit u seff..na u go pay...

.too much money nor dey let true color show. ..baba...u must form total broke or job loss before u marry woman....u gats check ur woman team playing spirit.......werey too much for street... All they married for now is to never pay bill...their team work contribution na to spread legs...

At the end of the day....if u end up with one wèrèy wey dey make u miserable ....no over think am..no let anybody blackmail u with "marriage is not for kids" so u must be suffering and managing ur wife's dirty, wicked & insensitive behavior....oga ade ...lè wèrèy sí gbó....if she nor gree comot....oga...leave am for house comot...

Lol.....poor kid....I don't see the resemblance tho.....the little man seems to be looking like a lot of pple except his own supposed Father....

This generation sef....u go pour spérm....na another person pikin Dem go carry give you

Sigh!!

U ended things yet you are still upset u found out he just using you

I thought she should be grateful....??