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Akir2025:
What Kind of Bank is Access Bank ..Even Lawyers are not Helping ..

Coolis:
Been hearing of red flag, don't know if there is one here already.

Met this lady toward the end of last year in Maraba area of Nasarawa state. I reside in one-man villagers area of Nasarawa state while she reside in the lokogoma area in the FCT.
We 've been chatting. l realized she doesn't like typing much words so she doesn't give out enough information about herself. l decided we meet physically again last Saturday so we can get to know more about each other and that l would be coming to her area. I asked her to send me the address of where she stays in the FCT but she suggested we meet at one of the eateries in their area which l agreed.
She suggested ShopRite in Apo/lokogoma area and l said okay.

NOTE-
1, l like her a lot.
2, my income is about 100k in a month.
3, To and fro one-man village to lokogoma area in the FCT using public transport will take 5k or more.

I had about 15k on the day which l thought could take care of my TP and what she would eat. I knew eating out at ShopRite would be quite expensive than the regular eateries like Chicken republic and the likes.

I cut my coat according to my size. We agreed to meet at ShopRite by 3pm but l decided to get there earlier by 2pm to find out their food and snacks prices.
Meat pie and a bottle of soft drink N2500. Fried/jollof rice with a drink N6200.

I ate well from my house so as not to order their food. I also thought
that someone coming out for a date at an eatery by 3pm, would have eaten from their house and wouldn't order food but light refreshment like a snack and bottle of soft drink but l was wrong.
After a while of my friend joining me, l told her let's go to the service desk so she could make her order. Without hesitation, she told them she wanted fried rice with fish and a bottle of coke N6200. The moment l was told of her bill which must be settled before the food is given to her, l decided not to order anything at all but on a second thought, l asked they add one bottle of Schweppes(1k) for me. I know you will call me a SIMP here but it's better only her eat than the both of us to eat which would have taken all the money in my pocket and going back to my area a serious challenge.

When we were done at ShopRite, at our departure point, she was joining along taxi to her area, l gave 1k to her to settle the taxi man, she didn't want to take it but l insisted and she accepted it.

Now, here's is why l asked if there is already a Red flag.

I told her l would call her in the evening of the day, the l idea was to find out if she had a great time and if we could do it again soon. I called her around 7:30pm twice, the phone rang but no response. I called again around 9:45pm still no response. Then l sent a message to her on watsapp that it looks like l didn't measure up to her standard and that l couldn't believe she didn't answer all calls l put across to her. I told her it seems our meeting meant nothing to her.

After a few minutes later, she replied me that she went for a program that lasted more than she thought. That was why she couldn't answer. I replied her that she should have sent a message acknowledging my missed calls and l wouldn't have insinuated our meeting meant nothing to her.
I haven't reached out to her since then and haven't heard from her either.
Men and brethren, you have it all. What do you think? Is there a red flag yet? Should l still reach out and maintain contact or to forget her? Thank you

bigpriik:
I never said I was running away I am just curious whether it is curable ailment or not.

Prudoh:
This story and the sun standing still by Joshua is hard to believe.

Scientifically, the sun doesn't move, as they thought then that it was moving based on what they saw 'first lie detected'. It is the Earth we live on that moves around the sun. Peradventure the Earth stops moving, everything will die because everything is in motion. Even the ocean will stop, there will be chaos. If you apply your brain, most stories in the Bible don't add up. It was written base on what they saw at the time.

maasoap:
Waka pass, is that too much ask you?

BlackfireX:
The way this Muslims lie boldly even with evidences stack against them.


Do you know exploits that women did in the bible? No they don't know.

You will hear Islam is the 1st to gave women right to property... What? I read the old testaments and see women owning property....I look at yoruba culture and I see women owing properties

So yoruba culture predate Islam that means Islam copied from it...


A religion that believes women are half brain and will be trophies in islamicheaven

Ibehchizzy:
may God help you
Person do your fiancee like that
Imagine the disrespect that boy would have for you

AbuTwins:
Islam is the Only Religion That Gave Women Identity
[/quotei] why do yall have all these fake statement you make buy act contrary to them..

For example..islam is a religion of peace: but you are not peaceful… all over europe… pple that open their borders to you are now trying to make laws to restrict you because u enter their land and start demanding for unfriendly shariah laws to over turn their own culture and resident law….
Here in nigeria, u jihadist brother wont let us rest.. all because of enforcing what your prophet did in mecca

[quote author=AbuTwins post=138379481]#The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) emphasized respect and kindness toward women, stating:

AbuTwins:
#Islam grants women rights to inheritance, education, marriage consent, and economic independence—rights that were revolutionary at the time of revelation.

AbuTwins:
Comparison with Christianity:
#While Christianity preaches spiritual equality, traditional interpretations often placed women in subordinate roles, sometimes limiting their public religious participation. For example, 1 Corinthians 14:34 instructs women to be silent in churches, which has historically been used to restrict women’s roles.

AbuTwins:
#The Bible’s creation narrative (Genesis 2) has been interpreted by some to imply woman’s secondary status, created from man’s rib,

AbuTwins:
whereas Islam teaches that men and women were created from a single soul:
“O mankind, fear your Lord, who created you from one soul...” (Qur’an 4:1)

AbuTwins:
#Islam’s legal and social framework actively protects women’s rights and identity, while Christianity’s historical practices often reflected patriarchal cultural norms.

AbuTwins:
Checking the Christian scriptures you'll never see the input of any woman in the compilation of the Bible! They were all men - Matthew, Mark, Luke, John, Paul, Peter, etc! This is too loud!

