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Lol...u dey overthink woman matter??

..be like say u be lover boy....it's not that deep oga ade.......nor give woman too much leverage by making her feel one small action is giving u insomnia....... Pretend as if she did nothing, it will become clearer if there is more to it

1Sharon:
but all women will call the police on their husbands?

Call police?? Im not sure I get you...cos I never mentioned anything about women calling police

essentialone:
If you are the one, how will you resolve this dilemma?

when men have extra cash, some women don't like to contribute anything even smallest gift to appreciate you seff u nor go see shi shi
..so the chances that they will expect this trend to continue when you move to a country where you'll start paying rent and bills in the range of 2million per month is very high....
... One of the first things that cause frustration for some naija women abroad is not being able to keep their money to themselves, worrying about funding the home, paying mortgage...
If u can keep up the odogwu trend when u relocate, carry go.... If u expect your wife to start splitting bills, and mortgage that she wasn't paying in nigeria... ..u go see devil...

ednut1:
You have beaten and abused your wife severally in Nigeria . You think she wont revenge when abroad?

You continued your cheating escapades in abroad.

Why this narratives all of a sudden.? So all men beat their wife.? Women paint this narrative that all the evil they do is because their husband made them do it..so thats now the new explanation for all their BS......when they fvck around, men caused it...paternity fraud, men caused it, refuse to support your husband men caused it, ..murder, men caused it....okay ooo......you guys should keep reinforcing bad behavior from our women......e go touch everywhere

2.5M?? U be comedian.... ?

Childofgrace18:
You people should stop this nah, the people you know, are they working as a nurse or HCA? How can someone just finished from nursing school, no IELTS, No CBT and NMC Nigeria didn't verify them and they are working in Scotland? Oga take it easy on people nah, get your facts right before you may end up misleading people here.
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U dey vex oooo...

kestolove95:
He stab his sugar mummy not lover... Na God catch her 38yrs wetin e dey do with 18yrs old boy..

Maybe u should Google what lover means

1stGenAmerican:
Warning women not to call the police on their husbands is not community awareness, it’s a crime that will result in a police officer being arrested and prosecuted.

Warning women not to call the police?? that's what you saw in the video?? Anyway, wateva version makes u sleep well at night is fine with me.

I resist the urge to shàlàyé

Holawoyin:
Is Ivermectin good in deworming dogs??

Yes

cococandy:
1) Yes you dished a blanket gender insult in your response to her not knowing she was a woman. You thought it was a man so he could join you in insulting women. 🙄

how is thinking shes a man and insult..? It's just an error .....My statement to her was to let her know further explanation is not needed....and I was right..someone else still tried to invalidate the video

I have two separate videos about this issue but why would I bother myself trying to prove to strangers ...if strangers think I'm lying , well thats their kettle of fish

cococandy:
2) I’m sorry I said you were lying. My impression is that you were saying something you were told first hand not something you saw on the internet. My Apologies. Usually when I’m saying something, I distinguish how I got the information and that removes the burden of it being true or false from being my responsibility

madam, apology not accepted.. ....me I don't know why you are always on beast mode, bringing RPGS ans nuclear war heads to packer and broom fight...
..everything is an insult, everything is misogyny once we mention ur genders BS,u think we are bashing ...madam its not my fault ur gender does alot of BS ooooo.....if I tell you children also create false pattern of reports against their parent, and more common a step parent they dont like you will still call me a liar...

cococandy:
3) I just saw that video and I’m pressed to believe there’s any police department in the world that would stand behind that statement seeing as a death from domestic violence in that district can be held against them for discouraging people from coming forward. I’m going to research when this happened and see what police department this is and if they actually sent this man to act on their behalf

Madam...situations in different locations call for different approach....that's why laws are differents in states even in same country..as high as statutory rápe is in the US...the consenting age in some states of United states was reduced to 16... Will u accuse the govt for trying to make statutory rápe increase?

... So just because there are domestic abuse now means the authorities cannot address a sinister pattern they have noticed..?? I mean, this is just small community awareness and u already feel they are silencing ur gender...
Okay ooo.

cococandy:
The person you’re even quoting is a woman.

Look at how misogyny makes you people act. Dishing blanket insult to anyone you perceive to be a woman.

I’m sure if you knew she was a woman even though she was trying to corroborate what you were saying, you’d have still found a way to insult her

yawn!! Insult?? Misogyny.?? ......everything is insult and misogyny..

U called it lies...another person gave evidence yet .... u are all over the place still foaming in the mouth.....madam go and rest

descarado:
I am not oga. I am a lady. I live in uk and yes our men can drive you mad but there are so many instances where our women run to the police for some stupid things you have in every family including the brits.

The men are not helping matters at all and cos of freedom to finally complain to who will hear them out once, they tend to overdo it. That's the message the met police was passing across.

So women cannot be oga?? Okay I take the oga back...sorry

Me I am not even saying a woman shouldn't complain to the police as many times as she likes.... As long as it's not an attempt at creating false pattern of abuse to use against the man later.....because some women do it specifically for that...

descarado:
That same time, met police were looking for yoruba speakers to join the police spe finally for this. It was too much then. Little matters that can be handled by family we're always taken to the police where police has bigger cases to handle and it was like tagged wasting tax payers money on frivolities.
Police looked for Nigerians who are fluent in yoruba in Peckham if I can remember.