AbuTwins:
Islam is the only religion that gave women a clear, honored identity with comprehensive rights and dignity from its inception, supported by divine scripture and prophetic teachings. It elevated women’s status spiritually, socially, and legally, ensuring their full humanity and individuality, unlike Christianity’s historical approach which often subordinated women under cultural interpretations.

Host78:
See nothing you fit call me go excuse the boys behavior.

I've been a sales boy before and one thing you learn is to respect your oga's wife and then his siblings.

She felt disrespected and reacted. Even for Bible, when potipher wife talk, dem potipher first follow him wife talk.

Everyone get place for this life and that sales boy dey forget him place.

dele1727:
May God continue to bless you for this response

Host78:
Everybody na street fighter, just That your own turn of events never reach naim make.

Host78:
If this happens, I'll sack the boy immediately I get back and even beat him if I can.

Him no get sense at all

Host78:
It's not about the money bro.

If my woman comes to my place of business, I'd expect everyone to give her the best of treatment just as they would give to me.

2baga:
On the other hand, it's possible he might have experienced shege from the estranged wife to change his perspective that having alternatives is better than dying with the one that will not give you peace ✌️

maasoap:
Congratulate him if you can and move on. If you can't, waka pass

Emeskhalifa:
So coz he chose to have multiple wives that he can obviously take care of, it means he is not enlightened?

Must the black man always shove in to his rectum whatever the Whiteman feeds him?

Our forefathers had multiple wives and lived peacefully, in fact it is the so called enlightened ones that are having martial crisis and disaster despite ticking all the boxes of the Whiteman regarding marriage.

Insectkiller:
He .at be right or wrong...

But what would you make of this??

A man got married and impregnate his wife...the wife gave birth to first child..after 2 and half years he gave birth to another child..and it's more than 7 years now..and he is looking for 3rd child...but it hasn't come...

He tested a year ago that he has low sperm count..

He was now saying that had it mean he had 2-3 wives..by now he would have had 6-children before issue happens to sperm..

But because he stayed with just one wife...that's why he couldn't get 3rd child till now...

So, having more wives saves men of this unnecessary stress...

RichBoy247:
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Monogamist will never ever make Heaven. All the people that tge Bible gave a pass mark of going to Heaven are polygamous. Jesus who was not a polygamist had no wife. So it’s either you have many wives like Abraham, Issac, Jacob, David, Job , e.t.c. or you don’t have any like Jesus

Freshtruth:
Am not tinubu supporter but it his better he continues rather that starting afresh with obi or Atiku at least tinubu is heading to somewhere and continuity and constiency is the key . The devil u know is better than the angel u don't know wisdom dey say is profitable to direct.

nairalanda1:
Nigerian cities could create large sewage systems where the power lines could run underground to prevent this from happening.

Also, simply run the power lines underground. May cost money, but would prevent this from happening.

omakay:
I still don't get it.

'NEITHER OF US CAN CHEAT OR WE DIE'

But you have a spiritual husband and now a physical husband while the man just has a physical wife. Tell me how that is balanced!!!

As far as am concerned, he is the 'wife' here while you are the husband with 2 wives

Abeg, allow am getting im own spiritual wife so that the equation go balance. Thank You.

skywalker240:
Provided

You don't come here and be funding Islamic terrorists

grandstar:
Being emotional won't change the fact that 1 + 1= 2.

It is quite disturbing that you even supported the forex subsidy.

grandstar:
The forex subsidy crippled the economy. I knew the economy was dead the minute Buhari started subsidy.

grandstar:
You need to understand this right away:

Christian36:
My aunty gave me a lady contact, this lady will take like 8 hours to respond to my message, the thing just weak me. I'm sure it is a deliberate thing, why will you give someone your number when you know you are not ready for a serious relationship. I don't just understand some ladies

grandstar:
The only benefit of these taxes for now is that it could keep the Naira stable for the next ten or even 20 years.

Another benefit may 24hour power supply. The money from these taxes will provide the fiscal power to finance massive increases in transmission capacity and also upgrade the electricity infrastructure.

So, there are benefits. Nigeria isn't Switzerland or the UK. Non-oil tax collection is barely 5% of GDP, while theirs is over 35%. It's like expecting someone who graduated uni 2 years ago working in a bank to fair as well as a man who has been working for 30years in the same bank. The guy may even be the branch manager.

Goodmarlian:
There is this girl I have known since we were in school, she is beautiful, independent and very outspoken, she thicks almost all my boxes except one thing,just like most girl do, this girl hardly reply chats,Infact any means to contact her online never works.
When we were in school this girl buys me things whenever she visits ,gives me attention and talks to me for hours, and sometimes she whines me about marriage, the girl is from Anambra while I am from imo she told me she doesn't have friends from imo except me, that she doesn't even know why she likes me,whenever she wants to go home I grab her by the waist and peck her to test if her intentions are romantic she will just smile and go.
I have given up all my romantic intentions towards her since last year and moved on but she came around last week Thursday, called me on phone that she is in an eatery opposite school that I should come around, so I went to see her there she hugged me we talked and once again she bought food and drink for me and we gisted about a whole lot of things she started calling me her love you see whining again?after that day she said I should call her or chat her up, I laughed and told she has forgotten she hardly replies chats and calls,she laughed meaning she knows what she is doing.
OK this morning I chatted her up to thank her for her hospitality that day till this moment she hasn't replied I just tire for the girl
I am thinking about making a drastic and brutal decision of not having anything to do with her again,even if she contacts me.