Oga why u dey explain...nor dey shàlàyè too much give woman....it's of nor use....they will still tag ur explaination as lies......once their gender starts doing shameful BS....they will always call it lies and bashing when they get called out.... Na saint them be....they don't ever do evil....

IdeasYapayaski:
Any woman doing that deserves to die.

Oga cal down naaaa...which one is die

cococandy:
Tell us exactly what the police told your pastor.

What does who I am have to do with it?

Lol!! It's funny and pathetic that u think I owe u some explanation for comment... Madam go rest..once ur gender starts doing BS y'all get triggered forming pseso-solidarity

1stGenAmerican:
Lies. UK police have spokespersons and can get on the news whenever they wish. They’d never waste time giving messages through churches. It’s the lying pastor’s way to keep toxic couples together so his offering can remain fat.

Accuse the pastor all u want.....call it lies all you want ....ur gender does this shit all the time and the police see it.....

cococandy:
The police went to the church and told the pastor to want his congregation?

Please

Who is this one.....??

holaruc:
The only solution to the problem is if U.K/US government can deport Nigerian Man and Woman from Thier country and ban them from returning after several reports, or granting divorce without sharing property 50/50 with that the women will calm down... But since any report makes the man at the loosing end they will continue to cause their husbands troubles so has to make man's life miserable

They won't follow this ur solution.......

For example....do u know how many times it has been suggested that women that falsely accuse men rape should have prison sentence?? They refused, claiming women will now be afraid of speaking out....meaning they would rather allow innocent pple go to jail than mitigate against exploiting the system through lies.

Calitoscassius:
Really? US police gave this advice?

Yes naaa...the police raised the issue through churches ...it was fvnny

They should hit the nail on the head and stop sugar coating it..... same thing happened in the US..
..the police told them straight up in to stop using the police to create false pattern of abuse against their husband that they will weaponize later to gain their husband's properties or government benefits...

Successtube:
I’m 35years old. The woman I married is same age with me. While we were dating, She lied to me that she was 29years. I only found out we are same age after the wedding. Like that wasn’t enough, she has same thinking with this Doctor.

Lol.........a liar, and unkind spouse.. for u alone

Man....u need to pray for luck/favour oooo

I like as all women think they will marry billionaires ....

Makunahatata:
your father

Sigh...this one is even from the gutters... Insulting pples fathers......u just rush into pple' mentions like a rabid dog and start to insult..

Lol...wait.. Is it tinubu's era that made u like this..because no human being should have this ur kind of dirty, mannerless behaviour as follow come....

Pjreilly:
Dear everyone,.
I just received the email below and i understood i have paid incorrect fees for both main applicant and the dependant.

My question is should if i withdraw the application ,do i need to wait for the to refund the money already paid before i can submit another application with correct payment?
or should i contact them to pay the balance fee.

Please kindly respond asap

Did they give u option of paying balance?? Don't get me wrong I am not saying u should not email them to ask....make sure u factor in their time of responding to emails or calls and the time they gave you to withdraw ur application....

But From what u posted ....the option they gave you is to withdraw ur application on ur own and reapply......usually, the reason for this is so that u don't get a refusal history on ur name, which would have happened if they had refused the application for applying for the wrong thing

As per u hoping for a refund for ur application fee...they may or may not refund you......the problem is ur application has been attended to by a case worker and the fault is from you.....I'm afraid the odds u will get a refund is stacked up against you

However, if health insurance charge is also part of ur payment...u will 100% get that back...

Makunahatata:
The usual inferior beings trying hard to make the thread about them.😌

Who is this lunatic....?

LagosPrince:
Reno the fool didn't blame Peter Obi today

The day is not over....

IntelChief:
People say it is easier to start a relationship than to end it. I think the saying is true for my friend at the moment. Dude is fed up with his dramatic gf but haven't gotten himself ready enough to end it.

Any advice for him? Cos I have exhausted all the advice I've got on him to no avail.

This is 2024....U don't officially break up with people..
.everybody dey vex...dem fit pour u acid, injure you, set you ablaze or even cancel your next christmas ....
.u let the person gradually figure out on their own the relationship has ended from your body language....

realmindz:
With all the funds spent on technology, Nigeria cannot track common bandits.

There is little that can be done tracking them cos there devils will be on different encrypted VPN ...

EreluRoz:
Ashawo

U women pretend too much........all of us na ashawo... We all Wana fvck

EreluRoz:
A married man approaching a single woman and the single woman agreeing to date him is the issue here, don't just say a man approaching a woman

Ring in the finger doesn't change the fact that he's a man.. that's partly why the girls that date married men too dont mind .. penis na penis ...money na money...

...eyaahhh!!!..

this family and their relatives go hate Nigerians dieeeee

EreluRoz:
You are a potential adulterer

Lol....Adultery is a separate issue..if u raise the question of adultery...both are wrong

But man approaching woman and woman saying yes....there is no right or wrong there